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Nearly 1m young people out of work

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Starfeesh · 26/02/2026 13:21

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

AIBU to be concerned that a life on benefits seems to be a viable option, and glad Labour are bringing in compulsory work placements?

A young man looks at his phone while sitting at a computer in his home. He looks weary.

Young people out of work, training and education edges closer to one million

People at the start of their careers are particularly affected by the UK's weak job market.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

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Avantiagain · 26/02/2026 17:47

That was my son for 6 months age 17. His specialist school ended his placement with 2 months notice saying they could not meet need. He had an EHCP but LA provided no education. I was caring 24/7. He is severely autistic and will never be independent or be able to work. It only ended when I got solicitors involved.

HoskinsChoice · 26/02/2026 17:47

I would like them to go a step further and make sure ALL people who are on benefits are put on work and training schemes. Obviously not those who have a disability. But anyone who is not working at all or who is working part-time should be helped into getting off benefits.

BillyBand · 26/02/2026 17:47

Playingvideogames · 26/02/2026 14:42

We can’t turn the clock back and stop Covid from happening.

It wasn’t just Covid, numbers of NEETS (not in employment, education or training) were rising before then. Covid exacerbated the problem.

Toxic systems and the doubling down of them.

caringcarer · 26/02/2026 17:45

Labour have caused the problem by RR increasing the minimum wage at same time as increasing business rates. She is clueless on businesses.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 17:41

Bargepole45 · 26/02/2026 17:38

This is an important point.

Ultimately I think we have got to a place with a lot of young people where they just aren't willing to do stuff that they don't want to do and there is no longer an expectation that you just have to crack on with stuff. They see themselves as the ultimate consumer and think society is there to serve them. The entitlement is through the roof in lots of cases and there is an obsession with their rights, mental health and wellbeing.

You see that at school level too. So many kids dropping out of school to do not a lot at home because they apparently can't cope in school. The reality is that many find getting up hard, hate being told what to do and frankly just don't enjoy school. Unlike in previous generations, they now have the belief that it is entirely optional and that you can just avoid school based obligations if you find them difficult or unpleasant. Is it a suprise that young people find it almost impossible to imagine themselves doing work that there are labour shortages such as care work? This involves putting other people first, having real responsibility and obligations and doing some quite unpleasant things that would be conceptually difficult for them to get their heads around. They are used to being the ones calling the shots.

But they have been raised by their parents. Probably some of whom are posting on here. And they’ve been raised in the current society.

So tell me why it exactly is the fault of young people? They are a product of their upbringing and wider society.

TallulahBetty · 26/02/2026 17:39

easysundaytea · 26/02/2026 14:20

My child is one of them. Applying every day for jobs, working in a charity shop three days a week. Not signing on. 7 months now

That is plain foolish. Why isn't he signing on? He is missing out on NI stamps

Friendlygingercat · 26/02/2026 17:39

The careers service was quite good when I left school in 1960. They directed me towards the civil service which was a good solid career choice then. Unfortunately I did not like the job. I was sitting in an office working out benefit claims. I left to work as a library assistant. My parents would never have allowed me to sit on my backside at home. All the time I was waiting for my civil service appointment they were pestering me to "get a job" and directing my attention to shops and factories. All they were interested in was to have my paycheck and not to help me get into a career. It was my grandmother who helped me with advice for my civil service job interview.

Bargepole45 · 26/02/2026 17:38

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:53

If this is all true, what about the many "covid" young people who ARE working/contributing towards our society. They lived through this as well!!

This is an important point.

Ultimately I think we have got to a place with a lot of young people where they just aren't willing to do stuff that they don't want to do and there is no longer an expectation that you just have to crack on with stuff. They see themselves as the ultimate consumer and think society is there to serve them. The entitlement is through the roof in lots of cases and there is an obsession with their rights, mental health and wellbeing.

You see that at school level too. So many kids dropping out of school to do not a lot at home because they apparently can't cope in school. The reality is that many find getting up hard, hate being told what to do and frankly just don't enjoy school. Unlike in previous generations, they now have the belief that it is entirely optional and that you can just avoid school based obligations if you find them difficult or unpleasant. Is it a suprise that young people find it almost impossible to imagine themselves doing work that there are labour shortages such as care work? This involves putting other people first, having real responsibility and obligations and doing some quite unpleasant things that would be conceptually difficult for them to get their heads around. They are used to being the ones calling the shots.

ShhDontTellAnyoneItsASecret · 26/02/2026 17:38

YourSassyPanda · 26/02/2026 16:47

I think this is so area dependent. My 16 year old is doing his GCSEs this year and did a fitness type qualification in the first half term after his birthday which cost a couple of hundred pounds. He then walked into a part time job a week later and has been offered several more since. Admittedly this won’t be his main career but he is at least able to make money through it and can work for himself if needs be. We need to help set our kids up where we can, especially if we know it’s grim out there.

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It's more likely to be because he was proactive in making himself employable and stand out from the crowd rather than the area.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 17:37

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:54

I like Covid Walking Cunts as a term 😆
And I’m glad you managed to turn things around for your child.

We still call them the WCs 🤣. Bloody loads of them wandering around locally. Sometimes in the road. It was like the day of the Zombies.

babyproblems · 26/02/2026 17:36

I think pay is so low, people at the top earn far too much- more than their fair share for certain - and houses are so utterly unaffordable, having a family so out of reach, that most young people think why bother…

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 17:35

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:51

My point isn’t a pro or anti lockdown post - it is what it is, and what happened, happened. My issue is that we have utterly failed young people, by just expecting them to pick back up where they left off. In many hundreds of thousands of cases, they watched their parents on furlough sit in the garden and get paid to do absolutely nothing for months on end, yet now we criticise them when they think they’re too good for an entry level role. That’s if they aren’t being criticised because their parents are on benefits so they are now too.
Kids learn what they live, and half the time they’ve turned out they way they have because their parents were not perhaps the role models they so often pat themselves on the back for. We owe it to them to demand much more from our leaders so they at least have half a chance of a life like we’ve had.

I think to that end WFH has actually been disastrous. Kids just see their parents sitting at home, often still in their nightwear or wrapped in some blanket supposedly working. My parents got up early, put on suits and went to work.

NoMoreCoffeePlease · 26/02/2026 17:29

Whoa. Not impressed with some of the posts here putting the blame on young people as some sort of homogenous group of snowflakes and benefit exploiters. Just be grateful that you are in work and have the opportunity to pay towards our collective benefit system - your redundancy or disability might be just round the corner and you might rely on it it soon, too.

As for the young people themselves:

  1. Working from home / hybrid roles have made it more difficult for young people to learn from their more senior colleagues, get proper training, or promotions
  2. The number of retail and hospitality (as well as public sector, education, and even nhs) jobs has decreased massively due to the economic climate.
  3. Getting a degree is increasingly becoming meaningless as there is too much competition (and it's too easy to get a degree)
  4. AI has made experienced people more productive, meaning a single person now does the job of 4-5 people, decreasing the size of the job market - and this will only get worse
  5. There are not enough junior roles available regardless, and since the minimum wage has increased, employers prefer hiring more experienced people for the same money
  6. There have been mass redundancies at bigger firms meaning there is a lot more competition for roles
  7. Wages have stagnated, people spend less, prices are up
  8. Prices are up, houses are unaffordable even for those on a good income, meaning young people are forced to stay at home
  9. World politics, the threat of war, natural crises are all making us more depressed
  10. Going out is now too expensive, so people stay at home more, increasing their social isolation
  11. We are all addicted to our mobile phones, our brains aren't activated sufficiently, and this has increased social anxiety in younger generations especially
  12. Social media and television show a world of fakeness (influencers, love island...) which makes certain younger people feel like outliers.
  13. Younger people are less confident and more prone to blaming issues on their mental health challenges, creating a divide with older generations who are more likely to have a 'roll the sleeves up and get on with it' attitude
  14. Even startups now don't hire as many people as they used to - see recent news article.
  15. We all expect the younger generation to not rely on benefits, but also not live at home, without actually offering them the opportunity to get sufficient income to build up a life
  16. We have expectations of work (9am-6pm, work hard, stay late) that are outdated as there really isn't a reason we should all work factory hours and barely spend time with loved ones. Good on the younger generations for challenging this.
  17. We are all victims of corporate greed, we are slaves to a system where we are led to blame others, rather than challenge those in power to re-establish fair systems with equal opportunities.
nearlylovemyusername · 26/02/2026 17:20

Catza · 26/02/2026 16:06

They are not all without qualifications either, I imagine. Some of them ought to be graduates who can't find suitable jobs but are reluctant to take on other roles. We do have industries who struggle to fill vacancies. But I can't imagine anything worse than compulsory placement in something like social care as you'd want a person to... care.

who's talking about social care? they can pick litter, fruits, etc

There are plenty of jobs for which we have to import immigrants from poor countries en masse

tramtracks · 26/02/2026 17:19

RhaenysRocks · 26/02/2026 16:52

The systems have changed. You've literally got people on here saying their young person is doing everything they can but just not getting anywhere. No sentence that starts 'young people today are all, or mostly are crap and lazy and entitled' is fair.

This.
My dd has finally got a job - after completing a stem degree at UCL followed by a masters. She has an admin job in London. Basically reception work - the requirement for that job was a 2.1 from a Russel group uni and AAB at A level. 5 interviews later she got the job. Her school
grades are almost all A*s.
She had applied for around 200 jobs over the last year. She’s 24.

The job market is incomparable to when we graduated. It’s absolutely on its knees for 18-25 year olds.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 17:16

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 17:12

Why is it a pointless comment, pray tell?

Because the ones that were ok were ok. They aren’t costing anything in benefits and less likely to be unemployed.

It’s the ones who fell apart at Covid who need focusing on.

somuchbedding · 26/02/2026 17:16

I think it’s makes sense the figs are inline with the financial crash as economically we are in tougher place & there has been little investment in children & young people since the crash.

frozendaisy · 26/02/2026 17:16

Covid was a disaster for some youngsters

Those who had just started university- at the time we said we would have pulled ours out, paid the year and delayed until universities reopened.

It was hard for those who had sat gcse and a’level mocks and then got told their grades would be based on those (like how many pull their socks up and knuckle down for the real things? Everyone I gave ever known until that point!)

And the ones for whom school is safer, warmer, better fed than home.

Some of those NEET numbers are those people.

jojogwangwan · 26/02/2026 17:15

ElBandito · 26/02/2026 17:08

The job outlook for young teens is dire. It's not just about benefits. 16 and 17 year old don't get benefits. So many of them want a part time job that used to be a rite of passage growing up. But they can't get them.

It's expensive to pay anyone, let alone inexperienced young teens who take time to train. And, if the threads on here are to be believed, absolutely no fucker is willing to go into the office to train them.

There are fewer of the traditional teen opportunities as shops and restaurants shut. Supermarket used to take on loads of teens, they still take some but not in the same volume, they are desperately trying to reduce their payroll and a lot drastically reduced their temporary Christmas staff let alone the normal day to day staff. The smaller pop-in shops also require their staff to be over 16 because of the licensing laws.

So many 'older' people are taking on a second job, or maybe a job at the weekend when the other half can look after the kids. And they will get preference over a wet behind the ears teen because they have experience and can hit the ground running.

My paper boy is a 60+ year old retiree for crying out loud, he needs the little bit extra to make ends meet and he's more reliable than many teens might be.

They certainly can get benefits if they’ve got asd/adhd/another kind of disability. Dsd and her bf both adhd, both get high rate pip! They’re living the life (in their minds)

somuchbedding · 26/02/2026 17:13

Is there a break down by age because there is a lot of difference between a 17 yr old & a 24 yr old.
How many are claiming benefits?

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 17:12

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 16:58

But in any situation some survive and some fall to the side.

What a pointless comment. We need to rescue them to sustain the economy.

Why is it a pointless comment, pray tell?

Another2Cats · 26/02/2026 17:10

Kadiofakit · 26/02/2026 14:46

Why is not housing benefit ever included? if your rent is covered by housing benefit the rest is to live on. It's not much but everyone I come across who's on benefits don't seem to count that their rent is actually bloody paid for

Rent may not always be fully covered. For a person under 25 the rent is based on renting one bedroom in a shared house. For a single person over 25 it is based on renting a one bed home.

But the full rent may not be paid. Each local authority has a "Local Housing Allowance" (LHA). This is calculated by taking the cheapest 30% rent.

So, if you line up all the one bed properties for rent in a particular area from cheapest up to most expensive then the LHA is the rent for the home that is 30% along from the cheapest.

For the area I live in, the LHA for a one bed property is £575 per month and for shared accommodation is £345 per month.

So, for example, where I live the median rent for a one bed property is around £800 per month and there are no flats for rent for less than £600. A single person over 25 would get £575 in housing costs and would have to pay the rest of the rent themselves.

Even shared accommodation costs £500 - £600 for a shared room.

Bikergran · 26/02/2026 17:10

Quine0nline · 26/02/2026 17:01

And yet there is a huge shortage of personnel joining the armed forces. It's not necessary to serve 22 years. Many just served four. A training in electronics, computers, clerical, logistics and technology. It's not all infantry and guns. Medical personnel - the training and experience all look good on a CV. Opens a lot of networking opportunities too.

But they are all soldiers, and could be called on in time of war. Which seems a lot more likely currently than in the past. I am the first generation of my family for over 150 years not to serve in the military, which was not by choice, but because of horrendously poor eyesight. Perhaps because of this family history I am acutely aware of the dangers, and while I would not oppose a child or grandchild joining up if they really wanted to, I wouldn't suggest it.

ElBandito · 26/02/2026 17:08

The job outlook for young teens is dire. It's not just about benefits. 16 and 17 year old don't get benefits. So many of them want a part time job that used to be a rite of passage growing up. But they can't get them.

It's expensive to pay anyone, let alone inexperienced young teens who take time to train. And, if the threads on here are to be believed, absolutely no fucker is willing to go into the office to train them.

There are fewer of the traditional teen opportunities as shops and restaurants shut. Supermarket used to take on loads of teens, they still take some but not in the same volume, they are desperately trying to reduce their payroll and a lot drastically reduced their temporary Christmas staff let alone the normal day to day staff. The smaller pop-in shops also require their staff to be over 16 because of the licensing laws.

So many 'older' people are taking on a second job, or maybe a job at the weekend when the other half can look after the kids. And they will get preference over a wet behind the ears teen because they have experience and can hit the ground running.

My paper boy is a 60+ year old retiree for crying out loud, he needs the little bit extra to make ends meet and he's more reliable than many teens might be.

x2boys · 26/02/2026 17:08

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

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We were protecting the NHS not the elderly
My kids barely remember the pandemic
Yes it was rough for a couple of years but we cant blame everything on lockdown

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