She's not a nice person. She has no friends, and she's fallen out with all the family. She says racist things, she's horribly judgemental about other women and their looks, has extreme views on conspiracy theories.
Basically if I met her, I'd give her a very wide berth. We have nothing in common.
She was also very cruel when I was growing up, I've needed a lot of therapy to overcome the low self worth she installed in me.
Now she's getting older, I've noticed a change in her attitude with me. I can't help but feel manipulated - like she's only being 'nicer' because she realises she may need more help soon.
What would you do, keep your distance, or forgive and help more?