DP and I are planning on booking a holiday later this year, the only time this year that I have 2 weeks off together. Due to limited flights and our choice of destination, it looks like we may be heading off the day after (Sunday) his mum's 60th (Saturday). She says she doesn't want a big fuss but I know there will be some sort of celebration which may be held on the Sunday due to people's work schedules. No concrete plans have been made yet.
DP says that it's fine but I feel a bit bad about potentially going on holiday during her 60th celebrations, and the fact that she is a bit old-fashioned about an unmarried couple holidaying together doesn't help either...(we don't live together)
If it wasn't a big birthday I wouldn't give it a second thought. Am I being ridiculous?