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Is living on the state pension really that bad?

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cateringday · 21/02/2026 09:07

I mean, if you own your home then you’re getting around £250 a week just for bills and spends.
i have a tiny pension and DH has none. I am always worrying about this but then realised that we will have no rent or mortgage to pay.
im just wondering if it would be as awful as people make out? I hear stuff saying you need £300000 in pension pot to have a comfortable retirement, why would you need that much?

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Bologneselove · 21/02/2026 12:43

Im not pension age but have noticed from those around me that older age brings its own higher costs ie having to pay people to do jobs you can no longer do yourself like walking a dog or cutting lawn. Also health associated costs such as frequently having to pay for glasses due to eye deterioration. These costs are on top of normal daily living fees so no I don’t think the state pension provides a good standard a living.

OnlyTheBravest · 21/02/2026 12:41

My experience with elderly relatives, is that they can live on the state pension but it does not allow for extravagance or costly unplanned expenses e.g. new boilers, roof repairs.

Those that were retirement ready fared much better e.g. downsized, decluttered, re-decorated adding appropriate home adaptions.

The majority had some savings and some sort of pension (even small ones).

Elderly care has been privatised and is very costly. If you have savings you will have to use all of it (bar last 23K), so the idea is to have 200K set aside for 2 years of private care or have no more than 23K and use state provision.

That being said everyone is different and you need to work out what you want your retirement to look like expensive long haul holidays, cruises, your own allotment, garden

This site is quite helpful for giving guidance.

https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en/pensions-and-retirement/taking-your-pension/checklist-things-to-do-as-retirement-approaches

Tarkadaaaahling · 21/02/2026 12:41

Kookykoala · 21/02/2026 09:10

I often wonder this too. I mean its not going to be a life of luxury but without my mortgage my food and bills for two of us would be about £800 a month. So if we were both getting 250 a week state pension we would have a full state pension give or take abit spare.

happy to be corrected if i’m wrong on the state pension figures as i’m too far off it to of ever seriously looked into it

Not sure how your bills AND food for two people would be just £800 a month, most people pay at least £200 a month in council tax, at least another £100 per month in gas and electricity (and that's pretty low usage) and a further £50 in water. That's before any car insurance, home insurance, TV licence, and fuel costs of driving a car, any home maintenance costs like boiler servicing, replacing windows when needed, other maintenance work. Then even if you allow only £300 a month for food, what about things like hair cuts, dental and optical appointments, birthday and Christmas presents for loved ones?

My3dahliasarebloominlovely · 21/02/2026 12:35

@ginasevern my DH insists on staying here, Covid and the COL crisis decimated my small business.... Frankly he's likely to kark it before me and this place will be straight on the market.

JennyShaw · 21/02/2026 12:34

Billyvoo2 · 21/02/2026 12:30

This and an older friend had to have some emergency dental work recently: £500. Perhaps you get NHS if you’re only on state pension?
also new furniture (things break) being invited out for dinner—you have to go out sometimes or would end up going crazy !

If he or she got pension credit then it should be free. If on state pension but can't get pension credit it should be paid for if he or she can get an HC2 form.

fisherhatesgravel72 · 21/02/2026 12:32

Kendodd · 21/02/2026 09:51

I grew up very poor and so the people around me growing up were all poor. They're now pensioners living in council properties on state pensions and top up benefits. They have more spare money now than they ever had in their working age lives when on minimum wage jobs and state benefits. I bet they'd be described in the media as the pensioners living in poverty but they knew much worse poverty when they were actually working and with children to look after.
This isn't a criticism btw, I'm glad they're not living in such poverty anymore.

My dad was on a state pension and died with 10k in the bank. He had a cheap holiday abroad every year, bought nice clothes from charity shops and had heating and food. Don’t forget, a lot of the elderly will likely be getting health related benefits too

LoveAmandaHolden · 21/02/2026 12:30

Just retired early at 54 from a job where I earned £4k per month. Paid off my mortgage when I was 37. Live alone. Why would I suddenly be able to live my same lifestyle on £12k per year? If you are used to a certain amount you need and want that same amount to continue. Certainly whilst you are fit and active enough to enjoy life, holidays, own a car etc. When and if the SP comes when I’m 67 that’s a bonus.

Billyvoo2 · 21/02/2026 12:30

ZaZathecat · 21/02/2026 09:15

I think day to day income wise it's doable, but problems arise, if you don't have substantial savings, when big things need paying for, like if you need a new central heating boiler, or roof repairs

This and an older friend had to have some emergency dental work recently: £500. Perhaps you get NHS if you’re only on state pension?
also new furniture (things break) being invited out for dinner—you have to go out sometimes or would end up going crazy !

borntooobesilly · 21/02/2026 12:29

ChefsKisser · 21/02/2026 11:14

If you’ve made no plans provisions or savings then I’m sorry but that’s the old age you have to look forward to.

So how do you think people on minimum wage can make provisions for their retirement?🤔Someone has to do the minimum pay low paid jobs!

ginasevern · 21/02/2026 12:25

@My3dahliasarebloominlovely

Can I ask why you didn't sell your house and move somewhere more manageable and less remote. £30k is a huge outlay to spend on repairs in later life and with chronic health conditions. You say you'll need to pay for taxis when you can no longer drive or afford to run a car and the widowed partner will have to sell up anyway when the time comes. I'm nearly 70 myself by the way and I really couldn't cope with all of that.

MirrorVent · 21/02/2026 12:25

matresense · 21/02/2026 09:40

It might be possible as two. But the big issue is what happens if your partner dies? You don’t pay half as much heating or electricity. It really is very insecure and I wouldn’t recommend it at all.

I guess get a housemate, like a younger person would have to do if they couldn't afford to live alone.

borntooobesilly · 21/02/2026 12:24

AttachmentFTW · 21/02/2026 09:41

But why should the state pay for people to have a nice life? As others have said state pension should be for keeping people out of poverty and to have food and shelter for the rest of your life. If you want the extras that make life more enjoyable but are not totally necessary then people should have their own savings/pension for that. You know, like working people have to.

Many people just don’t earn enough to top up pensions,save etc .
Yes you could argue that in that case get a job that earns more ,but someone has to do the minimum pay jobs because if no one did ,how would society function? ie shop workers,care workers,hospital cleaners,cafes,restaurants,transport workers etc ,most jobs that provide a service!
The main problem is that the minimum wage is not enough and people should be earning more.

ccridersuz · 21/02/2026 12:23

I think it all depends on your circumstances, we worked it out and came to the conclusion that on our state pensions, we would survive, with about £300 left out of both incomes for food and essentials.
But, if one of us died we would be screwed, with an income £3 over the limit to get pension credit.
So, we upped and came to Greece.
The bills are hugely different, my water bill in the UK was £70 a month, here I pay €10-12 per two months, my Council Tax was £1369 a year, here I pay €146 a year, my electricity over 12 months in Greece was €386, in the UK I was paying between £38-50 a week!.
Best thing we did and we don’t regret the move.

dottiedodah · 21/02/2026 12:22

DH is retired and has a private pension and I have a small one too.Waiting for my State pension at 66.5.We have DD friend and DD here .Friend pays rent .I think we manage and seem better off than when DC were small! I dont see how you really need 40k really. Buy clothes from Ebay .(Monsoon ) Have lunch out a few times a month and coffee . Eat fairly well .days out ,run a car, have a dog.Holidays spent in the UK (too much to travel abroad while undergoing treatment.) Also hard going physically.

Jasonandtheargonauts · 21/02/2026 12:22

losttheplot25 · 21/02/2026 11:16

This. My mum is on a state pension and will openly say she has never been as well off in her life. Her rent, council tax is fully paid help towards heating costs. She is even paying for the grandkids driving lessons as she can afford to do it for them.
Very different from when she was younger and a single parent raising me on a minimum wage job. Times were tough then and we could afford very little. She says she could have done with the money she has now back then.
I also know of other pensioners who say they've no idea why pensioners are always on TV crying poverty saying they have to choose between eating and heating as pensioners have never been as well off!.

This isn't only basic state pension. If she's getting help with council tax and heating costs she's on pension credit.

Also if her rent is fully paid chances are she's in social housing. That's going to become rarer as the younger people can't get into it now. If she was topping up her rent £200/month herself in a private rental or having to pay for her own repairs because she owned, she would feel a lot worse off.

I think there's a lot of people out there calling their collective income from various sources "the state pension" for convenience in conversation, when in reality it's more than that.

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 12:21

Pickledonion1999 · 21/02/2026 12:18

Obviously everyone's food and council tax are going to be different. Some will shop at Aldi, some will do their food shop at M&S. Some will have low council tax and some extortionate. It doesn't take much working out that some people can live more cheaply than others surely ?

You're right. But equally you don't know where the OP lives.
Food is expensive wherever you shop.

Council tax is unknown and yes, it varies.

There's nothing wrong in giving a break down of personal outgoings. That poster can challenge if she wants to.

JennyShaw · 21/02/2026 12:19

Pickledonion1999 · 21/02/2026 12:00

It's really not a great system when people who have barely worked or not lived here long,( I'm obviously not counting people who have been unable to work like disabled or carers) and therefore don't qualify for full state pension get topped up with pension credit and all the freebies that brings like all council tax paid, all rent paid, free dental and optical treatment, free TV license once 75. It's very unfair.

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I agree with you. When I retired I was surprised that I won't get free dental check-ups twice a year. However, you can apply to get it paid by the state. You need to fill in a form including how much money you have saved. You get a document HC2 which you take with you to the dentist or the optician and then it's paid by the NHS.

I get the full state pension and don't have much money saved. I couldn't get pension credit which would have made it all free without an HC2. I do get housing benefit and council tax benefits.

Eye tests are free. Basic glasses will be paid for if you show them the HC2.

I have a good life, in a housing association flat. I don't have a car or travel abroad. I don't spend my time sitting in my living room watching TV.

Pickledonion1999 · 21/02/2026 12:18

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 12:16

@Kookykoala Would your food and bills really only be £800 a month?

We're mortgage free and our food bill is easily £100+ a week and that's without wine ( we don't drink) or anything extravagent.

Our council tax will be around £80 a week and I've not even started to include gas/ electric, water rates, (house insurance £700 a year) and other things like running a car.

That brings it to over £250 a week for basics.

I think you've not done the maths. Even on 2 state pensions there won't be much wriggle room.

They say the minimum amount needed for a reasonable but not flash retirement is £30K a year.

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Obviously everyone's food and council tax are going to be different. Some will shop at Aldi, some will do their food shop at M&S. Some will have low council tax and some extortionate. It doesn't take much working out that some people can live more cheaply than others surely ?

FreeFromWhat · 21/02/2026 12:18

I am living on my state pension and a proportion of my late husband's private pension

That's not living on a state pension though - although op said she will have a tiny pension of her own. Depends how much or little the private pension is, I suppose.

berlinbaby2025 · 21/02/2026 12:17

Several people have mentioned downsizing, but sometimes it's not realistic i.e going from a two bedroom house to a one bed flat which means that some bills would be less but you'd have ground rent and service charges to pay for so you may not be financially better off. Also fees and stamp duty to factor in.

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 12:16

Kookykoala · 21/02/2026 09:10

I often wonder this too. I mean its not going to be a life of luxury but without my mortgage my food and bills for two of us would be about £800 a month. So if we were both getting 250 a week state pension we would have a full state pension give or take abit spare.

happy to be corrected if i’m wrong on the state pension figures as i’m too far off it to of ever seriously looked into it

@Kookykoala Would your food and bills really only be £800 a month?

We're mortgage free and our food bill is easily £100+ a week and that's without wine ( we don't drink) or anything extravagent.

Our council tax will be around £80 a week and I've not even started to include gas/ electric, water rates, (house insurance £700 a year) and other things like running a car.

That brings it to over £250 a week for basics.

I think you've not done the maths. Even on 2 state pensions there won't be much wriggle room.

They say the minimum amount needed for a reasonable but not flash retirement is £30K a year.

Cat1504 · 21/02/2026 12:16

ElectricLegs · 21/02/2026 12:11

We decided to give up the car. The savings added up: insurance, 'road tax', fuel, servicing, maintenance, tyres etc. etc. We don't have a TV so £175-ish saved there a year on the TV licence alone. No Sky subscription - some of my friends are paying £70+ per month. No foreign holidays, we hated the stress of foreign travel, especially airport security queues.. We can look at it as doing our bit for the planet! We holiday in the UK. Bus travel is free in Scotland once you reach 60 or are under 22. Neither of us drink or smoke. We both enjoy walking or swimming in the sea. No debt at all. We seem happier than those around us, which has brought us to the conclusion that you can be happy with less.

have you got an emergency fund? Are you still able to treat your kids/GC …go on holidays days out with them….go theatre or whatever with your friends? ….this is my bar for whether I can afford reftirement or not…I’m 61 …retired and returned on 2 days nhs ….got good savings ( I think!) and an nhs pension of 1400 a month …but I couldn’t do the above on that money….I take my 3 GC to festivals ….for days out….trips to London…I go on holiday with my kids and GC once a year ….I go theatre and meal every month with friends….I would rather continue to work 2 days a week than give all that up….or run my savings down doing it

ChefsKisser · 21/02/2026 12:15

Sorry for offending anyone with my comment but this thread explains why the UK is in such crisis in many ways. If you expect people to plan and save for themselves you’re seen as cruel and oblivious to poverty. Everyone is entitled to a great life with some luxuries even if you’ve never saved a penny towards it. People encouraged to stop saving so they’ll be entitled to pension credit and all the benefits that come with. In 10-15 years it’s going to become even clearer the state cannot afford the benefits, pension, SEND, social care bills despite all of these people needing this support as there just won’t be enough tax payers paying in enough tax to support this. Is they then means test the state pension of make the tax burden higher more and more tax payers will move to places they feel are fairer and the issues with compound and compound. I don’t know what the solution is but criticising anyone who says it’s completely unsustainable certainly isn’t helping.

Storynanny1 · 21/02/2026 12:12

VickyEadieofThigh · 21/02/2026 12:00

I'm curious - how much is your travel insurance for these long haul trips? I ask because a lot of younger people don't realise it's another thing that can increase massively once you're older. A friend with multiple health conditions is quoted more than £1000 - for a 10 day trip to Greece.

It’s very expensive! Hence my comments about extras coming out of other pensions/inheritance , wouldn’t be able to visit on a state pension.
For the two us ( with a few older age type minor health issues) we paid £400 travel insurance for both of us to go to the far east for 2 weeks last year to visit one adult child and family.
Its just something we have to use savings for.
Having said that long haul fancy trips weren’t something we could afford to do when we were younger, with a mortgage and children!

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 12:12

One post and the OP disappears.