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To think Lowe is going to wipe the floor with Farage?

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BlueJuniper94 · 15/02/2026 11:11

Just that. AIBU to think this is the end of Farage?

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/02/2026 14:55

MightyDandelionEsq · 15/02/2026 14:51

Okay, you keep putting your fingers in your ears and pretend there isn’t an issue or a race angle.

Billionaires and those in power have also been caught trafficking white girls (Epstein Files) and yet that evidence hasn’t been ignored.

When there are trends to crimes (or group tendencies) then it doesn’t do any good to ignore it due to the distastefulness it brings to our world view - irrespective of political leaning.

What do you mean exactly when you say that the evidence around the Epstein trafficking hasn't been ignored? What consequences have the men involved in that trafficking actually faced?

Yes, Epstein killed himself, but the others? A bit of mild embarrassment, perhaps? Andrew no longer gets to call himself a prince and had to move out of his mansion?

I would say that the evidence has been thoroughly ignored for decades, and the perpetrators have suffered no real consequences.

And the current POTUS has openly boasted about how he can get away with sexually assaulting women without consequence. It didn't stop him from getting elected.

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 15/02/2026 14:54

Croakymccroakyvoice · 15/02/2026 14:41

I'm not saying there isn't an issue with the way Pakistani grooming gangs were dealt with (or not) but to suggest that perpetrators are overwhelmingly Pakistani is not true. It's not even close to being true.

I never said that most perpetrators of child sex abuse are Pakistani!?
I said there was and is a systematic and organised and ignored problem of men of Pakistani origin grooming and raping girls in towns and cities up and down the country.
And that in many cases these girls have been thrown to the wolves by stupid or brainwashed social workers.
People who are very angry about this fact want action not obsfucation. THAT is what the far right are being fed by.

Sensiblesal · 15/02/2026 14:52

All they are doing is diluting the reform voters between the two parties.

both men are racist and abhorrent people but Lowe is worse because he is allowing Elon Musk to try & ‘buy’ the UK.

I don’t know how anyone can vote for either of them

MightyDandelionEsq · 15/02/2026 14:51

Teanbiscuits33 · 15/02/2026 14:43

It is truly amazing that you think per capita is a reliable statistic.They don’t reliably publish nationality or ethnicity and the same offender can be recorded multiple times in the statistics anyway. It doesn’t mean that each recorded crime has been committed by a separate person.

Okay, you keep putting your fingers in your ears and pretend there isn’t an issue or a race angle.

Billionaires and those in power have also been caught trafficking white girls (Epstein Files) and yet that evidence hasn’t been ignored.

When there are trends to crimes (or group tendencies) then it doesn’t do any good to ignore it due to the distastefulness it brings to our world view - irrespective of political leaning.

Teanbiscuits33 · 15/02/2026 14:43

MightyDandelionEsq · 15/02/2026 14:29

Its truly amazing how per capita is always ignored.

It is truly amazing that you think per capita is a reliable statistic.They don’t reliably publish nationality or ethnicity and the same offender can be recorded multiple times in the statistics anyway. It doesn’t mean that each recorded crime has been committed by a separate person.

Croakymccroakyvoice · 15/02/2026 14:41

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 15/02/2026 14:31

Im basing what I said on personal experience of growing up around Pakistani men, and on the testimony of victims.
Thst article notes thst “ group based” means 2 or more perpetrators. It’s also notes that around half of perpetrators are children themselves.
It also includes abuse within families (which of course is rife)
What people are talking about with the grooming gangs is systematic, organised abuse, spanning years, and ignored and in some cases abetted by the very authorities who were paid to protect children. There is a lot of evidence that these authorities were afraid to name the problem, which enables the continuation.
It’s a specific problem. Saying “ it’s not true, look other races abuse too” is part of the problem. The fact that people are not allowed to say what they see is fuelling these nonsense parties.
Any form of systematic, organised abuse of children, whether in children’s homes or the Catholic Church needs to be named, and stopped. The fear of saying the unsayable is why the priests got away with it for so long.
I am on no one’s side here apart from children’s.

I'm not saying there isn't an issue with the way Pakistani grooming gangs were dealt with (or not) but to suggest that perpetrators are overwhelmingly Pakistani is not true. It's not even close to being true.

BeGentleMentor · 15/02/2026 14:39

Croakymccroakyvoice · 15/02/2026 14:04

The grooming/ rape gangs involve mainly the systematic, organised abuse of children over the span of decades, aided and abetted by useful idiots in social services and police and are overwhelmingly made up of networks of men of Pakistani heritage.

This is simply not true and the fact that you (and so many people) believe it is, is driven by bad actors who want to manipulate the way people vote.

In terms of group-based offences, 85% of suspects are white, while 7% are Asian and 5% are black.

According to the 2021 census, 82% of the England and Wales population is white, compared with 9% Asian, 4% black and 2% mixed/other.

https://news.sky.com/story/child-sex-abuse-and-grooming-gangs-what-we-know-and-what-we-dont-from-the-data-13285420

Also, the only party that does not believe immigration is a problem is the Green party. All others, including the current Labour government, are very clear that is is something they want to tackle.

It's so very disturbing that you don't want people to talk about or be concerned about CSA when Religion and culture so obviously played a part in not just the abuse but the lack of acting on it by authorities due to fears of accusations of Racism.

And act as if people just ignore CSA perpetrated by white offenders.

When they don't.

And as someone already said, you don't understand population data.

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 15/02/2026 14:31

Croakymccroakyvoice · 15/02/2026 14:04

The grooming/ rape gangs involve mainly the systematic, organised abuse of children over the span of decades, aided and abetted by useful idiots in social services and police and are overwhelmingly made up of networks of men of Pakistani heritage.

This is simply not true and the fact that you (and so many people) believe it is, is driven by bad actors who want to manipulate the way people vote.

In terms of group-based offences, 85% of suspects are white, while 7% are Asian and 5% are black.

According to the 2021 census, 82% of the England and Wales population is white, compared with 9% Asian, 4% black and 2% mixed/other.

https://news.sky.com/story/child-sex-abuse-and-grooming-gangs-what-we-know-and-what-we-dont-from-the-data-13285420

Also, the only party that does not believe immigration is a problem is the Green party. All others, including the current Labour government, are very clear that is is something they want to tackle.

Im basing what I said on personal experience of growing up around Pakistani men, and on the testimony of victims.
Thst article notes thst “ group based” means 2 or more perpetrators. It’s also notes that around half of perpetrators are children themselves.
It also includes abuse within families (which of course is rife)
What people are talking about with the grooming gangs is systematic, organised abuse, spanning years, and ignored and in some cases abetted by the very authorities who were paid to protect children. There is a lot of evidence that these authorities were afraid to name the problem, which enables the continuation.
It’s a specific problem. Saying “ it’s not true, look other races abuse too” is part of the problem. The fact that people are not allowed to say what they see is fuelling these nonsense parties.
Any form of systematic, organised abuse of children, whether in children’s homes or the Catholic Church needs to be named, and stopped. The fear of saying the unsayable is why the priests got away with it for so long.
I am on no one’s side here apart from children’s.

newornotnew · 15/02/2026 14:30

ScreamingBeans · 15/02/2026 12:21

Do you think that premiership footballers came to Britain illegally in small boats and were housed in hotels prior to getting their contracts with their clubs?

You make no distinction between anyone who lives and works here who wasn't born here and you think people who support Reform are stupid and racist?

Don't get me wrong I'm not a fan of either Farage or this other guy but the snobbery and viciousness of the Mumsnet class about ordinary working-class people's concerns is so vile that I don't blame anyone for voting for them.

ordinary working-class people's concerns There are 'ordinary working class people' who hold a wide variety of views, stop claiming that all working class people think the same thing.

MightyDandelionEsq · 15/02/2026 14:29

Croakymccroakyvoice · 15/02/2026 14:04

The grooming/ rape gangs involve mainly the systematic, organised abuse of children over the span of decades, aided and abetted by useful idiots in social services and police and are overwhelmingly made up of networks of men of Pakistani heritage.

This is simply not true and the fact that you (and so many people) believe it is, is driven by bad actors who want to manipulate the way people vote.

In terms of group-based offences, 85% of suspects are white, while 7% are Asian and 5% are black.

According to the 2021 census, 82% of the England and Wales population is white, compared with 9% Asian, 4% black and 2% mixed/other.

https://news.sky.com/story/child-sex-abuse-and-grooming-gangs-what-we-know-and-what-we-dont-from-the-data-13285420

Also, the only party that does not believe immigration is a problem is the Green party. All others, including the current Labour government, are very clear that is is something they want to tackle.

Its truly amazing how per capita is always ignored.

RafaistheKingofClay · 15/02/2026 14:28

Teanbiscuits33 · 15/02/2026 14:15

I don’t know if it’s true but the rumour has been doing the rounds online today and he only announced he was forming a party last night so who knows.

I’m also not convinced they would be willing to collaborate but I wouldn’t put anything past them either. They’re all power hungry and it might be the only way. Have to wait and see.

Pretty sure restore and alliance were both set up last summer when Habib and Lowe split from reform. Possible that it may not have been as a political party then for some reason but I did have a sense of Deja by when I heard the news this morning. Because I thought he already had set up a party called restore.

RafaistheKingofClay · 15/02/2026 14:26

It’s unlikely to be the end of Farage. He basically is reform and what people are voting for. Most of the UK population couldn’t pick Lowe out from a line up when asked.

We’re basically going to end up with Restore/Advance/UKIP/EDF/BNP like party which will appeal to a very small number of people split between those parties depending on how much they would like other people not to think of them as a racist.
Reform - not quite so far right but made up of the further right and genuinely insane MPs from the Tory Party.
Reclaim - Lawrence Fox having a breakdown and doing god knows what
Tories - a broader church but further right than 10-20 years ago consisting of a more right wing that are not actually insane and some one nation Tories who are just biding their time and sitting this period out.

someone is making quite a lot of money from these limited companies that are being set up as political parties. I’m assuming it won’t be the voters.

Teanbiscuits33 · 15/02/2026 14:15

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/02/2026 14:08

Ah, thanks, didn't know they were merging.

Re coalition... that would only work in a FPTP system if they agreed not to stand against each other. I'm less than convinced that they will be willing to collaborate to that extent.

I don’t know if it’s true but the rumour has been doing the rounds online today and he only announced he was forming a party last night so who knows.

I’m also not convinced they would be willing to collaborate but I wouldn’t put anything past them either. They’re all power hungry and it might be the only way. Have to wait and see.

Norecordofdla · 15/02/2026 14:13

No doubt there will be more and more soon

Reform Reclaim Remake Restore Repair Rebuild etc etc etc. The thesaurus will be taking more of a battering than a photo of Holly Valance at their meetings. The Tories are infiltrating Reform at such a rate and there seem to be a lot of strong characters (narcissists) in Reform already so I fully expect some more offshoots as they bicker amongst themselves, which is inevitable whilst gaping gob Farage carries on spouting crap.

In some ways they are accelerating the general public gaining awareness of what the are all really up to as we are here worrying about the cost of living, bills, wages not being high enough and they aren’t addressing that just this huge focus on immigration and asylum seekers.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/02/2026 14:13

RafaistheKingofClay · 15/02/2026 14:02

Ben Habib’s party? Is that the one with Tommy Ten names in or is there another? I thought Advance was merging with Lowe’s new one. It@/ quite difficult to keep track.

The more the merrier I say. Good luck to all of them trying to find 650 vetted candidates for an election that don’t have something dodgy in their background.

Yeah, that was the one that I was referring to. I hadn't clocked that they were merging. Agree it is hard to keep track of them all.

As for finding candidates without any dodgy backgrounds... good luck to them with that. Our local Reform council clearly didn't manage to find many councillors with "clean" records.

MrsMabelThorpe · 15/02/2026 14:09

While I would be delighted to see the end of Farage, that man has nine political lives. And given Lowe's idea of partnering with local parties promises even more of a chaotic amateur hour than Reform itself, I think we might be looking at the end of Lowe (unless/until he crawls back to Nigel's side).

SleeplessInWherever · 15/02/2026 14:08

BeGentleMentor · 15/02/2026 14:02

I thought you were the initial poster I responded to why said asylum seekers are not here illegally which they patently are.

Under international law, there is no such thing as an "illegal" asylum seeker, as seeking asylum is a legal right, even if the person enters a country through irregular, undocumented, or unauthorised means. The method of entry may be illegal, while the act of claiming protection is legal.

Considering there is no asylum visa, and no way to claim asylum from outside of the country, how would you like asylum seekers to exercise their legal right to seek asylum?

They have to arrive unlawfully, we’re not giving them a legal route.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/02/2026 14:08

Teanbiscuits33 · 15/02/2026 14:06

Advance U.K. are apparently merging with Lowe! The other possibility is that Reform may form a coalition with any of the other far right parties.

I mean, I know they’ve all got egos bigger than the sun and they won’t enjoy sharing power, but if it’s the only way they can gain power they may be open to it, which is really disastrous news for the country because, not only are they individual stains on society, but their leaders massive senses of self importance will cause infighting on a scale never before seen.

Ah, thanks, didn't know they were merging.

Re coalition... that would only work in a FPTP system if they agreed not to stand against each other. I'm less than convinced that they will be willing to collaborate to that extent.

EasternStandard · 15/02/2026 14:07

Playingvideogames · 15/02/2026 14:04

And yet the midlands and North vote Reform in heavier numbers than the south.

I think so, the MRP map is turquoise with a few dots if other colours rn

As for the people mentioned in the op they’ll probably all merge at some point.

Norecordofdla · 15/02/2026 14:06

Loopylalalou · 15/02/2026 13:47

I think he speaks for most ordinary folk, those struggling on whilst rather too many people are (perhaps falsely) claiming asylum or just arriving as migrants, then having their life funded by the UK taxpayer. Nothing done to assimilate them into the ‘British way’ of life, no purpose offered.
My father came from Ireland in the mid-50s as an economic migrant and worked hard until he was in his early 70s. He expected nothing, was certainly due nothing but overcame his rise from poverty in rural Ireland.
Now imagine how differently we might view these incomers is they could work, learn how to function alongside the majority, and were subject to the same checks and balances the rest of society, and how different we might treat them.
Instead we are repeatedly learning of criminal behaviour, particularly sexual assaults, taxis to fast track appointments and so on.
The one question is whether that equalisation of effort and behaviour would curb the input - or whether it would increase it.

I see beyond that and recognise that people in boats/asylum seekers aren’t the real problem. It’s the super rich. We are just being bombarded with the idea that it’s those below us stealing from us so we dont look up.

Teanbiscuits33 · 15/02/2026 14:06

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/02/2026 13:15

Terrifying. But it will be good if they can split the vote. Hopefully that will finish off both parties. And the other one -Advance UK?

I am firmly clinging to the hope that they will all destroy each other.

Advance U.K. are apparently merging with Lowe! The other possibility is that Reform may form a coalition with any of the other far right parties.

I mean, I know they’ve all got egos bigger than the sun and they won’t enjoy sharing power, but if it’s the only way they can gain power they may be open to it, which is really disastrous news for the country because, not only are they individual stains on society, but their leaders massive senses of self importance will cause infighting on a scale never before seen.

Playingvideogames · 15/02/2026 14:04

SleeplessInWherever · 15/02/2026 13:54

Agreed. I grew up in a deprived working class town in the NE and couldn’t be less represented by either Farage or Lowe.

And yet the midlands and North vote Reform in heavier numbers than the south.

Croakymccroakyvoice · 15/02/2026 14:04

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 15/02/2026 13:20

Im no fan of Reform and agree that their main focus is on making the rich richer but I am also a bit sick of people on the progressive establishment side parroting things like this, or saying “ white Brits abuse girls too”. The grooming/ rape gangs involve mainly the systematic, organised abuse of children over the span of decades, aided and abetted by useful idiots in social services and police and are overwhelmingly made up of networks of men of Pakistani heritage.
The victims have been let down by the authorities time and again, which is why people like Lowe can use the righteous anger of ordinary people to further his own ends.
Also, I don’t think most people are only concerned with illegal immigration. After Brexit (caused by Farage) the government allowed record numbers of immigrants in through legal channels and this has caused problems for many communities across the uk. Again, the main parties pretending this isn’t a problem opens the door for extremists.

The grooming/ rape gangs involve mainly the systematic, organised abuse of children over the span of decades, aided and abetted by useful idiots in social services and police and are overwhelmingly made up of networks of men of Pakistani heritage.

This is simply not true and the fact that you (and so many people) believe it is, is driven by bad actors who want to manipulate the way people vote.

In terms of group-based offences, 85% of suspects are white, while 7% are Asian and 5% are black.

According to the 2021 census, 82% of the England and Wales population is white, compared with 9% Asian, 4% black and 2% mixed/other.

https://news.sky.com/story/child-sex-abuse-and-grooming-gangs-what-we-know-and-what-we-dont-from-the-data-13285420

Also, the only party that does not believe immigration is a problem is the Green party. All others, including the current Labour government, are very clear that is is something they want to tackle.

Child sex abuse and grooming gangs: What we know, and what we don't, from the data

Recent debates over grooming gangs have been marked by accusations of lies and disinformation - this is what the data actually tells us about the victims and perpetrators of child sexual abuse.

https://news.sky.com/story/child-sex-abuse-and-grooming-gangs-what-we-know-and-what-we-dont-from-the-data-13285420

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/02/2026 14:02

Efacsen · 15/02/2026 13:57

Apparently it's 'Restore Britain' - had to look it up

I reckon he picked a name that sounded a bit like Reform UK in the hope that some voters would get muddled up between the two.

BeGentleMentor · 15/02/2026 14:02

SleeplessInWherever · 15/02/2026 13:50

Some very selective reading you’ve got there.

The same information you’ve just shared, also says:

People must be physically in the UK to lodge an asylum claim. It is not possible to claim asylum from abroad and there is no asylum visa.

So they’ll have to arrive without a visa, won’t they, because they can’t get an asylum visa and can’t claim asylum from abroad. Which is what I said.

I didn’t say it wasn’t unlawful, I said they were rarely detained, because of the above. Which your information also says:

Most asylum seekers are not detained beyond the initial examination. UK law only allows for people to be detained for immigration purposes “where there is a realistic prospect of removal within a reasonable period”. Someone who has claimed asylum usually has a legal right to be in the UK until that claim is decided, so there will be no realistic prospect of removal within a reasonable period given that asylum decisions take months or years to process.

Do you always only read the parts you like?

I thought you were the initial poster I responded to why said asylum seekers are not here illegally which they patently are.