Lack of intimacy and stomach problems.

You’re making light of this OP but it’s actually pretty disgusting behaviour on your DH’s part. Either he’s so thick he believes this nonsense or he’s manipulating you for his own benefit. Either way, he’s not exactly a prince amongst men.

Please don’t have sex with him unless you’re using contraception. You’ve already had one unplanned baby, another would be a bad idea.

Your baby is 3wks old and he is trying to manipulate you into sex with lies? What a load of rubbish. He should be ashamed of himself.

This!

what a pest - god some men are so selfish

Ask for DH to send you them
I wouldn't be letting him off ... with read an article..
I would need to see evidence
Which of course doesn't exist
He would be getting a stern talking too as well

He has hands, doesn’t he?

Why won’t he get the snip, but is happy for you to undergo yet more stress to your body? Too sore for his precious little winky dink, is it?

I actually find it a bit concerning that you’re being so lighthearted with all of this, op. He sounds fucking vile and he’d definitely need some Buscopan because there’s no way I’d ever be having sex with such a pathetic excuse for a man ever again.

Oh he is a big man baby with his sore "tummy" you have 4 young children and he is pressuring you for attention, that conversation must have put him in a new light op.

Get away, you think so?! Are you her husband?!

She had a baby 3 weeks ago! Most postpartum women don’t want to be in the same postcode as a penis at that point. She doesn’t have to ‘help him’ do anything. He can sort himself out.

I understand why you needed that reassurance but the reality is that you shouldn’t have to ask a bunch of strangers whether your DP, the father of your child, is trying to manipulate you because he thinks you’re so gullible or tired to fall for it.

You are acting like he has higher sexual needs just because he has a penis.

I am assuming that in the month before you gave birth and didn’t want sex, that he still regularly gave you oral sex and used his hands/toys to pleasure you, even if he got nothing in return?

Hes probably not being honest. Are you sure it wasn't a wind up?? If not, maybe you can help him in other ways, doesn't have to be penetrative sex.

You deserve better than this. He should be prioritising your well being right now, not his dick. My heart hurts for you

Tell him you've seen these articles too! In fact, its such a bad problem that male doctors are happy to help ease the pressure at the GP surgery. You just need to ask the receptionist for the male doctor who offers 'personal cytoscopy'. Its a euphemism they'll understand. https://www.bradfordhospitals.nhs.uk/patients-and-visitors/patient-information/rigid-cystoscopy-male/

It's more likely his stomach problems stem from the fact that he's so full of shit!

You had a baby THREE WEEKS AGO , have three other little ones and he’s talking about lack of sex. I would never sleep with him again because the marriage would be over for me. He’s a sex pest. I’m so sorry Op.

What have I just read?! Your husband is atrocious for even thinking that it was OK to say that load of bollocks and also not very intelligent if he genuinely believes what he has read!

I thought it was abit unfair on him to have to sort himself out for so long, im abit of a mug arent i?!

It's not funny at all. Your husband trying to coerce you into sex using medical misinformation could cost you your fertility, your health, even your life.

What would happen to your baby if you had to go into the hospital to get treated for sepsis?

Sex does have amazing health benefits and so the article would have likely been based upon scientific facts - but it’s literally been a few weeks!!

And it’s actually the orgasm that carry the most health benefits, which he can do by himself.

It’s actually really concerning that you are this gullible.
Do you think teens have health issues because they don’t regularly have sex?
What about single people, those who are asexual or have intimacy issues?

I dread to think what else he manipulates you into doing if you are so gullible and naive.

He must be hoping that post-partum exhaustion has befuddled you enough to believe this. It really is the world’s most obvious bullshit. I really really hope he has some proper redeeming features!

He needs to stay off social media if he can't use his own common sense to know something like that isn't true.

Gawd - I would love to have seen how the pathetic excuse of a man raised this with you.

'You see darling...bit awks...I didn't want to have to bring it up like this, but as you are dragging things out...you're mildly irritating my gastrointestinal lining by refusing to accommodate my penis inside of your body, whilst your own insides are still feeling like they inside-out after creating my 4th offspring'

Sorry OP - he's rancid.

Sounds like absolute bollocks. However even if it WERE true (and it's not)...

You have just been creating a baby inside you for 9 months, then you got that baby out of your body via whichever traumatic means did the trick, and now you are keeping the baby alive using your body.

WHY would you give a flying fuck about him having a few 'stomach problems'?

Probably given himself indigestion trying come up with some "plausible" excuse to pressure you @tillylula

You deserve so much better.