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What if it had been Charles?

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 17:41

The PM said this morning that nobody is above the law, but is that actually true?

If it had actually been the monarch who was suspected of committing the crimes that Andrew is accused of, rather than his brother, am I right in thinking that, as things stand, there would be no provision under our existing constitution to deal with this? The police and the courts are agents of the crown, so presumably they couldn't act against the monarch?

So what would actually happen in that situation if the rest of the royal family couldn't persuade the monarch to abdicate. Would we have to have a revolution?

ETA Sorry, forgot to add my AIBU. AIBU to think that it isn't quite accurate to say that nobody is above the law.

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CurlewKate · 20/02/2026 06:36

Dollymylove · 19/02/2026 22:22

In the world of mumsnet any relationship gap of more than 6 months is treated like pxxdophilia 😉

Bollocks. And you’re allowed to say paedophilia.

CurlewKate · 20/02/2026 06:33

Strange isn’t it that on a forum where people ask if it’s OK to leave an 18 year old alone at home for a week and trust them to walk the dog, another 18 year old is expected simply to say no to the power and control of the whole British establishment….

wordler · 20/02/2026 06:28

I think if the revelations were about Charles instead of Andrew then the monarch would be pressured to abdicate, the replacement heir would remove all protection and they could then be tried as anyone else.

If the monarch tried to resist abdication or the replacing heir refused to act there would be enough public outcry to force some sort of instant interregnum and then a fast implementation of a republic.

Tutorpuzzle · 20/02/2026 06:09

Dollymylove · 19/02/2026 22:22

In the world of mumsnet any relationship gap of more than 6 months is treated like pxxdophilia 😉

Your original post said Diana had set her sights on Charles ‘years before’. Which rather suggests you think a young teenager (a child) had agency over a powerful institution interested only in wealth and its own longevity. And had need of a brood mare.

I do hope you are simply being naive in seeing their marriage as a jolly Jilly Cooper-esque romp and not, as many people did at the time, as an horrifically medieval arranged marriage for a well-bred, just about legal, virgin.

Making her look like a 43 year old typist for the engagement photos didn’t fool everybody, you know.

MaMaMalenka · 20/02/2026 03:52

Raven08 · 19/02/2026 17:45

Charles? Friend of Jimmy Saville?

totally this!
plus a clergy member here and there, and the notorious Mountbatten uncle

Aur0raAustralis · 20/02/2026 03:10

I haven't read the whole thread, though I am interested, so apologies if this has been said. But ultimately, the power structure surrounding the monarch isn't real. As in, it's all made up by humans and everyone goes along with it. Most of the time, that's for good reasons (maintaining law and order).

The monarch is one person. If he did something completely heinous, and the Prime Minister, head of the Met Police (body that provides him with security) and the head of the armed forces marched into his office and said he needed to go and that he had no choice, what could he actually do? If all the power structures surrounding him were turned against him, he would have to go along with it, surely.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 20/02/2026 00:12

AgentLisbon · 19/02/2026 21:51

The closest example we have is the Glorious Revolution of 1689 - while the king (James II) had not done anything illegal he was removed (basically for being too catholic but also not such a fan of the rule of law generally).

There are a lot of conventions in our uncodified (not unwritten, a lot of it is written!) constitution.

Yes, parliament can pass any legislation it wants. Royal assent is required and, by convention, would never be refused but of course we’re talking about a situation where that convention isn’t followed. James II never abdicated and those plotting around him manoeuvred so he fled. Parliament wanted to replace him with William and Mary (his nicely Protestant daughter and her husband) but needed to make it look legit and lawful. There was a constitutional convention held by Parliament who declared the crown had passed - they cited his abuse of prerogative powers but in particular his having fled as a vacation of the crown and therefore the throne was empty. In stepped William and Mary.

It was a legal fiction to appear legit because there is no actual mechanism to remove a monarch. The system relies on their knowing their place and acting monarch-like. But they found a way, albeit on that did materially rely on the army and his leaving the country. But it does provide a schema for what might happen if the monarch committed some awful crime - we don’t live in an absolute state and parliament is considered sovereign even if there are constitutional / legal caveats - the intense political and public pressure would do for a monarch in that situation. My suspicion is an act of Parliament they refused to sign would be treated as “constructive abdication” and a failure to fulfil the constitutional function as monarch. And who would be standing up for them if they continued to argue they were really still on the throne after that?

That's very interesting, thank you.

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MotherJessAndKittens · 19/02/2026 23:43

Wasn’t there a 3rd person involved when Charles was married to Diana? And I have read some weird things about Charles habits before.
if you search back in history about previous kings and queens it’s fairly colourful!

Greenfinch7 · 19/02/2026 23:31

Simplelobsterhat · 19/02/2026 18:23

Exactly, it's things like this that show how absurd inherited monarchy is. If Charles had died young before having children Andrew would be king now. And yes of course you could say he'd have behaved differently if he wasn't stuck being the spare, but nevertheless plenty of kings have been pretty unsuited to the job.

It's absurd we still accept it, especially their above the law status. All that taking his titles from him business just annoyed me because it suggested the titles were only for those who deserved them, whereas on reality that's not true at all.

Completely agree about the title. It is not something you earn or deserve- also un-princing him lets the RF take a step away, saying: 'Oh no! he's not one of us'.

RainbowBagels · 19/02/2026 23:28

Pollqueen · 19/02/2026 22:31

You're wrong. The reigning king/queen has sovereign immunity. Any criminal case is Regina v Joe Bloggs. You can't have Regina v Regina

It's Rex now. Regina was Queen

TempestTost · 19/02/2026 23:25

I think that in that sort of instance he would be required to abdicate.

AgentLisbon · 19/02/2026 23:10

fivetriangulartrees · 19/02/2026 21:57

Maybe @AgentLisbon will be able to answer this. If a bad monarch can't be prosecuted, can they be, for instance, sectioned or forcibly hospitalised? I can imagine a situation where a psychiatrist declared them dangerously ill (with or without justification) and forced a regency. Is that plausible?

if they were legitimately incapacitated, which being sectioned would suggest they were, then there is a formal statutory mechanism for regency so doesn’t require the same legal figleaf. although of course that doesn’t actually remove them from the position.

SorcererGaheris · 19/02/2026 22:36

Dollymylove · 19/02/2026 22:22

In the world of mumsnet any relationship gap of more than 6 months is treated like pxxdophilia 😉

@Dollymylove

It seems that way sometimes! I find it a bit ridiculous, especially when you're talking about people who are both out of their teens.

Pollqueen · 19/02/2026 22:31

Elisirdamour · 19/02/2026 19:53

It’s hypothetical- could the King get arrested? Could the King be sent prison? My guess is “yes”. Nobody is above the law.

You're wrong. The reigning king/queen has sovereign immunity. Any criminal case is Regina v Joe Bloggs. You can't have Regina v Regina

dapsnotplimsolls · 19/02/2026 22:29

I think the law was changed before W and K had kids in case their first was a girl.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/02/2026 22:26

NormasArse · 19/02/2026 22:21

Wouldn’t it be Anne?

No. The law has been changed very recently and currently the succession goes:

William
William's eldest child - George
William's second child - Charlotte
William's youngest child - Louis
Harry

However, the idea that birth order is all that counts and sex is irrelevant is very new indeed. When I was growing up the succession went like this:

Charles - Queen's eldest son, who happened to be her eldest child
Andrew - Queen's second son
Edward - Queen's third son
Anne - Queen's daughter, even though she's older than Andrew and Edward

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 22:23

NormasArse · 19/02/2026 22:21

Wouldn’t it be Anne?

No. It's been Andrew because the law wasn't changed to allow female succession until after Charles had children.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/02/2026 22:23

fivetriangulartrees · 19/02/2026 21:57

Maybe @AgentLisbon will be able to answer this. If a bad monarch can't be prosecuted, can they be, for instance, sectioned or forcibly hospitalised? I can imagine a situation where a psychiatrist declared them dangerously ill (with or without justification) and forced a regency. Is that plausible?

Harking back here to The Madness of George III. He was forcibly treated and his son was made Regent while he was too unwell to rule himself.

Dollymylove · 19/02/2026 22:22

SorcererGaheris · 19/02/2026 22:16

@ParmaVioletTea

There was a 14-year-age gap between my parents. Mum and Dad met when she was 23 and he was 37.

I realise Diana was a bit younger, but a 12-year age gap between adults is no big deal to me (as long as they're both fully consenting adults, then any age gap is no big deal for me.)

In the world of mumsnet any relationship gap of more than 6 months is treated like pxxdophilia 😉

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 22:22

What if it had been aliens? What if it had been a yeti? What if it had been Jesus?

Well.... It wasn't.

NormasArse · 19/02/2026 22:21

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 17:49

I know it wasn't Charles but I don't see why it isn't relevant.

If Charles had died before having children, Andrew would be our monarch now.

Are we OK with the idea of the monarch being above the law and immune to prosecution?

Wouldn’t it be Anne?

Dollymylove · 19/02/2026 22:20

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/02/2026 21:28

Her older sister had the wit to see that getting involved with Charles would be a bad idea.

He dumped her because she gave an interview to the press

SorcererGaheris · 19/02/2026 22:16

ParmaVioletTea · 19/02/2026 19:03

Hmmmm, only just. And remind me, how old was Charles Windsor? a 12 year age gap. 8 years away from being double her age.

One might say masculine entitlement to young barely legal female flesh rather runs in the Windsor family ...

@ParmaVioletTea

There was a 14-year-age gap between my parents. Mum and Dad met when she was 23 and he was 37.

I realise Diana was a bit younger, but a 12-year age gap between adults is no big deal to me (as long as they're both fully consenting adults, then any age gap is no big deal for me.)

dapsnotplimsolls · 19/02/2026 22:01

fivetriangulartrees · 19/02/2026 21:57

Maybe @AgentLisbon will be able to answer this. If a bad monarch can't be prosecuted, can they be, for instance, sectioned or forcibly hospitalised? I can imagine a situation where a psychiatrist declared them dangerously ill (with or without justification) and forced a regency. Is that plausible?

Find an alternative and plop them on the throne instead.

fivetriangulartrees · 19/02/2026 21:57

Maybe @AgentLisbon will be able to answer this. If a bad monarch can't be prosecuted, can they be, for instance, sectioned or forcibly hospitalised? I can imagine a situation where a psychiatrist declared them dangerously ill (with or without justification) and forced a regency. Is that plausible?

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