Baby has repeat accidents under husbands care

exactly what I am thinking

Have you actually seen these accidents or is this how he explained her head injuries to you?

My children never had head injuries like you described and 2 in a short amount of time is very worrying. I assume you didn’t go to A&E as otherwise SS would be involved.

You need thick rugs to cover the ceramic tiles. You husband needs to buck up.

This definitely warrants social services involvement. That’s a lot of head injuries in a small child. I’m guessing you have never taken her to A&E to be checked because these absolutely would have been flagged as possible abuse. If you haven’t seen them happen with your own eyes, that would also worry me.

@GreeneQueen do you care to comment on what people have been saying, such as are you going to take the advice and get your child seen by a doctor, and have you considered this may not be accidental or at the very least this is neglect?

I was agreeing with a previous poster.

I’ll start with saying all parents will have different tolerance levels of allowing “risky” behaviour, and generally studies have shown men have higher tolerance than women.

However, not strapping in is just lazy/not allowing the child to explore.

So, on balance, yes he has poor judgement, but three examples of falls isn’t suggesting to me incompetence, but a parent who is learning.

I guess it’s more important to judge if you think he is learning, or just uninterested in improving/keeping your child safe.

It sounds absolutely nothing like AI, it sounds like a stressed human. If you’re going to AI hunt can you spend some time using AI or reading about it so that you have a better idea of what it actually sounds like en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Signs_of_AI_writing

I thought this. Sometimes i see upsetting posts where the OP never comes back and I wonder if the horrified reactions are being deliberately provoked.

1.5m? From a couch? I'd have to take a run and jump to get on to the sofa to sit down at that height.

I agree.

All over the warmer parts of the world people live in homes with ceramic tile flooring. Toddlers crawl and walk on ceramic tiles.

They do not all end up with head injuries.

This is because like toddlers in carpeted homes, their parents amd caregivers supervise them.

Agree.

You need to take the child to be examined.

You need to tell the doctors exactly what happened.

Sadly, you may not be aware of other incidents.

Yes.

And do not lie to doctors to protect him.

The time may well come when you will need the documentation of his failure to provide basic supervision.

This.

And you'll worry about leaving him because he'll have weekend visitation, when you won't be able to make sure she's safe.

There's a huge difference between encouraging exploration and being a danger to your child. He's either too thick to understand the difference or he's a sociopath.

What consequences have you put in place to communicate to him that you will not accept his disregard for basic safety?
Have you told your family or his about these incidents?

Do not have another baby with this dangerous man.

Flooring is not the issue here.

Take her for brain scans, these types of falls do cause trauma especially with soft heads - like sports traumas-do proper investigation and do not leave your child with him - he is not safe.

Poor parental supervision on his part....3 times on tiles....he is at something else instead of caring for the child. And with one child he has no excuse. He is making little of the child's welfare by saying you helicopter too much. Falling on a soft surface is dropping the risk but not a ceramic floor.

er no, my child didn’t fall out of a pram/cot/chair once because I was there/they were strapped in/they were correctly supervised./ the cot was raised as needed.

That's what I do? That's 'just' life for some.

Clearly you haven’t sought medical
advice each time because if you had you’d have had a social services visit right now. And they wouldn’t be impressed. Quite rightly they would be asking questions.

You are complicit and leaving your child at risk of harm. Why on earth are you being so passive about it all?!

I wouldn’t be surprised if there were other injuries you aren’t aware of…

Three times is no longer accidental.
I'd be worried it's intentional.

Also, change your flooring or cover it with thick insulation and carpet.

This, exactly!

This is such an odd, wooden writing style. Sounds like AI.

You need to leave. He's either incompetent and doesn't care, or he's malicious. Leave, apply for sole care, but before you go, 'accidentally' smash three of his most treasured possessions and tell him how uptight he is for caring about them.

Your daughter is helpless and her safety is the priority. I’d tell him that and that his marriage depends on him caring about his helpless child’s safety in a proactive way, and if a worse accident happens you will know it was avoidable, he is just negligent, and you will never ever look at him the same way again.