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'Being Gordon Ramsay' featuring dead pig!

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paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:10

Ffs! I'm just watching this Netflix show about Gordon Ramsay and his opening of a new restaurant with amazing views in the city. I'm not interested in him particularly, but thought I might go to this 'Lucky Cat' just for the views over London, if and whenever it opens.

BUT - then there is a scene where he is consulting with his head chef about the menu and there is a whole dead baby suckling pig on a plate. They are talking about making this a restaurant feature, requiring two chefs who carve it at your table.

AIBU to think this is obscene? Yes, I'm vegetarian, but I think even most meat eaters would balk at this?

If I were in his restaurant and that was going at the the next table, I would leave. Wtf is wrong with humans?

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Hedgesandbutterflies · 02/03/2026 14:39

Queenjuliana · 02/03/2026 14:02

Dear God, I cannot believe the amount of psychopaths on here that can't see what's wrong with this. Hopefully they'd feel just as comfortable seeing a newborn kitten or puppy being served up in the same manner. And I hope they don't get upset about the Yulin Festival. Otherwise it's pure speciesism. Just wait to hear all the "but it's different" excuses. It's not different at all for that animal. It's exactly the same. Breeding a baby so you can kill it as soon as it's born, how is that not evil?
Humans are so selfish, we really think we have the right to do these horrific things to animals because we have power over them. So arrogant.
Let's just hope all those thinking there's nothing wrong with this would be just as happy if they were in a country where eating dog meat was culturally accepted and it was served up whole in front of them. Or would have no problem going to a "dog" roast. If not, then they are total hypocrits as well as speciesist.
Take a walk up and down your local supermarket aisles. See how much food exists that doesn't involve dead animals. We don't NEED to exploit and kill animals when there are sooooo many other things we can eat. So if you don't need to, why would you? And don't dare call yourself an animal lover if you eat them..just don't.

I mean... I would eat a dog or cat...
I don't discriminate. 🤷

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 02/03/2026 14:25

BIWI · 02/03/2026 14:04

I think you need to go and have a bit of a lie down @Queenjuliana! Dismissing meat eaters as psychopaths is just a little bit silly, don't you think?

Agree, lost the argument right there.

BIWI · 02/03/2026 14:04

I think you need to go and have a bit of a lie down @Queenjuliana! Dismissing meat eaters as psychopaths is just a little bit silly, don't you think?

Queenjuliana · 02/03/2026 14:02

Dear God, I cannot believe the amount of psychopaths on here that can't see what's wrong with this. Hopefully they'd feel just as comfortable seeing a newborn kitten or puppy being served up in the same manner. And I hope they don't get upset about the Yulin Festival. Otherwise it's pure speciesism. Just wait to hear all the "but it's different" excuses. It's not different at all for that animal. It's exactly the same. Breeding a baby so you can kill it as soon as it's born, how is that not evil?
Humans are so selfish, we really think we have the right to do these horrific things to animals because we have power over them. So arrogant.
Let's just hope all those thinking there's nothing wrong with this would be just as happy if they were in a country where eating dog meat was culturally accepted and it was served up whole in front of them. Or would have no problem going to a "dog" roast. If not, then they are total hypocrits as well as speciesist.
Take a walk up and down your local supermarket aisles. See how much food exists that doesn't involve dead animals. We don't NEED to exploit and kill animals when there are sooooo many other things we can eat. So if you don't need to, why would you? And don't dare call yourself an animal lover if you eat them..just don't.

CanYouHearYourself · 02/03/2026 11:12

I'd far rather people be accepting of what they are eating and pay proper prices for it than buy shitty water and chemical injected meat from supermarkets. If an animal is bred for meat then it doesn't really make much difference when it's slaughtered does it. The fact that a piglet is cuter than a pig shouldn't be part of the equation.

You seem to want people to be hypocrites OP.

Deboragh · 02/03/2026 11:06

paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:13

Not to mention that this will not exactly appeal to his potential Muslim customers.

Oh grow up.

Labelledelune · 01/03/2026 13:46

So it’s ok to eat meat but not ok to see it whole?

Hedgesandbutterflies · 01/03/2026 12:55

usernamealreadytaken · 01/03/2026 11:48

I think what @paloma7 is desperately trying to let us all know, is that she doesn’t want to live in a multi-cultural society, because many cultures have traditions and practices which she finds abhorrent, and shouldn't be welcomed here. Strange that she worries that Muslims might be offended by a traditional Chinese (and European) practice. I assume she’s never seen a traditional Muslim whole goat served at big celebrations, or perhaps goats are lower on the pecking order than cute little piglets?

Half a camel including head hanging in the butcher's window.
Lamb head soup... 🙈 (like lamb did not like the taste oddly. I think it's the non meat parts flavour)
Lamb head placed on top of dishes...

ilovepixie · 01/03/2026 12:41

Have you not seen a hog roast. It’s literally a whole dead pig on a spit.

usernamealreadytaken · 01/03/2026 12:04

Sophabulous · 28/02/2026 18:11

Asian cuisine is very pork orientated so no I don’t think it would be odd. It’s the same as someone having bacon or a pork chop just more jarring. It’s authentic and theatrical and for all I know a delicacy?

I wouldn’t order it personally but I wouldn’t leave a place over it being at another table. I was vegetarian for 8 years btw until I had to give up for health reasons.

To each their own, it just doesn’t sound like the place for you, and I get that! I would feel that way about octopus for example. Don’t know why, just gives me the heebie jeebies!

Also, I saw some wanky post on LinkedIn yesterday about someone who went to the Manchester one I think, granted there were a fair few drinks on the bill but it was £406 for 2 people! 😱

I think I saw the same post, and nearly half the bill was alcohol - five beers, several glasses of wine and a cocktail. There was also quite a lot of food, it sounded like quite the celebration!

usernamealreadytaken · 01/03/2026 11:48

I think what @paloma7 is desperately trying to let us all know, is that she doesn’t want to live in a multi-cultural society, because many cultures have traditions and practices which she finds abhorrent, and shouldn't be welcomed here. Strange that she worries that Muslims might be offended by a traditional Chinese (and European) practice. I assume she’s never seen a traditional Muslim whole goat served at big celebrations, or perhaps goats are lower on the pecking order than cute little piglets?

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 01/03/2026 11:42

@Mumtobabyhavoc : But, no one needs to lecture about it......

:I also think not all things need to be eaten -- it's just gluttony.
:I do think we in the west over indulge in meat.
:just no to suckling pig.

Yet more lecturing, those are your options.
Your gluttony is someone else's normal.

Also, doesn't mean those who eat a particular thing, eat everything else.

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 01/03/2026 10:40

paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:23

I am vegetarian but I'm not going to tell other people what they can or can't eat.

What I find obscene is the making a spectacle of the whole dead animal. Like it's supposed to be a 'wow' factor. What can possibly be 'wow' about a baby pig, slaughtered at birth. To me, it's totally unnecessary and actually depraved.

I am genuinely trying to understand your perspective. But wouldn’t that apply to all meat? When we make a spectacle about tender veal? Dry aged beef? Delicious duck? Or when we have an iberico ham to slowly slice?

or even how some people simply salivate over bacon and making bacon memes. How is this any different? Except that you can’t forget the actual animal that had to pay in this case.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 01/03/2026 10:12

DiscoBeat · 01/03/2026 09:53

I eat meat 2-3 times a week but I don't like eating baby animals, I get you, OP. I picked up what I thought was venison in Waitrose the other week and realised at the checkout that it was veal, so I put it back. There's a limit for me!

The veal Waitrose sells is British produced and it's rose veal, not the veal prized on the continent which is white. British veal is produced from male dairy calves who might live to twelve months old. If there was no market for their meat they would be slaughtered at birth because obviously only female calves can go on to produce milk. Would that be better?

Here's some information from a producer about this. https://alternativemeats.co.uk/product-category/british-beef-and-rose-veal-and-dairy-cow/british-rose-veal/

faerylights · 01/03/2026 09:57

DiscoBeat · 01/03/2026 09:53

I eat meat 2-3 times a week but I don't like eating baby animals, I get you, OP. I picked up what I thought was venison in Waitrose the other week and realised at the checkout that it was veal, so I put it back. There's a limit for me!

The vast majority of the meat you buy from a supermarket will be from a baby animal Confused

Most chickens are slaughtered at 3-5 months.
Deer between 12-24 months.
Pigs before the age of 1.
Cows between 18-24 months.
Turkeys between 12-26 weeks.

DiscoBeat · 01/03/2026 09:53

paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:37

If you ordered veal, would you want the cow's head on the table while you ate?

Yes, people know where meat comes from, but many of them don't like to dwell on it too much. No meat eater I know would be particularly delighted with the head of a lamb, pig or cow on the table while they ate. Let's be honest.

I eat meat 2-3 times a week but I don't like eating baby animals, I get you, OP. I picked up what I thought was venison in Waitrose the other week and realised at the checkout that it was veal, so I put it back. There's a limit for me!

usernamealreadytaken · 01/03/2026 09:47

DrPrunesqualer · 27/02/2026 18:41

That’s not an argument
because
Neither do human babies
So that’s OK then ?

Edited

Other omnivorous and carnivorous animals would have no problem with eating a human baby. Pigs are known to eat human flesh. We’re omnivores, just with enough awareness to choose what we eat and when.

usernamealreadytaken · 01/03/2026 09:24

paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:39

What a laugh for all

Animal husbandry is a hugely important life lesson; raising and caring for the thing which will sustain you, and being mindful of the circle. That’s what we’ve lost with factory farming and packaged meat which bears no resemblance to the original animal.

As a vegetarian, where do you stand on almond milk and avocados? Or do you just eat seasonal, British (assuming you are in Britain) produce?

WhereAllLightComesIn · 01/03/2026 09:21

I would hate it but as a vegan I only eat in vegan restaurants, sometimes a restaurant that serves vegetarian as well. I can’t stand Gordon Ramsay anyway. There are other ways to get good views over London.

Missey85 · 01/03/2026 09:04

I love suckling pig 🐷 it's the best! Of course there's going to be dead animals on a food show! 😂

IDontHateRainbows · 01/03/2026 08:00

DrPrunesqualer · 01/03/2026 01:01

What part of my post about vegetarians inflicting their views on others ( in This GR context ) is confusing to you

Why can't you answer the question rather than continually referring back to a previous post. It wouldn't be because you...hmm.. can't answer without contradicting yourself now, could it?

Mumtobabyhavoc · 01/03/2026 07:24

I don't know why food preferences need to become a competition of morality. And the extreme examples given are ludicrous. 🤦‍♀️
Three are moral quandaries to all food production and consumption, aren't there 🤷‍♀️
FWIW just the term suckling pig makes me want to cry at the thought of eating it. I couldn't. I also think not all things need to be eaten -- it's just gluttony. I do think we in the west over indulge in meat (often poor quality), too and stats support that, I believe.
But, no one needs to lecture about it.
Personally, I don't eat pork, but do eat beef and bison occasionally, moose on rare opportunities and consume chicken, salmon prawns and crab regularly. We're all different.
i was pretty much vegetarian at one time and I think I could go that way again quite easily, I just honestly feel better when animal protein is in my diet. But, I've gone way off course here-- just no to suckling pig, Gordo. 😥

ChipDaleRescueRangers · 01/03/2026 06:46

I couldn't get upset about the pig, but after seeing the prices I would be upset at £20 for egg fried rice and £16 for a bowl of broccoli!

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 01/03/2026 06:43

TheOchreJoker · 01/03/2026 03:18

Know what's really vile? The sheer ignorance and arrogance of vegetarians...

A suckling pig is one of the least wasteful meals, everything is eaten, even the leftover bones can be used for broth afterwards.
On the other hand the amount of wild animals those of us on fruit/veg farms have to kill to sow, grow, protect and harvest food for people like you while you stand there and judge the food choices of others is ridiculous.
The animals that died to feed you have been poisoned, shot or snared and are now rotting in a ditch at the end of the field while you look down on meat eaters for not wasting any part of the animals that died to feed them.

The production of your veg dinner is no less bloody than a steak but we keep the reality from you so you can live in your bubble believing the lie that no animals were harmed for your plant based meals.

At least a meat eater will look a sucking pig in the face and be grateful for the meal it provides them whereas vegetarians and vegans will not even acknowledge the countless deer, rabbits, birds etc.. or the native ecosystems that are destroyed on a daily basis just to fill your judgemental bellies.

You're welcome.

👏👏👏.

Even the aphids, worms, beetles, caterpillars, snails etc that die for vegetables to be harvested don't seem to count to vegans.

blubberball · 01/03/2026 06:41

I didn't like seeing it. When they put the flowers on it's eyes, it just reminded me of that fucked up Midsommar movie