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To phone in sick tomorrow due to a UTI?

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HealthConcerns · 19/02/2026 17:59

Im on day 2 (possibly 3 but symptoms weren’t that bad first day) of a UTI, the worst day so far which triggered a visit the pharmacy this afternoon and I have been given some Nitrofurantoin.

I barely slept last night as I was up and down to the toilet, currently I’m up and down every 20 mins or so to the toilet. My lower back hurts, I can’t sit comfortably as my bladder constantly feels full and I’m feeling quite sick and have the dreaded burning when I go.

I work in a GP surgery as a receptionist. I’ll be on the phone for about 9 hours tomorrow (obviously not continually but whenever the phone rings it needs answering).

It would be quite disruptive for our patients (having to wait longer for phone to be answered) and for my colleagues, plus last time I had Nitrofurantoin it made me feel really sick and on top of how I’m feeling now I’m dreading it make me feel even worse.

Would I be unreasonable to call in sick given it’s just a UTI? If it makes it seem more reasonable, ive not had sick leave in almost 5 years.

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HotAndHassled · 19/02/2026 18:16

You must phone in sick - UTIs are the most horrible, debilitating things and you must be exhausted. I am a long time sufferer and have always had to do pee tests to find the right meds to clear them up. Take care.

Starlight40 · 19/02/2026 18:15

I wouldn’t go in, they are so painful. I hope it clears up quickly for you.

HealthConcerns · 19/02/2026 18:14

@OoooopsUpsideYourHead probably not as I feel dreadful right now. I just feel so incredibly guilty at the thought of phoning in.

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MammaBear1 · 19/02/2026 18:13

I’d not be deciding today, wait until the morning and see how you feel when you wake up.
I hope you feel better soon.

OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 19/02/2026 18:12

HealthConcerns · 19/02/2026 18:08

@Random321and @OoooopsUpsideYourHead

Sadly, we have a few of our team who tend to phone in sick quite a lot with various issues and other members of reception get fed up of having to cover all the time and then the rest of us feel guilty about phoning in sick to work 😣

Right, so you're going to go in then?

SunnyRedSnail · 19/02/2026 18:11

The 23% of people that said YABU have clearly never had a bad UTI!

Starlight7080 · 19/02/2026 18:10

Definitely call in sick. I recently had one after not having one since I had my youngest 10 years ago . And it was awful. I had forgotten how bad they can make you feel .

Chinsupmeloves · 19/02/2026 18:10

UTIs are incredible painful so yanbu at all!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 19/02/2026 18:09

Absolutely you should call in sick! This is a real illness as much as any other.

Other thing is, Nitrofurantoin doesn’t agree with me either. It’s on my medical records that I can’t take it and they give me something else if I have a UTI. You don’t have to put up with a medicine that makes you unwell!

Even if you’re part way through a course you can move to a different type of ABs - I didn’t know that when I had it and finished the course even though I was seeing double!

HealthConcerns · 19/02/2026 18:08

@Random321and @OoooopsUpsideYourHead

Sadly, we have a few of our team who tend to phone in sick quite a lot with various issues and other members of reception get fed up of having to cover all the time and then the rest of us feel guilty about phoning in sick to work 😣

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OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 19/02/2026 18:03

I can never get my head around these threads (and there are so many of them).

If you're unable to work then of course you call in sick?!

Wishing you better soon OP Flowers

Random321 · 19/02/2026 18:01

You are ill, of course you ring in sick.

A GP surgery of all places should understand a UTI!

LittlestMouse · 19/02/2026 18:00

I would! Sounds like absolute hell, particularly to be sat on the phones all day!

Hope you feel better soon

Melsy88 · 19/02/2026 18:00

Not at all. If you're sick and can't do your job, don't go in. Doesn't matter what the cause is.