90 year old male watching naked women on tv

Nothing wrong with using their imaginations!

I wonder whats in their head? The list of DiY jobs?

I think not.

You really wont be 'fancying' 90 year old men, even if your partner is still alive, you'll love him yes, as he will you but we are programmed to find young people attractive and by young I mean people who are fertile and active. Generally 20s to 40s.

Ask yourself how many elderly pinups there are, either now or ever have been?

Hollywood stars with the phwoar factor are not found into their 60s and 70s. Unless its someone like Helen Mirren or the likes of Sean Connery, they are few and far between.

It’s called masturbation. Men have been able to masturbate for very very many years before being able to access photographic images of real women’s bodies. Around 300,000 less a couple of hundred, in fact.

Of course, women can perve over men too. But they don't (in my experience anyway) drool or cat call after school boys or wank on the tube/bus or in the cinema. They're the least likely to watch extreme and violent pornography or bestiality too. And they rarely ditch their DH just because they've found someone half his age. They're also far less likely to get hooked on porn and then claim to be sex addicts or to try and grope the male office junior in the lift at every opportunity.

Nice 😉 I see what you did there.

Let me guess, nobody here’s DH has ever even thought about another woman sexually whilst with them, never mind viewing photos or videos online

YES, it’s gross to find out about your dad watching Babe station because he is your DAD. It’s not creepy to have some semblance of a sex drive or find women attractive.

I'd be pleased that he's still got some life in him if he was my relative.

No, I'm early thirties with a dh also in his early thirties. When I was 18 my boyfriend was 18, and so on. If a 90 year old had a 20 year old girlfriend, people would think it was gross.

Women criticising 'an adult male' need a slap, do they? Blimey. You lot usually make a bit of effort to pass as mainstream.

i mean its gross in general not sure what being 90 has to do with it. I assume he still feels arousal, why wouldn't he.

You would be quite odd if you werent in preference to 90 year old men. Do you tend to fancy 90 year old men now?

You wont then either

Allow me to identify myself as one with no imagination.

Enlighten me: what is self pleasure that doesn't involve objectification?

You're both wrong. She's wrong in saying 'a man of his age' because the role of pervy creep doesn't age discriminate.
You're wrong in telling her not to judge him. She has every right to judge him 6 ways to Sunday. Because it sounds like she's had half a century of knowing her father is a creep who objectified women, and naively hoped he'd aged out of it by now and was shocked and upset. To have a friend scold her for judging rather than empathise was probably the last thing she needed.

He is an adult male, his age makes no difference, who are to judge him, if thats what he likes to do. It's not gross, it's not weird, it's not wrong. Anyone who says otherwise needs a slap and to mind their own business.

Ok. Still don't think I'll be attracted to men multiple decades younger than me when I'm 90 though.

As long as he’s jut watching on TV, who is he hurting?🤷‍♀️

Im guessing you havent heard of the Chippendales then 🤣🤣

We're not even choosing to access porn.

What used to be considered porn is entirely mainstream now in popular TV programmes.

But posters are falling over themselves to say a 90 year old is a pervert watching adult consenting women with cleavage.

This!

why would anyone care?! I feel like I must be out of sync with Mumsnet because I don’t see this as especially pervy / gross / abnormal. My only objections to porn are on aesthetic grounds because it’s generally tacky and doesn’t (to me) seem that erotic. But that’s a taste thing. I also don’t enjoy opera. As long as the women involved are over age, doing whatever they are doing consensually and aren’t being enslaved or trafficked what on earth is the issue?

I think it's odd a 90 year old man looking at Babestation at cleavage when he could watch Bridgerton, GOT ot the like and see full tits, fannies and cocks - including erect ones getting sucked off.

And see fucking of every possible description on Netflix Sky, Prime etc.

But he's the pervert?

He just didn't know he could get far more explicit and sexual content on mainstream channels where you all tell yourselves it's part of the plot.

Perverts.

I grewup in the 60’s and 70’s.

There was a stripper on every Sunday dinner time at the club over the hill.

People who grew up with smartphones/the internet (those of us who are "older millennials" didn't have these things until we were near adults) apparently are far more likely to watch a lot of porn, men and women. I don't like it, and might get called old-fashioned/prude as I prefer the idea of doing stuff with a real partner you love and respect, not gazing at either men or women as objects. But then, those older than me were more likely to go to strip shows, and I suppose it's no worse for any adult, regardless of age.

Oh get over yourself.

If the 90 year old was using Babestation for sexual gratification then it's literally all that I said.

A legal channel with clothed girls jiggling their cleavage and promising they'll see more if they pay.

Which virtually everyone knows isn't necessary as you can get porn for free online every day of the week.

But you think he's some kind of 90 year old pervert?

When Bridgerton and GOT and its ilk are showing what would have been soft porn years ago?

When women of all ages are getting the fanny gallops over full-,frontal cocks and commenting on it all over SM.

Have a word with yourself or at least grow up and get with the times.