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To not understand the Wetherspoons game on social media?

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SayWibble · 24/02/2026 22:32

I occasionally see posts from a Wetherspoons game group on FB, whereby people in a branch of Wetherspoons post a photo of themselves and who they’re with, their table number, and ask strangers to buy them table-service drinks via the app.

I don’t really understand what the game element is, or what the buyers get out of this?

Has anyone else seen this? Can anyone explain?

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KimberWozRobbed · 25/02/2026 19:48

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 18:38

Former spoons employee here - we fucking hate them. I used to love kicking them out or cutting them off, like I would actually come out of the office to do it myself. It’s extremely annoying for the staff, especially the kitchen staff who already have it extremely shit (aircon never works, something is always broken, burning yourself on the pizza tray).

Current Spoonie here! Yep, hate the game. Kids milk ha ha ha. It's not funny, it's wasteful and just makes my job harder.

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 19:31

In my local spoons nothing comes to the table in ten minutes. It's mobbed and they don't have enough staff. I waited 45 a few months ago for food

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 19:25

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 18:38

Former spoons employee here - we fucking hate them. I used to love kicking them out or cutting them off, like I would actually come out of the office to do it myself. It’s extremely annoying for the staff, especially the kitchen staff who already have it extremely shit (aircon never works, something is always broken, burning yourself on the pizza tray).

There's always going to be people who abuse it but any time I received I didn't. It's not going to stop any time soon though with that fella Chris who dines out on the so called good work his group does. It's the people who sent peas and soy sauce or whatever that ruin it for others

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 19:13

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 19:06

OK, if actual staff don't like it that's another matter. Do they really get that many orders coming in for it? Is it not good to improve sales and publicity?

(I never heard of this game until this thread. Don't know what people are struggling to understand though, concept seems pretty simple to me.)

Honestly sometimes it was like a couple of orders, but often (especially if it was attractive girls playing it) it would get ridiculous. I was in a city center pub with one of the busiest kitchens in the UK so we were often swamped as it is. It was also common on a Saturday night or football day for people to play it and they’re busy as it is.

Spoons has a 10 min rule (from order to table in sub 10 mins) if it’s longer than 10 mins the ticket goes red. If our average time goes above 10 mins you get bollocked by the area manager and your bonuses get cut. It also causes significant wastage which I really didn’t like, but that’s a me issue. Because of how the pubs are run if you get backed up it can really mess up service and then you get complaints ect.

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 19:06

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 18:38

Former spoons employee here - we fucking hate them. I used to love kicking them out or cutting them off, like I would actually come out of the office to do it myself. It’s extremely annoying for the staff, especially the kitchen staff who already have it extremely shit (aircon never works, something is always broken, burning yourself on the pizza tray).

OK, if actual staff don't like it that's another matter. Do they really get that many orders coming in for it? Is it not good to improve sales and publicity?

(I never heard of this game until this thread. Don't know what people are struggling to understand though, concept seems pretty simple to me.)

RaininSummer · 25/02/2026 18:44

Creepy begging I think. Not cute or funny at all.

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 18:40

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 17:05

How are the staff treated? I'm not the biggest fan of Martin but I don't think anyone can say with conviction that all staff aren't treated well. I know people who have worked for them for over 20 years

Tbf staff are treated well, especially managers. Good bonuses, great stock options, when me and DH left we both had like 5k of shares. Tim is a pain when he comes in though and an abysmal tipper.

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 18:38

Former spoons employee here - we fucking hate them. I used to love kicking them out or cutting them off, like I would actually come out of the office to do it myself. It’s extremely annoying for the staff, especially the kitchen staff who already have it extremely shit (aircon never works, something is always broken, burning yourself on the pizza tray).

Needhelp101 · 25/02/2026 18:24

Am I allowed to say "fuck off, you smug boring cunt" without naming names @Itstimeforachangeagain
I don't name change. Because I rarely regret what I post.

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 17:55

HolidayPlanningAgain · 25/02/2026 17:05

”I’m aware of fun” but I just don’t participate in such trivial activities, me, my starched knickers and pearls couldn’t possibly lower standards beyond a good game of bridge and raising my nightie on birthdays at any cost 🙄

i do feel sorry for you as you come across as someone that has forgotten how to belly laugh with real friends and live in the moment even if just for a few hours.

me, my starched knickers and pearls couldn’t possibly lower standards beyond a good game of bridge and raising my nightie on birthdays at any cost

Stop making me fall over laughing while I'm supposed to be making dinner.

Hedgesandbutterflies · 25/02/2026 17:30

😂😂😂😂😂
This thread is actually more fun than the game

ClaredeBear · 25/02/2026 17:18

Itstimeforachangeagain · 24/02/2026 22:58

Has nobody got any self respect any more?
Absolutely gross begging strangers for drinks.
Nothing funny about it at all.

Edited

Well you’re a lot of fun!

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 17:05

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:16

@ScholesPanda
I'm not forcing any one to live by my rules.

OP started this thread because she said she didn't understand the rules of this " game". I'd never heard of the thing before this thread. I voiced my opinion on it and have replied to various posters who have commented on what I've said.

Tbh although I used to like Wetherspoons when the brand was first introduced myself and most people I know actively boycott their pubs now because of the way their staff are treated and because of the views of their owner.

This " game" has confirmed my low opinion of what Wetherspoon's pubs have become and if this is what goes on in them I'm glad I don't go in them anymore.
But I'm not stopping the people who actually want to participate in this ridiculous nonsense doing so. I just thank goodness I don't have to witness it

Edited

How are the staff treated? I'm not the biggest fan of Martin but I don't think anyone can say with conviction that all staff aren't treated well. I know people who have worked for them for over 20 years

HolidayPlanningAgain · 25/02/2026 17:05

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:21

Yes I'm aware of fun.

How is freeloading drinks and food " fun"?

In my world freeloaders are " insufferable.

Since when did this become a " fun" way to behave?

”I’m aware of fun” but I just don’t participate in such trivial activities, me, my starched knickers and pearls couldn’t possibly lower standards beyond a good game of bridge and raising my nightie on birthdays at any cost 🙄

i do feel sorry for you as you come across as someone that has forgotten how to belly laugh with real friends and live in the moment even if just for a few hours.

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 16:58

Howarewealldoing · 25/02/2026 16:54

I’m convinced it’s a wind up , clearly nothing better to do . Prop do them good to get down to a weatherspoons and have a drink 🤣

Might be, but I think I believe it. MN is full of people who can't wait to give ridiculous moralistic lectures about things with absolutely no moral value (last time I saw people declare something to be this much of a hazard to common decency, it was Christmas Eve boxes). It's a long and fine tradition on here. If it is a wind up, well, I'm enjoying it. Good trolling should be fun and ultimately harmless.

Someone who's on one of these groups, send them this thread. They'll be up for the giggle.

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 16:57

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:21

Yes I'm aware of fun.

How is freeloading drinks and food " fun"?

In my world freeloaders are " insufferable.

Since when did this become a " fun" way to behave?

You know what - I don't particularly care if someone is sitting in a pub free loading. There are lots of reasons why someone might ask for a meal or a drink and no one is forced to send them anything. And on most of these groups you are asked to send before you ask for anything back

catipuss · 25/02/2026 16:56

1offnamechange · 24/02/2026 23:24

It's hardly begging, is it? There's no pressure on anyone to buy anything. Often people don't get anything at all.

I don't understand what people don't get about it. It's really not that deep, or complicated.

The benefit to the drinker is potentially getting free items, and a funny story.
The benefit to the donater is a feeling of goodwill (i.e. like literally any other good deed) if they buy something nice, and a (mildly) funny joke if they buy something silly.
Both benefit from a bit of human connection from strangers they'd have otherwise never interacted with.
The benefit to wetherspoons is making money by having people who aren't even in their pub spending money.

Everyone's benefitting apart from sad losers who have nothing better to do than moan about something that doesn't affect them in the slightest.

I've never played but have seen it come up on FB a few times. The people who tend to get a lot of items usually have a funny/cute/heartwarming story that people like to donate to.

Which is probably lies designed to get the maximum benefit. It is begging like the gofundme rubbish. And the people going door to door wanting you to sponsor them on what is really a holiday of a lifetime dressed up as some charitable thing. They really have no shame.

Howarewealldoing · 25/02/2026 16:54

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 16:52

It's pretty hilarious wherever you plonk it. She's talking about consensually sending pints and peas to a random table somewhere.

I’m convinced it’s a wind up , clearly nothing better to do . Prop do them good to get down to a weatherspoons and have a drink 🤣

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 16:54

Also just to say that the better run Facebook groups don't allow alcohol to be sent to families with young kids. They get soft drinks only.

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 16:52

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:32

As I've already said I gave up on Wetherspoons a long time ago. And reading this thread has confirmed i made the right decision. I honestly didn't know it had sunk quite so low.

These groups have nothing to do with Wetherspoons at all. It's people playing a game

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 16:52

Howarewealldoing · 25/02/2026 16:48

saying this while posting on MN is hilarious .

It's pretty hilarious wherever you plonk it. She's talking about consensually sending pints and peas to a random table somewhere.

scottishgirl69 · 25/02/2026 16:51

SayWibble · 24/02/2026 22:32

I occasionally see posts from a Wetherspoons game group on FB, whereby people in a branch of Wetherspoons post a photo of themselves and who they’re with, their table number, and ask strangers to buy them table-service drinks via the app.

I don’t really understand what the game element is, or what the buyers get out of this?

Has anyone else seen this? Can anyone explain?

Doesn't really bother me. Some groups are better than others and do stuff for charity. I've sent more than I have received. There's one really horrible group on Facebook that has no admins and it's just abusive.

gamerchick · 25/02/2026 16:50

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:25

Please explain it to me then.

I'm certainly struggling to see anything at all positive in this.

If you don't see it then I can't explain it to you.

I really hope some joy finds you soon. Something light-hearted. Not everything is so serious. This is literally a bit of fun.

Yes you get people taking the piss but you get that in everything. Look.at the Greggs thread. I personally think you find a giggle where you can.

I personally don't like weatherspoons. The place has no soul and it's miles to the bog.

ThatCyanCat · 25/02/2026 16:49

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:46

Well yes actually.

I think the very fact you and your pals on this thread think that this is normal and acceptable behaviour, that you all are trying to present it as "fun" , is very much a symptom of a society that has been totally warped by Social Media.

A society that has totally lost it's way as regards normal and decent behaviour. And people who can't hack it in the real world because everything has to be played out for the benefit of Social Media.

I hope there are laws passed to outlaw the use of Social Media for under 16s. Unfortunately it's too late for the generations that have already been skewed by it

Edited

You're right, it's an absolute affront to public decency. The downfall of all that is moral and righteous. The death throes of a once thriving, upstanding culture. How are the mighty fallen.

nods even more gravely

Howarewealldoing · 25/02/2026 16:48

Itstimeforachangeagain · 25/02/2026 16:46

Well yes actually.

I think the very fact you and your pals on this thread think that this is normal and acceptable behaviour, that you all are trying to present it as "fun" , is very much a symptom of a society that has been totally warped by Social Media.

A society that has totally lost it's way as regards normal and decent behaviour. And people who can't hack it in the real world because everything has to be played out for the benefit of Social Media.

I hope there are laws passed to outlaw the use of Social Media for under 16s. Unfortunately it's too late for the generations that have already been skewed by it

Edited

saying this while posting on MN is hilarious .

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