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Is living on the state pension really that bad?

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cateringday · 21/02/2026 09:07

I mean, if you own your home then you’re getting around £250 a week just for bills and spends.
i have a tiny pension and DH has none. I am always worrying about this but then realised that we will have no rent or mortgage to pay.
im just wondering if it would be as awful as people make out? I hear stuff saying you need £300000 in pension pot to have a comfortable retirement, why would you need that much?

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BuddhaAtSea · 21/02/2026 10:26

You can live on it, but things like car/car repairs, holidays, gifts, dentist, haircuts, appliances to be replaced, insurance… it all has to come from that 12 000. Or, what’s left after you paid your bills and food. Not to mention the odd days off.

RobinTheCavewoman · 21/02/2026 10:25

My parents live only on the state pension and say they have more (and predictable) money than they ever did in their (obviously low paid) working life. They are mortgage free though which must make a big difference.

WhoStoleAllTheUserNames · 21/02/2026 10:25

A family member did just fine on state pension, in fact he saved money from it. He lived in sheltered accommodation (so a tiny flat), no car, had always lived a cheap life so he didn’t have to cut back at all. He’d still get a paper and an occasional coffee and a lottery ticket, and give kids and grandkids £20 for birthday and Christmas. He never went on holiday in his working life, other than visiting family, he wasn’t about to start when he retired.

Now me, with my 4 bed house and our 2 cars and not living near a decent bus service, and an expectation of cruises, and wine at the weekend and eating out and takeaways - well no the state pension won’t cover that. So I’ve been prioritising paying into my pension since our childcare costs ended.

Imdunfer · 21/02/2026 10:24

WaryCrow · 21/02/2026 10:21

I know people who have been given more on the state pension than they were for working. This is people working in schools.

Pensioners have not been poor since the 80s and it is the poor wages that are the scandal of our times.

Of course there are so many problems coming out way with the destruction of the British ecology and world climate that working poverty may seem like riches in years to come. The boomers’ wealth will be the subject of disbelieved myths.

Pensioners have not been poor since the 80s

Wouldn't you call living on £12k a year if you own your own house and have no right to benefits "poor"?

Alpacajigsaw · 21/02/2026 10:24

Ballondoor · 21/02/2026 09:14

Gosh yes because old people only really need food and shelter. Everything else that makes life worth living is just wasted on them.

Of course not but the answer to that is to make private provision

ArcticBells · 21/02/2026 10:23

It’s ok until a big bill comes in, whether it be a full car service or house repair; then I think you could run into difficulties

Charlize43 · 21/02/2026 10:22

Apologies if someone has already stated this but I have read that the amount you need decreases as you get older as you tend to go out less. My single neighbour who is 74 lives a very simple life of TV, reading & gardening and claims that her state pension backs up in her account. Then she'll go and blow £8K on a new front door from Anglia Windows, because she can.

thedevilinablackdress · 21/02/2026 10:22

Pddn · 21/02/2026 10:15

Even if someone starts off at NMW at an entry level, once they get the hang of things don't they move up to shift leader or manager of some sort?

No, why would you think everyone is able to do this (or there would be enough manager roles)?

CoralOP · 21/02/2026 10:21

Pddn · 21/02/2026 10:15

Even if someone starts off at NMW at an entry level, once they get the hang of things don't they move up to shift leader or manager of some sort?

So there's 100 workers on minimum wage, they are overseen by 4 shift leaders earning earning about a pound or 2 an hour more. Them 4 report into the big boss.
One shift leader leaves, 1 person gets a promotion, 99 remain on minimum wage. That's how society functions.

WaryCrow · 21/02/2026 10:21

I know people who have been given more on the state pension than they were for working. This is people working in schools.

Pensioners have not been poor since the 80s and it is the poor wages that are the scandal of our times.

Of course there are so many problems coming out way with the destruction of the British ecology and world climate that working poverty may seem like riches in years to come. The boomers’ wealth will be the subject of disbelieved myths.

Imdunfer · 21/02/2026 10:20

Freeasabreeze · 21/02/2026 09:59

But it often does unfortunately.

I'm currently viewing many care homes having cared for my mum for the past 8 years, her dementia is now getting beyond the care we, as a family, can provide for her.

As mentioned, most of the very nice care homes will only accept a resident if they can guarantee 2 years worth of fees in savings (often around £200k). The rest of the care homes are not so concerned as they know the LA will step in if and when any savings run out and most most of the nice ones are booked up for months/years in advance and often with waiting lists and the rest, well, let's just say most that I've viewed over the last few weeks I've stepped out of and have sobbed for the poor people stuck in there.

I think it's obvious that anyone who can afford a care home that insists you have £200k availability is likely to be the best of the best in care.

But I have friends who scouted for homes for a much loved resident and actually chose one of the cheaper ones they saw because it was so much nicer a place than the others.

One friend chose to send her mother over near her sister in Wales because the quality of the care was great in a state funded place in a home there.

There is variation, maybe they were lucky to have choices.

I'm sorry about your Mum, I doubt if there's any way to feel good about your situation even if the home was the best of the best.

CatusFlatus · 21/02/2026 10:20

Merlin23 · 21/02/2026 09:36

I find the 40k for a couple baffling too. I work with people in their 20s who are paying extortionate mortgages on about 50k total wages. If you don't have rent or mortgage you don't need 40k to live a basic retirement life!

https://www.retirementlivingstandards.org.uk/

This is a really helpful guide.

£40k isn't for a basic life, it's for a comfortable life as a single person household.

Home - Retirement Living Standards

Home - The Retirement Living Standards have been developed to help us to picture what kind of lifestyle we could have in retirement.

https://www.retirementlivingstandards.org.uk

Pickledonion1999 · 21/02/2026 10:20

1apenny2apenny · 21/02/2026 09:38

Frankly if you only have the state pension and are nearing or within a few years of retiring you’re probably better off not saving any more as you’ll get pension credit and all the stuff that goes along with that. You’ll also have any care home fees paid, ok you don’t get a choice of home but it’ll be free!

The new state pension amount is a few pounds over the limit for pension credit so unless you are eligible for additional premiums like carers premium or disability premium someone on new state pension would not qualify.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 21/02/2026 10:19

You’d afford to stay in your house and eat

but sounds pretty miserable to me

I’d want to be out a lot / eat out / go for drinks

get tickets for shows and take trips / holidays

wouldn’t want to be broke all the time

thedevilinablackdress · 21/02/2026 10:18

Pddn · 21/02/2026 10:14

I think barring health issues and/or caring for those with health issues you can usually find a way to improve your situation.

DH and I worked our way from growing up with barely anything (in India) to making a good life for ourselves here. Studied hard at school, chose stem courses at uni. Went above and beyond to improve technical skills at work etc.

Moved here and just worked hard.

This is just not realistic for many people. Going to university or college is never going to be an option. "Working hard" is not the simple answer that people seem to think it is.

SwirlyGates · 21/02/2026 10:17

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 21/02/2026 09:40

Do a list of all the essentials and what they cost. Im retired with an income after tax of £3500 pm with no mortgage and do not live an extravagant lifestyle. I cant wait to get state pensions. It will make a world of difference instead of spending savings all the time.

I would not want to live on just state pension, I'd be miserable.

What on earth do you spend it on?

CatusFlatus · 21/02/2026 10:17

WelcometomyUnderworld · 21/02/2026 09:36

Why don’t you live that way for 6 months and decide?

Work out how much your mortgage costs, add £250 a week and then put the rest of your pay into your pension. You’ll know how doable it feels for you then.

This is a good idea. More people should try it. You might find it's fine, you might hate it. Everyone is different. Then you can plan accordingly.

crossedlines · 21/02/2026 10:16

@cateringdayi certainly wouldn’t be comfortable living on just the state pension. It’s designed to cover the basics, but if you want a decent quality of life, it makes sense to make your own personal provision as well. At that point in your life after retiring from work, the one thing you’ve got oodles of is time. I won’t want to spend my days worrying about whether I can afford a holiday or dinner out or concert tickets….

There’s a reason auto-enrolment in workplace pensions was brought in. The govt could not be stronger in encouraging people to make contributions to a workplace (or private) pension alongside their NI contributions for state pension.

so, while it may be doable to live solely off a state pension, it’s not something I would want which is why I’ve worked full time my whole adult life (bar 3 years of part time when my babies were tiny) and paid a hell of a lot each month into my pension.

SylvanMoon · 21/02/2026 10:15

Even if you just plan on "surviving" rather than any other sorts of travel or entertainment expenses, you need to plan for repairs to your house. We recently had to replace our boiler and radiators at close to £10,000. Because we have teachers' pensions on top of State ones, we've been able to set aside money each month in anticipation of such expenses and so fixing the central heating wasn't such a blow to us. But if we had no ability to save, then it would have been disastrous.

Pddn · 21/02/2026 10:15

Womaninhouse17 · 21/02/2026 10:11

Some people have to. It's not necessarily a choice.

Even if someone starts off at NMW at an entry level, once they get the hang of things don't they move up to shift leader or manager of some sort?

Pickledonion1999 · 21/02/2026 10:15

Velvian · 21/02/2026 10:11

This attitude is just not true. We pay tax and NI for the current pensions. You have to have full NI contributions to qualify for the max state pension, but this is where it ends.

There are many current pensioners that have/will have received 3 decades or more of state income. I don't think there is any way in which we can say that these people have 'worked all their lives'. It is not a criticism of pensioners at all, just the language and attitude needs to change.

It is not sustainable (as we can see front the ever increasing state pension age).

This. I work in benefits for older people. I am genuinely shocked at how many of those just turning state pension age now do not have anywhere near a full state pension even , indicating that they have had huge gaps in their working lives. Obviously some will have been full time carers ot had disabilities themselves but there are also a lot who seem to have just not worked much ! My son's gf mum is one of them. She is early forties and has never worked, just lived off child maintenance and benefits.

NagathaCrispy · 21/02/2026 10:14

My state pension just about covers our household expenses, utility bills etc, not including food, running the car etc. With DH's pension and two decent occupational pensions added in, we have a comfortable life as two retired people in their 70's. I definitely could not live on my state pension alone.

Having said that, we run a modest car, have small UK based holidays and don't spend on expensive luxuries.

SwirlyGates · 21/02/2026 10:14

Kookykoala · 21/02/2026 09:10

I often wonder this too. I mean its not going to be a life of luxury but without my mortgage my food and bills for two of us would be about £800 a month. So if we were both getting 250 a week state pension we would have a full state pension give or take abit spare.

happy to be corrected if i’m wrong on the state pension figures as i’m too far off it to of ever seriously looked into it

If your partner dies you lose his pension. Food bills would be around half, but not your other costs; you'd get lower council tax (but 3/4 not half), and other bills might remain similar to what you pay now.

You could go through what you spend currently and figure out what is essential, what is luxury, and what is not essential but you want to have it or you'd go mad.

Pddn · 21/02/2026 10:14

thedevilinablackdress · 21/02/2026 10:02

Do you think minimum wage jobs like retail, care work, hospitality get done by magic?
Or do you think everyone can and should pull themselves up by their bootstraps and get on their bikes to earn more money?

I think barring health issues and/or caring for those with health issues you can usually find a way to improve your situation.

DH and I worked our way from growing up with barely anything (in India) to making a good life for ourselves here. Studied hard at school, chose stem courses at uni. Went above and beyond to improve technical skills at work etc.

Moved here and just worked hard.

Nannyfannybanny · 21/02/2026 10:13

We downsized,to a 2 bedroom bungalow,10 minutes away from the sea,near the south downs. It's the edge of a village, but bus in the next road,if required later..basic state pension is £230. I have a small NHS pension, paid in for 15 years, then went PT as I got older,so it only counted as 12 years contributions.Couldn't afford to pay into it when dks were small and mortgage rates high. 16% in the 80s.. We've had one holiday in the past 17 years,last year in this country,dog friendly barn. They are our luxury item,if you like,farm bred border collies. We've had 3 dogs live to almost 18.cheap shop own tinned and kibble..vet plus £20 a month each dog,no insurance..My pension lump sum, paid for new double glazing,DH for 12 solar panels and 2 batteries on a scheme with our local authority.. used to go out for a meal monthly to a carvery, because we cannot eat the average restaurant meal. After 10 years, unfortunately it's been taken over,they don't do a carvery on week days,more expensive weekends, I can't cope with my hearing aids and the noise level and the food has gone right downhill and the service is awful. It's coffee and cake now, did that yesterday. We grow a lot of our own food and veg.. luckily DH is very handy, vehicle technician for over 40 years,does our car, and the kids cars.. the only DIY he hasn't done is the double glazing, driveway and new boiler.. We're in the SE, so council tax is pretty high. We are very careful,in the summer months we often make 20/30 kw of electricity a day, the export is banked with Octopus for the winter months, cooking is all electric I batch cook and freeze. In the summer months we used the emersion heater..we have future proofed the property as best we can.
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