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Nearly 1m young people out of work

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Starfeesh · 26/02/2026 13:21

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

AIBU to be concerned that a life on benefits seems to be a viable option, and glad Labour are bringing in compulsory work placements?

A young man looks at his phone while sitting at a computer in his home. He looks weary.

Young people out of work, training and education edges closer to one million

People at the start of their careers are particularly affected by the UK's weak job market.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

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ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 26/02/2026 23:31

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 23:11

A long term health problem is SEND.

Ok. Sorry. I'm not familiar with it.

I don't know the full story with regards to their situation but I should imagine there's some such support there. At least, I hope there is.

TheCompactPussycat · 26/02/2026 23:25

FindingMeno · 26/02/2026 14:15

It actually really has angered me hearing what is being said about young people on here.
Far from being the lazy,skiving, ambitionless characters being portrayed here, I've seen huge resilience, discipline and determination.
It's been a really tough time for young adults, with covid, the cost of living rises hitting their parents ability to help out, the terrible job market, the housing crisis, wars and genocide, background talk of war and conscription, lack of driving tests if they are able to learn to drive, a collapsing NHS, the rise of the far right, the stifling of protest, the criminality of so many rich and powerful, the climate being systematically destroyed, and on and on.
Don't ask what they're doing for themselves.
Ask how badly they've been let down.

(*Edited to say I didn't intend to quote this post)

This thread is so depressing.

Sure, there are workshy young people these days. There were workshy kids in the 80s when I was that age and there were workshy kids at every point in between. However, there are no more workshy kids than there have ever been.

Times have changed and it simply is harder to find jobs these days. For many reasons, almost none of which are the fault of young people. For example:

• The retirement age has risen and there is no longer a statutory retirement age so people can carry on working for longer - fewer openings for new staff
• Automation (and now AI) means fewer staff are needed for the same amount of work (in the early 1990s, 30+ checkout staff would work on a Saturday in Sainsbury's in my town. These days it's more like 7).
• Increasing numbers of women return to work after maternity leave rather than being SAHM.
• And yes, too many new expenses on employers too soon (Employer's NI, NMW rises, increased employment rights). None of them are unreasonable but together over a short period of time, they have spooked employers who have put the brakes on recruitment.

None of this is the fault of young people though.

Allisnotlost1 · 26/02/2026 23:21

OnlyTheBravest · 26/02/2026 23:08

I am not here to benefits bash but I generally do not understand how young adults have been allowed to languish on benefits.

One half have been told go to university and leave with a large debt (at least 50k, which they pay interest on even before they have left uni), the other half can claim money despite never paying into the system and do not have to pay it back. Then we tell those have found a job that as soon as they start working they have to pay tax and pay back the loan and save up for a house deposit/pay rent and save into a pension, meanwhile the other half are now out of the habit of working and have increased mental/physical health issues that mean they qualify for higher payments and a fully paid for car and social housing (yes, they may have to wait but at least they make it onto the list).

The system needs to be looked at as a whole; education, jobs, benefits, housing and cost of living. They are all connected, you can not tinker with one without affecting the other.

Agree with a lot of what you say but I don’t think anyone is getting a fully paid for car are they?

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 23:11

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 26/02/2026 23:10

Sorry, i don't know if she does. Is it just applicable for those with SEN? Or more for anyone with a long term health problem?

A long term health problem is SEND.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 26/02/2026 23:10

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 23:08

Does this girl have an EHCp?

Sorry, i don't know if she does. Is it just applicable for those with SEN? Or more for anyone with a long term health problem?

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 23:08

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 26/02/2026 22:58

My DH has a friend who's been on benefits for a long time, many years and since her daughter was very young.

AFAIK, the friend is in fairly good health. Possibly a long term back problem, but nothing that would mentally stop her from finding and holding down a job. She's been on benefits for nearly 15 years, and I sympathise that she's a single mum whose partner passed away from cancer, which is obviously very sad.

But I fear for her daughter, who isn't well either, possibly with ME or some form of Long Covid. This again, extremely sad to hear, but I know she is very bright and could have easily worked hard to achieve all excellent GCSEs. Unfortunately, her poor health has meant she took no exams at all, and now aged 18 has no qualifications and not even maths or English.

I know it's nothing to do with me really at all, and when I raise it with my DH, he just brushes it off and says it's sad, but we have enough of our own things to worry about (which is true). I just know that there might be an element of the mum almost not wanting her daughter to do well, go and get on in life, perhaps she's wanting to see her stay at home and keep her company.

I see a young person whose future is uncertain, with a mum who's not worked and shown a good role model. It makes me feel very sad there is so much potential to do well, but if she wants to do anything with GCSEs, there's not even money to pay for exams now.

Circumstances aside, sometimes the parents are the best example of how maybe not to do things.

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Does this girl have an EHCp?

OnlyTheBravest · 26/02/2026 23:08

I am not here to benefits bash but I generally do not understand how young adults have been allowed to languish on benefits.

One half have been told go to university and leave with a large debt (at least 50k, which they pay interest on even before they have left uni), the other half can claim money despite never paying into the system and do not have to pay it back. Then we tell those have found a job that as soon as they start working they have to pay tax and pay back the loan and save up for a house deposit/pay rent and save into a pension, meanwhile the other half are now out of the habit of working and have increased mental/physical health issues that mean they qualify for higher payments and a fully paid for car and social housing (yes, they may have to wait but at least they make it onto the list).

The system needs to be looked at as a whole; education, jobs, benefits, housing and cost of living. They are all connected, you can not tinker with one without affecting the other.

SouthernNights59 · 26/02/2026 23:08

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 21:49

But none of those were kept inside with no contact.

And there was terrible trauma after both world wars.

I grew up in the 60’s and 70’s and 80’s. I don’t remeber the Cold War having much impact apart from going on CND marches.

Dh comes from a big mining family. There was a massive sense of community that pulled people through.

Your examples don’t really match up.

Kept inside with no contact

There has never been a time when it has been so possible to be in contact with others without leaving your own living room!

And of course there was terrible trauma after both world wars, however people still had to carry on as best they could. I'm pretty sure going to school and finding some of your friends had been killed by a bomb was worse than being confined to your house (and no-one was actually confined, they could go out for exercise) for a few months. Ditto your father, brother, uncle being killed in battle, or other family members being killed in raids and/or losing your home.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 26/02/2026 22:58

My DH has a friend who's been on benefits for a long time, many years and since her daughter was very young.

AFAIK, the friend is in fairly good health. Possibly a long term back problem, but nothing that would mentally stop her from finding and holding down a job. She's been on benefits for nearly 15 years, and I sympathise that she's a single mum whose partner passed away from cancer, which is obviously very sad.

But I fear for her daughter, who isn't well either, possibly with ME or some form of Long Covid. This again, extremely sad to hear, but I know she is very bright and could have easily worked hard to achieve all excellent GCSEs. Unfortunately, her poor health has meant she took no exams at all, and now aged 18 has no qualifications and not even maths or English.

I know it's nothing to do with me really at all, and when I raise it with my DH, he just brushes it off and says it's sad, but we have enough of our own things to worry about (which is true). I just know that there might be an element of the mum almost not wanting her daughter to do well, go and get on in life, perhaps she's wanting to see her stay at home and keep her company.

I see a young person whose future is uncertain, with a mum who's not worked and shown a good role model. It makes me feel very sad there is so much potential to do well, but if she wants to do anything with GCSEs, there's not even money to pay for exams now.

Circumstances aside, sometimes the parents are the best example of how maybe not to do things.

frozendaisy · 26/02/2026 22:27

Allisnotlost1 · 26/02/2026 21:22

Do you think a weed smoking, lazy gamer who’s “good at FIFA” deserves a trainee football coaching position over someone who has spent hundreds of hours gaining badges and certificates, studying and working evenings, plus refereeing at the weekend?

Comments like this just don’t make me think you’re posting in good faith.

One of the key things in your post is that you’ve acknowledged that you could ‘bank roll’ your kids. Well not everyone can. And unfortunately there is a chunk of those 1m kids out of ETE whose parents can’t afford for them to do coaching and reffing for free every weekend, can’t transport them to volunteer on a farm at 13, and plenty of farms that wouldn’t take on an unknown 13 year old. And they can’t afford for them to be in school or FE either, so the kid goes on benefits and is then stuck. You think you’re educating them on how hard life is? Of course you’re not, their life is shit from the get go. It doesn’t matter how hard they work, plenty of them will not make it without changes they are not in control of.

People think the same opportunities should just happen for everyone and think if you hurt someone’s feelings by asking them to fill out a form you are a very bad person.

Nobody has said that and again, it’s hard to imagine you’re posting in good faith, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt. It’s not about hurting someone’s feelings, it’s about making changes that could improve chances for some struggling young people, which are ultimately good for us all. I don’t want to pay for 1m and rising young people to be workless forever, and I realise that sitting there shouting ‘work harder’ isn’t going to fix it. I don’t think you have looked past the end of your nose if you think the experience of just your kids is universal.

We can bank roll their teenage years not their whole lives and they know this - and boy oh boy do they know the terms and conditions of our financial support. It’s not unconditional. They have targets.

We are attempting to instil a work ethic and resilience in them whilst we can. They started their volunteering litter picking - anyone anywhere can start a group doing that. It’s whether you do or don’t.

We as parents are their bed, food, heat, wi-fi. We expect them to revise and do their homework. We expect their behaviour in and out of the house to be polite and decent.

Everyone gets free education up to 18. You can use online resources instead of playing or surfing online to revise and study.

It’s not like competition for decent jobs hasn’t been around for a while or even the importance of scraping a pass in a handful of GCSEs.

Uk schooling and the internet has levelled the playing field. The newly rich (if you want to judge by money) has come about from geeks being able to do stuff, nudging out the old boy’s network in some ways. Employment has never been fair.

We fed/feed and have revision sessions here for a few friends whose family life might not place as much importance on academic results as we do. That was fun!

Too many people make excuses, or wait for the government to produce perfect solutions in a far from perfect world.

If you are 16 and can’t get a job stay in education.

There is more computing power in a mobile phone than they landed on the moon with. It’s what you do with what you have that matters not what you have.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 26/02/2026 22:25

somuchbedding · 26/02/2026 22:18

@ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere this whole thread is full of posters blaming younger people & calling them entitled etc. I just pointed out that the economically inactive figures include 3.5m of 50-64 yr olds with a large proportion of that group stating ill health/disability as the reason. Highlighting that isn’t the same as apportioning blame…but i appreciate the apology.

Yes, and I don't endorse that either. I would only add that illness and disability is much more likely as we age. I just wish there was less pitting of groups against each other full stop 😊.

somuchbedding · 26/02/2026 22:18

@ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere this whole thread is full of posters blaming younger people & calling them entitled etc. I just pointed out that the economically inactive figures include 3.5m of 50-64 yr olds with a large proportion of that group stating ill health/disability as the reason. Highlighting that isn’t the same as apportioning blame…but i appreciate the apology.

somuchbedding · 26/02/2026 22:12

If they brought the retirement age down there would be more jobs

State pension isn’t affordable though hence why retirement is now 68

Still not affordable though!

KitTea3 · 26/02/2026 22:12

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 17:50

Young people just reflect the circumstances and parents who brought them up. It’s not really anyone’s fault, apart from society as a whole.

But if l was them l wouldn’t work long hours for a shit wage and no chance of buying a house either.

That's a bit simplistic though and also actually in my own case completely incorrect.

My parents have always worked. When my bio parents divorced my mum as a single mum worked her arse off full time to keep a roof over our heads.

I genuinely didn't even KNOW of the existence of benefits bar vaguely having heard about "the dole" which wasn't for people like..us?

I never knew you got help if you're were too unwell to work etc.

It was drilled into us that if you wanted anything in life...you worked. So I, and all of my siblings had jobs from as soon as we could (16 for me and my younger sisters both had jobs from 15).

I've actually suffered from severe mental illness since I was 11. I was very badly bullied as a child which unfortunately led to very severe depression and anxiety which led me to be suicidal and self harming by aged 12. At the worst of that I didn't even think I'd live to 16. As it happens I did, and yes I then did what I was supposed to and got a part time job, in retail...

...back in the days where you got paid £3 and hour and god forbid your till was down cos they'd be docking your wages. I was supposed to just be a weekend worker but I was constantly being called in to work every hour they needed. Including during my GCSEs. I still remember them having a go at me for saying I couldnt do a weekday shift as I was literally sitting my exams. We were as young people on a whole treated like shit.

And actually all of it basically was what led to my first suicide attempt. But don't worry my mum was no pushover, she insisted I still went to work the day after the attempt because it would "look bad to call in sick" 🫠

In fact when I applied to uni I got zero support as she very much insisted I did not in any way shape or form tell them I was mentally ill as "they might reject you".

So i did the whole uni thing with zero support, had a pretty fucking bad time of it (witha lots of self harm and suicidal ideation), though did by some small miracle actually graduate 😬

So obviously after uni...you have to get a job! And I, was not in ANY way aware part time work could have been an option..instead I'd been brought up to believe if you worked, you worked full time. End of. In retrospect had I know I could have worked part time and gotten help for my mental illness I actually probably wouldn't have lost that job or experience what happened to me. As it was being very mentally ill I point blank was unable to cope with working full time. So once again I attempted suicide. Did actually almost work, however obviously as a result I then lost my job. And then I was fucked. I didn't know what to do

As stupid as this sounds, I came out of the meeting to tell me I no longer had a job and obviously still being suicidal I remember calling a helpline. They were the ones who advised me to go to the jobcentre to ask for help.

So I did. Had never been on one before. Had no clue what to do. Spoke to someone and told them I was ill, suicidal and had lost my job. They got me an ESA form to fill in (and then got angry and shouted at me for not knowing my national insurance number by heart-after many year of DWP you very much will remember it 😬). I ended up being put into the support group under the severe risk factor (and was always awarded that first time no appeals based on extensive medical evidence)

That then basically in addition to me being taken under the CMHT team led to me basically being declared too unwell to work for the next 3 1/2 years. The difference to now is the ACTUAL help I got. I think I've posted before but for that entire period, I had an NHS psychiatrist I saw every month, I had a community psychiatric nurse I saw every week, I had an occupational therapist I saw every few months, and I saw my (same) GP weekly for support also. After 3 1/2 years I felt well enough to try and work again

Because actually for me..that was the most important thing. ALL I wanted when I was too unwell to work (and after many times being told I might never be well enough to work again) was to be back in work and have a job. Cos to me...work
.having a job...was what "normal" people did.

And thankfully 13 years ago my current employer gave me a chance. And they've been very supportive with Occ healh and adjustments to enable me to KEEP working.

TheKeatingFive · 26/02/2026 22:08

Octavia64 · 26/02/2026 22:04

Of course some people are.

i used to teach at a school that was the local hub for physically disabled students so we had quite a few kids in wheelchairs.

quite a lot of them had problems learning - sometimes Down’s, one lad had hydrocephalus, cerebral palsy, etc etc. some of them had learnt to read and write but quite a few handn’t.

these neets will include young people who are severely disabled and some won’t be able to read or write (and some will be non verbal and use assistive communication).

in theory having an EHCP means you can stay in education until 25 but there is a significant shortage of educational placements that suppprt this level of need and quite a few young people in this situation do spend months or years out of education because there isn’t a placement for them.

Yes there is a subset of young people with significant disabilities. This is very far from representing the whole number out of work right now.

Playingvideogames · 26/02/2026 22:06

Thehandinthecookiejar · 26/02/2026 22:00

Hmm

What’s ‘Hmm’ about it? As an employed non-benefit-claimant, if I was hit by a huge bill (and yep that’s happened recently) that I couldn’t pay, nobody would rush to my aid.

How’s this any different?

youalright · 26/02/2026 22:06

If they brought the retirement age down there would be more jobs

Octavia64 · 26/02/2026 22:04

TheKeatingFive · 26/02/2026 21:35

If they want that support, they will find the job centres or other facilities that will give them that.

Quit making excuses, it's ridiculous. No one is jobless because it is utterly impossible for them to fill in a form online.

Of course some people are.

i used to teach at a school that was the local hub for physically disabled students so we had quite a few kids in wheelchairs.

quite a lot of them had problems learning - sometimes Down’s, one lad had hydrocephalus, cerebral palsy, etc etc. some of them had learnt to read and write but quite a few handn’t.

these neets will include young people who are severely disabled and some won’t be able to read or write (and some will be non verbal and use assistive communication).

in theory having an EHCP means you can stay in education until 25 but there is a significant shortage of educational placements that suppprt this level of need and quite a few young people in this situation do spend months or years out of education because there isn’t a placement for them.

Thehandinthecookiejar · 26/02/2026 22:00

Playingvideogames · 26/02/2026 14:19

Their problem entirely.

Hmm
BackinRed101 · 26/02/2026 21:56

when companies can only make so much profit when companies only need so many workers, when other companies are going bankrupt etc where are all the companies that will employ everyone ?

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 26/02/2026 21:51

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 26/02/2026 21:49

Yeah, I think I felt you were attaching blame to them for something they can't help, which is a strong theme on here... Sorry if that is not the case and I've misunderstood!

Sorry, I meant to quote @somuchbedding !

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 21:49

tokennamechange · 26/02/2026 20:36

not to mention all the other generations that lived through experiences far worse, and for far longer, than covid?

I'm not denying Covid was awful for some kids (although some benefitted hugely). But the strictest restrictions only applied for a few months at a time. Even if you accept that it did have a significant detrimental impact on them, you can hardly say it was worse than the impact of WW2 on kids growing up in the 1940s? Or WW1 on the generation before that? Or kids growing up in the victorian era working down mines or in factories? Or the stress of potential cold war of kids growing up in the 60s, or seeing your parents out of work/on strike for months at a time for communities in the coal industry in the 1980s? And that's just this country - kids else where in the world have it even worse, even today.

Many of us growing up in the 70s-2000s had fairly idyllic childhoods on the whole (not excepting individual issues) but that's the exception, not the rule. Essentially in the course of human history, we were uniquely lucky, rather than the current generation of young adults being uniquely unlucky.

But none of those were kept inside with no contact.

And there was terrible trauma after both world wars.

I grew up in the 60’s and 70’s and 80’s. I don’t remeber the Cold War having much impact apart from going on CND marches.

Dh comes from a big mining family. There was a massive sense of community that pulled people through.

Your examples don’t really match up.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 26/02/2026 21:49

Yeah, I think I felt you were attaching blame to them for something they can't help, which is a strong theme on here... Sorry if that is not the case and I've misunderstood!

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 26/02/2026 21:46

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 26/02/2026 21:45

Indeed, and more older people will end up on disability benefits rather than their state pension.

Older people of working age, I mean!

somuchbedding · 26/02/2026 21:46

@ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere which is why I replied to the original post about the cost to the taxpayer…

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