Hello , i am just recently diagnosed with AF amongst other issues and under a cardiologist and have a treatment plan. My husband is the one who has had affairs, looks at pron and generally flips back and says i am the one unreasonable. i think the stress i have been under has contributed to my af and now he is saying i am not nice to him. i am really really trying but struggling to do my best. i have said if i am stopping him do stuff he really wants (no one is going to judge him) then he must move on... today we went out for lunch and he walked on ahead... :(