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“Everybody thought the EU was about people coming into the country … no-one told of us the benefits”.

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MrsMurphyIWish · 18/02/2026 07:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2136jnjx1o

And the response to this very now deprived community is to vote Reform.

“Brexit has removed a key source of funding, which the area desperately needs. County Durham received £154m of EU funding between 2014 and 2020, about £22m a year. Since the UK left the European Union, it receives about half that amount, £12m annually, under the UK Shared Prosperity Fund.”

The story is sad (and typical of deprived areas - I know, I live in one). Towns feeling forgotten and never recovering from closed industry but why can they not see history will repeat itself?

A row of red-brick houses with almost every window and door boarded up

Inside Horden, the County Durham town failed by politics

In Horden, County Durham, Westminster slogans have long been left unmet as the population has plummeted.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2136jnjx1o

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SerendipityJane · 19/02/2026 14:06

Loads of people told them about the benefits - a million people marched in London talking about nothing else. T

More than six million signed a petition that got lost.

SerendipityJane · 19/02/2026 14:05

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 13:58

Yeah like Hobson's choice the n. No anti EU party to vote for

Also no parties that look to bring back child labour or reduce the age of consent or invade France

itsthetea · 19/02/2026 14:03

I guess the fact that most people wanted to join doesn’t matter ?

if you wanted to, I think Labour were your choice

bananafake · 19/02/2026 14:02

Loads of people told them about the benefits - a million people marched in London talking about nothing else. They chose to believe Nigel Farage and his blooming bus and the morally bankrupt Boris Johnson.

Having believed Farage’s lies once they’re now doubling down. I don’t understand why but maybe it’s because people hate to be wrong….

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 13:58

Alexandra2001 · 19/02/2026 13:42

Thats illogical, you re just digging yourself a hole now.....

....how can you vote for an anti EU party before the EU was formed?

We had plenty of opportunities to vote for UKip post 1993 but never did, as well you know.

It wasn't until that shit stirring cnut Farage came along, assisted by Boris Johnson and his ridiculous lying stories about the EU that gradually the EU became an issue

Yeah like Hobson's choice the n. No anti EU party to vote for

SerendipityJane · 19/02/2026 13:56

I have done some reading on this and the economy does gain from immigration, but in terms of the people in it, there are winners and losers.

Newsflash:

everything has winners and losers.Joining the EEC ? Joining the EC ? Joining the EU ? Leaving the EU ? Joining the gym ? Buying a weekly shop ?

All events that produce winners and losers.

I am struggling to find a word for a person who cannot see that. I wonder if any other posters can help ?

Boolabus · 19/02/2026 13:53

Goatsarebest · 19/02/2026 12:29

Every single EU treaty that has been put to a vote of an electorate has been rejected by that electorate. To the extent only Ireland is permitted to vote on them now. These are the Treaties that create all the freedom of movement and trade. But people think it is just British racists that don't want the model the EU has become. The Danes rejected Amstersam Treaty. Others were going to, but they stopped the voting. Ireland has rejected all of them but they are then bribed and have to have a 2nd vote to get them passed. Never has the EU accepted the vote of the Irish people until they vote correctly.
So don't eulogise the EU as some all encompassing utopia of freedom and trade that all none racist Europeans want to be part of. It isn't and they don't.

Never has the EU accepted the vote of the Irish people until they vote correctly.

Well that's not entirely true is it? You're falling for Brexit propaganda. Ireland voted against treaties forcing their government to renegotiate certain terms of the treaty and then it went back to the electorate to ratify. That's a positive democratic process. Lisbon treaty example:

Following the initial "No" vote, the Irish government secured legal guarantees from the EU regarding taxation, neutrality, and abortion, which contributed to a "Yes" vote (67.1%) in the second referendum in October 2009

Alexandra2001 · 19/02/2026 13:47

Goatsarebest · 19/02/2026 12:29

Every single EU treaty that has been put to a vote of an electorate has been rejected by that electorate. To the extent only Ireland is permitted to vote on them now. These are the Treaties that create all the freedom of movement and trade. But people think it is just British racists that don't want the model the EU has become. The Danes rejected Amstersam Treaty. Others were going to, but they stopped the voting. Ireland has rejected all of them but they are then bribed and have to have a 2nd vote to get them passed. Never has the EU accepted the vote of the Irish people until they vote correctly.
So don't eulogise the EU as some all encompassing utopia of freedom and trade that all none racist Europeans want to be part of. It isn't and they don't.

... and yet...
Key trends in EU public support as of late 2025 include:

  • High Confidence: 52% of Europeans trust the EU, the highest level since 2007.
  • Benefits & Stability: 74% believe their country benefits from membership. 67% view the EU as a source of stability in a troubled world.
  • Priorities: Top priorities for citizens include ensuring peace and security (42%), job creation (26%), and managing migration (24%).
  • Defence Support: 79% support a common defense and security policy.
  • Approval Trends: Support for the euro is at a record high of 74% within the eurozone.
  • Exceptions: While support is generally high,, significant negativity exists in countries like France and Italy, although a majority in those nations would still vote to remain in the EU.
  • Future Outlook: 59% to 66% of Europeans are optimistic about the future of the EU.

What would our politicians do for public support like this?

Alexandra2001 · 19/02/2026 13:42

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 09:22

I'm talking about BEFORE we joined the EU in 1993. So how could anyone have voted ukip before then?

What ANTI EU parties were there to vote for?

Thats illogical, you re just digging yourself a hole now.....

....how can you vote for an anti EU party before the EU was formed?

We had plenty of opportunities to vote for UKip post 1993 but never did, as well you know.

It wasn't until that shit stirring cnut Farage came along, assisted by Boris Johnson and his ridiculous lying stories about the EU that gradually the EU became an issue

Pigletin · 19/02/2026 13:30

Theolittle · 18/02/2026 07:13

Very sad but I’m sure it’ll be amazing to see what reform do with the area. Go Nigel!

Sometimes you just fully deserve who you vote for.

RattleAndHump · 19/02/2026 13:27

Brexit completely fucked us over. The sooner we rejoin, the better.

itsthetea · 19/02/2026 13:03

The EU isn’t perfect

but throwing the baby out with the bath water springs to mind

Goatsarebest · 19/02/2026 12:29

Every single EU treaty that has been put to a vote of an electorate has been rejected by that electorate. To the extent only Ireland is permitted to vote on them now. These are the Treaties that create all the freedom of movement and trade. But people think it is just British racists that don't want the model the EU has become. The Danes rejected Amstersam Treaty. Others were going to, but they stopped the voting. Ireland has rejected all of them but they are then bribed and have to have a 2nd vote to get them passed. Never has the EU accepted the vote of the Irish people until they vote correctly.
So don't eulogise the EU as some all encompassing utopia of freedom and trade that all none racist Europeans want to be part of. It isn't and they don't.

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 12:25

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:18

Yes other countries have had leave campaigns, referenda on membership etc. Norway has had at least one referendum on joining, but has (sensibly imo) stayed out!

Wonder why uk couldnt do that back in 93 then

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:18

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 12:13

Most likely. People not asked if we wanted to join the eu andseems govt justgot carried along with the other countries. No idea if the people in other countries got a say

Edited

Yes other countries have had leave campaigns, referenda on membership etc. Norway has had at least one referendum on joining, but has (sensibly imo) stayed out!

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:15

WaryCrow · 19/02/2026 11:06

Actually I have some sympathy for that view. What jobs there are, we should be training up our own people for and making it worth them working. Showing them that there are rewards for working. Not just continuing to import more mouths to feed.

The argument that more immigrants magically improve the economy is demonstrably false. How many millions have we imported now? Where’s the benefit for these towns, watching the immigrants imported specially to take the health and social jobs their parents and greatparents could have done? Purely there as cheap labour in the failure demand economy of the poverty industry?

I have done some reading on this and the economy does gain from immigration, but in terms of the people in it, there are winners and losers.

So it can absolutely be true that the economy gained but individuals and groups lost out.

It's evident from the article. What benefit of growth in London and the SE accrues to the remote area? Not much apart from national health and education systems (that didn't keep up with growth anyway) and er, a new rail station - so they can leave the area quicker?!

Goatsarebest · 19/02/2026 12:15

BREXIT was as a result of the failure of the political establishment to address the needs of marginalised communuties and communicate how remaining in the EU would help address them, along with a genuine fear of older people of changing cultures within British society. Since it happened all we have had is, first, it wasn't valid because not everyone turned out, then let us vote again to get the right vote, then delay after delay in implementing a democratic vote and watering it down, then an ongoing campaign of how stupid all those voters were and we told you so and my child can not study and work in Paris or passport control in Spain because of you (that will worry those in Salford trying to feed their kids day to day). So instead of trying to implement measures and find opportunuties and leadership the situation offers we just have this continual labelling and 'look what your ignorance has caused'.
And you wonder why people are voting Reform. They are still being ignored by a smug self rightous elite who now can increase their smugness because they think were right all along.
The real failure of BREXIT is the failure of our society and political leadership to address the challenges it poses to us and a proper accepatance of a democratic decision and why it happened, by whole sections of our 'liberal' establishment. There is an absolute poverty of ideas from our leaders and those who voted remain other than 'we told you so'.
There have been plenty of democratic decisions that have impacted dispropotionaly, Miners and Mrs Thatcher springs to mind, but they were the decisions at the time. It has shown democracy is just a theory for certain people that is only acceptable if people vote the right way.

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 12:13

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:11

There was no exit mechanism though? It might have been slightly less painful at those points but it certainly wouldn't have been straightforward.

Most likely. People not asked if we wanted to join the eu andseems govt justgot carried along with the other countries. No idea if the people in other countries got a say

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:11

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 11:16

For the government yes. Not for the people

There was no exit mechanism though? It might have been slightly less painful at those points but it certainly wouldn't have been straightforward.

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:10

Gnomer · 19/02/2026 11:33

I didn't vote for Brexit but I had no idea how much funding came from the EU or for what. I've seen signs in other countries, including Wales that say 'this was funded by the EU' but I've never seen them in England. The push of 'information' seemed to be heavily weighted on the side of the pro Brexit lot with the Remainers not really seeming to have much to say or at least only saying it very quietly.

It was much too big a thing for anyone to be able to predict how it would go so the Brexiteers just told everyone what they wanted to hear and people voted for that. The whole thing was completely ridiculous.

Farage, just like Trump, is fabulous at mustering up the populist vote and people fall for it over and over again.

Or being complacent - thinking the other side were "thick"?

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 12:09

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 11:40

What the signs wouldnt say is that yThe UK was paying more into the EU to get SOME of it back as funding. Cant blame brexit for the lack of funding now as its the UK govt decidimg not to fund stuff

That's how centralised payment in-transfer out systems work.

The alternative would be local areas spend only what they can raise/borrow.

The outer London boroughs receive less "back" in spending than they pay in tax, compared to the inner London ones but overall London makes enough surplus that it can subsidise other parts of the country.

Additionally when we were in the EU we were paying for a second lot of bureaucracy but we could also draw on various member-only funding sources.

Imdunfer · 19/02/2026 11:59

By 2010, less than 9000 people tried to get into the UK via Lorry or Train

I think you mean by 2010 less than 9000 people were caught trying to get into the UK via lorry out train..

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 11:40

Gnomer · 19/02/2026 11:33

I didn't vote for Brexit but I had no idea how much funding came from the EU or for what. I've seen signs in other countries, including Wales that say 'this was funded by the EU' but I've never seen them in England. The push of 'information' seemed to be heavily weighted on the side of the pro Brexit lot with the Remainers not really seeming to have much to say or at least only saying it very quietly.

It was much too big a thing for anyone to be able to predict how it would go so the Brexiteers just told everyone what they wanted to hear and people voted for that. The whole thing was completely ridiculous.

Farage, just like Trump, is fabulous at mustering up the populist vote and people fall for it over and over again.

What the signs wouldnt say is that yThe UK was paying more into the EU to get SOME of it back as funding. Cant blame brexit for the lack of funding now as its the UK govt decidimg not to fund stuff

Gnomer · 19/02/2026 11:33

I didn't vote for Brexit but I had no idea how much funding came from the EU or for what. I've seen signs in other countries, including Wales that say 'this was funded by the EU' but I've never seen them in England. The push of 'information' seemed to be heavily weighted on the side of the pro Brexit lot with the Remainers not really seeming to have much to say or at least only saying it very quietly.

It was much too big a thing for anyone to be able to predict how it would go so the Brexiteers just told everyone what they wanted to hear and people voted for that. The whole thing was completely ridiculous.

Farage, just like Trump, is fabulous at mustering up the populist vote and people fall for it over and over again.

Thechaseison71 · 19/02/2026 11:16

SerendipityJane · 19/02/2026 10:48

It would not have been possible for the UK to enter the EU without having been in the EEC and EC first. And the freedom to leave would have been available at each of those elections.

For the government yes. Not for the people