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To be so glad WFH became a thing (and to absolutely hate anyone who tries to curtail its availability)

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Designless · 22/02/2026 09:55

It's just life changingly good

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Designless · 22/02/2026 17:26

Auburngal · 22/02/2026 17:21

Earlier this month, we were unable to work in office due to issues with lighting.

Those who were unable to WFH - either because it’s their OHs WFH day, having work on the home - too noisy. Another civil service department, in the same town, offered desk space. I think about ten colleagues worked from the different office.

I used to work for a Whitehall dept well before COVID and I remember there weren't enough desks so you had to pre book your office days and if you tried to come in more than that there was nowhere to sit

I imagine things are no different now but try letting that stop farage etc

And then there's the question of who can afford to do fairly important work for civil service pay in zone 1

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Bellyblueboy · 22/02/2026 17:24

I think hybrid is brilliant. My role requires a lot of in person meetings and relationship building so I probably he to work from home one day a week if I am lucky, but I still appreciate the flexibility.

I do see some downsides - going back to 100% in the office is not the answer, but I have listened to countless of the number of times I have been told people don’t know who is who, who to ask for something. Things that were resolved with a quick chat at a desk now seem to take ages.

we need to use the technology better so people actually connect with each other and know what is going on.

but still a huge fan of hybrid working

09ans · 22/02/2026 17:22

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:19

Yeah is brilliant for people who no longer have to move to bloody London to do interesting work

This. It is a huge bridge divider, I would never have been able to afford to move to London or a bigger city. But I was able to eventually get the career I wanted due to WFH

Binus · 22/02/2026 17:21

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:19

Yeah is brilliant for people who no longer have to move to bloody London to do interesting work

Absolutely. As a non-Londoner, I now have access to much more in the way of training opportunities. People starting out in my sector now who are outside the south east can now benefit so much more from expertise being available online.

And it goes deeper than that too. People who are just looking for any office type job but who live remotely, or in towns where there's nothing much, also benefit.

Auburngal · 22/02/2026 17:21

Earlier this month, we were unable to work in office due to issues with lighting.

Those who were unable to WFH - either because it’s their OHs WFH day, having work on the home - too noisy. Another civil service department, in the same town, offered desk space. I think about ten colleagues worked from the different office.

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:19

Binus · 22/02/2026 17:19

Were you aware that some young staff now have access to many more jobs because of remote working? Young people doesn't just mean the ones who live within commuting distance of the office. You don't feel much of a team if you can't get a job in the first place because of your disability, caring responsibilities or social isolation. Young or otherwise.

Yeah is brilliant for people who no longer have to move to bloody London to do interesting work

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LilyBunch25 · 22/02/2026 17:19

Ponderingwindow · 22/02/2026 17:09

I became disabled after having a child. I’m disabled in a way that without wfh, I likely would not be able to work. I was wfh before Covid. Because of wfh I am gainfully employed instead of trying to raise a family on a pittance provided by the government aka other taxpayers. It is nothing short of a miracle.

👍👍💕

Binus · 22/02/2026 17:19

Jamesblonde2 · 22/02/2026 17:02

For you maybe. How are new young staff supposed to train via shadowing etc? They don’t just arrive on the job knowing exactly what to do you know.

How do new staff feel
part of a team if they’ve never actually met their colleagues? Even day to day chit chat of holidays, family, new shows on Netflix etc all adds to them feeling comfortable.

Were you aware that some young staff now have access to many more jobs because of remote working? Young people doesn't just mean the ones who live within commuting distance of the office. You don't feel much of a team if you can't get a job in the first place because of your disability, caring responsibilities or social isolation. Young or otherwise.

usedtobeaylis · 22/02/2026 17:17

ThePeachHiker · 22/02/2026 16:53

Use ‘comfortably work from home’ if you like. I often feel like I’ve jumped into a different universe when I come on here. Not all of us can afford a home with space for a desk and having the heating more than a couple of hours a day. If you can then that’s great but don’t assume everyone else can.

I think the whole point of the thread is that those who don't WFH keep banging on about how everyone else should go in to the office. They're the ones making assumptions and trying to tell people what is what, and telling them they don't care about anything. People who WFH are doing none of that, only talking about why it benefits them and what suits them. Please don't lecture me as someone who grew up in abject poverty and slept in my mum's living room as an adult due to being unable to afford to live anywhere, and is now in a working situation that I worked damn hard to get in the first place and continue to work hard to maintain. I've made no assumptions about anyone, but god knows plenty seems to have been made about me.

LilyBunch25 · 22/02/2026 17:16

ThePeachHiker · 22/02/2026 16:42

Without meaning to sound rude I think this thread just highlights the class system in this country. The ‘ haves’ who have adequate space, money to pay increased utilities to work comfortably at home and the ‘have nots’ who are shivering sitting on their beds in their cramped rentals.

Very wide assumption....my WFH space is a small desk in my bedroom which is the smaller bedroom of the 2 we have. I have to sleep separately from DH due to his medical issues but still be near enough to be on call in the night. He can no longer work due to severe medical issues. Not exactly a privileged household here.

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:15

IdRatherBeTalkingTudors · 22/02/2026 17:14

As a mum of two kids and having a long term health condition, I agree with you 100%. The articles that appear in the press sometimes (these lazy people who work from home and do nothing apart from life admin etc) make my blood boil. I work my butt off, and I’m so much more productive and work longer hours than if I had to commute to an office. I’ll never work somewhere again if I cannot WFH.

What additionally annoys me about those articles is how often they're written by journalists working from flipping home! Hypocritical click hunting bastards.

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Teenagequeenwithaloadedgun · 22/02/2026 17:15

Jamesblonde2 · 22/02/2026 17:02

For you maybe. How are new young staff supposed to train via shadowing etc? They don’t just arrive on the job knowing exactly what to do you know.

How do new staff feel
part of a team if they’ve never actually met their colleagues? Even day to day chit chat of holidays, family, new shows on Netflix etc all adds to them feeling comfortable.

We give new starters a comprehensive induction, part in the office and part remote. We also have team chats to ask questions and get support. It works, despite 'what I watched on Netflix' not forming part of the training program.

Binus · 22/02/2026 17:14

Viviennemary · 22/02/2026 16:49

I disagree with the wfh ethic. Fair enough on the odd occasion but as a permanent way of life - no. In any case its up to the employer whether folk are allowed to work from home and not for employees to dictate their conditions.

Let us know how much more you're willing to pay for fully in person staff in both the public sector and the private sector services you use. Unless perhaps you're recommending a full command economy. Might be a bit of a faff to sort out though.

IdRatherBeTalkingTudors · 22/02/2026 17:14

As a mum of two kids and having a long term health condition, I agree with you 100%. The articles that appear in the press sometimes (these lazy people who work from home and do nothing apart from life admin etc) make my blood boil. I work my butt off, and I’m so much more productive and work longer hours than if I had to commute to an office. I’ll never work somewhere again if I cannot WFH.

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:11

Jamesblonde2 · 22/02/2026 17:10

How insular and depressing. I always thought humans were generally social beings. I can see some fell from a different tree.

Humans are social. The office has only existed for about 100 years, though, it's hardly evolved behaviour.

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Designless · 22/02/2026 17:10

Tickingcrocodile · 22/02/2026 17:07

I am in a job that cannot be done at home and I fully support the right to work from home wherever that is possible. I think it offers so much more flexibility. One of my DC can only attend school online rather than in person so I like to think that there will still be jobs available that she can do from home when she is older. There are plenty of jobs still out there for those who don't want to work from home.

I agree with this - my husband loves the office and it's a big part of his social life so he goes in every day despite only being expected to two days a week. And there are loads of kinds of job out there. Personally if I commuted all the time I'd be glad of fewer folk on my bus/train/tube.

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Jamesblonde2 · 22/02/2026 17:10

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:04

A new recruitment aptitude has to be self management and the ability to learn remotely. I know I'm good at it (I was promoted into a brand new area as a manager during COVID and I've loved every second) so I know it's possible to be good at it so I'm not sure why the world should be set up for those with old fashioned skills. We don't still hire staff based on who has the smallest hands to pick the fallen bobbins out of the loom do we.

How insular and depressing. I always thought humans were generally social beings. I can see some fell from a different tree.

Cakeandcardio · 22/02/2026 17:09

TeenLifeMum · 22/02/2026 10:11

People do don’t/can’t work from home so don’t understand how it can be effective are the worst. I wouldn’t tell them how to do their job and if my manager is happy then why are they so adamant I’m not performing as well as I can in an office?

my workplace has hugely evolved so I could go to an office but sit on teams calls all day in an open plan room. Then I might get an hour to write a report but I have to do that listening to everyone else on teams calls. Of course I’m more effective at home! And my dc get to see me before school and when they get home (teens) which is really valuable for my family and my own wellbeing.

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The world has changed but it does make you realise that some people really are so stuck in their ways that they cannot imagine anything different. It's the same with the 8 hour day - such an arbitrary number but people are adamant that 8 hours is the exact time everyone needs to do their work 😅

Ponderingwindow · 22/02/2026 17:09

I became disabled after having a child. I’m disabled in a way that without wfh, I likely would not be able to work. I was wfh before Covid. Because of wfh I am gainfully employed instead of trying to raise a family on a pittance provided by the government aka other taxpayers. It is nothing short of a miracle.

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:09

falalalaa · 22/02/2026 17:05

Self management? Oh you won’t be needed as a manager then 🙄

If you don't understand about personal responsibility I can see why WFH isn't for you!

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Tickingcrocodile · 22/02/2026 17:07

I am in a job that cannot be done at home and I fully support the right to work from home wherever that is possible. I think it offers so much more flexibility. One of my DC can only attend school online rather than in person so I like to think that there will still be jobs available that she can do from home when she is older. There are plenty of jobs still out there for those who don't want to work from home.

Wexone · 22/02/2026 17:06

Viviennemary · 22/02/2026 16:49

I disagree with the wfh ethic. Fair enough on the odd occasion but as a permanent way of life - no. In any case its up to the employer whether folk are allowed to work from home and not for employees to dictate their conditions.

Come back to us when you get diagnosed with long term illness , get a disability, have caring responsibilities etc - many reasons laid out in this page all ready
no one knows what's around the corner in their own lives - it's wonderful the majority of companies have moved with the times and allowed what was a previous unemployable catchment of people, to have employment
technology has moved on, there is a good bit of employment out there using this to allow people work anywhere across the world

EatMoreChocolate44 · 22/02/2026 17:05

I can't work from home but my husband does and has some flexibility. Life saver with two kids.

falalalaa · 22/02/2026 17:05

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:04

A new recruitment aptitude has to be self management and the ability to learn remotely. I know I'm good at it (I was promoted into a brand new area as a manager during COVID and I've loved every second) so I know it's possible to be good at it so I'm not sure why the world should be set up for those with old fashioned skills. We don't still hire staff based on who has the smallest hands to pick the fallen bobbins out of the loom do we.

Self management? Oh you won’t be needed as a manager then 🙄

Designless · 22/02/2026 17:04

Jamesblonde2 · 22/02/2026 17:02

For you maybe. How are new young staff supposed to train via shadowing etc? They don’t just arrive on the job knowing exactly what to do you know.

How do new staff feel
part of a team if they’ve never actually met their colleagues? Even day to day chit chat of holidays, family, new shows on Netflix etc all adds to them feeling comfortable.

A new recruitment aptitude has to be self management and the ability to learn remotely. I know I'm good at it (I was promoted into a brand new area as a manager during COVID and I've loved every second) so I know it's possible to be good at it so I'm not sure why the world should be set up for those with old fashioned skills. We don't still hire staff based on who has the smallest hands to pick the fallen bobbins out of the loom do we.

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