Am I being unreasonable in my holiday requirements?

I'm all for apartment hotels
2 bedrooms so not living on top of each other but have facilities and other people around for the kids.
Not fussed about AI but even then these aren't easy to find
Menorca seems a good shout we've been 3 times with that set up.

Try HD Parque Cristobal in Gran Canaria. Separate bungalows with 1/2 beds and a living space with basic kitchen facilities, AI available.

If you don’t mind self-catering, look at villagrancanaria.com. I’m from Gran Canaria myself and I normally go at least once a year to visit my parents. We stay at a villa with them so it’s like a vacation for them too. You should be able to get a 2 or 3 bed villa with your own pool within your budget. Most of their properties are in the golf complex near Meloneras, so you are pretty close to a nice area with a beach and restaurants. There’s also a hotel in the complex with further restaurants and a spa. Otherwise I’d recommend one of the Lopesan hotels but I am not sure they’ll meet your requirements regarding separate rooms/doors.

Years ago we found the Barcelo chain in Spain to be good - 2 bedroom family suites or adjoining rooms.

We sat out on the balcony in Tenerife last week until 10pm - did need a jumper but it was lovely. Our room was a king size bed with a sofa bed for DC, we didn’t have to make it up every day it was done by housekeeping and no problem creeping past onto the balcony once they were asleep 😉

And take a buggy, brilliant for evenings

** Barcelo Castillo - sorry for the typo

Comes down to cost, little ones generally travel free or much reduced but will be in a travel cot or on a sofa bed (they make it up at the start) if you want two spaces you need to pay the surcharge for a suite/apartment. Remember you can sit on the balcony in the evening

1 and 2 bedroom bungalows at Barcelona Castillo, in Caleta on Fuerteventura are great for this . Bonus is only 15 mins from the airport and excellent All inclusive including branded spirits

Hotel Flora in Puerto del Carmen has good apartments with large balconies; junior suite is ideal for couple with little ones

We’re going to a hotel in Lanzarote in the summer. All inclusive and it’s a 2-bed bungalow rather than a hotel room. Booked through Jet2.

https://www.booking.com/Share-89PO2W

Do you mean you've got to have a double bed in your room as opposed to 2 singles next to each other? I'm not clear. I found a 2 bedroom suite straightaway in Gran Canaria, but each bedroom had 2 singles. There's plenty of hotels like that I think, but may not be AI, just have restaurants.

Or somewhere like this, which has 2 bedroom facilities:

www.hdhotels.com/es/hd-parque-cristobal-gran-canaria/habitaciones/?_gl=11wirlx4_upMQ.._gsMQ.._gaNTc4ODIwOTM0LjE3NzIzMTEwMDE._ga_X4SQ5GYFCK*czE3NzIzMTEwMDEkbzEkZzAkdDE3NzIzMTEwMDEkajYwJGwwJGg0MDEwOTQzMDc.&gclid=Cj0KCQiAwYrNBhDcARIsAGo3u30tHocEeJjxQA2L43XjBLFoo_VG5Z6-cZFc3Yc4-nucjheb5lbSB2caAppEEALw_wcB&gbraid=0AAAAADRP2UcO7O3RXFvxgAwqxcvQ-o15r#r2

Does it need to be over Easter or does someone work in a school?

Just thinking with your DD being under school age, avoiding the holidays would give you a better budget to play with.

I think you’ll find most 1bed apartments are twin beds in the bedroom. We must have stayed in about 20 of them and it’s always the same. When my boys were younger, we just put them to bed in the beds and we slept on the sofa bed. This meant we had the balcony and the tv.
Re the chill-it’s unlikely to be cold but can’t you just pack a cosy hoodie to pull on for sitting on the balcony at night? When we did Majorca in early May one year, I actually packed my lightweight fake oodie which was incredibly cosy to pull on over my pjs each evening to sit out.

Aquila Rithymna Beach, Adelianos Kampos, Crete has 'classic family rooms' with a children's bedroom then adults then patio. The section we were in had a children's pool just outside in a really quiet area which was fantastic. There's an all inclusive option and lovely food.
Sorry neither of my suggestions are in the Canary Islands.

Possibly a bit too cold at the beginning of April for swimming but the Mitsis Selection Alila
Faliraki, Rhodes has rooms either with a private pool or probably better a jacuzzi on the patio, with a bedroom and then sliding doors leading to 2 beds for children and then more doors to the patio. All inclusive too.

Royal Sunset Beach Club, Costa Adeje does 2BR apartments. Nice heated pool, entertainment around the pool too. Not AI but apartments well kitted out, pool snack bar does really good food, inc take away, restaurant & bar onsite. Eating out there's plenty options literally across the street. Supermarket two mins down the street for essentials when the LO is down for the night

Booking.com filter for family room

Book flights direct with airline

Would need to pay transfer to your accommodation

Have you looked at Portugal or Egypt ?

Or ask a Travel Agent

Get a 2 bed apartment

What country?

Most kids in Spain are up late at night and arent grumpy, I would get an airbnb, sleep in the day while the shops are shut, usually 2-5ish or so (if that was your main reason for all inclusive)

Los Zocos in Lanzarote. Nice hotel and food. AI was really decent. They have 2 bedroom suites and when we went last year in March it was warm enough to sit on the balcony, just put a light jacket/hoodie on if got a little chilly.

Honestly, your budget is quite low for a week AI in the Easter holidays... Hate to say it but holidays are just far far more expensive now than they were even in recent times. Good luck!

I recommend Gran Oasis Resort in Tenerife for this. The bedroom is on a separate floor so you can sit downstairs in the evenings whilst your DD is sleeping upstairs.

Check apartments on Booking dot com and then try TUI, Jet2 or similar for flights? Filter to get a one bedroom apartment so that you have a living room and balcony?