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GP didn’t call me because their “workday has ended”

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angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 17:37

I had a telephone call booked in at 15:40.

It rolls around and no call. 17:30 comes and goes which is when the surgery closes.

I get a text to say it’s not been completed as they got to the end of their workday and couldn’t make the call, which means at least 8 people were in the same position as me, they didn’t have their calls made.

So I now have to compete again tomorrow for an on the day call, and even having one booked in doesn’t guarantee it!

AIBU to think this is exactly why so many people end up in A&E? We’re told to go to our GP, but our GP won’t see us!

OP posts:
Nursemumma92 · 26/02/2026 22:22

angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 18:18

I think at the bare minimum patients should be seen somewhat close to the time they’re allocated.

I understand emergencies happen, but in that case it needs to be communicated directly to the patient and something better is done? If I didn’t turn up I’d be receiving texts and letters, but they don’t carry out appointments and they’re just given a pass?

You definitely should be allocated a call tomorrow if the Dr couldn't fit you in before the end of the day, however it isn't fair to say that they couldn't leave before making all the appointments. You have no idea what happened that day, what emergencies may have cropped up etc. If your 15.40 appointment wasn't carried out before 17.30 when the practice closed then there were clearly significant problems that the GP was dealing with.

That GP may have had to finish due to collecting children from childcare etc... they do have a commitment to the job but are also only human.

It is the practice's fault in the way this is being dealt with- you should not have to try and rebook tomorrow.

In the meantime, you can get cocodamol 8mg/500mg from a pharmacy which may help a bit more with the pain while you are waiting for another appointment.

SadTimesInFife · 26/02/2026 22:21

angelinlothian · 26/02/2026 17:43

Nope. The text says I need to get another call booked in tomorrow.

What I mean is people who have health problems that need to be seen cannot access care any other way. If I can’t see my GP, because even having an appointment doesnt guarantee that, what else am I meant to do?

You tell them you are an asylum seeker and that your taxi is collecting you from your hotel, bringing you over NOW.

gototogo · 26/02/2026 22:07

When this happens at my surgery they call you at 8am to book you in though my surgery is open until 8pm anyway

onyxtulip · 26/02/2026 22:04

To clarify - without you having to initiate that further appointment yourself/jump through all the hoops again

onyxtulip · 26/02/2026 22:03

I'm a GP and I agree that's very bad form. They should have at least offered you an alternative appointment the next day, regardless of the circumstances

purpleheartsandroses · 26/02/2026 21:56

goz · 26/02/2026 21:15

I mean who would stop you?
Other than open days, specific meetings, or if they’ve arranged to do bus duties I know several teachers that leave when the children leave. Marking or planning doesn’t need to be done at your desk. I’ve never come across a head to dictate that.

Open days/specific meetings/extra duties...you mean something pre-arranged...like a pre-arranged telephone appointment?

(But also emergencies like children not being collected or safeguarding reports)

Beentheredonethat26 · 26/02/2026 21:55

Cappie73 · 26/02/2026 19:13

Wow! That’s a bold statement! Not a sentiment I share

Can I just point out that only the first paragraph, shown in italics was written by me.

I do not agree with, and did not write, the second bit about feminisation.

Womaninhouse17 · 26/02/2026 21:52

Notsandwiches · 26/02/2026 20:39

We have to do the 8am battle. Tried last week and was number 14 in the queue. Got to the front and there were no appointments. I think it's BS that they're inundated. Even when you go to the surgery theres never more than a couple of other patients waiting. No way are they rushed off their feet.

Maybe there's only a couple of people waiting because the appointments are well organised and on time? Can you do appointments via the NHS app? (I think they're trying to get all surgeries to do this now.) I find it really useful and get a choice of times and days. I do appreciate that my surgery seems to be less busy than others though.

JohnTheRevelator · 26/02/2026 21:51

Absolute bloody piss take.

Beentheredonethat26 · 26/02/2026 21:50

hyggetyggedotorg · 26/02/2026 19:40

Surgeries have to have procedures in place for that too. I should know, I was responsible for deciding what ours should be. This still cannot be call at 8am or you’ll never be able to see anyone.

Ours still have that system. Call at 8am or E-consult between 8am and 10am for urgent appts, but it's often shut by 8.30-9am. Calling dead on 8am, usually means you're 30+ in the queue and all appts are gone by the time you speak to someone.
They've got around the new guidelines by saying you have to be invited by them to be able to book a same day online appt. Can't access it without a link and it's only for 3 things eg, smear test.

Pinepeak2434 · 26/02/2026 21:44

I’ve never had a doctor fail to call, but I have had them call later than arranged. We’re given a two-hour window for the call, which I find very frustrating, as it means I’m waiting around. However, this is an improvement, as they used to provide no indication of timing at all. I’ve reached the point where I try to avoid booking appointments whenever possible because the whole process is so frustrating , but this has sometimes left me very unwell.

Zov · 26/02/2026 21:32

latetothefisting · 26/02/2026 20:49

(bangs head against wall) but that is irrelevant because 3.40 (the time OP's appt was for) is highly unlikely to be the end of their working day!

And even if (very unlikely) this particular GP's set working hours are 9am to 3.40pm and there is no expectation they should ever have to work a second past that, then in that case the surgery shouldn't be booking appointments for them for 3.40pm - their last appointment should be 3.10 or even earlier to allow for appts overrunning, paperwork, etc.

Otherwise what happens if someone goes in at 3.38 and starts stripping off for a vaginal exam - according to you it's fine for the GP to just jump up and walk out the door, leaving them on the table legs akimbo?

Lots of things aren't an 'emergency service' but realistically you would still expect them to carry on until the job had been completed.

I doubt you'd be happy if you were at the theatre, it started a few minutes late so the actors just all stopped half way through the climactic final scene/song and walked out. Or were at a restaurant waiting for 3 hours for a meal, because the old chef had finished their shift and the new one phoned in sick, with nobody bothering to tell you? Or if you were 2 mins late to pick up your child but when you arrived they were nowhere to be seen because the school/nursery had kicked the kids out and locked the building the second the school day ended? Or your plumber/electrician left you without a working boiler/flushing toilet/any lights because they needed to get home to their kids and couldn't take 5 minutes more to fix your issue?

Edited

100% this! ^

Appleandcidergravy · 26/02/2026 21:31

So what if the GP had an emergency- they were taken ill, or had to pick up a sick child, or their parent was dying?
Yes it was rubbish how they have handled it- but the GP may have had to leave for an important reason- I have had to leave to pick up sick kids from nursery or deal withy husbands seizures. Unfortunately my patients just get cancelled.... I have also gone home throwing up due to a migraine.....

Zov · 26/02/2026 21:30

Horses7 · 26/02/2026 21:25

An absolute farce - at the very least you should be automatically booked in for the next day.

100% this. ^

Zov · 26/02/2026 21:30

Horses7 · 26/02/2026 21:25

An absolute farce - at the very least you should be automatically booked in for the next day.

100% this! ^

Horses7 · 26/02/2026 21:25

An absolute farce - at the very least you should be automatically booked in for the next day.

Pistachiocake · 26/02/2026 21:21

No, it isn't ok. Can you at least leave reviews to warn other patients, and put in a complaint? You seem to be very competent and literate. There are several people in my family who find it very hard to access care, for various competency/literacy reasons, and this sort of thing would possibly stop them getting any help. One would actually think this means the doctor didn't need to see her (and yes, I help her out, but not everyone has anyone to help, so it is important that these things are stopped).
Lots of people in the NHS say the reason so many people literally die is because we're all (rightly) grateful for the good staff and we don't want to complain. You would complain if any other service you are forced to pay for was inadequate.

goz · 26/02/2026 21:15

Snowdrop219 · 26/02/2026 21:04

This is so true! I’m a teacher and can you imagine if I walked out of the door at 3pm because ‘my working day is done’ 😂😂. These are the same GP’s that were refusing to see people in Covid whilst I was running round houses delivering free packed lunches because of Marcus Rashford 😂

I mean who would stop you?
Other than open days, specific meetings, or if they’ve arranged to do bus duties I know several teachers that leave when the children leave. Marking or planning doesn’t need to be done at your desk. I’ve never come across a head to dictate that.

Reinventedblanket · 26/02/2026 21:10

goz · 26/02/2026 21:01

It wouldn’t be one thing though, there will be a baby slotted in at the last minute, several appointments all running over by a couple of minutes each and then you only need one “emergency” of 20-30 minutes and you’re nearly up to 2 hours of a delay.

Plus you also have to manage the emergency to a point as well. If someone is having a heart attack or an acute episode of psychosis you can't just stick them in the waiting room you have to manage the situation until the emergency services arrive. There'll also be emergency situations from care homes or other staff they need to support with as well as urgent contacts from hospital/laboratory etc. It's just complex and not an exact science. Plus appointments just often run a long way over, often for very good reasons. Other days might go more smoothly.

Plmnki · 26/02/2026 21:09

If it is agonising, book an appt with a private GP first thing. Pay £100 ish and get it sorted. Dicking around with 111 and A&E is pointless. Payup and get rapid service. Stop worrying about how things should work and focus on a solution.

Think of it this way - if you had a leak in your roof at home you wouldn’t stand there waiting for it to be fixed for free would you? You’d pay a premium for rapid service. Well, that’s how things work in the U.K. now. Pay up and get it sorted. Stop trying to rail against the system. It’s exhausting and pointless, fix yourself first.

Snowdrop219 · 26/02/2026 21:04

purpleheartsandroses · 26/02/2026 18:46

People with jobs like this, where they have to stay until the day's load is done, have contingency plans as routine.

I was a teacher - couldn't ever guarantee what time id finish so DH did all picks ups.
I have a midwife friend - her parents are on usually on standby if she's got a morning shift because it's common to overrun.
My old neighbour was a GP - his wife was a SAHM to be able to manage child related duties.
A friend who is a hospital consultant - her DH wfh so he can do last minute schedule changes.
Etc.

These kinds of jobs you can't just walk out on time if the work isn't done.

This is so true! I’m a teacher and can you imagine if I walked out of the door at 3pm because ‘my working day is done’ 😂😂. These are the same GP’s that were refusing to see people in Covid whilst I was running round houses delivering free packed lunches because of Marcus Rashford 😂

User79853257976 · 26/02/2026 21:03

People should call 111 if they really can’t wait.

igelkott2026 · 26/02/2026 21:03

Toomanysofttoys · 26/02/2026 17:45

That's an absolute piss take. They should reschedule it for the following day without you having to callback.
I'd be livid.

Me too. When my GP didn't call me back on the same day, he texted me to say he'd call after the weekend (it was a Friday) and called me back on the Monday morning. It wasn't so urgent it couldn't wait until after the weekend but I didn't have to fill in the e-consult again.

That is straight-forward customer service. Complain OP.

goz · 26/02/2026 21:01

grumpygrape · 26/02/2026 20:52

Genuine question, not trying to provoke. If there had been an emergency at a GP Surgery taking hours to manage, surely they would have called Emergency Services ? GPs aren’t there to deal with emergencies.

It wouldn’t be one thing though, there will be a baby slotted in at the last minute, several appointments all running over by a couple of minutes each and then you only need one “emergency” of 20-30 minutes and you’re nearly up to 2 hours of a delay.

LunaDeBallona · 26/02/2026 20:59

This is what happens when there’s too many people competing for a service.

Tony Blair fucked up GPs for the end user (not for the GPs though!) when he gave them autonomy to pay their own wages, work whatever hours suited them and made them bosses of their own practice.
Oh, the heady days of the 70s and 80s when GPs worked for the NHS and if you phoned the out of hours service on a Saturday night you got a visit from a doctor in your own practice. No waiting weeks for appointments either.
The millions of extra people really hasn’t helped the situation either - but clearly I’m a right wing Nazi for daring to say that.