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To think the hotel were out of order with valentines stay/room?

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Hotelhorror · 17/02/2026 13:30

I had a night away booked with my boyfriend on Saturday (the first time we had stayed overnight with each other).

It was a modern hotel with a glass window to the bathroom which was supposed to turn opaque when a button was selected. It was apparent this wasn’t working.

We went downstairs to reception to ask for it to be fixed, receptionist said they’d send someone to take a look. Maintenance man came up and said it was a common issue but he didn’t have the part needed (and wouldn’t have it until midweek) so he accompanied us back to reception again saying they’d give us another room.

The receptionist said there was no alternative rooms available as the hotel was full due to valentines and when this happens, couples have ‘seen it all before so just laugh about it’ and enjoy their stay.

I said this wasn’t acceptable and asked for the manager - who did appear from the back office but basically doubled down and said there was nothing they could do. She did offer us a voucher for a drink each in the bar (really!!) as a ‘goodwill gesture’.

As we had traveled some distance we decided to stay, and used the communal loos in the reception area whenever there was a need (luckily there was no need to in the night).

I found them thoroughly dismissive and am awaiting a response to my formal complaint to head office.

AIBU to find these customer service standards appalling?

Image attached of what I mean (this isn’t mine but from another review of same hotel of people unhappy with the set up)

To think the hotel were out of order with valentines stay/room?
OP posts:
Hotelhorror · 17/02/2026 13:38

Itsasecretnow · 17/02/2026 13:36

My idea of hell! I’m in a ltr 15+ years and I don’t want to watch anybody take a shit and I don’t want to watch anyone else take a shit! I am very aware now to check when booking hotels that I don’t end up with one like this. It’s absolute nonsense that customers will laugh and say they’ve seen it all before, or whatever nonsense the receptionist came out with! Yadnbu, but I think maybe you should’ve paid more attention to the reviews before booking, but tbh I don’t think everyone is even aware of these types of bathrooms still so maybe it’s just not in everyone’s radar. Did you realise before you booked? I don’t trust them to work at all so would avoid like the plague if I saw somewhere had these bathrooms!

I did look at reviews but it was a glance through the more recent ones which were positive and didn’t reference this issue.

I’d have expected the hotel to ensure the room we were assigned was fit for purpose before hand.

OP posts:
Reportingfromwherever · 17/02/2026 13:38

I can’t believe people saying this is OK. Who wants to have a poo or change a tampon with your other half watching?

Funnily enough OP there is a story in the telegraph today on this very phenomenon.

YANBU.

CheddarCheeseAndCrispSandwich · 17/02/2026 13:38

Aislyn · 17/02/2026 13:36

Why not just turn off the lights if you are so bothered? It doesn't seem like something worth making a big deal of. What are you expecting?

That wouldn’t help during the day though would it?? 🥴

Itsasecretnow · 17/02/2026 13:36

My idea of hell! I’m in a ltr 15+ years and I don’t want to watch anybody take a shit and I don’t want to watch anyone else take a shit! I am very aware now to check when booking hotels that I don’t end up with one like this. It’s absolute nonsense that customers will laugh and say they’ve seen it all before, or whatever nonsense the receptionist came out with! Yadnbu, but I think maybe you should’ve paid more attention to the reviews before booking, but tbh I don’t think everyone is even aware of these types of bathrooms still so maybe it’s just not in everyone’s radar. Did you realise before you booked? I don’t trust them to work at all so would avoid like the plague if I saw somewhere had these bathrooms!

Aislyn · 17/02/2026 13:36

Why not just turn off the lights if you are so bothered? It doesn't seem like something worth making a big deal of. What are you expecting?

7238SM · 17/02/2026 13:34

Its a weird set up having a clear window onto a loo, even with the option to make it opaque (which I realise didn't work).

If it was such an issue, why didn't you ask for some cello tape and a towel and stick of over the glass?

BrownSharpie · 17/02/2026 13:32

You’re being ridiculous.

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