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12pts in a week - driving ban

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Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:47

I can't believe that this is happening.

I am normally such a careful driver. I hate speeding, always use the speed limiter on my car and have never had even 3pts on my licence in almost 30 years of driving.

Last month I worked away from home for a week, and on the way to my temporary workplace there was a road which I thought was a 30mph road but which was actually a 20. I got caught speeding (high 20s) every single day, and yesterday received four speeding fines in the post at once. £400 in fines but also 12pts which means a mandatory six month driving ban!

I simply cannot believe that this is happening. I know that it is my responsibility to know the speed limit, and that I shouldn't break it. But this punishment seems wildly excessive and unfair to me. I have 30 years of spotless driving, and have not suddenly become dangerous in a week. Surely someone can see the pattern here and note that it was multiple times making the same simple mistake in exactly the same place? I didn't even have time to reflect on one speeding ticket and change my driving behaviour because they all arrived at once, after I had left the area!

What can i do? I am not expecting sympathy as I know I am only receiving the punishment due to me. But I may well lose my job. The form says that I can plead 'exceptional hardship' in court but that losing employment doesn't count.

I see boy racers all the time and yet I am getting banned! It just seems such an unfairness.

OP posts:
Grandma600 · 16/02/2026 21:36

Sympathy for you, OP. I had two letters this week for speeding on the same stretch of road (journeys there and back) and am now awaiting notification of my punishment - hoping a speed awareness course will save me three points. But it's blinkin' annoying after having my licence clean for 52 years to have blotted my copybook for being 5mph over the limit.
As others have said, if you do the course you shouldn't get a ban.
Sending good wishes xx

LucyLoo1972 · 16/02/2026 21:34

a similar thing happened to somebody I know

Edenmum2 · 16/02/2026 21:34

OP if you have no other convictions you should get offered a speed awareness course for one of the fines. Or have they explicitly said it’s 12 points and a ban?

Xkk · 16/02/2026 21:33

purplehair1 · 16/02/2026 21:22

Go to court and contest it. If you have such a careful record there can’t have been good enough signage. And yes they DO take loss of employment into account it’s ridiculous to think they wouldn’t.

The probelm is if the OP choses Court she might forfeit her right to a Speed awareness course. And going to Court does not guranatee a positive outcome, however there is chance she will only get 9 points and a curse if she takes it. I would be afraid to risk it but considering people have had good experiences with Court maybe she is lucky. But even so, if she goes to court she might not be banned but given the full 12 points? Is a risk no matter how you look at it. I would not know what to do.

DurinsBane · 16/02/2026 21:32

Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 12:09

Yeah I get that, I was just illustrating the unsuitability and inflexibility of the system.

I am due my punishment. I just wish that punishments could take into account the offending pattern rather than just the number of offenses. Am I a persistent speeder deserving a ban? No. I haven't driven at excessive speed before or since. I just made an error on one road multiple times in quick succession.

Haven’t they offered speed awareness course instead of points? Or maybe they don’t if it is multiple

NotMeAtAll · 16/02/2026 21:31

Go to Google Maps in Street View and see if there are any signs.

purplehair1 · 16/02/2026 21:22

Go to court and contest it. If you have such a careful record there can’t have been good enough signage. And yes they DO take loss of employment into account it’s ridiculous to think they wouldn’t.

Xkk · 16/02/2026 21:20

ByFastFawn · 15/02/2026 15:14

Is anyone else insured to drive your car ? You can split the points with them if there is no photographic proof of them driving. Ie the speeding photos are taken from the back of the car

Please stop advising people shit like that! Speeding is a mistake, lying about it take you the next step up to a criminal dishonesty offence. OP, whatever you do, don't do that!

HisNibs · 16/02/2026 21:06

Do you have legal cover on your insurance policy OP? It's usually always offered for an additional fee (£20ish) If so, call them for advice.

user1492757084 · 16/02/2026 21:04

Volunteer testing an a driverless car, Op.

No, just take all legal advice and front up to court contrite.

Jem123456789 · 16/02/2026 21:04

You need a good solicitor who specialises in potential bans. They will appoint a barrister to speak on your behalf in court. It’ll cost about £1500 plus any fine you get. Plead hardship via the affects any potential ban would have on family members (or your job). Ie caring for elderly parents or children. Detrimental affect on your family etc. Ask the barrister to schedule a date where the magistrates are hearing similar cases and where they will have time to state your case in detail (20 mins). The fact that you have a flawless driving history and that all points were on same road in the same week will be looked on favourably. Last but not least wait for the paperwork to come through to make sure they are taking this to court and not just offering you a speed awareness course! Breathe. It’s not an automatic ban if you go to court - plenty of people out there driving on more than 12 points

Kerensa70 · 16/02/2026 21:03

Frequency · 16/02/2026 18:12

If you find it difficult to adhere to the speed limit, you are a dangerous driver and have no business being behind the wheel of a car. Drivers are not being hammered; criminals are.

Very self righteous and you sound ridiculous. Even the Archbishop of Canterbury was done recently.

Jem123456789 · 16/02/2026 21:02

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AMillionPeopleCheering · 16/02/2026 21:00

Somebody who worked for my husband got to 12 points - DH went to court and said the guy would lose his job if he lost his license (which was true), gave a character reference and he kept his license.

Womaninhouse17 · 16/02/2026 20:54

Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:55

I can't remember seeing any, to be honest. Had I have seen them I'd have driven at 20. But there obviously were some that I missed.

I get that it's on me. I just wish there was a more subjective approach to driving bans than just "12pts = ban" when all 12 of my points were for the same thing in the same week on the same unfamiliar road.

Even though it was the same thing on the same bit of road, it was still an offence (and a potential danger) each time. Check that the correct signs were there as it seems odd to miss them so many times. Then hope for leniency - and be more vigilant in future. You do have my sympathy though.

Popadomorbread · 16/02/2026 20:41

If you don’t have anything previous you should be able to do a speed awareness course for the first one. Then it’s 9 points. Still not great and very frustrating but better than a ban.

Livelovebehappy · 16/02/2026 20:39

20 mph is a ridiculous low speed unless it’s outside a school. There used to be hardly any 20 speed zones, but the government has probably caught on that there’s money to be made. Amazing how the police don’t have the resources to visit a house which as been burgled (arrived 3 days later), but they seem to have enough of them to park in a car at the side of the road for 8 hours catching motorists driving at 25mph in a 20 mile zone on a quiet road. This is what happened in our local area recently. I’m all for stopping people speeding around at stupid speeds, but think the 20mph speed limit is just a money making exercise and nothing to do with trying to reduce accidents.

Paul2023 · 16/02/2026 20:38

Years ago my mother in in law exceeded the speed limit - she did over 100 on a motorway! A camera got her. Completely out of character for her but this was before I knew her!

She was 250 miles away from home . She was summoned to court but she worked as a carer and needed to drive for her job. The judge was sympathetic and didn’t ban her- but gave her points.

She also had the inconvenience of going to court where it happened- 250 miles away. So an expensive mistake aswell as very time consuming.

I even think her employer were sympathetic and actually wrote a letter to the court- I’ve no idea if that swayed their decision though.

As for the OP’s case, because these offences happened so close together, the court will hopefully treat this as one speeding offence and offer a speed awareness course.

But I would certainly seek legal advice on this case. Yes it will cost money , but could save you a lot of hassle and a potential ban.

I used to drive buses for a job.We all make mistakes sometimes. It’s easy to mis read a sign on unfamiliar roads.

mondaytosunday · 16/02/2026 20:29

I know someone who talked their way out of a ban and my god he should have been banned for life! Definitely had a few offences previously (and at one time tried to get his wife to declare she was driving) but he said he had to be able to drive (arguable). No idea what reasons he gave.

Ooihuko · 16/02/2026 20:28

Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:55

I can't remember seeing any, to be honest. Had I have seen them I'd have driven at 20. But there obviously were some that I missed.

I get that it's on me. I just wish there was a more subjective approach to driving bans than just "12pts = ban" when all 12 of my points were for the same thing in the same week on the same unfamiliar road.

Check Google street view

Zov · 16/02/2026 20:23

Ah ha, thank you @Lilyfreedom Smile

Lilyfreedom · 16/02/2026 20:19

Zov · 16/02/2026 20:09

Sorry, what is EH?

Exceptional Hardship. A person who is a "totter" (i.e. have twelve points on their licence, as the OP does) must be disqualified from driving for six months, unless they can demonstrate that to disqualify them would cause them "exceptional hardship". It is a high hurdle (any driving disqualification is likely to result in hardship) but loss of employment is a strong argument, in my view.

This does not apply to offences such as drink driving, which involve a mandatory disqualification of at least 12 months.

Meandmyhamsterheadagain · 16/02/2026 20:16

As the parent of a child who was hit on her way home from school, by a driver doing just over 30 in a 20 (who claimed he thought it was still 30 in that part), I do not sympathise at all. Anywhere you drive, you need to be aware of the speed limit. It is your responsibility as the driver. My daughter, by some miracle, did not die, but has life long physical and mental effects from her injuries
Take the fine, suck up the ban, and perhaps be a more aware and cautious driver in future?

Zov · 16/02/2026 20:14

Bunnycat101 · 16/02/2026 20:10

So know someone whose 80 year old grandma has to go on a speed course for doing 23 in a 20. I think there has to be some proportionality. There are crazy boy racers doing 60 in 30s who seem to evade getting caught. I sympathise OP and it must be very stressful.

Exactly. Surely there has to be some flexibility and rational thinking. Each case should be judged individually.

toddlermom1 · 16/02/2026 20:11

I read a newspaper article some years back where a man drove on an unfamiliar motorway several times in a week to find he’d racked up 12 points. It went to court and it was decided that he hadn’t had the chance to essentially learn his lesson and so he didnt lose his license. Sounds like you may need a solicitor. Good luck I hope they’re able to cut you some slack

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