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Nearly 1m young people out of work

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Starfeesh · 26/02/2026 13:21

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

AIBU to be concerned that a life on benefits seems to be a viable option, and glad Labour are bringing in compulsory work placements?

A young man looks at his phone while sitting at a computer in his home. He looks weary.

Young people out of work, training and education edges closer to one million

People at the start of their careers are particularly affected by the UK's weak job market.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

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Pluto46 · 26/02/2026 17:05

Playingvideogames · 26/02/2026 14:04

When you live at mum and dad’s it doesn’t really matter, it’s just pocket money.

Which is what NWM has caused so much damage

Bikergran · 26/02/2026 17:04

I feel the main reason is we don't have mass employers any more, for instance, lots of big factories here in the UK used to make steel, chemicals, vehicles, furniture, white goods, TVs, textiles, clothing etc etc. As well as all the shop floor workers, that involved employing office staff for sales, administration and management, maintenance people to keep the place running, and cleaning and security staff. A lot of those jobs have now gone abroad, as accommodation and labour costs are cheaper and legislation on health and safety is much more lax. In the ones that remain many processes have become automated. Big shops that used to have lots of staff have either closed completely or have so few members of staff you can search for ages to find one. We have lots of people chasing fewer and fewer jobs, and a lot of the jobs are low paid, with little or no chance of any kind of career progression. I am so glad I'm retired, and despair for my children and grandchildren, who will have life so much harder.

Quine0nline · 26/02/2026 17:01

And yet there is a huge shortage of personnel joining the armed forces. It's not necessary to serve 22 years. Many just served four. A training in electronics, computers, clerical, logistics and technology. It's not all infantry and guns. Medical personnel - the training and experience all look good on a CV. Opens a lot of networking opportunities too.

ScarletPower · 26/02/2026 16:59

When I think back to how many employers my City had even 10 years ago, there was plenty of decent jobs for 16-18 school leavers - I don't mean high paying, but office jobs, call centres, admin work etc..jobs that gave you an income to pay your mum and dad some board, save some and spend the rest on clothes and fun things, and give you the experience to eventually get promoted or move elsewhere for better money etc... However, one by one these large employers either went out of business, or technology has meant they have reduced staffing, call centres have outsourced jobs. Unless you get a public sector job or have a friend working somewhere who puts a word in for you, you've no chance.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 16:58

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:53

If this is all true, what about the many "covid" young people who ARE working/contributing towards our society. They lived through this as well!!

But in any situation some survive and some fall to the side.

What a pointless comment. We need to rescue them to sustain the economy.

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:56

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:53

If this is all true, what about the many "covid" young people who ARE working/contributing towards our society. They lived through this as well!!

Of course there are, because there are lots of sensible people out there too. Thank fuck.

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:54

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 16:50

I don’t agree. One of the main reasons I don’t agree is I was educating my kids at home during covid while my partner went to work every day. Neither of us were Covid Walking Cunts aimlessly wandering through the countryside or riding a bloody Peloton or buying a dog or endlessly baking or whatever other ridiculous shit people were doing over that period.

As a result I have two kids who are completely unscathed by Covid. In fact it ended up doing me a huge favour as I realised how behind educationally my older child was and I was able to catch him up to the point that he’s now top sets and hopefully on his way to a decent set of exam results.

I like Covid Walking Cunts as a term 😆
And I’m glad you managed to turn things around for your child.

Playingvideogames · 26/02/2026 16:53

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:51

My point isn’t a pro or anti lockdown post - it is what it is, and what happened, happened. My issue is that we have utterly failed young people, by just expecting them to pick back up where they left off. In many hundreds of thousands of cases, they watched their parents on furlough sit in the garden and get paid to do absolutely nothing for months on end, yet now we criticise them when they think they’re too good for an entry level role. That’s if they aren’t being criticised because their parents are on benefits so they are now too.
Kids learn what they live, and half the time they’ve turned out they way they have because their parents were not perhaps the role models they so often pat themselves on the back for. We owe it to them to demand much more from our leaders so they at least have half a chance of a life like we’ve had.

You’re placing WAY too much value on ‘monkey see monkey do’. My mum didn’t work when I was a kid, but I’m a working mum. My dad was an alcoholic, I’m not.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:53

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

Edited

If this is all true, what about the many "covid" young people who ARE working/contributing towards our society. They lived through this as well!!

RhaenysRocks · 26/02/2026 16:52

PrismRain · 26/02/2026 15:00

I have two cousins aged 17 & 18, both studying, both working part time in B&Q. My niece is a student, also working part time in a bar. There are jobs out there if you put in the effort to get one. When I was a student I got two part time jobs by walking into shops and asking if they had any jobs going. I’m also diagnosed autistic and it was very difficult to do it but I needed money so I had to force myself to do it despite how uncomfortable and stressful it was. Initiative and genuine need to survive seems to have escaped a lot of young people nowadays. They are mollycoddled and have been raised with ridiculously unrealistic expectations about what they should expect from life at the launch stage.

The systems have changed. You've literally got people on here saying their young person is doing everything they can but just not getting anywhere. No sentence that starts 'young people today are all, or mostly are crap and lazy and entitled' is fair.

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:51

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 16:43

I was pro lockdown though😬

They just needed support to reintegrate. But nothing happened.

My point isn’t a pro or anti lockdown post - it is what it is, and what happened, happened. My issue is that we have utterly failed young people, by just expecting them to pick back up where they left off. In many hundreds of thousands of cases, they watched their parents on furlough sit in the garden and get paid to do absolutely nothing for months on end, yet now we criticise them when they think they’re too good for an entry level role. That’s if they aren’t being criticised because their parents are on benefits so they are now too.
Kids learn what they live, and half the time they’ve turned out they way they have because their parents were not perhaps the role models they so often pat themselves on the back for. We owe it to them to demand much more from our leaders so they at least have half a chance of a life like we’ve had.

WhenWillItBeSpringAgain · 26/02/2026 16:51

It’s strange because I swear only a few years ago everyone was saying we need more and more immigration because we have no young people to do the jobs.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 16:50

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

Edited

I don’t agree. One of the main reasons I don’t agree is I was educating my kids at home during covid while my partner went to work every day. Neither of us were Covid Walking Cunts aimlessly wandering through the countryside or riding a bloody Peloton or buying a dog or endlessly baking or whatever other ridiculous shit people were doing over that period.

As a result I have two kids who are completely unscathed by Covid. In fact it ended up doing me a huge favour as I realised how behind educationally my older child was and I was able to catch him up to the point that he’s now top sets and hopefully on his way to a decent set of exam results.

frozendaisy · 26/02/2026 16:48

Mintearo7 · 26/02/2026 16:40

The employment landscape has changed massively, physical retail and hospitality are dying industries so why look for jobs there, and formal employment is never going to be the same for young people. People of our generation turn their nose up at kids wanting to be you tubers but tbh, I think good on those that are trying their luck, gaining skills in digital content creation, and earning some money. The advantage that young people have over what we did is online information and training at their fingertips. A lot of skills can be self-taught, including staying ahead of AI. Yes it might not lead to the perfect permanent job but I do think those who can demonstrate continuous self- learning and creativity network will eventually see success via a mixture of permanent and temporary opportunities.

But replace people going out drinking with gyms, instead of shopping many more people get beauty treatments.

Theatres are full, some restaurants still thrive, there is a huge rise in delivery food, people still need to make it.

Things change but there are still service jobs.

YourSassyPanda · 26/02/2026 16:47

I think this is so area dependent. My 16 year old is doing his GCSEs this year and did a fitness type qualification in the first half term after his birthday which cost a couple of hundred pounds. He then walked into a part time job a week later and has been offered several more since. Admittedly this won’t be his main career but he is at least able to make money through it and can work for himself if needs be. We need to help set our kids up where we can, especially if we know it’s grim out there.

Autumngirl5 · 26/02/2026 16:47

A family member of mine is almost 24 and has never worked. His girlfriend who has a child has also never worked. They both live on benefits and it’s hard to understand why they can collect benefits every year and no inventive to have a job. They are both healthy and well.

BIossomtoes · 26/02/2026 16:46

MrsLizzieDarcy · 26/02/2026 16:39

Benefits should never give an equivalent lifestyle to working, and until we address that ... nothing will change.

Good thing they’re not the equivalent then. A single person gets £100 a week, that’s £5.2k. Minimum wage is over £26k.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:46

Maybe they are all just overeducated😱

Pointofsingularity · 26/02/2026 16:45

TallulahBetty · 26/02/2026 16:34

Yeah well we're all pretty fed up tbf

Working our arses off and being taxed to the hilt

Well said!

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 16:43

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

Edited

I was pro lockdown though😬

They just needed support to reintegrate. But nothing happened.

Another2Cats · 26/02/2026 16:42

easysundaytea · 26/02/2026 14:20

My child is one of them. Applying every day for jobs, working in a charity shop three days a week. Not signing on. 7 months now

Might I say that not signing on is not a good idea at all.

As a single person, presumably living at home, they will get £316.98 per month. But, more than that, they will also get free prescriptions, free NHS dental treatment (if you can actually find an NHS dentist that is), free NHS eye tests and help with the cost of glasses or contact lenses.

Importantly, you are also credited for NI payments. What this means is that these credits count towards your pension eligilibility. I know that your DC won't be thinking about a state pension at the moment but it does help to have these extra NI credits.

The Job Centre can also help with things like paying towards interview clothing if they have nothing suitable or helping with the costs of travelling to an interview.

ohdelay · 26/02/2026 16:42

jojogwangwan · 26/02/2026 16:37

That’s crazy, hire someone who could be a total liability then you can’t sack them wtf?

They could swan off sick immediately and get sick pay. Sounded great when it was framed as worker rights but with a bit more thought this should have been easily forseeable. In fact it was, but they did it anyway.

Boomer55 · 26/02/2026 16:41

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/02/2026 13:32

Labour won't bring in compulsory work placements. All the shitty schemes in the World won't make a jot of difference when it now costs so much to employ young people.

The deal forever has been "yes, you are young, have no experience, will mess up, will take time to train.......but you are cheap so I will take you on and see how you go". That's not the case anymore. My company always took on school leavers but we haven't done that for years. Might as well employ somebody experienced. And the last thing I would want is some divvy who is forced to be here on a compulsory placement.

Over generous benefits don't help either. Welfare should be slashed.

This. The jobless figures would improve if people who have never paid in, weren't paid just to sit in their bums. 🙄

Mintearo7 · 26/02/2026 16:40

The employment landscape has changed massively, physical retail and hospitality are dying industries so why look for jobs there, and formal employment is never going to be the same for young people. People of our generation turn their nose up at kids wanting to be you tubers but tbh, I think good on those that are trying their luck, gaining skills in digital content creation, and earning some money. The advantage that young people have over what we did is online information and training at their fingertips. A lot of skills can be self-taught, including staying ahead of AI. Yes it might not lead to the perfect permanent job but I do think those who can demonstrate continuous self- learning and creativity network will eventually see success via a mixture of permanent and temporary opportunities.

LakieLady · 26/02/2026 16:40

Welfare is meant to be a cover for when people hit difficult times not a way of life.

Some people are permanently having "difficult times" though @Rainbow1901 .

My brother is bipolar and it is only controlled by monthly depot injections that turn him into a zombie for the first couple of weeks. Then he has a few days of being more or less ok until he starts to get delusional and hyper for the last week.

He's 60 and hasn't been able to work for decades. He last had a job in his late twenties or early 30s.

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