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To think statutory maternity pay should be the same amount as the state pension?

395 replies

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:06

I don’t have children, probably never will. But I do think SMP is shockingly low, and if the government is really worried about the birth rate they should look at this.

Many women on maternity only get SMP and no enhanced package from their employer. It’s current set at a maximum of £187.18 a week for 39 weeks. If mothers want to be off for 52, it will be unpaid.

The new state pension is £230.25 a week. While those on maternity may have a partner to support them, they probably won’t have any other income while many pensioners also have a private pension alongside the SP.

AIBU to think that if £230.25 is needed by all pensioners over 66 for a basic standard of living (who probably have less outgoings than a young family), SMP should be the same?

If we can afford to pay the state pension to every pensioner for the rest of their lives out of NI, we can afford to support new working mothers birthing and raising the next generation of workers for a short amount of time. The financial hit is a big deterrent for people having children. I also think SMP should be paid from birth until the child’s first birthday.

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PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 22:22

BBCK · 16/02/2026 21:36

I don’t think it’s about who has it harder. The problem is that young people are very squeezed financially in their 20s and 30s and if we want future tax payers to look after all our pensioners the we need babies.

Oh I could cry, so we need babies so we can afford to look after our pensioners do we? So most recipients of SP are Boomers, do you know why they called them Boomers, it stands for baby boomers! They’re named after the post‑war baby boom — the huge surge in births that happened after World War II ended.
But everyone seems to be bashing boomers here yet the solution to the problem, according to you, is to recreate the boomer generation, I could laugh if it wasn't so sad.

SMP and SP have no correlation!

Coffeeandbooks88 · 16/02/2026 22:14

Plenty of women recieving pensions were SAHMs and didn't contribute for many years.

nearlylovemyusername · 16/02/2026 22:11

ThisRedZebra · 16/02/2026 20:47

Except that would be illegal to discriminate like that.

I think all parents (men and women) should be offered decent parental leave (as happens in some northern European countries) that would allow them to continue paying the bills during one of the biggest upheavals in their lives, and keep from potential discrimination against women in it workplace

Except that would be illegal to discriminate like that.

It wouldn't. Ever heard of youth unemployment exploding? there are threads here on MN talking about youngsters sending out hundreds of CVs and unable to find any job. Well, there are several reasons, but increased NMW for under 20yo is one of the key ones. Why would you hire someone inexperienced if you can get a trained worker for for just slightly more.
This wouldn't affect professionals as much because they usually get their full salaries for 6-9 months, but low skilled workers, who usually get SMP, employers will simply shift to older women or men.

BBCK · 16/02/2026 21:36

I don’t think it’s about who has it harder. The problem is that young people are very squeezed financially in their 20s and 30s and if we want future tax payers to look after all our pensioners the we need babies.

Phelicity · 16/02/2026 21:35

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:29

Why are we elder bashing here? Retirement is permanent, SMP is temporary - no comparison!

Agreed - this is a false, pointless comparison.

Mere1 · 16/02/2026 21:30

Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:16

Here we go again. Today's 30-somethings have the worst deal ever, ever and today's pensioners are living the life of luxury after a working life of joy and ease.
The working generation is paying tax to fund today's pensioners, just as they did when they were working. It has always been the same but for some reason it has suddenly become a huge issue and today's workers seen to be under the impression that they have been particularly shafted by doing the same as others have always done.
OP, if it makes you feel any better, you will be paying for my luxurious retirement in 10 years time but I had much worse maternity entitlements, no subsidised childcare and no flexible working and limited workplace pension, so much as younger workers don't want to hear it, they don't have a monopoly on hardship.
And no, we couldn't afford one parent at home as we could not easily afford the 15% mortgage rate on one salary.

Thank you. I agree.

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:29

Lisa46 · 16/02/2026 21:19

We don't have the money to keep spending - maybe we should reduce the pension to the maternity pay level?

Why are we elder bashing here? Retirement is permanent, SMP is temporary - no comparison!

Lisa46 · 16/02/2026 21:19

We don't have the money to keep spending - maybe we should reduce the pension to the maternity pay level?

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:14

FasterMichelin · 16/02/2026 21:08

Well, kind of but don’t we compare everything? Isn’t relativity important? (Answer is yes!).

No there is no relativity between SMP & SP.

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:13

FasterMichelin · 16/02/2026 20:50

Isn’t that the point OP is making? That people can’t afford to have kids now?

Lots of retired people have long ago paid off their mortgages and so their pension doesn’t need to cover their housing. Young mums are often at the height of their housing debt.

So on that basis, all young people shouldn't bother getting in debt to buy a house because then they will have too many assets when they retire???

Oh I have had an idea......maybe young people should freeze their eggs and wait until they are pensioners and don't have to work to fertilise their eggs cos according to you lot they are rich, and don't have to work so are in a better position to cope with this???

Pensioners have had the same fights as current parents, trying to buy a home at the same time as raising kids, why are we pensioner bashing today?

Two totally different arguments.

FasterMichelin · 16/02/2026 21:08

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:01

Or the two (SMP & SPs) are not comparable as they are totally different situations perhaps???

Well, kind of but don’t we compare everything? Isn’t relativity important? (Answer is yes!).

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:07

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:39

I know people who haven’t claimed their pension as they don’t need to. Sorry you don’t.

Wow... and I know people who don't need to claim SMP or indeed ever work as they are rich......so where does that get us now.

There just is no comparison between SMP and SP!

Mere1 · 16/02/2026 21:05

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:06

I don’t have children, probably never will. But I do think SMP is shockingly low, and if the government is really worried about the birth rate they should look at this.

Many women on maternity only get SMP and no enhanced package from their employer. It’s current set at a maximum of £187.18 a week for 39 weeks. If mothers want to be off for 52, it will be unpaid.

The new state pension is £230.25 a week. While those on maternity may have a partner to support them, they probably won’t have any other income while many pensioners also have a private pension alongside the SP.

AIBU to think that if £230.25 is needed by all pensioners over 66 for a basic standard of living (who probably have less outgoings than a young family), SMP should be the same?

If we can afford to pay the state pension to every pensioner for the rest of their lives out of NI, we can afford to support new working mothers birthing and raising the next generation of workers for a short amount of time. The financial hit is a big deterrent for people having children. I also think SMP should be paid from birth until the child’s first birthday.

Many errors and assumptions in this. I’m a pensioner and get £194 per week. Retirement isn’t a choice. Maternity is usually a choice.

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:01

FasterMichelin · 16/02/2026 20:50

Isn’t that the point OP is making? That people can’t afford to have kids now?

Lots of retired people have long ago paid off their mortgages and so their pension doesn’t need to cover their housing. Young mums are often at the height of their housing debt.

Or the two (SMP & SPs) are not comparable as they are totally different situations perhaps???

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:00

BridgertonToBe · 16/02/2026 20:44

Small point but you are not taxed on the money that goes in to your pension pot. It is taken from gross income. You are only taxed when you take it out ( if over tax threshold)

OK, fair point, I accept that.

ScartlettSole · 16/02/2026 20:58

TwilightSkies · 15/02/2026 18:57

One of many reasons the birth rate is dropping so much.
‘If you can’t afford a baby, don’t have one’……..um ok. Hello ageing population.
And those saying that people can save for a baby. Well pensioners have had their whole lives to save for retirement.

Most paid into pensions all their working life to pay for their pensions though. Majority have been utterly shafted too with the year they are entitled being pushed back constantly. Its not as if they just expected money when they turned a certain age!

FasterMichelin · 16/02/2026 20:50

HoskinsChoice · 15/02/2026 18:36

For most couples, one partner will be earning a full time salary which will be considerably higher than the state pension. I can kind of see an argument for it being low but comparing it to pensions, is crazy. Also, if people can't afford to live on a salary plus SMP, they probably can't afford to have a baby.

Isn’t that the point OP is making? That people can’t afford to have kids now?

Lots of retired people have long ago paid off their mortgages and so their pension doesn’t need to cover their housing. Young mums are often at the height of their housing debt.

BlueRedCat · 16/02/2026 20:49

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:24

So you think strangers looking after a baby is better than a parent?

If it a choice of being around for you child and having no money or someone else looking after your child whilst you work to provide for it then you need to work. The state shouldn’t be responsible for paying for anyone’s child. It is hard choice, one of which I had to make myself, but providing for them is equally as important as being around.

ThisRedZebra · 16/02/2026 20:47

nearlylovemyusername · 16/02/2026 19:49

Am I correct that in case SMP is the only source of income then there will be a lot of other top ups and parents would get child benefit too? so their total income would be more than £180.

Also if employers are forced to pay more then it's going to way much more difficult for women of childbearing age to find jobs.

Edited

Except that would be illegal to discriminate like that.

I think all parents (men and women) should be offered decent parental leave (as happens in some northern European countries) that would allow them to continue paying the bills during one of the biggest upheavals in their lives, and keep from potential discrimination against women in it workplace

BurtsBeefCrisps · 16/02/2026 20:46

Theres worse gaps tbh. Self employed adopters are exempt from any maternity pay. Despite countless campaigns nobody has ever come clean about why there’s this discrimination. Doubly unfair when you consider that few adoptive parents are ever able to work FT or in a high pressured/well paid job post adopting.
There’s gaps and unfairness everywhere in the system especially for the more vulnerable.
https://www.adoptionuk.org/news/self-employed-adopters-face-unequal-treatment-if-they-want-to-start-a-family-report-finds

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 20:45

SamVan · 16/02/2026 03:08

I generally agree that this country has prioritized pensioners over the young and this is reflected in the amount we spend on older people rather than encouraging people to have children and providing well for children. It’s an unfortunate byproduct of the fact that pensioners vote. It would be much bettter for the country if they reduced pension spending and increased spending on encouraging births and education.

This is so wrong on many fronts, how are pensioners supposed to survive? And lets not forget that they provide a great deal of free child and elder care too?

SMP and SP bear no correlation to each other at all. Just look at the statistics about pensions. This is just ageist twaddle.

BridgertonToBe · 16/02/2026 20:44

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 20:36

But you are missing the point. SMP is a temporary situation, you can go back to work on full wage and maybe get bonuses and promotion etc. When you are on SP that is your lot, there is no going back, no option for a bonus or payrise, you can't defer financial decisions until you are back at work.

And you get taxed twice if you are over the tax level, so you got taxed when you earnt the money to pay into your pension scheme and then you get taxed when you get the money from your pension pot!

Again, I am not saying parents don't struggle on SMP and that there shouldn't be more support but comparing yourself to pensioners is wrong because they are totally different circumstances.

Small point but you are not taxed on the money that goes in to your pension pot. It is taken from gross income. You are only taxed when you take it out ( if over tax threshold)

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Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:39

NomTook · 16/02/2026 20:37

Ok, sure, let’s introduce belief based definitions for the benefits system in case people want to self identify out of claiming them.

I know people who haven’t claimed their pension as they don’t need to. Sorry you don’t.

NomTook · 16/02/2026 20:37

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 20:35

Thank you for telling me I’m unimportant. Hopefully it made you feel better than you obviously do.

The Tories deemed it as a benefit because they see people as being as unimportant as you do.

I think seeing people as unimportant is psychotic, and probably a result of a chaotic upbringing.

Ok, sure, let’s introduce belief based definitions for the benefits system in case people want to self identify out of claiming them.

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 20:36

BridgertonToBe · 16/02/2026 18:52

I never said pensions should be reduced. I said if the SP amount is seen as the amount needed to live on, it should be the same for women who take maternity leave for a few months. I know many women who had a really hard time with the reduced pay, and went back after a few months because of it.

But you are missing the point. SMP is a temporary situation, you can go back to work on full wage and maybe get bonuses and promotion etc. When you are on SP that is your lot, there is no going back, no option for a bonus or payrise, you can't defer financial decisions until you are back at work.

And you get taxed twice if you are over the tax level, so you got taxed when you earnt the money to pay into your pension scheme and then you get taxed when you get the money from your pension pot!

Again, I am not saying parents don't struggle on SMP and that there shouldn't be more support but comparing yourself to pensioners is wrong because they are totally different circumstances.