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Drinkers in Spoons

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TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 09:40

I'm away and at spoons having breakfast.

Every single table apart from mine has pints going, at 8.30.

Aibu thinking it's weird?

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Princessofgreyskull · 14/02/2026 12:14

Drinking first thing in the morning is actually really bad for you.

Firstly, you are likely to be drinking on an empty stomach which makes you drunker quicker.

Secondly, having fasted liquid through the night most people are a little bit dehydrated in the morning and alcohol dehydrates you even more.

Thirdly, unlike evening drinking, which has a natural end, drinking earlier in the day often leads to higher total alcohol consumption, as the day is "open-ended". It also affects your circadian rhythms.

So morning drinking is actually quite different to evening drinking and not in a good way.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 14/02/2026 12:13

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 12:09

But you're assuming everyone drinking at 8am has those responsibilities and are therefore being negatively affected.

Many people don't live the 9-5 lifestyle.

I'm not assuming anything, because I typed the words As a hypothetical scenario at the start of the question.

A question you haven't answered, I note.

kittyfairy66 · 14/02/2026 12:13

Same when at the airport at 6am people drinking lol I was happy with my coffee

Grammarnut · 14/02/2026 12:13

sittingonabeach · 14/02/2026 09:45

@PollyBell but at breakfast time?

Beer has been a breakfast beverage for centuries. Tea displaced it for most people by the end of the nineteenth century. It's no more weird than drinking tea or coffee or chocolate (also a breakfast beverage - like coffee it should be bitter). Fashion changes, but not everyone changes their fashion. Also, shift workers are in their 'evening' at 8 a.m. and want, perhaps, a quiet pint and a chat before going home to bed - they can do that at Wetherspoons (I do think the abbreviation 'Spoons' is a bit vulgar btw).
NB Wetherspoons also always do cask ale, and cheaply, which makes it a favourite of CAMRA members.

TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 12:13

user1473878824 · 14/02/2026 12:11

You mean like how you were in a pub at 8am?

Having breakfast before my oncology appointment? I stayed in a cheap hotel and had no cooking facilities

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Ginmonkeyagain · 14/02/2026 12:12

I mean it's a Saturday so I assume 8am drinkers in Spoons are not driving to the office after their pint.

I am not a day drinker and I think we can assume some of the Spons early crowd are problem drinkers, but seriously the hoiked bosoms of judgement on this thread are hillarious.

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 12:12

KitsyWitsy · 14/02/2026 12:01

What bottomless brunches start at 8:30? I've been on a few and they were all in the afternoon!

Many of them start in the morning.

https://cosyclub.co.uk/whats-on/bottomless-brunch

This one in Manchester starts at 10am, for example.

user1473878824 · 14/02/2026 12:11

TheDaringOliveNewt · 14/02/2026 09:44

Why would you go to a pub by yourself at 8am. Alcohol is expensive and the effort of going outside lol

You mean like how you were in a pub at 8am?

Frenchfrychic · 14/02/2026 12:11

Is this the first time you’ve come across this op?

many people drink first thing in the morning. Alcoholics, night shift workers, insomniacs, those with issues causing it to be a rare thing, people going in a special day out, bit like holiday.

there used to be a little newsagent near me, who sold shots at 7am out the back. It had a queue if alkies outside it every morning.

Flamingojune · 14/02/2026 12:10

ERthree · 14/02/2026 09:56

Many of those drinkers will be home by midday. They are single lonely older men that are struggling. They may have been awake most of the night and just need some human contact. Don't knock them for it as one day you too could be sat looking at 4 walls and having not spoken a word to another human for days on end.

What about lonely women?

TheMatildaEffect · 14/02/2026 12:09

I'm a fan of Wetherspoons. Our local is a beautiful building with nice staff.

I order eggs and mushrooms for breakfast. The eggs are free range. The coffee is lovely and if other people prefer a wine or beer with their breakfast, then good for them.

MayaPinion · 14/02/2026 12:09

Spoons aren’t pleasant or relaxing places to be. They’re attractive because they’re cheap and available. They know their niche and they do it very well, but nobody goes to a Spoons for the ambience or great food.

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 12:09

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 14/02/2026 12:07

No, our bodies don't.

But as (presumably) adults, our responsibilities and duties change over the 24 hour period. So if you drink enough to experience intoxication, it rather does matter when you're intoxicated.

As a hypothetical scenario, if you rise at 7am and go to bed at 11pm, and you drive to work and back at 8.30am and 5.30pm, which one is most likely to have a negative impact on other people: an 8am alcoholic drink or an 8pm alcoholic drink?

But you're assuming everyone drinking at 8am has those responsibilities and are therefore being negatively affected.

Many people don't live the 9-5 lifestyle.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 14/02/2026 12:08

There really are some avid members of Temperance Societies on MN.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 14/02/2026 12:07

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 11:43

What's the difference between drinking at 8am or 8pm? Your body doesn't react differently because it's am!

No, our bodies don't.

But as (presumably) adults, our responsibilities and duties change over the 24 hour period. So if you drink enough to experience intoxication, it rather does matter when you're intoxicated.

As a hypothetical scenario, if you rise at 7am and go to bed at 11pm, and you drive to work and back at 8.30am and 5.30pm, which one is most likely to have a negative impact on other people: an 8am alcoholic drink or an 8pm alcoholic drink?

Dollymylove · 14/02/2026 12:04

All I will say is that there was far less trouble when we had stricter alcohol licencing laws.
Yet another of Blairs "visions" that went arse over tit 😡

KitsyWitsy · 14/02/2026 12:01

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 11:36

It makes me laugh how MN will sneer at people who have a beer with breakfast, but the same posters are quite happy to knock back Prosecco at the same time with their "bottomless brunch".

What bottomless brunches start at 8:30? I've been on a few and they were all in the afternoon!

MrsKeats · 14/02/2026 11:55

It’s an alcoholics paradise. Not sure what you were expecting tbh.

Ginmonkeyagain · 14/02/2026 11:53

@Gloriia not everyone but some will. I literally walk past a pub most days that opens at 6am to cater for shift workers.

Itsmetheflamingo · 14/02/2026 11:53

Gloriia · 14/02/2026 11:21

We wouldn't we judge alkies? Nothing to do with the grace of God. Drinking at 8.30am is never a good thing. Post night shift, holibobs whatever. If they drink at that time they have a drink problem.

er? What the fuck are you judging them for? Having an addiction? What has your judgement got to do with anything?

reading this thread it’s clear how completely naive mumsnetters are to how many people are alcohol dependant. Where do you think they get it from?!

(plus of course night shift workers, people going to sports games/ on holiday- I mean when I was a student I’d drink at any hour and wasn’t alcohol dependant)

Twooclockrock · 14/02/2026 11:52

I had an ex who was an alcoholic.
He has died since of liver disease.
Anyway, he would only drink in the pub. Never at home or anywhere else. Needless to say he spent a lot of time in the pub at any hour of night and day.

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 11:49

Dinnaeeatallthecheese · 14/02/2026 11:47

Bottomless brunch is usually nearer lunchtime
8am drinkers are likely self medicating against withdrawal

No skin in this game, I dont drink but the endless justification for alcohol is ridiculous

I don't drink either, so I'm not trying to justify anything either way.

But why is 11am okay but 8am isn't? Confused

BillieWiper · 14/02/2026 11:49

It's a weekend though. On a weekday the majority probably wouldn't be drinking before 11am?

But yeah, it's the last chance saloon of hostelries for retired/unemployed alcoholics. They're just holding onto their drinking still being social as they can afford to attend the pub, but if they're still alive in a few years it'll be cans on the park bench.

But that's kind of half the point of Spoons. You do see people who you think if they weren't in here they'd probably not see or speak to anyone all day. It's kind of a good thing though somewhat depressing. It is a large proportion of their clientele. The types priced out of regular pubs many years ago. It's a bit like a community centre for older men.

Having said that I always find I feel totally comfortable entering and drinking in Spoons alone. Maybe not on a Friday night. But it feels normal to be a solo female in there which is a good thing. I used to do home visits with no car so always wanted somewhere to do my admin in between calls. Even if you're in the minority you feel reassured. You know what to expect.

Anyway how was the breakfast? I don't think I've had one before but it looks alright?

sanityisamyth · 14/02/2026 11:47

Thepeopleversuswork · 14/02/2026 09:51

I don’t really understand why you would go to Spoons for breakfast if you didn’t want to drink? Surely there are more pleasant places to go for breakfast?

I love breakfast in my local spoons. I have an allergy which they know well, the staff are lovely and the food is great. My son and I have a Pepsi Max (not alcoholic!) and just enjoy being there. A few people have an alcoholic drink with theirs but there’s never been any problem with anyone there, and we go a lot!

Dinnaeeatallthecheese · 14/02/2026 11:47

99pwithaflake · 14/02/2026 11:36

It makes me laugh how MN will sneer at people who have a beer with breakfast, but the same posters are quite happy to knock back Prosecco at the same time with their "bottomless brunch".

Bottomless brunch is usually nearer lunchtime
8am drinkers are likely self medicating against withdrawal

No skin in this game, I dont drink but the endless justification for alcohol is ridiculous

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