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If you don’t drive your world is much smaller

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Imreallyokayipromise · 14/02/2026 12:38

I have a friend who doesn’t drive, for many reasons (anxiety, dyslexia) she also doesn’t use public transport so her world seems very small to me. She has a small child who doesn’t leave the house unless they are going to nursery school. Her partner drives but never seems to want to go anywhere either and she has to make all her plans around him and get permission and everytime we discuss it I just feel like she has no independence and her world is so small. It really got me thinking that if you can drive so many possibilities open up and your world becomes much bigger. Even if it’s just doing your own food shop or visiting a friend.

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500daysofspring · 14/02/2026 12:40

Her world is small because she has severe anxiety and a controlling partner.

Theonlywayicanloveyou · 14/02/2026 12:40

Wait, no public transport? Why? That’s the really odd bit.

ShetlandishMum · 14/02/2026 12:39

Her world is small due to anxiety.

Theonlywayicanloveyou · 14/02/2026 12:39

Depends where you live. If you were in a London it would make no difference whatsoever. Rurally it’s very limiting.