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People who don’t use their drives. Why? 😆

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emmerdaleorcorrie · 17/02/2026 19:31

I’m really curious about this. I doubt it’s just my area. It doesn’t annoy me or anything like that, but after living in a terrace with on street parking for years, I love having a drive now and can’t wrap my head around people who don’t use theirs. There’s a house a few doors down with 2 cars always parked on the street, while their drive sits empty. I’ve been living here for nearly a year, and I don’t think I’ve ever seen a car on their drive. I only noticed because one of their cars is always parked on a bend, forcing everyone to drive on the other side of the road to get past.

My whole estate is like this, with cars scattered everywhere, on pavements, and drives just sitting there empty. I know that some people don’t want to play car jenga, having one car in the drive and another on the street, but not using it at all seems a bit odd. Houses with parking usually cost more too. I feel more at ease knowing my car is safer and less likely to get damaged. It also frees up more space for guests.

I don’t know, I just think it’s a little odd, but what can you do. I don’t think there’s a law that saids you have to park on your drive haha. Is there anyone on here that does this? 😆

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ChocolateHobbit · 17/02/2026 19:52

There's more people than you realise who don't like reversing. If they pull into a drive they have to pull out backwards, and vice versa. They probably park on the road so they don't have to.

No idea how they manage to park at a local shop mind.

Brewtiful · 17/02/2026 19:52

I would absolutely love to know the rational behind this behaviour. We live on a street where only 4 houses have drives and yet only one house uses the drive. The other 3 houses all park their cars on the road (one house has 3 cars that I'm aware of). I literally have no idea why and every time I pass the empty drives it irritates me.

CaptainMyCaptain · 17/02/2026 19:51

Some people in my road had their drive (big enough for at least 2 cars) laid with glaring white tarmac type stuff. Now they park their cars across the pavement so I walk on the sparkling white drive.

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 17/02/2026 19:49

roadtowhoknowswhere · 17/02/2026 19:48

People next door but one have a drive big enough for 3 cars.
There is now only the couple living in the house and they still park the one car on the road.

Bizarre! Could they at least not park it in front of their own dropped kerb and then they aren’t taking up space?!

roadtowhoknowswhere · 17/02/2026 19:48

People next door but one have a drive big enough for 3 cars.
There is now only the couple living in the house and they still park the one car on the road.

emmerdaleorcorrie · 17/02/2026 19:47

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 17/02/2026 19:33

I know what you mean OP - there is someone who lives on my road who actually paid to make their drive larger and extend the dropped kerb so that they could comfortably fit two cars side by side (so no shuffle) and yet still park one in the street. It is particularly irksome as many other houses have only one parking space so they are taking up room and making parking harder for others.

That does sound annoying, especially if other people can’t find a space and their drive is empty. Perhaps the other neighbours could park on the drive instead? 😂

Fortunately, it doesn't stop access to my own drive, but I do worry about bumping into someone or them bumping into me eventually. It's crazy how people still speed around even when visibility is poor because of all the parked cars and vans everywhere (on corners and even junctions). I really wish people would take it easy and drive according to the road conditions, but then it wouldn't be as half as bad if more people used their drives!

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BeckyBloom · 17/02/2026 19:43

Apparently some people ( not me I love my drive) hate people parking outside their house so block the road with their own car. Just found this out from a friend who watches a theatrical performance at the house over the road who leaves her drive empty and complains every time there’s a car outside her house!

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 17/02/2026 19:33

I know what you mean OP - there is someone who lives on my road who actually paid to make their drive larger and extend the dropped kerb so that they could comfortably fit two cars side by side (so no shuffle) and yet still park one in the street. It is particularly irksome as many other houses have only one parking space so they are taking up room and making parking harder for others.

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