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Drinkers in Spoons

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TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 09:40

I'm away and at spoons having breakfast.

Every single table apart from mine has pints going, at 8.30.

Aibu thinking it's weird?

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Gloriia · 16/02/2026 07:57

LoveToRun866 · 16/02/2026 00:22

I'm with you, OP.
I also find it odd that when catching a 6am flight, people are drinking so much in the departure lounge😆
I can face a coffee and a croissant, and that's it.

I know then you unfortunately have to sit in an enclosed space with them whilst they talk too loudly and are usually very quick to cause trouble should someone look at them the wrong way. Booze should be banned pre flight and during flights imo.

Poster saying they might be on different body clocks I highly doubt 20 lads going to ibiza at 6am from Leeds have done so via Australia.

BudgetBuster · 16/02/2026 07:55

Gloriia · 15/02/2026 21:35

God, I don't work nights. If you rtft you'll see I said many years ago. No one went to the pub then after a night shift and I'd bet a tenner that barring alkies they dont now.
We did often get toast from the canteen but no one stopped at the pub.

I did RTFT... the point is still relevant

Maybe you just are friends with people who only hold your judgemental views. You've been preaching through this thread about how it's unhealthy to drink at 8.30am bs pm..
With no backup aside from you don't do it 😂

Also, given lots of posters on this thread are actually telling you they do night shifts and often go for a drink straight after, I'll happily take your tenner.

Ginmonkeyagain · 16/02/2026 07:38

Also don't forget large airports will have people on different body clocks and times. Not everyone is getting a 8am flight to Malaga. Heathrow is full of people doing onward connections, so for them 6am UK time might be their evening.

Or you know what - fuck it maybe they are getting the 8am to Malaga - they are going on holiday and maybe they want a pint to take the edge off flying. It's not a crime.

99pwithaflake · 16/02/2026 07:36

LoveToRun866 · 16/02/2026 00:22

I'm with you, OP.
I also find it odd that when catching a 6am flight, people are drinking so much in the departure lounge😆
I can face a coffee and a croissant, and that's it.

Why do you find people living life differently to you “odd”?

Cherryicecreamx · 16/02/2026 01:06

It's just like being at an airport!
Totally normal a pint and a fry up right 🤣

SugarPuffSandwiches · 16/02/2026 00:38

LoveToRun866 · 16/02/2026 00:22

I'm with you, OP.
I also find it odd that when catching a 6am flight, people are drinking so much in the departure lounge😆
I can face a coffee and a croissant, and that's it.

It's not odd that others aren't the same as you though as we're all different.
I could only tolerate a mug of tea and a breakfast at that time too, but in an airport before their holidays, why is it so bizarre to think that some people might be "starting early" and having a drink before the flight?! They're on their holidays.
So much judging going on, each to their own.

Potaytocrisps · 16/02/2026 00:32

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 14/02/2026 09:49

Every Wetherspoons everywhere has people drinking in the morning, so it's normal for them.

Whilst technically still morning, they don't serve alcohol in Wetherspoons in Belfast until 11:30, possibly later on Sundays. I work nearby and see groups (usually men) outside complaining about this if I nip out for a coffee (not in Wetherspoons).

LoveToRun866 · 16/02/2026 00:22

TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 09:40

I'm away and at spoons having breakfast.

Every single table apart from mine has pints going, at 8.30.

Aibu thinking it's weird?

I'm with you, OP.
I also find it odd that when catching a 6am flight, people are drinking so much in the departure lounge😆
I can face a coffee and a croissant, and that's it.

HelenaWilson · 16/02/2026 00:19

The point was purely that students are cheap (to employ)

Are 18-20 yr olds who are students paid less than 18-20 yr olds who are not students?

Whatafustercluck · 16/02/2026 00:15

HelenaWilson · 15/02/2026 20:20

Which is fine if you're ok with sausages containing 5% meat, served by students just happy to top up their uni spends.

Why shouldn't I be ok with being served by students working their way through university? Most restaurants in summer are staffed by 18 yo school leavers or students, and they are very good at it.

I was most impressed with how hardworking the young staff at a seaside Spoons were one summer a few years ago. And how strong they must have been - very petite very young women toting trays loaded with pints.

It seemed a nice sociable place to work too - there'd be groups of them taking their breaks together out on the decking overlooking the beach.

The point was purely that students are cheap (to employ), as are the sausages... it really wasn't a commentary on their work ethic 🙄

riceuten · 15/02/2026 23:13

People drinking pints and eating greasy food at 5am at Luton Airport before sitting in a metal tube for 2-3 hours astounds me more

XenoBitch · 15/02/2026 22:43

SugarPuffSandwiches · 15/02/2026 22:36

Just as men can enjoy going to Spoons for a bit of company, a pint, a bit of community, women can enjoy going to Spoons for a bit of "me time", a bit of a chill, and enjoy a breakfast or shock horror, a lunchtime meal and a glass of wine (which I like doing every now and again) 😁

I used to spend hours drinking bottomless tea and doing crafts in my local Spoons.
I do happen to like the breakfasts too. Cheap and cheerful.

SugarPuffSandwiches · 15/02/2026 22:38

Gloriia · 15/02/2026 21:37

Don't they? That is unusual, everywhere seems to let them in nowadays.

No, they don't, no dogs allowed - a plus in my opinion. As you say, lots of places are "doggy friendly" with their own doggy menus so makes a refreshing change they're not allowed for once.

SugarPuffSandwiches · 15/02/2026 22:36

Just as men can enjoy going to Spoons for a bit of company, a pint, a bit of community, women can enjoy going to Spoons for a bit of "me time", a bit of a chill, and enjoy a breakfast or shock horror, a lunchtime meal and a glass of wine (which I like doing every now and again) 😁

Gloriia · 15/02/2026 21:40

ZenNudist · 15/02/2026 21:38

Why did you go to the spoons? I hope you took some pearls to clutch.

She went for breakfast as she was staying away from home before an oncology appointment.

Flamingojune · 15/02/2026 21:39

99pwithaflake · 15/02/2026 10:54

Male loneliness is a real thing. I think sitting in Spoons with a pint is a cheap, easy way of spending time with other blokes without too much pressure.

So what are the women doing?

ZenNudist · 15/02/2026 21:38

Why did you go to the spoons? I hope you took some pearls to clutch.

Gloriia · 15/02/2026 21:37

FreeFromWhat · 15/02/2026 21:15

Another major plus about eating and drinking in Wetherspoons is they don't allow dogs, not even in outdoor areas. Cheap and no dogs. Brilliant.

Don't they? That is unusual, everywhere seems to let them in nowadays.

TheSquareMile · 15/02/2026 21:35

Just for interest, it has been possible to get a pint early in the mornings around the big wholesale markets in London until quite recently.

Although things are changing now, I'm pretty sure that the porters at Smithfield can still get alcohol with breakfast at the Fox and Anchor, as the market hasn't closed yet.

https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2017/jun/21/pints-dawn-last-call-london-market-pubs

Pints at dawn: is this last call for London's market pubs?

Only a few pubs are still open to workers first thing in the morning – a throwback to when markets were vital to inner city life. Now these traditional early houses are being kept alive by a different type of drinker

https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2017/jun/21/pints-dawn-last-call-london-market-pubs

Gloriia · 15/02/2026 21:35

BudgetBuster · 15/02/2026 20:22

Gloriias friends are exhausted after listening to Gloriia preach for the entire shift

God, I don't work nights. If you rtft you'll see I said many years ago. No one went to the pub then after a night shift and I'd bet a tenner that barring alkies they dont now.
We did often get toast from the canteen but no one stopped at the pub.

NorfolkandBad · 15/02/2026 21:35

Whatafustercluck · 15/02/2026 19:47

I think it's fairly well known that to keep prices that low and still make a decent margin it's the food quality (and staff pay and conditions) that is sacrificed. Which is fine if you're ok with sausages containing 5% meat, served by students just happy to top up their uni spends. But let's not pretend Spoons is anything other than low cost, low quality.

So that's a No then

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 15/02/2026 21:28

People get so bloody snobby about spoons. It's one of the few places the majority of the population can afford to go. It's also a safe place for people to go on their own.

I was sat in my local spoons when a young couple came in with a toddler in a pushchair. They looked a step above homeless. Both had a takeaway cup. The manager obviously knew them, directed them to the coffee machines so they could get themselves a drink on the house.

Spoons breakfast gets widowers away from their lonely homes. Gives the day drinkers somewhere to socialise and for people like me, offers a cheap place to have breakfast when away from home.

TheBigFatMermaid · 15/02/2026 21:26

I've done it before. I've met up with friends who worked nights in other care homes after our night shifts finished. We'd have a couple of drinks,catch up with each other, then go home and sleep the sleep of the dead!

Judge me/don't judge me, it doesn't matter to me! I know we'd all put in 12 hour night shifts and this was our "evening".

Cherrytree86 · 15/02/2026 21:16

FreeFromWhat · 15/02/2026 21:15

Another major plus about eating and drinking in Wetherspoons is they don't allow dogs, not even in outdoor areas. Cheap and no dogs. Brilliant.

Now that IS a plus!

FreeFromWhat · 15/02/2026 21:15

Another major plus about eating and drinking in Wetherspoons is they don't allow dogs, not even in outdoor areas. Cheap and no dogs. Brilliant.

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