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To think ChatGPT is the best thing ever?

183 replies

ColliLass · 01/03/2026 09:06

So far it has:

sorted a problem with my emails that I would never EVER have been able to work out
Found a book I haven’t been able to remember for years
diagnosed a problem on the car and accurately estimated the probable cost
found recipes

and many many more little helpful day to day offerings when i can’t remember things or I wonder things.

I loathe the AI videos and pictures that seem to be everywhere but ChatGPT is amazing.

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Bjorkdidit · 01/03/2026 10:33

HelloAchilles · 01/03/2026 09:28

I asked it to help with a Scrabble move recently - sent it into a weird loop which it kept apologising for but couldn’t stop! I had to tell it to stop trying to find the answer 🤣

I tried to get it to help with a minesweeper puzzle from a newspaper.

I uploaded a photograph and said I was stuck and was I missing anything and it confidently gave a few suggestions that were all wrong. It couldn't even count the rows and columns correctly.

As a computer it should be able to get it right first time and if it doesn't then seriously, what is the point?

Glorified google for the terminally stupid is a good description.

CurlewKate · 01/03/2026 10:32

Oh well. Worth us not having any fresh water soon!

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 10:30

Naws · 01/03/2026 10:23

Yes but let's be honest, what sort of a life is a person giving themself if they'd rather chat to a BOT because they're so terrified of what an anonymous random might type when they're asking how to layer a lasagne.

It's like the online equivalent of hiding because someone you weren't expecting has knocked on your door.

Well no, I’d happily ask nice people 🤣 but they’re probably not available at 2am

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 10:29

BillieWiper · 01/03/2026 10:05

It hallucinates a lot. And it told me I should go to the hospital because I got my period?!

How did this happen? What was your prompt, I have my period what should I do? I’ve woken up covered in blood what should I do? Like it obviously wouldn’t genuinely tell you to go to hospital for a period. People love saying these things but they’re not really true, are they?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 01/03/2026 10:28

It is not helping, it is harvesting your information.
I have no doubt that it can be hacked, all your deepest darkest secrets recorded and discussed with a machine out there. It is analysing the state of society. First world problems. No thanks.

plentyofsunshine · 01/03/2026 10:26

WaryHiker · 01/03/2026 10:13

That's easy. Just put a swear word in the middle of your search string and AI won't answer you. You will get an actual Google answer.

I just tested your theory. It still came up with an AI response even after I put a swear word in.

coolcahuna · 01/03/2026 10:25

Yes and no. You need to concentrate when you use it and for anything very important, get a real person. It missed out something crucial when I used it recently! For less serious things, it's great. Apparently excellent for recipes etc which I haven't tried yet

Naws · 01/03/2026 10:23

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 10:14

But you’d risk the judgemental and unkind comments which chat gpt wouldn’t give

Yes but let's be honest, what sort of a life is a person giving themself if they'd rather chat to a BOT because they're so terrified of what an anonymous random might type when they're asking how to layer a lasagne.

It's like the online equivalent of hiding because someone you weren't expecting has knocked on your door.

ClassicalQueen · 01/03/2026 10:23

AI is great for many things but it does very confidently lie to you or give you misinformation. It also lacks specific subject knowledge. However it is great for brainstorming and talking me through basic concepts and processes.

Nanda66 · 01/03/2026 10:22

I’ve used it very successfully to help me with an anxiety issue. It’s helped me move forward in a way that nothing else has.

JayJayj · 01/03/2026 10:22

I regularly use it as a therapist. It’s been very helpful.

namechangeabc123 · 01/03/2026 10:21

I’ve found it to be very useful. It’s helped me a lot with several complicated health problems that I had - far more than any doctor has ever helped me. It’s made research for my work a lot quicker and easier. It’s helped me to find a few books and films from my childhood that I’d forgotten the names of and googled many times over the years. I am also one of those “sad” people who had used it for counselling. I have a therapist anyway, but when I was bereaved and at my lowest point, chatgpt helped me a lot.

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 10:21

sanityisamyth · 01/03/2026 10:08

This. It’s horrifically bad for the environment. It just encourages people to be lazy and become massively more illiterate and deskilled.

I can see it doing the opposite- pushing people back to long form writing and books, human intelligence- as what’s the point fannying around on the internet all day now? Suspect in 10 years social media will be pretty pointless, and humans want to do something.
There is increasing acknowledgement even online that scrolling has fucked us up and getting ahead in life if all about human experiences

EmeraldShamrock000 · 01/03/2026 10:20

I haven’t started to use it yet. I was conscious of the impact it has on the environment and thought I’d leave it to those who need to use it for work etc.

I now see that’s not the case as people are overusing it to replace human connections, as partners and psychologists, if it had the capability to wipe someone’s arse I’ve no doubt they use it to do so. It’s worrying too, the tech AI race on it. I don’t think humans have the ability to compete or comprehend what the future brings us with AI and robotics.

DdraigGoch · 01/03/2026 10:20

UnhappyHobbit · 01/03/2026 09:55

Correct me if I’m wrong but every time I google anything now, an ai response comes up first, very similar to chat gpt. So even if I didn’t want to use AI for environmental reasons, I’m doing so unwittingly making the avoidance of chat gpt irrelevant. Even companies I’m calling have AI receptionists. How can you be AI free when it’s everywhere.

I've managed to block that AI summary on Google.

TheFilliesWillRiseAgain · 01/03/2026 10:20

I don't think ChatGPT is the best AI bot anymore.

Grok and Google Gemini have both done things for me that ChatGPT failed to do (and I could never have done on my own)

UnhappyHobbit · 01/03/2026 10:19

WaryHiker · 01/03/2026 10:13

That's easy. Just put a swear word in the middle of your search string and AI won't answer you. You will get an actual Google answer.

Ok. That seems like a long term solution. Talk about fighting a losing battle.

Sunshine99999 · 01/03/2026 10:18

I love it and use it a lot but you really need to be careful believing what it tells you. For example, my workplace is going through a major restructure and ChatGPT is telling everyone their jobs match to new jobs so they have a case for slotting in. I asked it to assume the role of HR and it gave conflicting advice, that no one could slot in (it then gave reasons why).

As long as you have sufficient critical thinking skills to question what it outputs then it can be a great time saver. I refer to it as super-Google but it does much more than that.

Zanatdy · 01/03/2026 10:17

I love it. Helps me with my daughters health issue and getting the right treatment, currently giving me advice on how i’ll decorate and style my new build. Even my mother who is 72 is using it!

WaryHiker · 01/03/2026 10:17

sanityisamyth · 01/03/2026 10:08

This. It’s horrifically bad for the environment. It just encourages people to be lazy and become massively more illiterate and deskilled.

And ripe for propaganda!

glitterpaperchain · 01/03/2026 10:17

ColliLass · 01/03/2026 09:46

Oh I know it isn’t infallible. I had to tell it off quite firmly because it kept guessing at a book plot. I told it it was wrong, it apologised, guessed again, apologised again, guessed again and in the end I told it in no uncertain terms to STOP guessing and if it wasn’t sure of something to just say so.

But I tell you what it isn’t. It isn’t ever rude. Unlike those sniffy, nasty posters who are quite happy to call people thick when they know NOTHING about the poster they’re insulting.

Yeah this is sad. I've seen people talk about talking to chatGPT like a friend because they're lonely or just can't manage real human interaction. People asking for advice in forums from real humans and someone commenting 'I asked chatGPT for you' as if a robot is a good replacement for human connection.

But if you want to talk to a robot who is trained to always be polite and cannot think or use logic, sure I guess that's better than real people being brutally honest. I don't use chatGPT as I prefer to use my brain to research reliable information

Clearinguptheclutter · 01/03/2026 10:15

not chap gpt but I use AI a lot for work. Not by choice, we’ve been told we have to

it’s useful but all the AI tools are horrendously bad for the environment- it takes enormous amounts of power to run.

so yabu for thinking it’s the best thing ever

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 10:14

Naws · 01/03/2026 09:57

Mumsnet could've helped with the things you've listed in your OP.

But you’d risk the judgemental and unkind comments which chat gpt wouldn’t give

WaryHiker · 01/03/2026 10:13

UnhappyHobbit · 01/03/2026 09:55

Correct me if I’m wrong but every time I google anything now, an ai response comes up first, very similar to chat gpt. So even if I didn’t want to use AI for environmental reasons, I’m doing so unwittingly making the avoidance of chat gpt irrelevant. Even companies I’m calling have AI receptionists. How can you be AI free when it’s everywhere.

That's easy. Just put a swear word in the middle of your search string and AI won't answer you. You will get an actual Google answer.

simpledeer · 01/03/2026 10:12

ScarlettSarah · 01/03/2026 09:20

Hahaha... no. I work in employment law and it seems to tell everyone they have a valid claim for constructive dismissal. They almost never do. It's become a bit of an in-joke amongst my colleagues.

Yes, judges have taken to warning unrepresented parties not to use it, but they still do. One recently lost their claim as a result.