Let me spell this out very clearly for the hard of thinking

Why are you so concerned about the hurty feelings of my husband and son? Neither are rapists.

But neither are offended if women are wary of them, say in a dark alley or alone in the woods, because how can women tell?

Who cares more about men's delicate feelings than women's safety?

now we’ve established the gender carries out the overwhelming majority of these crimes these crimes
it might be better to find out what % of the individual overall gender are responsible for these offences
otherwise your just stating your husbands , brothers and dads are all violent rapeist

now we’ve established the gender carries out the overwhelming majority of these crimes these crimes
it might be better to find out what % of the individual overall gender are responsible for these offences
otherwise your just stating your husbands , brothers and dads are all violent rapeist

now we’ve established the gender carries out the overwhelming majority of these crimes these crimes
it might be better to find out what % of the individual overall gender are responsible for these offences
otherwise your just stating your husbands , brothers and dads are all violent rapeist

Correct, as all the evidence shows.

Lots of menz trolls on this site too so don't assume these 'namalts' are women. Menz trolls are the exactly the type of subpar man to minimize male violence. Yes indeedy.

My multiplier by 3 was a complete guess and is likely low. I looked at estimated unreported violent crimes and it was lower than a multiplier of 3, which seemed astonishingly low. Even multiplying by 20 only takes it to 2.4%, an overwhelmingly low percentage. As I’ve said, my point is not that men don’t commit these crimes, it’s that it’s a tiny minority that do.

Cool
Now do "She was asking for it"

Correct, as all the evidence shows.

Those are stats.

Do you mean that you want a breakdown? I cannot possibly legislate for that, you could be after any micro-perspective.

Google.

Because while it can be acknowledged that most violence is committed by men, women are given too much of a free pass.

if a man kills his children he’s a murdering bastard who deserves to die and rightly so.

if a woman murders her children she must be mentally ill and deserving of sympathy.

a man is an obnoxious prick he’s an obnoxious prick.

a woman must be “peri” menopausal, struggling with the daily grind.

women are raised to believe they need never take personal responsibility.

and yet in every single case where a child is murdered by a stepfather it started with a woman who allowed that man access to children before she even knew him, and 9 times out of ten becomes involved in the abuse. That is a choice.

it’s simple. If women want to be treated as equals they need to stop hiding behind excuses. Because until they do people will bring up the likes of rose west etc, because the rest have been given a get-out in the name of hormones.

we need to just accept that there are good and bad men as well as women.

Summary NAMALT

I think your reasoning is good but your multiplier for under-reported crimes is way off.

I'm not sure I've ever met any woman who I've had a conversation with who hasn't seen the actions of a violent man in person.

Men very often don't report being hit by a man. Abused women either leave physically abusive men and don't look back, or suffer in silence in their homes. Children generally don't report their own fathers for thumping them. Women don't report rape they know won't result in a conviction due to lack of evidence.

I suspect that rather than multiplying by 3 you should be multiplying by at least 20.

And of course it's not all men, I'm with a 100% non violent man myself, but the fear of violence from men is legitimate and ever present.

Last week I was run into by a young man on a very narrow pathway who deliberately rode a bike at me thinking I would step into the road out of his way. I pushed him into a bush instead, after which he followed me up the road threatening me and circling me on his bike. I'm an older woman and he could see that. He actually said I was lucky I was female or he would have hit me. His reticence might also have had something to do with the fact that I was with a 90kg man of 6ft 2.

What I genuinely don’t understand is why some women, when presented with the incontrovertible statistics of male violence and sexual crimes, immediately go to “But what about Myra Hindly?” or “What about my appalling, bullying ex-boss?” rather than “Shit-we’re obviously doing something wrong as a society-where do we go from here?”

The frothing AND outrage over a detail as opposed to the human tragedy itself speaks volumes.

Well yes, but there is still that very small percentage that are female

Here you go.. This figure from the Rape Crisis Centre says 91% are men. Either way, it's overwhelmingly men.

Well yes, but there is still that very small percentage that are female