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To think Queen Elizabeth's legacy is going to be seriously harmed by this?

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Gymnopedie · 19/02/2026 18:45

I mean I doubt he bounded into the palace shouting 'you'll never guess what I did last week'. He will massively have played down the extent of his friendship with Epstein and may even at times have lied about where he was when he was away. It seems his protection officers have some serious questions to answer around this. I doubt anyone in the RF had anything like the full picture. But QE stood by him and I can't see her coming out of this well.

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Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 21:06

Pedallleur · 19/02/2026 20:58

She didn't check the books for Her Majesty's Revenue and Customs.Might have asked the odd question eg do we really need to pay taxes? Or has Andrew been behaving himself? Hardly likely the heads of MI5 and 6 or the Met Commissioner are coming round to inform her of impropriety.

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Yes you’re right they wouldn’t. Instead they would have told her Private Secretary who would have told her what her son was up to and the compromising situation he had put himself and the family/institution in.

Pedallleur · 19/02/2026 20:58

Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 20:53

Do people really think Her Majesty had access to less information than those who worked in Her Majesty’s Secret Service?!!

She didn't check the books for Her Majesty's Revenue and Customs.Might have asked the odd question eg do we really need to pay taxes? Or has Andrew been behaving himself? Hardly likely the heads of MI5 and 6 or the Met Commissioner are coming round to inform her of impropriety.

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 20:54

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 19/02/2026 20:36

Many mothers will go the whole way to protect their children and can't see a thing wrong with their adult child's behaviour.
I don't feel it counts as being a paedophile - the females were over the age of consent in this country. Agree it is unpleasant and exploitative and very sad for the young people involved.

"the females"

what is wrong with you? they were girls.

Pedallleur · 19/02/2026 20:54

Londonrach1 · 19/02/2026 19:56

Yes. Ask any of the teenagers and young adults and you got your answer re the royal family.... My fil who is a firm royalist is now questioning it... however Trump in charge....what could be put in place instead......I miss the queen..the proper queen..queen Elizabeth as she was stable and been there so long but what she been hiding....

Stable? Did nothing but ruled, whatever that means. Lived a long life and was Queen for 70 years. A world that changed v.liitle for her but moved on outside the walls of Windsor. All she did was ensure the monarchy was going to continue.

Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 20:53

Do people really think Her Majesty had access to less information than those who worked in Her Majesty’s Secret Service?!!

OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 19/02/2026 20:52

surrealpotato · 19/02/2026 20:50

The Queen could have had a penis and still have been a woman.

🤣🤣

surrealpotato · 19/02/2026 20:50

OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 19/02/2026 19:01

Such a lazy reply 🙄

YANBU OP

The Queen had a responsibility to know exactly what she was bailing him out of.

And yes @Catza I'd say the same if the late Queen had a penis...

The Queen could have had a penis and still have been a woman.

FiatLuxAdAstra · 19/02/2026 20:48

The first inklings of the Epstein crimes started to leak out in 2008 when the Queen was 82yrs old and already in cognitive decline.

I don’t think she ever got a whiff of the truth. I am sure Charles and Anne decided not to tell her so she wouldn’t die on the spot from the shock.

abitsadbuthappy · 19/02/2026 20:47

I think its quitting time for the RF. Lets wrap it up before things get even worse, they had a good run and can't complain.

NotMeAtAll · 19/02/2026 20:47

Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 20:44

The ones we’ve heard about so far were over UK age of consent. However, the latest files describe covert flights through UK airports of girls on Epsteins plane, girls as young as 9 are mentioned, torture videos featuring Middle Eastern royalty. Virginia was the tip of the iceberg so it seems.

Yes, it's unlikely that one day he just decided he wanted to be a creep, and then carried on living a perfectly moral life.

InterIgnis · 19/02/2026 20:47

BlueJuniper94 · 19/02/2026 20:44

You're right, America has the President and the head of state as the same person. They have Trump. I'd rather spread the risk but if you think that's a better system that's a valid opinion.

Yes, I do think it the better system. Would you be so keen on

A President is not only elected, but limited to 8 years in power.

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 20:46

BlueJuniper94 · 19/02/2026 19:10

As much as I was to see these disgusting men locked away for life - I don't want to see it used as a reason to get rid of the monarchy as head of state. Who else could do it? Have an elected one and you'll have Nigel Farage or Rupert Lowe before you can blink.

lazy thinking.
Doreen Lawrence would be good, Floella Benjemin, Tanni Grey-Thompson all sit in the House of Lords and would be a great president.

Our Prime Minister is the executive of the country, the president needs merely to be a figurehead like in Ireland or Germany.

I for one hope this IS the beginning of the end. The quicker the better.

EdwinStarrTheBackStreetsNSoul · 19/02/2026 20:45

How many 40year old men hang about with 17yr olds.
It's the sexual shenanigans,it's the Trade Envoy stuff,possibly passing Govt documents.
He's a wrong un.
See the most recent photo he knows he's toast.

BlueJuniper94 · 19/02/2026 20:44

InterIgnis · 19/02/2026 19:46

So someone that cannot be voted out is preferable to someone that can be?

It’s because of sheer accident of birth that King Andrew isn’t the unelected head of the British state.

You're right, America has the President and the head of state as the same person. They have Trump. I'd rather spread the risk but if you think that's a better system that's a valid opinion.

Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 20:44

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 19/02/2026 20:36

Many mothers will go the whole way to protect their children and can't see a thing wrong with their adult child's behaviour.
I don't feel it counts as being a paedophile - the females were over the age of consent in this country. Agree it is unpleasant and exploitative and very sad for the young people involved.

The ones we’ve heard about so far were over UK age of consent. However, the latest files describe covert flights through UK airports of girls on Epsteins plane, girls as young as 9 are mentioned, torture videos featuring Middle Eastern royalty. Virginia was the tip of the iceberg so it seems.

Reddog1 · 19/02/2026 20:43

Open the relevant files, let’s see what she knew and what she didn’t 🤷‍♀️

sprigatito · 19/02/2026 20:43

The late Queen was emotionally stunted, calculating and cold as a witch’s tit. Just like the rest of her weird inbred family. This sordid and squalid affair may well be the end of them and their unearned privilege - we can hope, at least.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 19/02/2026 20:42

The deification of QEII is mad. She knew exactly who he was, she just didn’t care because these girls were nothing to her.

None of us are anything to them. If you think they give a toss about their ‘subjects’ you need your head seen to.

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 19/02/2026 20:42

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 19/02/2026 20:39

A trafficked minor cannot consent.

A trafficked non minor is also vulnerable

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 19/02/2026 20:39

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 19/02/2026 20:36

Many mothers will go the whole way to protect their children and can't see a thing wrong with their adult child's behaviour.
I don't feel it counts as being a paedophile - the females were over the age of consent in this country. Agree it is unpleasant and exploitative and very sad for the young people involved.

A trafficked minor cannot consent.

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 19/02/2026 20:36

Many mothers will go the whole way to protect their children and can't see a thing wrong with their adult child's behaviour.
I don't feel it counts as being a paedophile - the females were over the age of consent in this country. Agree it is unpleasant and exploitative and very sad for the young people involved.

InterIgnis · 19/02/2026 20:35

ChangePrivacyQuestion · 19/02/2026 20:00

Looking logistically, having to choose both the prime minister and a president in electional cycles has a tendency to produce government impasses. Concentrating both in the hands of a single person can be exceptionally detrimental to democracy. Having one permanent figure with nominal power keeping the fleeting figure with actual power in check seems to be limping along, particularly in first past the post systems. If it can be described as democracy, yeah, it's lousy, but it's the best of the bad lot.

So no say is better than having a say? Democracy not being perfect means that monarchy is the best of a bad lot?

interesting conclusion to come to.

YourGreenCat · 19/02/2026 20:32

Catza · 19/02/2026 18:46

Woman's fault again then...

it's that the best you could find, really?

Boudy · 19/02/2026 20:29

@Gymnopedie yes and all completely manufactured. So utterly depressing.

TrashHeap · 19/02/2026 20:27

They are all complicit.

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