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GP didn’t call me because their “workday has ended”

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angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 17:37

I had a telephone call booked in at 15:40.

It rolls around and no call. 17:30 comes and goes which is when the surgery closes.

I get a text to say it’s not been completed as they got to the end of their workday and couldn’t make the call, which means at least 8 people were in the same position as me, they didn’t have their calls made.

So I now have to compete again tomorrow for an on the day call, and even having one booked in doesn’t guarantee it!

AIBU to think this is exactly why so many people end up in A&E? We’re told to go to our GP, but our GP won’t see us!

OP posts:
Alyss05 · 26/02/2026 20:00

I think you’re very rude OP to suggest the GP isn’t working.
the reality is, you have ZERO idea what has gone on in their work day. Something has clearly gone terribly wrong if you’re not the only phone call that couldn’t take place (you previously suggested maybe ~8 others wouldn’t have happened).
that is a clear implication that something has happened. They could have had a mental health emergency, sepsis, heart attack etc.
it isn’t like the GP was running a bit late and had one phone call left and though cba I’m going home.
chances are, if something has gone wrong, the GP is likely still at the GP surgery working unpaid overtime dealing with whatever the problem is.

also healthcare workers are not robots/super human - they deserve to work the hours they are paid to do (like everyone else) and then go home. They aren’t at the publics beck and call constantly. It also isn’t like you don’t have other options??
if it’s urgent and can’t possibly wait 18hrs until tomorrow to call the GP again, you have out of hours GP and if it’s an emergency - there’s A&E.

at the end of the day unpredictable s@!t happens that messes everyone’s day up.

the only thing you have a right to be upset with is how this was communicated and the plan going forward. They should have informed you sooner, if they were able to/aware this would happen. I’d also have expected they automatically put you on the list for a call tomorrow.

Zov · 26/02/2026 20:00

goz · 26/02/2026 19:51

There will quite literally be millions of parents who have salaried positions and leave on time because nurseries/ after school care or clubs don’t run late.
The idea that everyone on a salary just stays however late is rubbish.

And there will be millions who DO stay late (until the work is done!) Many people do have other people who can pick up their child from nursery/after school clubs, ya know like the other parent of the child! Or a grandparent or other family member or friend.

I had an unpredictable finishing time in a job I did in the noughties - although it was 3 days a week. I would start at 8.30am and sometimes not finish til 7 to 7.30pm if a particularly tricky case or situation came in... And so my DH would pick up the DC from the childminder or school. If he was at work, (he did shift work,) or the childminder would sometimes keep them for an extra hour or two, or my SIL would pick them up and keep them at hers for an extra hour or two. (Or one of the other mums at the school/one of my friends would do it.) I would return the favour if a similar thing happened to them on MY days(s) off.

You learn to adapt and make provisions when you have a career with unpredictable hours that sometimes run over the normal finishing time. Not everyone can just clock out on the dot of 5pm!

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JayJayj · 26/02/2026 19:59

I get the frustration. Can you not go to a local walk in centre?

SoICrawledThroughTheCatFlap · 26/02/2026 19:54

My surgery regularly sends me texts that say they are short staffed & only seeing/booking emergencies.
At least once a week this happens.
The online booking doesn't work so it's ringing with every other bastard at 8am & phone lottery!
I have only experienced one no call back though. The receptionist had written my number incorrectly) that is on my file correctly ffs)
I'd be pissed off with the total lack of concern from your surgery. A text to say essentially, tough shit today, is crap.
If you don't get joy with 111 you could try a pharmacist. Some can prescribe, but I'm not sure what regarding pain relief.
Good luck

whyyyyyisitmonddayy · 26/02/2026 19:53

angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 17:43

Nope. The text says I need to get another call booked in tomorrow.

What I mean is people who have health problems that need to be seen cannot access care any other way. If I can’t see my GP, because even having an appointment doesnt guarantee that, what else am I meant to do?

I’ve done this multiple times because I’ve felt I have no fucking choice. I have brittle asthma and a flare can start slow 2-4 days prior to needed hospitalisation so either I get seen by my GP or I’ll hassle a & e

Zov · 26/02/2026 19:51

Frenzi · 26/02/2026 19:43

You'd be surprised. My surgery operates an evening and weekend surgery on rota - no one wants to come to them! We cant give them away!

Yes, mine does evening appointments too. So does my adult DC's surgery, and my 2 BBFs surgeries. Not many people seem to go to evening (6.00pm to 7.45pm) appointments, but the GPs do plenty of phone calls/phone consultations during that time. So they are not sitting doing nothing. This is why I'm surprised that a GP didn't ring the OP at 7pm or something.

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goz · 26/02/2026 19:51

purpleheartsandroses · 26/02/2026 19:47

But they hadn't finished their work for the day?
It's a salaried job, not a payperhour job. You leave once the works done for the day, not at a set time.

There will quite literally be millions of parents who have salaried positions and leave on time because nurseries/ after school care or clubs don’t run late.
The idea that everyone on a salary just stays however late is rubbish.

BloominNora · 26/02/2026 19:50

Frenzi · 26/02/2026 19:33

Because your GP is not an emergency service.

And at the moment they are battling against what NHS England say they will do with what they can practically do in the hours they work.

Stop talking about GPs as if they are still like Dr. Leg from Eastenders!

GPs are part of practices which are run as a business and for profit- partners earn as much as hospital consultants. Salaried GPs earn more than most consultants.

I have a friend who works in the ICB and has worked in Primary and Secondary care commissioning. Every time they try to make changes to improve GP access and take the pressure of secondary services, the GPs kick off - even when the changes make a lot of sense and would actually reduce the GP caseload. The BMC get involved and nothing gets fixed!

Not having the capacity to give people appointments is one thing, but not contacting patients who have been given an appointment and making alternative arrangements is just bad practice management.

No-one would think it acceptable if you were given a 3:30pm appointment with a consultant at a hospital, you sit around until 5:30 and then are told when you ask what is going on "Sorry, the consultant has finished for the day - call back tomorrow and we will see if we can re-arrange"

Emergency services are being overrun with non-emergencies because people are unable to access primary care.

Personally I think if someone rocks up at A&E with something that is a non-emergency - if they can prove that they have tried and failed to get an appointment with their GP then the GP practice should be fined because they have either not employed the correct number / right mix of staff or they are being run badly.

We've always been very lucky with our GPs even though we have lived in areas with very very high demand and increasing populations - our current and previous GPs had very innovative practices in terms of staff mixes. The only thing I would like to see is more weekend access!

purpleheartsandroses · 26/02/2026 19:47

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 26/02/2026 19:25

The GP is doing their job which has a start time and end time. It is not an emergency service, they are well within their right to go home at the end of their working day

But they hadn't finished their work for the day?
It's a salaried job, not a payperhour job. You leave once the works done for the day, not at a set time.

Frenzi · 26/02/2026 19:43

Fairlydust · 26/02/2026 18:51

I really think surgeries should operate an evening appointment system for this reason. If emergencies come in it must be difficult to fit everyone in. They should have called you to explain.

You'd be surprised. My surgery operates an evening and weekend surgery on rota - no one wants to come to them! We cant give them away!

HobnobsChoice · 26/02/2026 19:42

It's really unfortunate that the surgery didn't automatically rebook you in or another GP take over your calls
. However the emergency could be really serious and then required writing up/debrief etc. A friend of mine is a GP and a few years back had a routine appointment for a patient who had booked. The woman went into cardiac arrest in the waiting room and and my friend was performing CPR and using a defib for a long time until the ambulance arrived ( pre covid but the same old issue of not enough ambos in the area as waiting to off load at hospital). After the ambulance did arrive and the woman was taken to hospital, my friend had to then write up their account and ensure the patient records were available as it's their legal responsibility. It was time consuming and quite a shock for her and the other surgery staff.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 26/02/2026 19:41

angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 18:01

I just find it really frustrating that they talk so much about how each missed appointment costs them so much money. But when they don’t work it’s fine?

True. How much does it cost them for a missed appointment? Ask them if when THEY miss your appointment you can have that "lost" money and go and use it for a private GP consultation instead.😆

hyggetyggedotorg · 26/02/2026 19:41

Frenzi · 26/02/2026 19:33

Because your GP is not an emergency service.

And at the moment they are battling against what NHS England say they will do with what they can practically do in the hours they work.

This makes no sense as a response to my comment.

Zov · 26/02/2026 19:41

Holidaymodeon · 26/02/2026 19:32

Do you mean this bit ‘The feminisation of GP practice has led to a deterioration of the service’ ??????

lolololol I have never heard of this dire feminisation of GP practice’ . Sounds terrifying, probably witchcraft

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hyggetyggedotorg · 26/02/2026 19:40

Cappie73 · 26/02/2026 19:38

Not everyone is able to or has access to online services

Surgeries have to have procedures in place for that too. I should know, I was responsible for deciding what ours should be. This still cannot be call at 8am or you’ll never be able to see anyone.

Cappie73 · 26/02/2026 19:38

hyggetyggedotorg · 26/02/2026 19:17

If you’re in England your surgery has to offer an online triage system as part of the GP contract. This came into being in October.

Nobody needs to be dialling each day any more.

Not everyone is able to or has access to online services

Frenzi · 26/02/2026 19:37

NoMoreLifts · 26/02/2026 19:26

I've heard this too, that 111 can access GP apps. Try this, OP.
Agree they should have rebooked you.

Depending on the size of the surgery they have one, maybe two allocated slots for 111.

111 may say the GP will contact you within one hour but the actual contract between 111 and the GP is to see the patient at the earliest available time - which may be 5 days later.

They are not an emergency service so don't rely on 111's advice.

Sausages123456 · 26/02/2026 19:37

I expect the GP is as frustrated and fed up as you. You're blaming the wrong people.

Idunkia · 26/02/2026 19:35

HoskinsChoice · 26/02/2026 18:38

But that's what she's saying. Doctors are people like the rest of us. We all have children/caring responsibilities, hobbies etc but if you're not finished, you're not finished - you stay til you are whether you're a GP or an accountant. The rest of us frequently stay late to meet our deadlines. So why shouldn't Doctors?

Except for GPs this happens every working day. So where do we draw the line? Or are GPs just supposed to work till 8pm everyday? Burn-out is a real and current problem among doctors. They deserve a work-life balance as the rest of the population. One solution would be more GPs, not overwork.

The booking system may need to be adjusted in this case but I do not agree GPs should just carry on working.

Cappie73 · 26/02/2026 19:34

Gettingbysomehow · 26/02/2026 19:22

Im an NHS podiatrist and cant remember when I last finished work on time. I finish patients at 4.30 then work until about 6 or 7pm doing referrals, finishing notes, ensuring everything urgent is done. There is so much paperwork and I cant go home until its done unless I decide to work from home.
I dont get paid for that extra time, but if I dont do it nobody else will.
I doubt your GP just goes home at the end of the working day.
There are legal consequences for not doing this work.
I get 30 mins per patient. Far more than GPs. But I might have to do a procedure that takes an hour or 25 foot ulcers and both leg double bandaging that makes me late all day.
Thd NHS doesnt give us enough time for anything and yet here we are doing yet another time and motion study.

Blame the process and not the individual. Clinicians love a DNA as it frees up a bit of time to catch up!

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 26/02/2026 19:33

angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 17:55

Guaranteeing me an appointment tomorrow morning?

Exactly - it's hardly rocket science

Frenzi · 26/02/2026 19:33

hyggetyggedotorg · 26/02/2026 19:20

How does 3 x 12 hour days make anyone part time?

Not all GPs work 12 hour days but very many do. Until very recently I worked 11 hour shifts (7.30 to 6.30) in a GP surgery & many of the partners were both there before me & still working as I left.

Because your GP is not an emergency service.

And at the moment they are battling against what NHS England say they will do with what they can practically do in the hours they work.

Holidaymodeon · 26/02/2026 19:32

Zov · 26/02/2026 19:19

Wait with the what now? Confused

Do you mean this bit ‘The feminisation of GP practice has led to a deterioration of the service’ ??????

lolololol I have never heard of this dire feminisation of GP practice’ . Sounds terrifying, probably witchcraft

Cappie73 · 26/02/2026 19:32

latetothefisting · 26/02/2026 18:30

I'm surprised so many people are defending the GP, this seems appalling to me, and I work in medical complaints so have seen a lot!

It's not like OP was the last call of the day at 17:20 and the GP couldn't overrun as had to get home for whatever reason (although even then I would expect OP to get an apology and automatically be put on the first call tomorrow morning, not having to rebook) - her appt was 2hrs before the surgery closed! It must have been apparent at some point before 17.30 that the GP was running hugely late and wouldn't get to OP's booking in time, let alone the people booked in after her.

Either this was because of an unexpected issue - i.e. someone became seriously unwell in one of the appts before OPs which caused a knock on effect - in which case there should be capacity for the people whose appts got cancelled today to be rebooked tomorrow and staff should have contacted those people to apologise and sort a rebook.

Or it is normal for the surgeries to overrun by at least 2 hrs, in which case the practice manager/lead GPs need to reorganise their booking process, even if that means reducing the number of slots available/not booking anyone after 3pm or whenever, as multiple people just not being seen at all after being told they would, and potentially taking a whole day off work, etc., is clearly not a professional or fair way of doing things!

It's not fair to just blame the GP and say 'they should work as long as it takes.' But it is fair to blame the surgery as a whole for both poor time management and communication.

Your last paragraph 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

PhaedraWas · 26/02/2026 19:30

It's completely unacceptable OP. I wish I had a job that I could just leave because it's the end of the day.

After my last experience of trying to get a a GP appointment I wouldn't even bother now. I 'd use a private GP and/or Bupa consultation.