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To think statutory maternity pay should be the same amount as the state pension?

395 replies

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:06

I don’t have children, probably never will. But I do think SMP is shockingly low, and if the government is really worried about the birth rate they should look at this.

Many women on maternity only get SMP and no enhanced package from their employer. It’s current set at a maximum of £187.18 a week for 39 weeks. If mothers want to be off for 52, it will be unpaid.

The new state pension is £230.25 a week. While those on maternity may have a partner to support them, they probably won’t have any other income while many pensioners also have a private pension alongside the SP.

AIBU to think that if £230.25 is needed by all pensioners over 66 for a basic standard of living (who probably have less outgoings than a young family), SMP should be the same?

If we can afford to pay the state pension to every pensioner for the rest of their lives out of NI, we can afford to support new working mothers birthing and raising the next generation of workers for a short amount of time. The financial hit is a big deterrent for people having children. I also think SMP should be paid from birth until the child’s first birthday.

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Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:35

NomTook · 16/02/2026 20:25

State Pension is described as a benefit in UK legislation so your beliefs on the issue aren’t really important.

Thank you for telling me I’m unimportant. Hopefully it made you feel better than you obviously do.

The Tories deemed it as a benefit because they see people as being as unimportant as you do.

I think seeing people as unimportant is psychotic, and probably a result of a chaotic upbringing.

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 20:31

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 18:46

That's just not true.

Failing to make provision for your old age is most definitely a choice.

The OPs point is a good one. Statutory maternity provision is abysmal in this country. As is support for parents generally.

Edited

Many people didn't have the income to invest monies to be deferred to old age. If you were on the minimum wage were did you find the money to pay into a pension, you didn't. Its only recently that employers have to contribute to a pension for you and that there were tax breaks if you contributed too.

I will however agree that when you are 20 and being a pensioner seems so far away, you tend to want the cash in your hand now rather than in 40+ years time. When I was 20, I never considered any potential employer pension contributions as my wage, it never crossed my mind. But then most of my employers at that time didn't have to provide pension schemes. My niece recently got offered two jobs, one in the Civil Service at £45,000 plus 29% pension contributions or one at £47,000 plus 3% pension contribution. She opted for the £47,000 now despite being told how much of a better deal the civil service one was. She couldn't consider the impact it would have when she retired as it is too far off in the future and £47K was better for mortgage offers than £45K. Just like I did, she is living for her NOW and not her future.

NomTook · 16/02/2026 20:25

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:22

Well if it is a benefit (I don’t believe it is) it’s a contributory benefit. Like 6 months JSA. I’ll get my pension in five years. I contributed for 43 years to get it.

I am also entitled to claim the 6 months JSA.

But contrary to popular belief on here, I couldn’t face 35 hours a week searching for jobs for a pittance. If I wanted 6 months more money, I’d have retired 6 months later.

State Pension is described as a benefit in UK legislation so your beliefs on the issue aren’t really important.

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:24

BlueRedCat · 16/02/2026 19:38

Surely the difference pensioners can’t go back to work but the parent can? I couldn’t afford to live on
maternity allowance so I went back to work at 5 months. Didn’t occur to me to think the amount was too small. My view is any money should go into subsiding childcare costs rather than then direct to parents.

Edited

So you think strangers looking after a baby is better than a parent?

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:22

treeowl · 16/02/2026 19:34

Pension is not a BENEFIT

YES they are

Well if it is a benefit (I don’t believe it is) it’s a contributory benefit. Like 6 months JSA. I’ll get my pension in five years. I contributed for 43 years to get it.

I am also entitled to claim the 6 months JSA.

But contrary to popular belief on here, I couldn’t face 35 hours a week searching for jobs for a pittance. If I wanted 6 months more money, I’d have retired 6 months later.

NomTook · 16/02/2026 20:08

BlueRedCat · 16/02/2026 20:01

Yes but there’s no pot of money that anyone has paid those contributions into. Your contributions just go into the tax pot. The government can simply stop pensions at any point regardless of anyone’s contributions just like any other benefit

Edited

Yes, I agree. That’s why I called it a contributions based BENEFIT, not a personal savings account.

BlueRedCat · 16/02/2026 20:01

NomTook · 16/02/2026 19:41

State Pension is a contribution based benefit.

Edited

Yes but there’s no pot of money that anyone has paid those contributions into. Your contributions just go into the tax pot. The government can simply stop pensions at any point regardless of anyone’s contributions just like any other benefit

nearlylovemyusername · 16/02/2026 19:56

YorksMa · 16/02/2026 19:49

There is not a 'panic' happening. There are plenty of people in this country and on the planet in general. The current model of each generation being bigger than the one before in order to pay pensions is not sustainable indefinitely and we'll have to think of another way as a society. The rhetoric about babies and the alleged 'panic' is coming from the far right and their Kinder, Kirche, Küche agenda.

completely agree.

The thing is that AI is already reshaping the world of work in the most prolific way. There will be epic reduction of desk based jobs in the next 5 years. There won't be a need for workforce in it's current size. Plenty of wealth will still be generated, but most likely it will be accumulated by the same top 0.01%.

So what will be really needed is an army of carers, and we still have sufficient numbers of them even if it's 1:1 ration of a pensioner to a working age adult.

nearlylovemyusername · 16/02/2026 19:49

Am I correct that in case SMP is the only source of income then there will be a lot of other top ups and parents would get child benefit too? so their total income would be more than £180.

Also if employers are forced to pay more then it's going to way much more difficult for women of childbearing age to find jobs.

YorksMa · 16/02/2026 19:49

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:47

‘Being old isn’t a choice, having a baby is’

But if no one has babies there will be no workers to pay pensions when we are old. There is a panic happening in western countries now due to the declining birth rate and people opting out of having children as it will cause a massive issue in a few decades time.

There is not a 'panic' happening. There are plenty of people in this country and on the planet in general. The current model of each generation being bigger than the one before in order to pay pensions is not sustainable indefinitely and we'll have to think of another way as a society. The rhetoric about babies and the alleged 'panic' is coming from the far right and their Kinder, Kirche, Küche agenda.

wasieverreallyhere · 16/02/2026 19:45

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:06

I don’t have children, probably never will. But I do think SMP is shockingly low, and if the government is really worried about the birth rate they should look at this.

Many women on maternity only get SMP and no enhanced package from their employer. It’s current set at a maximum of £187.18 a week for 39 weeks. If mothers want to be off for 52, it will be unpaid.

The new state pension is £230.25 a week. While those on maternity may have a partner to support them, they probably won’t have any other income while many pensioners also have a private pension alongside the SP.

AIBU to think that if £230.25 is needed by all pensioners over 66 for a basic standard of living (who probably have less outgoings than a young family), SMP should be the same?

If we can afford to pay the state pension to every pensioner for the rest of their lives out of NI, we can afford to support new working mothers birthing and raising the next generation of workers for a short amount of time. The financial hit is a big deterrent for people having children. I also think SMP should be paid from birth until the child’s first birthday.

If reform get ignored it will be got rid of totaly

Coffeeandbooks88 · 16/02/2026 19:42

helenlsmith · 16/02/2026 19:30

Pension is not a BENEFIT. It is something pensioners have paid into all their working life, not worked for 5 years then expect a good weekly wage whist on maternity leave.Forward plan where money is concerned. You have plenty of time to buy most of what you need before the baby arrives.

Not all pensioners have paid in.

NomTook · 16/02/2026 19:41

helenlsmith · 16/02/2026 19:30

Pension is not a BENEFIT. It is something pensioners have paid into all their working life, not worked for 5 years then expect a good weekly wage whist on maternity leave.Forward plan where money is concerned. You have plenty of time to buy most of what you need before the baby arrives.

State Pension is a contribution based benefit.

BlueRedCat · 16/02/2026 19:40

helenlsmith · 16/02/2026 19:30

Pension is not a BENEFIT. It is something pensioners have paid into all their working life, not worked for 5 years then expect a good weekly wage whist on maternity leave.Forward plan where money is concerned. You have plenty of time to buy most of what you need before the baby arrives.

It is a state benefit.

no pot of money has been paid into to get it. Just qualifying years of you working but otherwise no correlation. The benefit can be stopped at any point by any government just like any other benefit.

BlueRedCat · 16/02/2026 19:38

Surely the difference pensioners can’t go back to work but the parent can? I couldn’t afford to live on
maternity allowance so I went back to work at 5 months. Didn’t occur to me to think the amount was too small. My view is any money should go into subsiding childcare costs rather than then direct to parents.

treeowl · 16/02/2026 19:34

Pension is not a BENEFIT

YES they are

Phelicity · 16/02/2026 19:32

SMP doesn’t compare too unfavourably to the old state pension which is about £176 per week, and is still the only income of many older pensioners. Neither are a king’s ransom but, in the case of pensioners, options are limited, and many bills are just as high whether you’re a family or an elderly person living alone.

croydon15 · 16/02/2026 19:31

The difference is that majority of pensioners have contributed through NI for years but you are entitled to maternity leave after a short number of years in a job so you have not contributed much. I would agree that both are low.

helenlsmith · 16/02/2026 19:30

Pension is not a BENEFIT. It is something pensioners have paid into all their working life, not worked for 5 years then expect a good weekly wage whist on maternity leave.Forward plan where money is concerned. You have plenty of time to buy most of what you need before the baby arrives.

PurpleCoo · 16/02/2026 19:17

No, having a child is a choice, and people should budget accordingly. It doesn't seem fair for the state to fund people to have a paid year off work, which could amount to multiple years off if people have multiple children.

I am by no means anti benefits, and support disabled people who can't work having access to benefits, so I am not some sort of Tory/reform person who thinks people shouldn't get benefits at all. Just not for lifestyle choices.

I am a parent as well and wouldn't expect a paid year off work at pension rates.

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 19:11

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 18:46

That's just not true.

Failing to make provision for your old age is most definitely a choice.

The OPs point is a good one. Statutory maternity provision is abysmal in this country. As is support for parents generally.

Edited

What about the pensioners who are parents?

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 19:09

WimbyAce · 16/02/2026 18:34

I think as others have said you really need to save some money beforehand to help to fund the time off work. I received occupational pay in addition to stat but still saved prior to this to ensure we could cover the year off work.

What do you do if it’s an accident though?

BridgertonToBe · 16/02/2026 19:04

changeme4this · 16/02/2026 18:58

Giving birth doesn’t guarantee a quality individual who will contribute to the tax system either….

True

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changeme4this · 16/02/2026 18:58

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:14

If people choose not to have babies (which is what’s happening) there will be no workers to pay for pensions! People need to have babies for humanity to continue, it is not a lifestyle ‘choice’ like having a gym membership or a 5* holiday every year.

Giving birth doesn’t guarantee a quality individual who will contribute to the tax system either….

BridgertonToBe · 16/02/2026 18:57

catmothertes1 · 16/02/2026 18:22

Why does the OP feel the need to contrast ML with SP? I do not have children but would not mind if parents got more financial help. However,why make it sounds as if somehow pensioners do not deserve what they get? Why is it always one group versus another group?

Only because the SP is seen as the minimum amount needed to live on. I’m aware other benefits are very low, but SP is one of the only ones left that is not means tested.

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