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Drinkers in Spoons

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TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 09:40

I'm away and at spoons having breakfast.

Every single table apart from mine has pints going, at 8.30.

Aibu thinking it's weird?

OP posts:
Mackerelfillets · 15/02/2026 18:55

My daughter works in Spoons. She says they can start serving at 9 and usually she sells the first pint at 9.01. She thinks 90% of these drinkers are alcohol dependant. Rest are shift workers or special event, going on holiday etc.

Millymolly99 · 15/02/2026 18:44

TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 09:40

I'm away and at spoons having breakfast.

Every single table apart from mine has pints going, at 8.30.

Aibu thinking it's weird?

Yep, I certainly wouldn’t want alcohol at that time in the morning, but you gotta love Spoons, as at my local branch you can get a large Sauvignon Blanc for £2.90

Dappy777 · 15/02/2026 18:43

Totally insane. One of the few positive changes I have lived through is the decline in drinking among the young. As a teen in the ‘90s, people were obsessed with alcohol. They would come into work on a Monday and boast about how drunk they’d got. I remember going into my local town with some American and German friends and being so embarrassed and ashamed. Public drunkennnes in the late ‘90s was awful. There were idiots walking in the road and holding up the traffic, girls fighting and urinating in shop doorways, etc. The Americans I was with couldn’t believe it. Hideous. I remember feeling genuinely ashamed of my country

FhatWheTuck · 15/02/2026 18:43

This was me today! I’ve been awake since 2am so having a drink with my “lunch” (at 9:30am) didn’t feel wrong to me.

imakomododragon · 15/02/2026 18:43

My healthcare colleagues who work 12 hour nights often go for a drink on the way home from work around 8.30am.

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 15/02/2026 18:40

I love drinking. I am having a glass of wine whilst typing this.

However, I don’t love day time drinking, or people who do it. I hate people drinking on the train - it seems some people can’t catch a train without having to get pissed at 9 am. It’s really unpleasant to be stuck in a train carriage with drunk wankers. I don’t like bottomless brunches for ‘mummies’ or sad old men throwing back pints at 8.30 am in Wetherspoons. Drink alters behaviour significantly and in a way that affects others in the vicinity - I agree with the normal societal rules that drinking early, drinking in enclosed public spaces (like trains), drinking excessively and in a way that could lead to behaviour that upsets or frightens others is not a good thing. And what interests me very much about this thread is that on MN, if someone comes on here and says they drink a bottle of wine a night in their own home, there is near universal condemnation…but if it’s old men chugging pints in Wetherspoons it’s ok and none of anyone’s business. It’s very interesting.

LBFseBrom · 15/02/2026 18:35

Very weird and unnecessary - unsavoury - in my view but I am not a drinker.

It is Wetherspoons so.....one must expect the unexpected.

SmudgeButt · 15/02/2026 18:21

How different is this to all those jetting off wherever who have a few pints before catching the 10 am flight? Or while on holiday at an all inclusive happily have buck fizz with their breakfast? I don't because I'd have a cracking headache by noon.

WhineAndWine1 · 15/02/2026 18:18

He’s probably just came of night shift. Poor bloke.

MMAS · 15/02/2026 18:13

Maybe coming of night shift

nevernotmaybe · 15/02/2026 18:10

It was the same when I was at uni 20 years ago. I would go and grab one at opening some mornings, and they would be queuing up ready to drink if I got there a little too early or they unlocked the doors late.

Chinsupmeloves · 15/02/2026 17:59

When we've gone mid morning yeah lots of people drinking. Too early, even me lol 😆

MoonWoman69 · 15/02/2026 17:59

The one in the next little town to me, has a respectable, middle aged, woman who is in as soon as the doors open, then keeps ordering bottles of wine and just sits there slowly drinking them. I think it's an odd culture to drink so early on a morning. I don't even do it on holiday!

LadyCrustybread · 15/02/2026 17:56

When I worked in pubs those people were generally ones who worked nights (except for the table of alcoholics of course). So for you it’s 8.30am but for them it’s 8.30pm.

For some it’s obviously just problem drinking but they’d just drink at home if they couldn’t at the pub.

Blades2 · 15/02/2026 17:55

SapphireSeptember · 15/02/2026 17:53

Really? That's brilliant!

I love the snobbery about Spoons. Makes me lol. Some people are being ridiculous, other people are sensible.

I mean, I did go there a lot in my younger days, can’t beat a good pitcher of vodka and red bull lol

SapphireSeptember · 15/02/2026 17:53

Blades2 · 15/02/2026 17:48

Ahahaha what do you expect in a spoons? Ffs there’s a whole Facebook group dedicated to people sending free booze to your table if you post it in the group.

try a nice cafe next time 😊

Really? That's brilliant!

I love the snobbery about Spoons. Makes me lol. Some people are being ridiculous, other people are sensible.

Blades2 · 15/02/2026 17:48

Ahahaha what do you expect in a spoons? Ffs there’s a whole Facebook group dedicated to people sending free booze to your table if you post it in the group.

try a nice cafe next time 😊

notacooldad · 15/02/2026 17:32

if you drink at 8am you are more restricted what you can do for the rest of the day. Whereas if you leave drinking until the evening you can do everything that isn’t impacted by alcohol impact before that,

Not if you are going back to work for an night shift!
Day time job. ( especially Friday or Saturday)
Go to work
Finish work
Meet friend
Have a meet up and a drink.
go home
Go to bed.

Night time workers
Go to work
Finish work
Meet friend
Have a Meet up and a drink
Go home
Go to bed

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 15/02/2026 17:24

HelenaWilson · 15/02/2026 13:52

Do you drink at 8.30am?

But for a night shift worker, 8.30am is equivalent to 8.30pm for a day worker!

Someone who works days doesn't go to bed directly they finish work, they eat, maybe do a few things around the house, maybe go out to the pub or wherever. Night workers do the same, just at the opposite end of the day.

Would you prefer the night worker go for a drink in the evening, before going to work? Or are night workers just not allowed a social life?

You’re wasting your time attempting to explain logic to that poster. More than one person explained that to her yesterday but she’s still perpetuating the same prejudice and no doubt will be till people stop responding.

99pwithaflake · 15/02/2026 17:04

sittingonabeach · 15/02/2026 16:16

if you drink at 8am you are more restricted what you can do for the rest of the day. Whereas if you leave drinking until the evening you can do everything that isn’t impacted by alcohol impact before that

Only if you live a 9-5 life where you work or have important things to do during the day.

Many people don’t live that kind of lifestyle - they work shifts, they’re retired, they work part-time, they work nights, they’re lucky enough to live lives of leisure etc.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 15/02/2026 16:32

The Spoons early drinkers who the OP thinks are weird are old men, according to people who’ve worked in Spoons.

I very much doubt these old mens’ days are packed with important runs in the car or any form of childcare. They simply want to drink beer and see people. I’d guess they walk or get the bus home when they’ve had a beer and a chat.

BudgetBuster · 15/02/2026 16:24

sittingonabeach · 15/02/2026 16:16

if you drink at 8am you are more restricted what you can do for the rest of the day. Whereas if you leave drinking until the evening you can do everything that isn’t impacted by alcohol impact before that

That's lifestyle dependent surely though?
If I work during the night... pop to the supermarket after work, then walk to spoons for a breakfast and a pint before going home to bed.... what difference is it to doing the same activities but going to work / shopping etc by day and drinking at night?

Nobody in the world has the same 24 hours

Sogfree · 15/02/2026 16:19

Head teacher here 👋🏼
I meet a fellow head teacher once a term on a Saturday at 9am for a spoons breakfast.

We drink refillable coffee on 4 of those occasions.

We drink cocktails on the other two...to celebrate the Christmas/Summer holidays.

Judge if you will...we love it.

sittingonabeach · 15/02/2026 16:16

if you drink at 8am you are more restricted what you can do for the rest of the day. Whereas if you leave drinking until the evening you can do everything that isn’t impacted by alcohol impact before that

BudgetBuster · 15/02/2026 16:13

sittingonabeach · 15/02/2026 16:01

Do you then drive after drinking first thing in the morning?

Is drink driving only restricted to people who are morning drinkers?
News to me. I thought it was just as easy to drink at night after a pint