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12pts in a week - driving ban

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Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:47

I can't believe that this is happening.

I am normally such a careful driver. I hate speeding, always use the speed limiter on my car and have never had even 3pts on my licence in almost 30 years of driving.

Last month I worked away from home for a week, and on the way to my temporary workplace there was a road which I thought was a 30mph road but which was actually a 20. I got caught speeding (high 20s) every single day, and yesterday received four speeding fines in the post at once. £400 in fines but also 12pts which means a mandatory six month driving ban!

I simply cannot believe that this is happening. I know that it is my responsibility to know the speed limit, and that I shouldn't break it. But this punishment seems wildly excessive and unfair to me. I have 30 years of spotless driving, and have not suddenly become dangerous in a week. Surely someone can see the pattern here and note that it was multiple times making the same simple mistake in exactly the same place? I didn't even have time to reflect on one speeding ticket and change my driving behaviour because they all arrived at once, after I had left the area!

What can i do? I am not expecting sympathy as I know I am only receiving the punishment due to me. But I may well lose my job. The form says that I can plead 'exceptional hardship' in court but that losing employment doesn't count.

I see boy racers all the time and yet I am getting banned! It just seems such an unfairness.

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grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 21:35

FinallyHere · 17/02/2026 21:29

@grumpygrape

hi, absolutely not my intention, though reading it back I can see how it could be read like that. Thank you for pointing it out.

it was more that imo barristers are only needed to find really tricky loopholes

Understood but I'm not a fan of tricky loopholes.

There were signs or there weren't signs, there was speeding or there wasn't.

I've tried to give impartial advice about three miles upthread.... 😊

FinallyHere · 17/02/2026 21:29

@grumpygrape

hi, absolutely not my intention, though reading it back I can see how it could be read like that. Thank you for pointing it out.

it was more that imo barristers are only needed to find really tricky loopholes

grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 21:21

mmmarmalade · 17/02/2026 20:42

How far is your commute?
Bike, electric bike, electric moped (or would you be banned from that too? I have no idea)? I know these may not be possible. My DD now uses a folding electric bike to get into work (hospital, fairly big city) where driving in a few miles and parking is an absolute nightmare - she uses the bike to avoid a 40min walk which is what she was doing but not ideal for night shifts and strange hours she sometimes has to do.

I sympathise but best to face up and accept the worst possible outcome ASAP and start planning.

Maybe pop back to the OP’s OP and check where she said she was working away from home before suggesting solutions to a situation which doesn’t exist ?

grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 21:18

FinallyHere · 17/02/2026 20:40

As @ItsOkItsDarkChocolatesuggedted, take the speed awareness course for the first one and as for court for the others.

I wouldn’t even involve a barrister. Much better self represent so the magistrate is obliged to ensure you get a fair hearing.

Start by Apologising for taking the courts time with this matter, explain fine speed awareness fit first one, others incurred before you had the benefit of speed awareness and ask for courts leniency.

Even if they don’t let you off, it will only be nine points. Good luck

p.s. don’t be surprised if it takes done time for your heating. Many courts are overloaded and non drink driving non fatal accident traffic offences are not prioritised

if you are really lucky, the advent years will run out and your won’t even have to answer to the court.

don’t ask me how I know.

Ouch, are you suggesting a magistrate wouldn’t give a fair hearing to a defendant represented by a barrister ?

mmmarmalade · 17/02/2026 20:42

How far is your commute?
Bike, electric bike, electric moped (or would you be banned from that too? I have no idea)? I know these may not be possible. My DD now uses a folding electric bike to get into work (hospital, fairly big city) where driving in a few miles and parking is an absolute nightmare - she uses the bike to avoid a 40min walk which is what she was doing but not ideal for night shifts and strange hours she sometimes has to do.

I sympathise but best to face up and accept the worst possible outcome ASAP and start planning.

Ragingoverlife · 17/02/2026 20:40

PonkyPonky · 15/02/2026 13:22

“Only 10mph over” in 20 limit is 50% over the speed limit. It’s huge. You aren’t usually offered speed awareness at 50% over no matter how many offences you’ve had.

Google says the threshold for a course is 31mph in a 20.

FinallyHere · 17/02/2026 20:40

As @ItsOkItsDarkChocolatesuggedted, take the speed awareness course for the first one and as for court for the others.

I wouldn’t even involve a barrister. Much better self represent so the magistrate is obliged to ensure you get a fair hearing.

Start by Apologising for taking the courts time with this matter, explain fine speed awareness fit first one, others incurred before you had the benefit of speed awareness and ask for courts leniency.

Even if they don’t let you off, it will only be nine points. Good luck

p.s. don’t be surprised if it takes done time for your heating. Many courts are overloaded and non drink driving non fatal accident traffic offences are not prioritised

if you are really lucky, the advent years will run out and your won’t even have to answer to the court.

don’t ask me how I know.

Gillbertine · 17/02/2026 20:37

ByFastFawn · 15/02/2026 15:14

Is anyone else insured to drive your car ? You can split the points with them if there is no photographic proof of them driving. Ie the speeding photos are taken from the back of the car

That’s called perverting the course of justice and carries a mandatory prison sentence!
Do not do this especially if you intend to sleep with your secretary 🤣

grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 20:12

allmycats · 17/02/2026 19:59

I’ve not read the whole thread but doesn’t the speed limit show on your dashboard screen?

That comment could be considered a bit braggy 😉

Not all cars have a screen showing the speed limit and, if they do, how accurate are they if the data hasn’t been updated ?

allmycats · 17/02/2026 19:59

I’ve not read the whole thread but doesn’t the speed limit show on your dashboard screen?

eastegg · 17/02/2026 19:44

While I have some sympathy with the OP, one thing I’d be interested to know is what device has been used to catch her. Because ime, where the GATSO cameras are used, there is always a warning sign which consists of a camera symbol and, crucially, the speed limit written underneath. If that’s the case here, then it means the OP wasn’t paying much attention to not notice. Then again, maybe it was obscured by trees or something (although not so likely in the winter).

eastegg · 17/02/2026 19:38

Imbusytodaysorry · 17/02/2026 09:47

@Jarofgoodness you need a solicitor and fight it .
It has to be shown you knowingly ment to break the speeding limit.

I think it will be fine . Nobody does that every day knowing they would loose their license. With your record I think the judge would be lenient .

It has to be shown you knowingly ment to break the speed limit

It really doesn’t.

Womaninhouse17 · 17/02/2026 16:09

Imbusytodaysorry · 17/02/2026 09:47

@Jarofgoodness you need a solicitor and fight it .
It has to be shown you knowingly ment to break the speeding limit.

I think it will be fine . Nobody does that every day knowing they would loose their license. With your record I think the judge would be lenient .

How on earth can they show that anyone knowingly meant to break the speed limit? That cannot be true. If that was the case, everybody would just plead ignorance! (And isn't ignorance of the law no defence?)

eastegg · 17/02/2026 15:39

FlyingCatGirl · 17/02/2026 08:17

She was still in the 20's, she wasn't doing 60 was she! You don't need to go over the top! If kids are stepping out in front of a car doing 27mph then there's a parenting fail! How much difference do you think just a few miles per hour makes! You don't need to exaggerate just to try and make the OP feel guilty! It was still a low speed! And you haven't seen the road with your your own eyes to judge! Also as another FYI, 20mph zones outside schools only tend to be active during school drop off and pick up times which means for most of us commuting to work, we pass schools before and after those times.

How much difference a few miles an hour makes is exactly what they teach you on the speed awareness course actually. And the answer is….a big difference. Your post almost sounds like a joke it’s such a caricature of what a speeder would say. The level of injury between a child being hit at 20 and 27 would be significant.

ItsOkItsDarkChocolate · 17/02/2026 14:15

Can you take the speed awareness course for 1, and take the 9point hit for the rest?

@Jarofgoodness Presumably you were in Wales, where the default urban limit is now 20, so there may not have been been any signs. Streetlights? Y = 20, unless told otherwise….

TeenLifeMum · 17/02/2026 13:29

Zov · 17/02/2026 08:09

Sorry to be rude, but I don't think that's correct. May be so in Wales, but not in the rest of the UK AFAIK.

Always best to err on the side of caution though, and doing 20 is probably a good idea anyway (just in case) and the speed bumps are less likely to do damage to your car if you're doing 20.

Might just be our area - we seem to use roundabout lanes differently too (signs tell you which lane but different to the Highway Code). And we have multiple traffic lights on really small roundabout because no one was using them correctly.

busymomtoone · 17/02/2026 12:53

Whilst o despise speeding, in this circumstance I can totally see how it happened and feel really sorry for you. There are people out there who get away with MULTIPLE 12+ points charges , but I presume it’s dependent on having great legal representation; plus anecdotally I suspect much more sympathy for men?! I think you either need to take costs on the chin, google a solicitor who has expertise in this area and speak to them pronto ; unless you happen to have great and sympathetic relatives with totally clear driving licences who suddenly remember they were driving you to work some of those days??’!

grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 12:38

Imbusytodaysorry · 17/02/2026 12:03

I am giving advice based on what I know of a case . If you are referring to me
so…. Personally I’d be getting a solicitor standing before a judge if need be .

Said person traveling from a 60 to a 30 was caught doing around 45/50 if I remember correctly ., when just entering the 30 . Went to court solicitor told judge what the defendant has said “he was traveling and just hadn’t slowed down quick enough “
The law would have had to have proven the defendant was guilty and meaning to speed “

The op needs her licence to keep her job .
With her clean record. Again I’d get a solicitor and plead my case .

No, I wasn’t specifically referring to you but if you care to check my previous posts you will see I have suggested to the OP they use a solicitor and go to court.

OP hasn’t specifically said she needs her licence for her job.

I have no knowledge of the case to which you refer but I repeat, ‘I need to point out the OP is very unlikely to appear in front of a judge. If she goes to court it will be a Magistrate's court so it will be magistrates or the faint possibility of a District Judge if they aren't busy and decided to slum it.’

OP won’t have the option to insist on ‘standing before a judge’ because traffic cases will be dealt with in Magistrates’ Court.

Edited to add
I don’t think prosecutions for speeding have to prove ‘intent’ or meaning to speed; just the fact of speeding.

Doone22 · 17/02/2026 12:22

Go to court. No other option to avoid ban otherwise. See if you can get evidence of signs or lack of. 20 is an exceptional low limit after all. Present everything you have as mitigation even if pleading guilty.

Imbusytodaysorry · 17/02/2026 12:03

grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 11:37

There's a sort of irony with so many people giving 'advice' and hypothesising what a judge will do.
I need to point out the OP is very unlikely to appear in front of a judge. If she goes to court it will be a Magistrate's court so it will be magistrates or the faint possibility of a District Judge if they aren't busy and decided to slum it.

I am giving advice based on what I know of a case . If you are referring to me
so…. Personally I’d be getting a solicitor standing before a judge if need be .

Said person traveling from a 60 to a 30 was caught doing around 45/50 if I remember correctly ., when just entering the 30 . Went to court solicitor told judge what the defendant has said “he was traveling and just hadn’t slowed down quick enough “
The law would have had to have proven the defendant was guilty and meaning to speed “

The op needs her licence to keep her job .
With her clean record. Again I’d get a solicitor and plead my case .

grumpygrape · 17/02/2026 11:37

There's a sort of irony with so many people giving 'advice' and hypothesising what a judge will do.
I need to point out the OP is very unlikely to appear in front of a judge. If she goes to court it will be a Magistrate's court so it will be magistrates or the faint possibility of a District Judge if they aren't busy and decided to slum it.

BumpyWinds · 17/02/2026 11:27

babyproblems · 15/02/2026 12:30

I’d go back and look at where the signs are. If there aren’t any that’s ridiculous! You could seek legal advice if you can definitely say there were no signs. Go back and take pictures of video of the road. Good luck xx

I agree. If you're usually a careful driver and have never been caught speeding before, I'd suggest there is something awry that would mean that the signage isn't clear.

Annoyingly, repeater signs aren't always necessary on 20mph roads. I read an article one year of a lady that got a speeding fine and was arguing against it. Her and her husband had gone out to a friends for dinner. He drove there and she drove home, so she hadn't seen the 20 signs when they arrived. Their friend's house was in the middle of the 20mph zone and she based her speed on the absence of signs and the presence of street lights = 30mph.

Unfortunately I am not sure of an outcome.

I'd definitely go back, take a look and see if you missed the signs and if there was any argument as to why you missed them.

If they were there and you genuinely just didn't notice them, you'll have to take your chance in court unfortunately.

Fizzy89 · 17/02/2026 11:11

Definitely seek solicitor advice. Is there the opportunity to do a speed awareness course and bring it down to 9 points that way?

Obviously fines and points are automated, with the right solicitor if you are apologetic and highlight you obviously wouldn't have sped multiple times in the same place had you known. Was it a speed camera? I assume you saw said speed camera and made sure you were doing 30.

I'd check the area for signage and take some photos, I'd look on google maps but that could be outdated.
I really feel for you OP, we all miss a sign now and then its unfortunate its happened to you when a camera is around.

My DH and I noticed just the other week we were behind a big lorry and if we didn't know the sign was there we could easily have missed it near us and theres a speed camera shortly after.

TheRuffleandthePearl · 17/02/2026 10:30

RosesAndHellebores · 15/02/2026 12:26

Sympathies @Jarofgoodness.

I have been driving since 1977. Except for once, all my fines points have been in the last five years. I don't think the signs are as clear as they should be and I think there is significant memory muscle vis a vis driving at a safe speed for the road conditions when the limits have just changed 40 to 30, done for 35; 30 to 20, done for 24. Both on clear, empty roads. It's about cameras and revenue rather than safe driving.

If you “don’t think the signs are as clear as they should be” maybe it’s time for an eye test and consider if you should still be driving?

Hotvimtoandwaffles · 17/02/2026 10:17

Womaninhouse17 · 17/02/2026 08:26

A few miles an hour can make a huge difference.

Exactly. Every 1mph increase in speed increases the likelihood of a fatal impact by about 4%. Speed increases affect the forces exponentially and not in a linear format. Speed limits are there for a reason and a few miles per hour can be the difference in life or death. Anyone who tries to argue otherwise is being ignorant of the facts.

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