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To think there's a growing amount of people who think food can fix everything?

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StructuredChaos · 22/02/2026 13:56

Was listening to some ZOE podcasts, and love eating healthy foods myself, so it isn't a criticism of nutrition awareness. I'm a bit of a cooking nerd so love all of this stuff and finding new recipes, but I am noticing more and more people who seem to believe that eating low upf and fresh fruit and veg can add 'decades' to a human lifespan.

It certainly won't shorten it!
Surely this is an oversimplification, though?

I have always eaten in a kind of 'ZOE' way, and whilst I don't have any metabolic disease, weight problems or other issues, I am not so confident that I am going to outlive my peers due to this. It's something I can control, yes, and that's great, but I think it's deceptive to think we won't ever get cancer, heart disease, dementia or auto immune diseases if we eat in a 'clean' or ideal way.

Not to mention the 'ideal' keeps bloody changing!

I don't think life is that simple at all, even though I do champion healthy, fresh diets.
I see people who claim their spots, headaches, IBS, brain fog, joint aches and other issues immediately cease when they start eating fresh fruit and veg, or low histamine, or low inflammatory diets...... What puzzles me, as someone who has always enjoyed high fibre and fresh foods, is how nebulous those symptoms are, and not very well understood by GP's.
It allows for all manner of snake oil claims online, since the placebo effect is strong.

Just saw a vid with Tim Spector claiming that eating the ZOE way will certainly add 10 extra healthy years to your life. So if we use myself as an example of this, it doesn't take into account my familial heart disease, stroke risk, potential genetic cancers, and a world of non food related risks, of which there are countless examples.

It reminds me of those people who think they will never get ill because they don't smoke. Neither did my parents, but they died before their time (sepsis and vascular dementia).

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maskymask · 23/02/2026 17:20

Everywhere I look online that isn't a science related url, all I can find are grifters.They aim their products at the wealthy, but they are still regular grifters. Most of the guys have CEO or marketing backgrounds.

I also think we are bombarded with “advice” We need to eat more plants, less carbs, more fibre, more fruit and veg, but not too much fruit cause sugar, we need to eat the rainbow, fermented food, protein to build muscle, avoid sugar spikes, healthy fats, balance our macros, fast, don’t eat late at night, don’t snack etc it’s overwhelming

StructuredChaos · 23/02/2026 17:18

Just to add some clarity, I made my OP because I am tired of the conflicting, often controversial marketing of health online. Many people seem to believe in the word of influencers over professionals, which doesn't bode well. One the one hand it's really fascinating, and I am a self confessed food nerd, but on the other I am aware of the incessant 'noise' of it all, and how that leads to more confusion.

I hoped posting here would open up some discussion about whether other people have noticed that, and whether they agreed that there's a growing obsession about food as the cure for all ailments.

I can't say that any single individual or celeb Dr online has convinced me of anything. I think T Spector is interesting, but the brand is getting more cosy with book-pushing influencers and seeming less credible to me by the month.

I have definitely upped my fibre recently though.

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maskymask · 23/02/2026 17:16

@Thepeopleversuswork very true

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/02/2026 17:12

I also think we are in an epidemic of othorexia and are frequently taking diet and exercise advice form people who has eating disorders and use a public profile to manage them. No one needs to learn anything about healthy eating someone with an eating disorder

I completely agree with this and I think quite a lot of the “food as medicine” rhetoric is basically rebadged puritanism: the modern equivalent of the temperance movement in the early part of the 20th century. Its “food as virtue”.

Some of the rhetoric around sugar for example is very misleading. No one doubts that refined sugar is not great and needs to be managed but I have heard “health influencers” talk about it like tobacco; saying its highly carcinogenic etc. its a massively simplistic and misleading analogy.

Ditto some of the bonkers threads on here from people who clearly have eating disorders competing over how little they can consume in a day. Someone will list what they have eaten for lunch and someone else will tell them they only need 800 calories a day. Highly unscientific and with an unpleasantly sanctimonious tone, its driven not by a genuine interest in health, more by a kind of quasi religious smugness.

StructuredChaos · 23/02/2026 17:05

Substance · 23/02/2026 16:57

This whole thread feels, strongly, like product placement to promote this podcast and the work of this doctor.

I usually suspect this myself with many threads. I feel a bit sad that it comes over that way, but here we are.

I'm a mixture of intrigued and irritated by zoe, although very fascinated by the gut biome. Everywhere I look online that isn't a science related url, all I can find are grifters.They aim their products at the wealthy, but they are still regular grifters. Most of the guys have CEO or marketing backgrounds.

We don't know enough about the gut biome yet, but there are so many people, including tim spector, cashing in on it. I do like the presentation of their videos but that is only a testament to the quality of their marketing!

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Substance · 23/02/2026 16:57

This whole thread feels, strongly, like product placement to promote this podcast and the work of this doctor.

Chiaseedling · 23/02/2026 16:54

I’m very au fait with Zoe - my DH did the testing/programme and he did feel better on it. It is very interesting and the podcasts are informative.
I eat really healthily as I have digestive issues that require a wholefood/mainly non-UPF diet.
I agree that genetics play a massive part. My dad thought he was so fit and healthy but he dropped dead from a heart attack like his dad. You can try and ward off genetic predispositions with healthy eating but it won’t eradicate them.
And obviously eating a high upf diet will have ramifications, but for most people a small amount of it won’t have any ill effects. What pisses me off more is the ‘health claims’ on food that is full of crap - look at ingredients, not the front of the packet!
Abd I def don’t want to live past 90 - it’s highly unlikely I will with my medical issues anyway. DH wants to live to 100, good luck mate but you need to sort your cholesterol out first …

TempestTost · 23/02/2026 16:46

Yes, I have seen this a lot. For some people it doesn't seem to matter what the ailment is, they immediately think that eating the wrong thing caused it, and you need to go on some elimination diet to fix it.

For example, I had some intestinal issues a while back, and the doctor did make a dietary recommendation (which was effective), but a friend of mine who is really into diet is all stuff suggested that I need to cut out nightshades as obviously it was an inflammation thing and eating too many tomatoes was my problem.

StructuredChaos · 23/02/2026 16:42

There is far less discussion of childhood trauma than there needs to be.

What comes to the fore generally correlates with what will sell more books and what is currently trending.

Again, I fully support healthy eating, but it's interesting which subjects and risks don't get so much airplay.

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SexIsNotNebulous · 23/02/2026 16:40

Tim Spector? I’ve listened to a few of Zoe podcasts, is he the presenter with the reaaalllly annnnoying voiiiiice.

I enjoyed the podcasts but had to switch off because I couldn’t stand his voice, it was like a finger nail on a chalkboard.

maskymask · 23/02/2026 16:39

And one of the issues with the narrative that you can prevent all cancer is that younger people are ignoring symptoms because they assume cancer isn’t for them due to their lifestyle.

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 23/02/2026 16:35

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:16

Of course there is always going to be cancer but many cases are preventable Surely that’s empowering

And if you’re the unlucky one it can also feel like victim blaming. That there was something more you could have/should have done, when it was just bad luck.

maskymask · 23/02/2026 16:31

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:16

Of course there is always going to be cancer but many cases are preventable Surely that’s empowering

About 6 in 10 cancers are not lifestyle related and are due to genetics, environment and random DNA mutations

babasaclover · 23/02/2026 16:25

ThatFairy · 23/02/2026 14:50

You do have a good point but on the other side of it not eating fruit and vegetables really drains you. Partly due to finances and partly due to laziness I don't have a very good diet. For dinner I'll have rice and soy sauce or buttered pasta.

Yogurts for lunch. I do try and make an effort with my breakfasts, having eggs with runny yolk, lots of spinach, and avocado. I actually crave fruit sometimes. But I do take iron and folic acid supplements, and a multivitamin. I do drink a lot of orange juice.

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I struggled to eat fruit. Do you actively feel better when you do manage to eat it?

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 23/02/2026 16:24

voidcat · 22/02/2026 22:22

I read the title as fixes stuff like.. makes you happy
I mean I’ve never been sad eating cake BlushGrin

That was exactly what I was thinking and came to post. A cup of tea and a piece of cake - how putting the kettle on is the answer to everything! Some nice cheese and a glass of wine has a similar effect, or a pint of lager and a bag of chips 🤣

I think it’s important that people realise that although a healthy diet is always going to be better than an unhealthy one, it really doesn’t resolve everything or stop you getting some of these so-called ‘preventable illnesses’. People can follow all the (changing) guidance and still get cancer or dementia.

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:24

mindutopia · 23/02/2026 16:19

The thing is that it’s great to eat healthy in your 40s. I eat a really healthy diet (I don’t follow any of this Zoe stuff, it’s purely because I like whole natural foods). I don’t drink. I’ve never smoked. I’m active. I have good mental health and self-care.

I still have advanced cancer. You know why? Because nothing I did in my 30s and 40s with healthy lifestyle and good sun protection practices could undo the damage from my childhood when no one put sunscreen on me, so now I have metastatic melanoma.

It’s great to be healthy and eat nourishing foods. But you can’t outrun childhood trauma, or lifestyle factors you had no control over, or structural or environmental effects. It won’t make things worse (unless maybe you have IBD or IBS and need to limit fibre). But it isn’t medicine and it’s not going to fix everything.

Sorry that you have that diagnosis. I heard a recent podcast where a scientist said new data suggests melanoma is not caused by sun damage but by low Vit d as it often appears on parts of the body that have not been exposed to the sun. Have you heard that before?

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 23/02/2026 16:23

Adding '10 extra healthy years to your life' doesn't mean living 10 more years, which I think is the way that some people are taking it. It means that the time where you're mobile / are fit enough to have a good quality of life / healthy enough to travel, is extended. So you're more likely to enjoy your retirement. And of course likely to live longer at a population level, even if not always at an individual level

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:22

ArticWillow · 23/02/2026 16:17

I'm all for eating good non UPF food and have done this long before it became fashionable. I do think that UPF has a negative impact on our health, but it's a very personal & individual thing how that pans out.
Something for the anecdotes: my grandad died at age 92 in his sleep- healthy apart from T2 diabetes. He was overweight, chain smoker and a pickled gherkin was his idea of a vegetable. In other words his diet was shocking and really wasn't interested in anything that is considered a healthy lifestyle.... some of it is down to luck.

With respect having T2 diabetes is not healthy. Again it’s about health span not life span.

mindutopia · 23/02/2026 16:19

The thing is that it’s great to eat healthy in your 40s. I eat a really healthy diet (I don’t follow any of this Zoe stuff, it’s purely because I like whole natural foods). I don’t drink. I’ve never smoked. I’m active. I have good mental health and self-care.

I still have advanced cancer. You know why? Because nothing I did in my 30s and 40s with healthy lifestyle and good sun protection practices could undo the damage from my childhood when no one put sunscreen on me, so now I have metastatic melanoma.

It’s great to be healthy and eat nourishing foods. But you can’t outrun childhood trauma, or lifestyle factors you had no control over, or structural or environmental effects. It won’t make things worse (unless maybe you have IBD or IBS and need to limit fibre). But it isn’t medicine and it’s not going to fix everything.

ArticWillow · 23/02/2026 16:17

I'm all for eating good non UPF food and have done this long before it became fashionable. I do think that UPF has a negative impact on our health, but it's a very personal & individual thing how that pans out.
Something for the anecdotes: my grandad died at age 92 in his sleep- healthy apart from T2 diabetes. He was overweight, chain smoker and a pickled gherkin was his idea of a vegetable. In other words his diet was shocking and really wasn't interested in anything that is considered a healthy lifestyle.... some of it is down to luck.

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:16

ZanzibarIsland · 23/02/2026 16:14

I know what you mean OP. I remember someone on mumsnet who was convinced they would definitely be fit and healthy in their 80s because they exercised and ate well. Surely the fact that children can get cancer demonstrates that it's not all down to lifestyle and there are no guarantees

Of course there is always going to be cancer but many cases are preventable Surely that’s empowering

ZanzibarIsland · 23/02/2026 16:14

I know what you mean OP. I remember someone on mumsnet who was convinced they would definitely be fit and healthy in their 80s because they exercised and ate well. Surely the fact that children can get cancer demonstrates that it's not all down to lifestyle and there are no guarantees

itsthetea · 23/02/2026 16:13

There is a difference between adding decade or more to lifespan and adding a healthy decade - ie an extra decade of good health though

I can believe later more easily

but few people understand probability at all well so it’s hardly surprising that people get things wrong - yes you are much less likely to get something nasty but you still might and it’s worth doing your best

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:13

Crwysmam · 23/02/2026 15:43

Ultimately cancer is just bad luck but there are some lifestyle choices that can increase that bad luck. As a breast cancer survivor I have actively reduced my weight but there is no guarantee that it will prevent recurrence.

I avoid telling some people that I’m a cancer survivor because they suddenly become experts in diet and healthy eating. Like a lot of women who are diagnosed with hormone dependent breast cancer it was diagnosed after using HRT. I was post menopausal and had regular mammograms that showed no evidence of cancer until the screening mammogram that did. For me, and my breast cancer surgeon I was one of the unlucky women who came a statistic.

The advice re diet from breast cancer team is to try and keep a healthy BMI which helps all areas of health but there is no magic diet that reduces your overall risk. I don’t drink alcohol, I gave up in my late 20s because I developed a reaction/allergy to sulphites.

Healthy eating may optimise life span, unhealthy eating may reduce lifespan. Genetics has a much bigger impact on longevity than diet. We know that cardiovascular disease and associated diseases are inherited so if you have a lot of family members who die early of cardiovascular disease or develop type 2 diabetes then it would be in your best interests to undergo regular early screening and follow advice.

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If you listen to Zoe a lot of the scientist guests talk about genetics being less of an influence than we used to think. The twin study helped prove this.

landlordhell · 23/02/2026 16:11

I think Tim Spector is talking about health-span rather than lifespan. Not necessarily living 10 years more but being healthy into old age. If you’re pretty healthy already you’re probably in a good place already. So many people eat crap though and they could definitely increase their healthspan by changing their diet.