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To be absolutely sick to death of neighbour?

144 replies

Pookie32 · 24/02/2026 21:16

We live on a road of terraced houses with on street parking. We live very near to the centre of town with no permits - so it’s a bit of a free for all in terms of parking with lots of people parking for work etc. It’s incredibly irritating and we’ve been asking the council for permits for some time, which is hopefully coming soon.

Last year we had a new neighbour move into the street. I have never spoken with her directly.

Since moving in she has taken to leaving her bins in the street in order to ‘reserve’ a parking space.

There is barely enough room on the road for all residents, without the issue of people parking for town, so there is not room for her to do so without preventing other people from parking.

I frequently have to park on another street which is obviously very irritating, but part of living on a terraced street. We’d all like to reserve spaces if we could!

Where she lives her bins is also right outside my own house (obviously as the houses are close), so sometimes I come home and the only space happens to be outside my house which is great but then I notice it’s taken by the bins! I do move them but it’s so annoying.

Whenever I notice the bins in the road, I move them (regardless of whether I want to park there etc). I have spoken to two other neighbours who have confirmed they do the same and they are just as frustrated.

I have also reported her to the council for obstructing the public highway. I have had a response stating they can initially send a letter but nothing more.

i have also posted a note through the door asking for them to be more considerate to other residents and to petition for permits if they are annoyed about the parking.

aibu to be super annoyed about this?

im at the end of my tether with what to do about this but its really bugging me!

OP posts:
crazeekat · 26/02/2026 20:15

id go with the dog poo.

bluelavender · 26/02/2026 20:11

Even whem the permits come in she may still put her bins in the road to reserve 'her' space. It does sound antisocial

Poohbear333 · 26/02/2026 20:08

Sadly, she lives upstairs so it’s her front garden too!

Frostynoman · 26/02/2026 20:06

Pookie32 · 26/02/2026 19:35

Some of these replies have me laughing!! 😆

I am repeatedly complaining to the council, I’m hoping if I become the most annoying person ever who emails every day then they’ll do something about it 😅

I give it two more weeks before I go with one of the following options:

move the bins two streets away
superglue the bins shut
helpfully place my dogs business in the bins

happy to hear votes for any of these options or any alternative suggestions 🤣

Option three followed by option two. Then find somewhere warm to leave them

Lovemycat2023 · 26/02/2026 20:03

Just to check you’ve actually been to the ward councillors (they should have surgeries) rather than writing to the council (which will go to the officers). I couldn’t tell from your posts.

TheRedBear · 26/02/2026 20:02

Vaxtable · 25/02/2026 12:31

See if your council fines for leaving bins out, ours does

I was wondering this.

We're told bins have to be in by a certain time but I've never actually seen anything happen about it.

carnivalqueenthethird · 26/02/2026 19:53

Poohbear333 · 26/02/2026 19:36

Yes it is annoying. My neighbour leaves her dogs poo in bag in our front garden! What to do about that one?!

Edited

That would be going straight over her garden fence, or left on her doorstep if you can’t. Lazy cow

carnivalqueenthethird · 26/02/2026 19:51

Take the numbers off her bin, call the council and say you saw some kids dump them in the street and run off. Council will collect them and she will have to buy 2 new bins

Holidaymodeon · 26/02/2026 19:44

Loving all these vengeful suggestions, I’d probably never do any of them in real life but it’s making me laugh

Friendlygingercat · 26/02/2026 19:43

I used to have a neighbour who left her bins outside my gate because she didnt want them outside her house. Several times i moved them back and they were there again the following week, One christmas (when people have lots of rubbish) I got a relative and his burly friend to more them back. Oh dear - the wind must have been blowing hard that night because on bin day the rubbish was all over her drive and the street in front of her house. I expect she got the message because she never did it again.

As for commuters who leave their cars in front of your house and go off to work. Try sprinkling wild bird seed over them (the cars not the people) paying special attention to the windscreen. Birds will come to eat it and crap all over the car.
Its great having to scrape hardened crap off your windscreen one freezing cold night or morning.

I love to keep my neighbours entertained.

getsomehelp · 26/02/2026 19:42

Poohbear333 · 26/02/2026 19:36

Yes it is annoying. My neighbour leaves her dogs poo in bag in our front garden! What to do about that one?!

Edited

You post it back through her letter box

Talkingfrog · 26/02/2026 19:41

ScupperedbytheSea · 24/02/2026 21:23

My friends had this exact issue on their street.

Someone ended up losing their shit, and placing the wheelie bin on top of the offender's car, while shouting outside their house to stop fucking doing it.

It hasn't happened since.

This made me giggle
Shame there isn't a 🤣 emoji unless you comment.

Unless the person was tall ( and had some level of strength) it would be easy to get a wheelie bin on the top of a car!

DoloresDelEriba · 26/02/2026 19:40

Those bins need to go walkies in the night. 👍🏻

tramtracks · 26/02/2026 19:38

Poohbear333 · 26/02/2026 19:36

Yes it is annoying. My neighbour leaves her dogs poo in bag in our front garden! What to do about that one?!

Edited

or…she just could be a selfish difficult person.

Poohbear333 · 26/02/2026 19:36

Yes it is annoying. My neighbour leaves her dogs poo in bag in our front garden! What to do about that one?!

Pookie32 · 26/02/2026 19:35

Some of these replies have me laughing!! 😆

I am repeatedly complaining to the council, I’m hoping if I become the most annoying person ever who emails every day then they’ll do something about it 😅

I give it two more weeks before I go with one of the following options:

move the bins two streets away
superglue the bins shut
helpfully place my dogs business in the bins

happy to hear votes for any of these options or any alternative suggestions 🤣

OP posts:
DreamTheMoors · 26/02/2026 19:12

Pookie32 · 24/02/2026 21:23

Honestly I am about one day away from rehoming the bins to another street 🤣

I completely understand your frustration.

But a note?

You SHOULD be blocking her fronts door with her bins. Like laying them down, after* spray-painting something pointed on them.
And not before filling them with dirt or loose garbage or something else gross.

My goodness!!!
Gross behavior beckons for gross deeds.

Some folks only learn from gross.
She sounds EXACTLY like a person who needs to be jolted awake!!

Faceon · 26/02/2026 19:08

usually I read these kind of threads and I think it’s the OP that sounds uptight

not this time. This is bona fide irritating!

Spray paint the bins “the owner of these bins is highly inconsiderate, feel free to move me”

singthing · 26/02/2026 19:06

Move her bins two streets over instead.

Pasta4Dinner · 26/02/2026 18:56

Keep complaining. And take photos.

Id also be tempted to take her bins for a walk every time she leaves them there.

Mcdhotchoc · 26/02/2026 18:54

When we lived in a similar road, we had a neighbour with 3 cars who parked them with a gap between and would then take the handbrake off and roll them to create a space for the third.
Reffered to by everyone as the cunts

Nat375 · 26/02/2026 18:43

Id send her bins into another postcode! 😂

CatNoBag · 26/02/2026 18:39

My neighbour does this, but not bins. He has a car and a work van, and his girlfriend (who doesn't live with him) also parks here. He'll put his placeholder down if he moves his car or van, or if its the girlfriends car he'll reverse his into her space (oo-er) and put his placeholders in his space. He's been doing it for decades, but mysteriously lately has been doing it selectively so we're wondering if he's had an official complaint. He's actually taking up all the space outside our house, but we access from the side and keep telling ourselves it's a mental illness and not worth getting annoyed about it as we usually get a space nearby. We're also planning on selling soon, so not worth having to declare falling out with a neighbour!

beasmithwentworth · 26/02/2026 18:38

Don’t get too excited about permits. I’m in South London and we had a bin reserver almost opposite my house and always used to remove them (hassle as we know).

We got permits (hurrah - or so I thought ) but they only made it between 9am and 11am every day which is pointless and not at all what most people put forward when asked in the consultation .

The only thing that has changed is that I now pay over £300 a year Instead of nothing to get or sometimes not get a space near my house almost exactly as before.

The bin reserver hasn’t stopped and with so many people working flexibly the 9-11am slot (as we live a 10 minute walk from a station) doesn’t really change a lot. People still park on my road all day and evening (apart from 9-11) to use the shops near my house so it’s no easier to park than it ever was.

Judecb · 26/02/2026 18:29

You and one other neighbour need to go round to talk to her. She may not realise the disruption she's causing (though I suspect not). Try an olive branch and if this doesn't work, report her to the council!!