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To think statutory maternity pay should be the same amount as the state pension?

395 replies

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:06

I don’t have children, probably never will. But I do think SMP is shockingly low, and if the government is really worried about the birth rate they should look at this.

Many women on maternity only get SMP and no enhanced package from their employer. It’s current set at a maximum of £187.18 a week for 39 weeks. If mothers want to be off for 52, it will be unpaid.

The new state pension is £230.25 a week. While those on maternity may have a partner to support them, they probably won’t have any other income while many pensioners also have a private pension alongside the SP.

AIBU to think that if £230.25 is needed by all pensioners over 66 for a basic standard of living (who probably have less outgoings than a young family), SMP should be the same?

If we can afford to pay the state pension to every pensioner for the rest of their lives out of NI, we can afford to support new working mothers birthing and raising the next generation of workers for a short amount of time. The financial hit is a big deterrent for people having children. I also think SMP should be paid from birth until the child’s first birthday.

OP posts:
Differentforgirls · 17/02/2026 08:16

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 07:54

Thats exactly what I meant - it’s not swings and roundabouts at all! It’s not comparable.

No one’s saying you shouldn’t have a pension, we’re saying mothers should have better SMP. It’s not a case of who wins, it’s a case of everyone being able to afford to live a comfortable life, with essential bills for housing and food being affordable.

It’s not just a case of “cutting your cloth” like many of the older generation like to believe. Jobs used to be for life. Utilities were affordable. Housing, whilst having periods of high interest and limited borrowing, has increased exponentially meaning your generation of home owners are now sitting on £hundreds of thousands of pounds of unearned money whilst those in their 20s have to live with parents or rent rooms.

Im not suggesting you don’t get a pension, im suggesting more needs to be done to support the younger generations.

By the way it’s not unearned! We used our EARNINGS to pay for the homes we now own.

Differentforgirls · 17/02/2026 08:15

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 07:54

Thats exactly what I meant - it’s not swings and roundabouts at all! It’s not comparable.

No one’s saying you shouldn’t have a pension, we’re saying mothers should have better SMP. It’s not a case of who wins, it’s a case of everyone being able to afford to live a comfortable life, with essential bills for housing and food being affordable.

It’s not just a case of “cutting your cloth” like many of the older generation like to believe. Jobs used to be for life. Utilities were affordable. Housing, whilst having periods of high interest and limited borrowing, has increased exponentially meaning your generation of home owners are now sitting on £hundreds of thousands of pounds of unearned money whilst those in their 20s have to live with parents or rent rooms.

Im not suggesting you don’t get a pension, im suggesting more needs to be done to support the younger generations.

I still think young people want too much too soon.

I agree the housing costs are dire, thank Thatcher and right to buy.

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 07:54

Differentforgirls · 17/02/2026 07:15

No one is saying otherwise. But todays pensioners didn’t cause the housing or cost of living crises.

We also got 18 weeks maternity pay, had massive mortgage interest rates and could only borrow 3 x 1 salary + 1 x times the next over 25 years and didn’t get free child care.

Swings and roundabouts.

In addition, we all didn’t have numerous toilets, rooms for every child and didn’t change our furniture every 5 minutes, have our children in clubs every night, or have numerous holidays and individual cars.

We cut our cloth.

Thats exactly what I meant - it’s not swings and roundabouts at all! It’s not comparable.

No one’s saying you shouldn’t have a pension, we’re saying mothers should have better SMP. It’s not a case of who wins, it’s a case of everyone being able to afford to live a comfortable life, with essential bills for housing and food being affordable.

It’s not just a case of “cutting your cloth” like many of the older generation like to believe. Jobs used to be for life. Utilities were affordable. Housing, whilst having periods of high interest and limited borrowing, has increased exponentially meaning your generation of home owners are now sitting on £hundreds of thousands of pounds of unearned money whilst those in their 20s have to live with parents or rent rooms.

Im not suggesting you don’t get a pension, im suggesting more needs to be done to support the younger generations.

ThisRedZebra · 17/02/2026 07:30

nearlylovemyusername · 16/02/2026 22:11

Except that would be illegal to discriminate like that.

It wouldn't. Ever heard of youth unemployment exploding? there are threads here on MN talking about youngsters sending out hundreds of CVs and unable to find any job. Well, there are several reasons, but increased NMW for under 20yo is one of the key ones. Why would you hire someone inexperienced if you can get a trained worker for for just slightly more.
This wouldn't affect professionals as much because they usually get their full salaries for 6-9 months, but low skilled workers, who usually get SMP, employers will simply shift to older women or men.

Just because companies do it, doesn't mean it isn't illegal. It is illegal to discriminate in recruitment based on age and/or gender. I've no doubt that employers do it - they're awful - but it is illegal.

We shouldn't let some employers discriminate actions affect putting policies into place that support people. America uses the same excuse for why they don't offer any maternity leave at all

Differentforgirls · 17/02/2026 07:15

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 06:33

With all due respect, how much was your mortgage or rent 30 years ago? I’m going to hazard a guess it’s no where near that of today’s mothers, who have to pay extortionate prices to keep a roof over their heads. Who benefited? Your generation.

When you were having children, the cost of living was as such that one working parent was common. Now most families need two working parents, often both full time.

It’s not the same. I wish the 50+ generation understood the difficulties this younger generation is having. They seem to dismiss it as “we all had it” but that’s just not true.

No one is saying otherwise. But todays pensioners didn’t cause the housing or cost of living crises.

We also got 18 weeks maternity pay, had massive mortgage interest rates and could only borrow 3 x 1 salary + 1 x times the next over 25 years and didn’t get free child care.

Swings and roundabouts.

In addition, we all didn’t have numerous toilets, rooms for every child and didn’t change our furniture every 5 minutes, have our children in clubs every night, or have numerous holidays and individual cars.

We cut our cloth.

Differentforgirls · 17/02/2026 07:03

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 23:57

So why say SMP claimants should get the same as those entitled to SP - what is the correlation? Pension is a deferred income that we have paid to get.

Edited

Again, I didn’t say that!

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 06:33

MandieMandie · 16/02/2026 23:49

I have worked for 45 years paying national insurance to pay for my SP through national insurance. I still have another 6 years to due to the pension age being raised. I agree SMP isn't great and never has been. It wasn't fantastic when I had my family. When you have a family you have to adjust to the financial changes. Simple as that.
For those saying today's workers are paying for my pension that isn't true I've already paid for my own !

With all due respect, how much was your mortgage or rent 30 years ago? I’m going to hazard a guess it’s no where near that of today’s mothers, who have to pay extortionate prices to keep a roof over their heads. Who benefited? Your generation.

When you were having children, the cost of living was as such that one working parent was common. Now most families need two working parents, often both full time.

It’s not the same. I wish the 50+ generation understood the difficulties this younger generation is having. They seem to dismiss it as “we all had it” but that’s just not true.

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 06:29

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 23:57

So why say SMP claimants should get the same as those entitled to SP - what is the correlation? Pension is a deferred income that we have paid to get.

Edited

No it’s not.

FasterMichelin · 17/02/2026 06:28

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:14

No there is no relativity between SMP & SP.

Two periods of unemployment/loss income due to life events, both of which rely on government support. That’s the relativity.

MrsJeanLuc · 17/02/2026 00:30

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 23:57

So why say SMP claimants should get the same as those entitled to SP - what is the correlation? Pension is a deferred income that we have paid to get.

Edited

Common misconception that.

The NI payments you have made (are still making) pay for your parents' pensions.

With birth rates falling there are fewer and fewer working age people paying the taxes that will pay for our pensions. It's a demographic time bomb that all western governments are worried about.

MrsJeanLuc · 17/02/2026 00:26

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 23:16

They got 18 weeks maternity leave, no free child care, and now after managing to work their way through all that and still pay contributions to the NHS, you think they don’t deserve a pension?

I never said they didn't. Nobody has said they don't deserve a pension.
But without young people working and paying taxes there won't be any money to pay pensions with.

Ownedbykitties · 17/02/2026 00:12

@BridgertonToBeno that is incorrect, unfortunately.

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 23:57

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 23:23

I never said there was.

So why say SMP claimants should get the same as those entitled to SP - what is the correlation? Pension is a deferred income that we have paid to get.

Crochetandtea · 16/02/2026 23:52

I think it’s fine. Why do we need more babies if there aren’t enough jobs for the people we already have?

MandieMandie · 16/02/2026 23:49

I have worked for 45 years paying national insurance to pay for my SP through national insurance. I still have another 6 years to due to the pension age being raised. I agree SMP isn't great and never has been. It wasn't fantastic when I had my family. When you have a family you have to adjust to the financial changes. Simple as that.
For those saying today's workers are paying for my pension that isn't true I've already paid for my own !

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 23:28

Coffeeandbooks88 · 16/02/2026 22:14

Plenty of women recieving pensions were SAHMs and didn't contribute for many years.

They also didn’t claim the benefit of free child care.

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 23:23

PrettyPickle · 16/02/2026 21:07

Wow... and I know people who don't need to claim SMP or indeed ever work as they are rich......so where does that get us now.

There just is no comparison between SMP and SP!

I never said there was.

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 23:16

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 22:47

Good question. What about them?

They got 18 weeks maternity leave, no free child care, and now after managing to work their way through all that and still pay contributions to the NHS, you think they don’t deserve a pension?

Katypp · 16/02/2026 23:04

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 22:55

I don't get this at all. Retirement most definitely is a choice for most people.

Are you serious? You are either being deliberately obtuse or you don't actually know what retirement is.
It's a shame i won't be around to hear what the posters who are oh-so-keen to strip pensioners' incomes becase it doesn't affect them yet will think about things when they are pensioners.
I imagine they will have a different opinion then.

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 22:59

Cat1504 · 16/02/2026 22:46

Why are you telling me this ?
I took my nhs pension at 55 ….I’m all good thanks 🙄
like I said….having a baby is a choice….getting old isn’t

But that's exactly op's point!

We, as a society, need young people to have children ... who grow up and go to work (or run businesses) and pay the taxes that fund our pensions

With SMP (and support for parents) so poor in this country, fewer and fewer people can afford to bring up a family. It's something we should ALL be worried about.

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 22:55

Mere1 · 16/02/2026 21:05

Many errors and assumptions in this. I’m a pensioner and get £194 per week. Retirement isn’t a choice. Maternity is usually a choice.

I don't get this at all. Retirement most definitely is a choice for most people.

Thechaseison71 · 16/02/2026 22:49

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:38

Many couples work full time and just about break even with the cost of living being what it is. The financial climate is a big reason for the birth rate dropping.

If that's the case they won't be able to afford full time nursery fees when the baby is born

MrsJeanLuc · 16/02/2026 22:47

Differentforgirls · 16/02/2026 19:11

What about the pensioners who are parents?

Good question. What about them?

Cat1504 · 16/02/2026 22:46

RosesAndHellebores · 16/02/2026 16:01

Many of us can also chose when to retire. There is no longer a mandatory retirement age.

I always ramped into a private pension in my 20s because I knew I moght have some time off in my 30s due to having children.

We had our first when I was 34 and saved up and worked on the basis that me giving up work woukd not be a dealbreaker. Unusually for the mid 90s my employer was flexible and suggested I could return part-time which I did at the start of the next sales quaeter when DS was 4 months old and all maternity pay entitlement had expired. 6 months then; 90% for 6 weeks, stat mat for 12 thereafter. Sadly, DS1 was poorly and I gave up work after a year, for 7 years. NI contrubutions were made, linked to child benefit. (Very important for their pensions that women with partners above the threshold claim the CB and their partner repays it)

I returned to work, local and public sector in 2003 and am contemplating retiring in the next 18 month. In September I'll have enough contributions excluding the contracted out years, to receive the full state pension. Overall, my occupational pension will be about three quarters of a full pension due to years not working. My employer didn't contribute to the company pension scheme until I was 24 - in those days they didn't have to.

It's really important to plan financially, saving x amount from day one so it is never noticed.

Why are you telling me this ?
I took my nhs pension at 55 ….I’m all good thanks 🙄
like I said….having a baby is a choice….getting old isn’t

Katypp · 16/02/2026 22:26

BBCK · 16/02/2026 21:36

I don’t think it’s about who has it harder. The problem is that young people are very squeezed financially in their 20s and 30s and if we want future tax payers to look after all our pensioners the we need babies.

But this has always been the case. Setting up a home and having children has always been the most expensive years. There is nothing unique about the situation 30 somethings find themseles in and i have no idea why they think their situation is in any way unique.
There is a lot of ignorance on this thread about pensions and saving for retirement too. Workplace pensions were nowhere near as widespread as they are now and not everyone could have one anyway. Saving for retirement is universal and easy nowadays but it has not always been the case.