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To not go on this holiday?

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notaurewhatusername · 17/02/2026 20:42

A group of friends have organised a holiday to Europe this summer, large villa, mixed group of men and women about 8 of us. We have a one year old and have been invited along though none of the group have babies or even young kids they’re bringing.

I’m not sure I want to go if I’m honest. I feel like I’d end up doing most of the childcare while everyone else relaxes. I also worry about the group dynamic changing how my partner behaves with the baby - wanting to look fun and carefree - and us ending up clashing over it.

Would you go, or would you let your partner go alone or none of us go?

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Justmuddlingalong · 17/02/2026 20:44

Book something you can all enjoy with the money you would have spent on a holiday you might enjoy.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/02/2026 20:44

Why do you think you’ll be doing most of the childcare? Just say no to that!