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to think some people would be weirdly excited if WFH came to an end?

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LoveWFH · 13/02/2026 09:22

Why do some posters sound almost delighted at the thought of Nigel Farage stopping WFH?

There’s this tone of “that’ll teach them” whenever it comes up. As if people working from home have been getting away with something.

Here’s the practical bit though. My company couldn’t bring everyone back full time even if it wanted to. They’ve sold off chunks of the office space. Whole buildings gone. Desks gone. Leases not renewed. There literally isn’t room for everyone anymore.

Hybrid working isn’t some trendy phase. It’s how a lot of businesses are set up now. They’ve planned for it. Budgeted for it. Recruited around it.

You can’t magically create space that no longer exists.

If you prefer being in the office, fair enough. Plenty of people do. But I don’t get the satisfaction at the idea of other people losing flexibility that works for them and their employer.

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Binus · 13/02/2026 10:57

Newbutoldfather · 13/02/2026 10:55

I didn't make a counter claim. I said you needed to back it up.

That being said, Martyn Oliver is full of shit and was rightly slagged to high heaven for this at the time. He offered no evidence at all, which isn't a surprise because there won't be any. Schools don't have the necessary data on parents work location.

Toomuchprivateinfo · 13/02/2026 10:57

It’s generally the people who can’t wfh home (hairdressers, retail workers, patient-facing healthcare etc) who object. I presume they think we’re all skiving off (I’m sure some do). Hybrid working is here to stay.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 13/02/2026 10:55

Furlane · 13/02/2026 10:53

Of course Reform want to stop people working from home. It has vastly benefitted women and disabled people. It doesn’t fit with their ethos of keeping women at home having babies.

I think it's more a class thing. The people they are trying to appeal to are working-class people, who typically are not office workers so don't have a WFH option, and retired people who are often of the mentality of 'I had to bloody put up with it so why shouldn't the next generation?' It's an attack on the middle class people who'd never vote Reform.

Binus · 13/02/2026 10:55

Luckyingame · 13/02/2026 10:51

My husband calls it "shirking from home".
Neither of us work, we live off land and rental properties (commercial and domestic).
No jealousy there.
Home workers, as someone else commented, will likely be replaced by AI.
Please don't bother to reply or quote me, this stuff is none of my business or interest whatsoever.

Your husban is a fuckwit.

I always enjoy the jump to AI replacement in these discussions too. Obviously people doing AI vulnerable jobs are going to be kept on in greater numbers if they're doing it in an office, which makes them even more expensive to employ because premises cost money.

JustAnotherWhinger · 13/02/2026 10:55

Luckyingame · 13/02/2026 10:51

My husband calls it "shirking from home".
Neither of us work, we live off land and rental properties (commercial and domestic).
No jealousy there.
Home workers, as someone else commented, will likely be replaced by AI.
Please don't bother to reply or quote me, this stuff is none of my business or interest whatsoever.

That is amusing that a man with no job has such a strong opinion on people with jobs.

ukathleticscoach · 13/02/2026 10:54

He is trying to appeal to his core voters who cannot get an office job

JustAnotherWhinger · 13/02/2026 10:54

Newbutoldfather · 13/02/2026 10:46

I think WFH has done a lot of damage to society in a really insidious way.

That is not to say occasional flexibility isn’t a good thing and a flexible understanding work place is a positive.

However, there is no good example to the younger generation being set, which leads to the school refusal epidemic. Many young people have huge social anxiety and just aren’t used to being with other people . And huge chunks of all the businesses that supported work places have disappeared, further hollowing cities out.

Traditional mentoring and social structures within workplaces are dying. Teams just isn’t the same as a casual lunch with your boss!

I think a lot more research should be done before we accept WFH as the norm.

How on earth has WFH caused school refusal? Whats your link between them?

Mangelwurzelfortea · 13/02/2026 10:53

Luckyingame · 13/02/2026 10:51

My husband calls it "shirking from home".
Neither of us work, we live off land and rental properties (commercial and domestic).
No jealousy there.
Home workers, as someone else commented, will likely be replaced by AI.
Please don't bother to reply or quote me, this stuff is none of my business or interest whatsoever.

If you don't work, then why have either of you got an opinion on whether people are more productive in the office or not? What are you basing that on?

Furlane · 13/02/2026 10:53

Of course Reform want to stop people working from home. It has vastly benefitted women and disabled people. It doesn’t fit with their ethos of keeping women at home having babies.

Newbutoldfather · 13/02/2026 10:53

@beasmithwentworth ,

If you see your parents putting on their ‘uniforms’ and leaving for work, it is an example.

If your parents log on to their computers half dressed, why wouldn’t you feel that was fine for you too?

JustAnotherWhinger · 13/02/2026 10:52

MistressIggi · 13/02/2026 10:32

I do wonder about the impact of wfh on recruitment for those jobs which can't be done from home. There isn't as much making them appealing now. I wouldn't have picked an office job as that just didn't appeal, but office work done from home? That would be different.

Loads of people don’t like WFH, so jobs that are office based will still be wanted.

Certainly hasn’t impacted recruitment in DH’s company - their jobs simply can’t be done from home and they still have 50+ applications for jobs at all levels.

Binus · 13/02/2026 10:51

Newbutoldfather · 13/02/2026 10:46

I think WFH has done a lot of damage to society in a really insidious way.

That is not to say occasional flexibility isn’t a good thing and a flexible understanding work place is a positive.

However, there is no good example to the younger generation being set, which leads to the school refusal epidemic. Many young people have huge social anxiety and just aren’t used to being with other people . And huge chunks of all the businesses that supported work places have disappeared, further hollowing cities out.

Traditional mentoring and social structures within workplaces are dying. Teams just isn’t the same as a casual lunch with your boss!

I think a lot more research should be done before we accept WFH as the norm.

Have you not thought at all about how the traditional social structures you're praising here completely screwed over some people?

For a long time there was no choice but to accept in person work as the norm, when most of us needed to have physical access to things we couldn't keep in our homes. Now that there's a choice for some jobs, actually a great deal of research needs to be done before we accept that in person work is an inherently beneficial norm. That assumption very much needs to be questioned.

And you're going to need to back up your claim about school refusal.

beasmithwentworth · 13/02/2026 10:51

How does adults working from home lead to the school refusal epidemic?

Luckyingame · 13/02/2026 10:51

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 13/02/2026 09:30

Yes some people are weirdly foaming at the mouth about it. I think a lot of it is jealousy from people who cat wfh. The whole “if I have to suffer a commute so should you” thing.

My husband calls it "shirking from home".
Neither of us work, we live off land and rental properties (commercial and domestic).
No jealousy there.
Home workers, as someone else commented, will likely be replaced by AI.
Please don't bother to reply or quote me, this stuff is none of my business or interest whatsoever.

Smoosha · 13/02/2026 10:50

treeowl · 13/02/2026 10:27

We literally saw school mum with laptop in her hands on school run. What kind of quality you can get from it?

But if you don’t work with this person or in the same organisation why on earth would you care?

I work in a profession where people come and see me for appointments. The amount of people that come in with laptops open or say “I just need to keep my phone on me as I’m working at the moment”. Then they need to jump up if someone rings them. Or they keep stopping during it to check emails. I’ve called people in from the waiting room and they’ve walked all the way to the treatment room without so much as acknowledging me as they are “just writing a quick email for work”. I once had someone end an appointment early as their boss rang and they absolutely panicked and said they needed to get to their laptop and she left! (Without paying anything I should add)

So I might not work with any of these people. But it very much is affecting MY work.

Newbutoldfather · 13/02/2026 10:46

I think WFH has done a lot of damage to society in a really insidious way.

That is not to say occasional flexibility isn’t a good thing and a flexible understanding work place is a positive.

However, there is no good example to the younger generation being set, which leads to the school refusal epidemic. Many young people have huge social anxiety and just aren’t used to being with other people . And huge chunks of all the businesses that supported work places have disappeared, further hollowing cities out.

Traditional mentoring and social structures within workplaces are dying. Teams just isn’t the same as a casual lunch with your boss!

I think a lot more research should be done before we accept WFH as the norm.

Womaninhouse17 · 13/02/2026 10:46

CactusSwoonedEnding · 13/02/2026 09:28

Quite right. I think the weirdly delighted people come in two flavours though. There's the ones who themselves have a natural tendency towards laziness that they may or may not have worked hard to overcome but assume that everyone who does WFH is similarly lazy and needs to be in the office in order to be productive. And then there's the social butterflies who get energised and inspired by the group atmosphere in the office and find it genuinely more difficult to get motivated when working solo. Both types have an enormous empathy deficit or willful ignorance about colleagues who find the office environment distracting or even overwhelming and who are 10 times more productive when they WFH.

But there might also be people who are otherwise isolated and value productive interaction with others.

randomchap · 13/02/2026 10:42

AnnPerkins · 13/02/2026 10:40

Farage has railed against oat milk, almond milk etc, calling it left wing and saying he just wants some 'proper bloody milk'.

I love it. 'Left wing milk' 👌

I didn't think about the vegan alternatives. It made me think about click,clack, moo

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Click,_Clack,_Moo

A book about left wing milk

Click, Clack, Moo - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Click,_Clack,_Moo

AnnPerkins · 13/02/2026 10:40

randomchap · 13/02/2026 10:36

What is a left wing milk? Is it from a communist cow? Is it red top?

Farage has railed against oat milk, almond milk etc, calling it left wing and saying he just wants some 'proper bloody milk'.

I love it. 'Left wing milk' 👌

Oopsya · 13/02/2026 10:40

The oh I saw one woman with a laptop on the school run or I know my uncles friends cousin watches Netflix all day instead of working. I always find a weird argument to always put forward, you can see lots of ridiculous behaviour in an office too, people dicking about not working, people being rude etc, but no one is suggesting closing all of them down on just one off cases, I was sexually assaulted in my first office job (hence I now do wfh roles) but I don’t think that’s representative of every office job, but people think one off peoples shitty behavior is representative of the whole wfh culture?
if people are taking the piss in either office or wfh roles, that’s for their boss to deal with, not Nigel farage doing nanny state for working.

Binus · 13/02/2026 10:38

Yanbu OP. Not sure some of the whiners would be too keen on ponying up for enough office space to cover the whole public sector again, mind!

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 13/02/2026 10:37

StephensLass1977 · 13/02/2026 10:24

Yeah it's a jealousy thing. So many people think WFH means the worker is sitting there twiddling their thumbs and going shopping. I flaming wish. I replied to that poster earlier who said she thinks WFH should end because it doesn't suit her personally, and I said how I've never worked so hard. I start at 7am and don't finish a minute before 5.15pm. One hour lunch. I get so much done. No one is there to distract me or make me change the toner cartridge, etc.

WFH managers now think nothing of putting in calls for 6pm. Mine did it on Monday. I had a gym class a little later and had to cancel it. This never happened in the office. There's a sense of "you're at home, therefore you can attend a meeting at 6pm".

I also know people who were very jealous of WFH people, as they themselves had manual jobs. The usual crap about "sitting around doing nothing all day". Then some of these people ended up in desk-based roles, and oh look, suddenly they're massive supporters of WFH.

Due to the nature of my job can't really do a great deal from home but there are some that do one or two days at home. Some people really work their socks off and have sent multiple emails and answered queries before others have even logged on and continue like that the whole day. Others don't seem to do very much including having been seen at the shops etc by people who work part-time

But they were the same at work - those who spent most time walking back and forth to the coffee machine in the office are those that do least at home.
We do get a fair few interruptions when in the office - most of mine tend to be "how do I do something" sort from the juniors which can be answered quickly and easily.

randomchap · 13/02/2026 10:36

AnnPerkins · 13/02/2026 10:32

It is odd how this has become a culture war. I think it's manufactured by the likes of Farage to further his victimised by the elites agenda and best ignored. Like 15-minute cities, chemtrails and 'left wing milks'.

What is a left wing milk? Is it from a communist cow? Is it red top?

Tryagain26 · 13/02/2026 10:34

I don't understand why the issue has become politicised.
I retired 10 years ago way and working from home was common and even encouraged then! No one complained, cared or were even aware if it.
Why does it matter to anyone else? We are in very strange times when this has become an issue for people