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To think ChatGPT is the best thing ever?

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ColliLass · 01/03/2026 09:06

So far it has:

sorted a problem with my emails that I would never EVER have been able to work out
Found a book I haven’t been able to remember for years
diagnosed a problem on the car and accurately estimated the probable cost
found recipes

and many many more little helpful day to day offerings when i can’t remember things or I wonder things.

I loathe the AI videos and pictures that seem to be everywhere but ChatGPT is amazing.

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Dragonflytamer · 01/03/2026 16:45

Heyhelga · 01/03/2026 09:13

I think in ten years time instead of people saying 'Google it', they will say 'ChatGPT it.

In the bigger picture though, I'm terrified at the affect that AI is gonna have on the job market over the next ten years.

I think there already are. The SEO industry has rapidly shifted to optimising for AI rather than google rankings.

TheJaqual · 01/03/2026 15:59

It hallucinates and it keeps your data and uses it for training the LLM. Environmentally it’s not great either.

YorkStories · 01/03/2026 15:57

I think AI makes me cleverer. It gives me the confidence to give almost anything a try. As I mentioned in an earlier post I do a lot of DIY property maintenance and car repairs etc and AI is very helpful. It’s so fast and, generally, accurate. I take a photo of something and then it tells me how to do something. I often then explore the issue further. AI presents the information so clearly and quickly. It helps me learn. I’m quite a techy person and perfectly capable of googling things but AI is so much better.
Im not stupid and I’m not going to become stupid by using AI. I know to double check things and I know the limitations of AI.
The pp who mentioned AI told her to go to A&E because she missed some periods presumably missed the clear AI medical disclaimer which reads something like “I am an AI, not a doctor. Do not use this information to make medical decisions” It’s the same as googling some thing or asking on Mumsnet, you have to blindly follow a suggestion like that while, presumably, ignoring the rest of the advice ai would have given alongside.

Also, do people who claim they will never use AI actually understand how daft that sounds.

daisychain01 · 01/03/2026 15:00

HarrietSchulenberg · 01/03/2026 13:21

Whenever I've tried it it gets things wrong. I assume this is because its fed by the most popular search results rather than having any discretion.
I find just googling gives faster and better results because I can weed out the crap myself, which ChatGBT cannot do.

You do realise that Google is powered by AI. It summarises what it finds into natural language outputs rather than what it used to do, just signpost to relevant websites. The narrative is Google Gemini, its AI model, summarising what it has found, trawling the internet for relevant info to satisfy the search

there is nowhere nowadays that isn't integrated with AI in one form or another.

homehaircut · 01/03/2026 14:51

If you ask it not to make things up in settings, then also ask it to provide the link to the info it gives you or ringfence where it should look (I.e. only in the documents you have uploaded and to tell you where in those documents it’s found it), you can check the output quite easily. I’ve got the paid version, maybe that’s different.

BillieWiper · 01/03/2026 13:48

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 12:01

Well if it told you to go to hospital under some circumstance as one point in a wall of well reasoned common sense advice that’s not really the same as “I told it I had my period and it told me to go to hospital” is it?

It is to me. But I guess I do focus on the bits it tells me that seems wrong or I disagree with.
And it pissed me off because it came up and annoyed me. So I remembered it.

HarrietSchulenberg · 01/03/2026 13:21

Whenever I've tried it it gets things wrong. I assume this is because its fed by the most popular search results rather than having any discretion.
I find just googling gives faster and better results because I can weed out the crap myself, which ChatGBT cannot do.

1457bloom · 01/03/2026 13:10

I liken it to a calculator, do they make people lazy for not working out the maths themselves, no, they make them more efficient.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 01/03/2026 12:58

SupremeGeneticBee · 01/03/2026 10:52

The problem with people who don't use AI and don't understand AI is that they re-hash things they hear on line...and they don't realise how silly they sound to those of us who do understand it.

It can't do 5 x 5!
It gave a solicitor wrong legal info!
It makes things up!

You're at least a year out of date, probably two. These were 2024 problems, problems that simply do not exist now except in the rarerst of tech glitches. If you're consistently getting wrong or made up stuff from Chat GPT then your prompts are the problem.

It's not Google and the output will be as good as the input.

If you'd like a real world example of what Chat GPT can do...dh and I have very recently published our first app. You can actually download it right now on the Apple and Play stores which still feels slightly surreal 😁
It took us nine weeks to build. Lots and lots of hours of work, late nights etc. Pulling apart code, deleting code, reinputting it etc. Thousands and thousands of lines of code, I was dreaming in it by the end.

I'm a risk manager. Dh owns a small transport company. We are NOT generally 'technical' and we have zero coding skills. BUT, I worked for DataAnnotation for a long time so I am skilled in getting the best out of a model and writing useful prompts which give a high value output. For our app...my prompt was about a thousand words.

Chat GPT wrote the code for our app. It took our concept and detailed idea and turned it into reality, giving us a step by step process to build it. It was our developer, tech expert, marketing manager and so much more all in one. We looked into this a couple of years ago when we first had the business idea and it would have cost circa £20k to get it built.

No, AI isn't yet perfect or infallible. It does need directing, reminding, checking. But if you know how to use it, it's mind-blowing.

Calling it 'predictive text' or 'Google' or saying it's incapable or useless is simply laughable. It makes me think of my great granny confidently telling us this Internet thing would never take off 😂

You must have some coding skills though? To be able to check that the code it wrote for you was correct? Did it also act as a tester to test that the app works as intended?

ImWearingPantaloons · 01/03/2026 12:52

No it’s shite and will result in humans being a species incapable of independent thought.

Bjorkdidit · 01/03/2026 12:51

I’ve heard of situations where employees get into grievance hearings, are asked about points in their letter, and know absolutely nothing about them

This is what I don't understand. For the people who think that ChatGPT is a good idea for this sort of thing, wouldn't they at least sense check what it had written and whether it was a reasonable representation of what they wanted to say?

See also academic work. No-one is fooled that you used AI, it's blindly obvious to an expert when the content is nonsense so wouldn't you at least only submit what you actually understood?

Maia77 · 01/03/2026 12:49

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 01/03/2026 12:41

Hm, this makes me wonder, what is the effect when AI admits to a mistake? Does that affect what answers it gives later to simlar questions, to you or to others? Does that decrease its confidence in its response? Is it using reinforcement learning? So many questions....

I think it might have had some effect, as I asked it just now and it it's given me almost exact quotes but has chopped them up a little bit. When challenged it said it assumed I was looking for usable excerpts for discussion so it gave shortened quotations. Said it should have defaulted to verbatim quotations. So it assumes things, unless you repeatedly emphasise what you need.

Yourangduckie · 01/03/2026 12:45

Huge fan of Chatgbt use it for all sorts of things, find it so helpful.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 01/03/2026 12:41

Maia77 · 01/03/2026 10:58

It's not perfect, but it's pretty good. Obviously you can't believe everything it says, because it makes things up sometimes to fill the gaps. I asked it once to give me quotes from an ethical framework and it made them up. Luckily I recognised it and it apologised when pressed but it took quite a while to admit to it.

Hm, this makes me wonder, what is the effect when AI admits to a mistake? Does that affect what answers it gives later to simlar questions, to you or to others? Does that decrease its confidence in its response? Is it using reinforcement learning? So many questions....

Pearlmarmalade · 01/03/2026 12:39

ScarlettSarah · 01/03/2026 09:20

Hahaha... no. I work in employment law and it seems to tell everyone they have a valid claim for constructive dismissal. They almost never do. It's become a bit of an in-joke amongst my colleagues.

Snap.

It’s tiring advising on 25 page grievances which sound impressive but say absolutely nothing of any substance, and contain assertions that have no legal basis whatsoever.

How is in the best interests of anyone (employee included) to have to wade through reems of nonsense to try to work out what the actual complaint is.

I’ve heard of situations where employees get into grievance hearings, are asked about points in their letter, and know absolutely nothing about them.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 01/03/2026 12:35

I always eye roll when people are so ignorant towards the environmental impact. Instead of jumping on the trend like minions using valuable resources to pick your wallpaper.
I have the very basic in education skills yet it floors me that apparently intelligent educated people are so greedy and stupid.
The technology companies will be happily taking the profits from the minions.

MO0N · 01/03/2026 12:33

LLMs are constructed from the raw material of online human made content.
Because they are useful and popular LLMs are increasingly replacing human-made content.
You can see where this is going ... the LLMs are eating themselves and will disappear up their own arseholes.

PinkLemonadee · 01/03/2026 12:29

It's making people stupid and lazy, not to mention the environmental cost.

MabelMarple · 01/03/2026 12:27

DH uses it to write code. He was computer programming in the 70s and started work writing programmes in binary. So he's very good at writing good prompts. Also the answer it gives in this kind of use can be verified and tested.

OtherTemporaryUsername · 01/03/2026 12:23

The problem with wider societal arguments against AI, whilst enormously important, is that very few people care enough to change their own behaviour in order to be part of a societal shift. Like climate change generally.

People seemingly don't give a shit about their own data, or the very real potential of mass surveillance, which astonishes me. The growing use of facial recognition tech, plus AI should give pause, but usually doesn't. How many use use a VPN, Tor browser, or temporary email addresses to sign up to things?

The only arguments that people seem to hear are 'it will give you wrong answers' (true, but not always and perhaps just infrequently enough that we start believing it) and 'it does you personally damage'. Which not everyone seems to get. There is already evidence that having Google available (phone in your pocket, or a computer) makes people overestimate what they actually know or remember.

A huge danger of LLMs (and this is already happening, due to the internet generally) is growth of radical cynicism. When you can't trust previously-trusted forms of news or data or information, and we are completely bathed in endless streams of information, it becomes more likely that you believe and trust nothing. That way lies conspiracy mindedness and political radicalisation. Its not a new trend, but AI risks speeding this exponentially, as it does everything else.

The argument of 'if you don't use it, you'll be left behind' is insane. It is literally designed for dummies. You don't have to get 'good' at using it. You have to get good at critically analysing the output - and the skills for this aren't learnt by using AI.

Heyhihobye · 01/03/2026 12:19

Loobyloolovesandypandy · 01/03/2026 09:32

It’s really good. We’re off to Turkey soon in our campervan. I asked ChatGPT to plot a printable route giving ‘things to see’ in each country on the route. Fabulous response.

I also tried this but just a heads up - it isn’t always accurate as people have said. It told
me to take the kids to Istanbul Legoland which has literally been shut down for years and I had to correct it.

Waitingfordoggo · 01/03/2026 12:14

@daisychain01 Seems a bit ironic to use it for help with environmental issues 😩😂

Yesitsmeimback · 01/03/2026 12:08

plentyofsunshine · 01/03/2026 10:26

I just tested your theory. It still came up with an AI response even after I put a swear word in.

And people say don't use ai it gets things wrong while confidently giving an incorrect answer 😂😂😂

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 12:01

BillieWiper · 01/03/2026 11:51

Similar to what it said to me but it also told me to go to hospital. I'm not hallucinating I promise! It's true the exact words I used might have been a bit different, but not by much. This was about a month ago.

Well if it told you to go to hospital under some circumstance as one point in a wall of well reasoned common sense advice that’s not really the same as “I told it I had my period and it told me to go to hospital” is it?

Flutterbees · 01/03/2026 12:00

It guzzles resources, lies to you, takes your inputs and reuses them, and has just put thousands of people out of jobs where I live. Just use Google.