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12pts in a week - driving ban

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Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:47

I can't believe that this is happening.

I am normally such a careful driver. I hate speeding, always use the speed limiter on my car and have never had even 3pts on my licence in almost 30 years of driving.

Last month I worked away from home for a week, and on the way to my temporary workplace there was a road which I thought was a 30mph road but which was actually a 20. I got caught speeding (high 20s) every single day, and yesterday received four speeding fines in the post at once. £400 in fines but also 12pts which means a mandatory six month driving ban!

I simply cannot believe that this is happening. I know that it is my responsibility to know the speed limit, and that I shouldn't break it. But this punishment seems wildly excessive and unfair to me. I have 30 years of spotless driving, and have not suddenly become dangerous in a week. Surely someone can see the pattern here and note that it was multiple times making the same simple mistake in exactly the same place? I didn't even have time to reflect on one speeding ticket and change my driving behaviour because they all arrived at once, after I had left the area!

What can i do? I am not expecting sympathy as I know I am only receiving the punishment due to me. But I may well lose my job. The form says that I can plead 'exceptional hardship' in court but that losing employment doesn't count.

I see boy racers all the time and yet I am getting banned! It just seems such an unfairness.

OP posts:
Anndalouzier · 15/02/2026 14:46

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:42

You'd have to ask the council - I'm not in charge of how the signs work, I'm just saying what our town is like.

There is a speed limit sign as you enter (one side is 20, the other is 30) and that's it. There's no other signs until the 30 "side" changes (to NSL on one road and down to 20mph on another).

repeater signs are not mandatory

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:45

whatdoidonowffs · 15/02/2026 14:40

Not if you send in the lowest speed first then wait until you get offered the course then send the others in

I don't think it would make any difference. You could have 9 points on your licence and still be eligible for a speed awareness course.

Anndalouzier · 15/02/2026 14:43

wisdom from @grumpygrape But you don't necessarily use solicitor to do it. Read up about it online and you could easily do it yourself.

Anndalouzier · 15/02/2026 14:42

Dollymylove · 15/02/2026 13:22

I agree. A good friend of mine racked up 4 speeding fines in 2 days. Ignored the letters and ended up in quite some trouble. They ha been having some difficulties and wrote a letter expanding on these. Court date was arranged and the magistrates were very reasonable, giving 9 points and a large fine.
My friend was lucky not to get a ban and very grateful.
Much more a careful driver now, and the insurance is a tad on the outrageous side!!

The actual purpose of keeping somebody on nine points is not to be kind as such, but it means they're under the cosh to drive well for three years! 🙄 (until the first lot of points fall off)
totting only gets you a mandatory min six months ban

grumpygrape · 15/02/2026 14:42

Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 12:09

Yeah I get that, I was just illustrating the unsuitability and inflexibility of the system.

I am due my punishment. I just wish that punishments could take into account the offending pattern rather than just the number of offenses. Am I a persistent speeder deserving a ban? No. I haven't driven at excessive speed before or since. I just made an error on one road multiple times in quick succession.

OP, I’ve only read your posts so sorry if this is saying what you have already been told.

If you can afford a solicitor, do so and go to Court. If you are a ‘totter’, some one who is in danger of getting 12 points and having their License taken away, you should be able to go to Court to argue your case.

You or your solicitor needs to explain the circumstances, strange location, not realising the limit, not exceeding the 30mph you thought it was, time proximity of journeys so not getting the first ticket and continuing to break the limit regardless.Apologise, be contrite, explain previous clean record and confirm you have learned to take more notice in strange environments in future. Offer to take a course if offered and ask for the number and proximity of time to be taken into account. Ask if the Magistrates can see their way to not give the full 12 points, or if they do, to not disqualify.

If you do get 12 points and face disqualification you may be able to plead Exceptional Hardship. This really should be exceptional. Losing a job is not usually a valid reason because most people will be able to function without their license for a while. A solicitor would be able to advise you.

Try not to minimise what you have done by criticising the signs (unless you can prove there weren’t any or they were covered by foliage etc., and/or you don’t think it’s fair or the limit is wrong, or that boy racers get away with it all the time; this is about you and the law.

Plmnki · 15/02/2026 14:42

First thing, as someone else proposed, go back and check the entire route with a video camera to see if the road is correctly signposted.

second thing, contact an expert barrister here:

http://www.counsel.direct

he specialises in traffic law and he is fairly priced and excellent, he is honest and not money grabbing, if he can help you legally it’s worth every penny.

good luck, you made a mistake and unfortunately repeated it over and over, with awful consequences. Seems insanely harsh punishment.

Andrew Thompson, barrister

Andrew Thompson, barrister

http://www.counsel.direct

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:42

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:37

And why would you not just increase the likelihood that people would drive within the speed limit by putting up signs?

You'd have to ask the council - I'm not in charge of how the signs work, I'm just saying what our town is like.

There is a speed limit sign as you enter (one side is 20, the other is 30) and that's it. There's no other signs until the 30 "side" changes (to NSL on one road and down to 20mph on another).

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:40

whatdoidonowffs · 15/02/2026 14:40

Not if you send in the lowest speed first then wait until you get offered the course then send the others in

They'll still know you've had tickets prior to that one though. It's all computerised.

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:40

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:35

Presumably it is possible to enter the town without driving a car?

Not really - we live very rurally. If you've not driven here, someone else has driven you. There's no pavement access from anywhere else.

whatdoidonowffs · 15/02/2026 14:40

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:31

It doesn't work like that, though.

They'll be dealt with in date order, not from "lowest to highest".

Not if you send in the lowest speed first then wait until you get offered the course then send the others in

Anndalouzier · 15/02/2026 14:39

I spent 20 years of my life sentencing on this, and I'm definitely rusty, but some of the stuff being spouted on this thread is a load of shit

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:37

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:35

Presumably it is possible to enter the town without driving a car?

And why would you not just increase the likelihood that people would drive within the speed limit by putting up signs?

Anndalouzier · 15/02/2026 14:36

DrNo007 · 15/02/2026 14:35

Friend of mine, who was nabbed for speeding, successfully appealed in court against a driving ban on the grounds that it would cause him exceptional hardship due to him not being able to do his sales job. He had no dependents - if you have them, you use them as an argument, but his job was his sole source of income, and he was important to his employer, so the hardship would have spread to them. Loss of employment can be used as part of a successful "Exceptional Hardship" argument if you can prove that the consequences of losing your job are "exceptional" and go far beyond standard inconvenience.

Yeah, they're tightened up on this a lot recently

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:35

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:34

It doesn't matter - because you'll have had to drive over the bridge to park your car there to begin with (there is no other road in).

Presumably it is possible to enter the town without driving a car?

DrNo007 · 15/02/2026 14:35

Friend of mine, who was nabbed for speeding, successfully appealed in court against a driving ban on the grounds that it would cause him exceptional hardship due to him not being able to do his sales job. He had no dependents - if you have them, you use them as an argument, but his job was his sole source of income, and he was important to his employer, so the hardship would have spread to them. Loss of employment can be used as part of a successful "Exceptional Hardship" argument if you can prove that the consequences of losing your job are "exceptional" and go far beyond standard inconvenience.

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:34

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:31

What if you get in a car and start driving on the other side of the bridge? If there are no signs, the default speed limit where there is regular street lighting is 30mph.

ETA: in England obvs. its 20mph in Wales.

Edited

It doesn't matter - because you'll have had to drive over the bridge to park your car there to begin with (there is no other road in).

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:31

whatdoidonowffs · 15/02/2026 14:17

@Zov
you might be arguing for nothing
it sounds like the op has only recieved the nip’s in the post
she needs to return them and then will find out if she’ll be offered an awareness course
as I said before she needs to look at the speeds and send in the lowest one first to try and get the course then take the others for the nine points

It doesn't work like that, though.

They'll be dealt with in date order, not from "lowest to highest".

nicepotoftea · 15/02/2026 14:31

saltandvinegarpringles · 15/02/2026 14:19

It's worth mentioning on this thread that there are lots of English towns with 20mph limits throughout - it's not just Wales.

Our town is kind of divided by a bridge and every road on the left side of the bridge is 20mph, but there aren't constant signs. You have to go over the bridge to access the town so there's a big sign on the bridge but that's it, no reminders.

What if you get in a car and start driving on the other side of the bridge? If there are no signs, the default speed limit where there is regular street lighting is 30mph.

ETA: in England obvs. its 20mph in Wales.

cardibach · 15/02/2026 14:31

JoshLymanSwagger · 15/02/2026 14:23

We live next door to Wales.
We don't visit any more.

Why ever not? Can’t you drive properly?
Best you don’t rally if you can’t. Better not go t9 London, or Bristol or Birmingham or any one of 60 local authorities in England which have 20mph zones. Could be quite limiting. Or you could learn to drive properly.

Frostynoman · 15/02/2026 14:30

Have you checked the signage on Google earth? Take some screenshots and also go back there if you can

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/02/2026 14:23

Apparently the offences have to have been incurred on the same day to be treated as one

That sounds reasonable, @PrincessofWells; after all, depending on how many cameras there are, someone could easily be caught by more than one after failing to notice signs once ... but if it's been on four separate days I fail to see where the defence comes in

And for the few sneering about people being "holier than thou", try being half crippled by someone else who "didn't see" and you may well feel differently about this Sad

Blushingm · 15/02/2026 14:23

whatdoidonowffs · 15/02/2026 14:17

@Zov
you might be arguing for nothing
it sounds like the op has only recieved the nip’s in the post
she needs to return them and then will find out if she’ll be offered an awareness course
as I said before she needs to look at the speeds and send in the lowest one first to try and get the course then take the others for the nine points

They’ll do it in date of offence order not date received

JoshLymanSwagger · 15/02/2026 14:23

We live next door to Wales.
We don't visit any more.

Blushingm · 15/02/2026 14:22

Ohfuckrucksack · 15/02/2026 14:07

Do you have a dash cam? It might be worth going through the footage so you can see what was visible at the time you were driving.

People saying 'you need to be more careful' - you can only look at one thing at one time. So if you're navigating a tricky junction that you've not done before you are checking your mirrors, in front of you and focusing on that - you could even have a van obscuring the signage or weather that affects visibility.

Missing a sign can be momentary when your eyes are elsewhere - I really disagree with no repeater signs, seems designed to catch you out.

If its 20mph then this needs to be on the road at regular intervals so it cannot be missed as you drive. This should be universal across the whole country, not decided by different councils.

Cash strapped councils could be seen to be seeking to create revenue by deliberately minimising signage/ creating confusion.

In wales it doesn’t have to be on the road at regular intervals. 20 is the default speed limit

Namechange568899542 · 15/02/2026 14:20

Can you do a speed awareness course for the first offence? That would mean you would only get 9pts for the remaining offences.

If not then I would also try the court route and hope the judge takes mercy on you given your previously long and clean driving history, and perhaps agrees to reduce it to 9 so you’re essentially on your last chance, which I think would be ‘fair’.

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