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Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 22:24

I started a different thread about this yesterday but am starting a new one here because I've got a new question and I know many readers never read OP updates on a thread!
DS year 9 had been put onto a GCSE pathway for additional support.
He has no SEN diagnosed.
He has never had any intervention classes at school.
School have never made me aware at any point since year 7 that they feel DS needs additional support.
I have not received any communication whatsoever about him being put on to an additional support GCSE pathway. It has been like a bolt out of the blue and I only found out on Monday.
Parents evening last week made no mention of it.
So I spoke to a member of staff about it today.
It is not a mistake, as suggested by posters on my other thread.
The member of staff has told me the following:
That DS has been put on a pathway for year 10 & 11 where he will study
Maths
English
Science
1 humanity OR 1 language (his choice but only 1 of these)
2 practical based subjects of his choice such as DT, art, music, cookery, dance, photography, etc.
3 extra Maths intervention sessions a fortnight
3 extra English intervention sessions a fortnight
He cannot choose 2 humanities.
He cannot choose 1 humanity & 1 language.
He cannot choose 2 humanities & 1 language.
it is 1 humanity only.
He is only 1 of 16 students who has been put on this pathway out of the whole of year 9.
The 'standard' Ebacc pathway is
English, maths, science, 1 humanity, 1 language, then 2 further options which can include a second humanity, even a third one, but DS had not been given this pathway as an option.
I was confused when I posted on my other thread yesterday, and I remain confused.
I still don't understand how DS has been put on this additional support pathway with no communication whatsoever about any learning delay or concerns whatsoever from school in the 2.5 years he's been there.
I asked this question directly today, and it wasn't answered. It was glossed over.
DS is really upset.
A. He doesn't want to do only 1 humanity and no language. He feels he's had all his choices removed from him.
B. He says nobody at school has talked to him about this.
C. He feels excluded from the standard pathway that all his friends are doing.
D. He is asking me do his school think he's stupid and incapable
E. He fears stigma about this amongst his peers, and feels he is going to get comments and 'jokes' about not being able to do what everyone else is doing.
He has never had a conversation with, or any input from, the SenCo.
I have never had a conversation with the SenCo about DS.
The SenCo has never contacted me about DS to discuss him.
Again, he has no SEN.
So.
My questions to people here who have knowledge and experience:

  1. What the hell is going on here?
  2. Can they enforce this? Does DS have any choice or any say in the matter??
  3. What right do school have to remove his choice to do 2 humanities, or 1 humanity + 1 language? Without any prior conversation with him or with me?
  4. AIBU to feel they are 'dumbing down' his options?
  5. Why does DS have to choose 2 options from a list of practical subjects? This isn't the pathway he wants to follow - cookery, or DT, or dance, or drama, etc. But he's now got to pick 2 of these subjects.

The list of the 2 extra choices on the standard Ebacc pathway contains additional academic choices.
Whereas the list of 2 extra choices on the additional support pathway DS has been placed on contains no academic choice whatsoever.
If he only does Maths, English, Science + 1 humanity, plus 2 practical non academic subjects, is this going to exclude him from doing A levels and a degree??
DS most definitely wants a career that will require A levels and degree. Will this additional needs pathway block him from going on to do A levels & degree because he won't have enough GCSE subjects?
DS is an intelligent boy. I can't believe the school are restricting his GCSE choices like this and putting him on this pathway, having never once put him into any additional intervention measures since starting in year 7.
His year 9 assessment scores were all below the year group average. Not way below. But they were below. His results do not reflect his intelligence or capability. He said he knew all the answers but didn't get to complete the assessments as ran out of time. So the unanswered questions that he hadn't got to pulled his total score down, even though all the questions he did answer were correct.
Basically I feel like I've got an intelligent boy who hasn't performed well in the year 9 assessments and as a result has been placed on an intervention GCSE pathway that enforces a reduced number of GCSEs and being forced to take 2 practical subjects instead, yet with no consent from or discussion with DS or myself about this.
I have tried really hard to speak to the SenCo since Monday when I found this out, but I am not receiving any replies to the emails I have sent her requesting for her to contact me to discuss this. I've been told this has all been based on her recommendation, yet she's never even had a conversation with me or with DS.
I am really worried aboug the impact this will have on DS's options, choices, future success and I'm worried about this affecting his self esteem.
Only 16 kids out of an entire huge year 9 cohort have been assessed as unable to do the Ebacc route and my intelligent DS is one of them? He's in the bottom 10% of kids who isn't allowed to do the standard Ebacc pathway that the other 90% of kids are following and yet he has no SEN and has never been given additional interventions at school and who is really bright?
From what I know of his blunt and highly insensitive and never-endingly mocking peers, he is not wrong when he says he is going to get put downs and negative comments from peers about this.
He has such hopes for his future career and these restricted and limited GCSEs are going to block that, because his career hopes require A levels & degree.
Help😞

OP posts:
SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 11:04

@TheBestThingthatAlmostHappened I think self-esteem issues and a disengagement from learning are major problems, if someone has an undiagnosed, or unsupported SEN.. especially with adhd (diagnosed or undiagnosed) - the proportion of interactions that are negative, critical, angry or frustrated massively outweighs those that are positive.

I have to keep a close eye on how I speak to / what I speak about with one of my dc (who has other diagnosed SEN, but likely has adhd as well) - as it can all just be very negative if you are not careful (and can really damage self-esteem.. (why is your room so filthy / messy, I just tidied and cleaned this morning? Why have you left all your dishes on the table? Get on with your work… stop looking at your phone… Sit down, we’re eating. Sit still. Try and focus. Have you finished that yet, you’ve been doing it for ages? Please don’t tease your sister. I can’t believe you have lost another coat this week.. why aren’t you ready? I told you we were leaving 20 minutes ago and you are not even dressed..).

jamimmi · 13/02/2026 11:00

@Delatron I belive exam acess arrangments are normally either rest brakes or extra time not both but I maybe wrong. Dd was offered either or.
@Arizona29 I do hope you get this sorted , it is a struggle. We had to really fight for Dd as she was bright enough to cope untill year 9 when the wheels fell off so to speak. We pointed out to school they had missed her brothers issues picked up in the 1st two weeks of another 6th form. The senco did appologise to us when the results came back. With the right help she got straight 7,8,9 in her GCSE's btw including 3 sciences, history& geograhy instead of French, she could speak but not write it! Bright kids cope untill they cant, schools are really not designed to pick up issues especially if the kids are on target.

Imaginingdragonsagain · 13/02/2026 10:54

Sorry if this has already been mentioned as i’ve only read OP posts but could you get him tested for, I don’t know the correct name, but essentially his processing speed. I know of 2 at my dc’s sixth form where this was tested and they got extra time as they basically were getting questions right but completely running out of time. Good luck OP. Just to agree with other posters, that selection of GCSEs won’t harm A level choices but they will obviously need to pick their humanities/language option wisely - history to show essay abilities, geography may complement sciences, etc

TheBestThingthatAlmostHappened · 13/02/2026 10:47

Mere1 · 13/02/2026 08:29

Be guided by the school. They are professionals who have the child’s interest at heart. That said, my son in law-now a solicitor, was only diagnosed as dyslexic at university. His mum was a primary school head and he went to a fee paying secondary school.

My French teacher was also the SENCO at my independent secondary school. She wrote the same things on my school report as everyone else. Potential but lacks motivation and attention to detail, makes careless mistakes, disorganised and forgets to hand work in on the right date, frequently late for lessons. In person she got very irate that it took me forever to try to organise myself to leave her classroom and told me I was a "naughty, disobedient girl". She also told me to stop making excuses and being so lazy when I tried to explain that I'd done my homework but forgotten to bring it in. She made me go without a textbook for most of a half term and I had to copy down my homework tasks from a school textbook during breaktimes (which made her angry because I was in her classroom) after I lost it. Even though my Mum asked to buy a new one, and also asked if she could not just buy a full extra set of textbooks so I didn't have to carry them to and from school which was to help my organisation but also because I had a growth delay and my consultant had said it was damaging for me to be carrying the amount of weight that I was. It was her decision and she said no because things had to be "equal". She wasn't even the worst teacher and I was basically told I was an awful child by teachers and students alike throughout school.

I got my ADHD diagnosis at 24 and my self-esteem was absolutely rock bottom.

I feel really angry thinking about it.

Delatron · 13/02/2026 10:26

Neither me nor my DS’s teachers picked up on his dyslexia. He was going to a maths tutor who said she wanted to run some tests then recommended he get formally tested.
So it presents in different ways to you think.

His ADHD (inattentive type) was spotted by his English teacher in the first year of GCSEs. These kids can fly under the radar. Especially if you are looking for a hyperactive naughty child. That was never DS.

Though despite dyslexia and ADHD he still didn’t qualify for extra time! He gets rest breaks and that’s it.

Needlenardlenoo · 13/02/2026 09:34

I trained in 2012. Dyslexia wasn't even mentioned...

Needlenardlenoo · 13/02/2026 09:31

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 09:07

..or it might even have been something as ridiculous as only 30 mins learning about dyslexia during teacher training - it is that outrageous!

The consequence of this is that you essentially have to become an expert about it yourself, as you have to advocate effectively for your child.

As a teacher and SEND mum -- yes! This!!

Alasandalack · 13/02/2026 09:08

A further thought - I believe the average number of GCSEs achieved each year is something like 7.7/7.8 - so if your son does 8 (the 5 I said, plus 3 others which includes an essay based one) and achieves Grade 4 or higher, that is above average! Finally (sorry) don’t dismiss DT and Art - the former is very technical and well respected, as is Art for the sheer volume of work required. They are not ‘easy’ choices - we have experience of both. If they’re not his ‘thing’ then fair enough, but they’re not soft options.

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 09:07

..or it might even have been something as ridiculous as only 30 mins learning about dyslexia during teacher training - it is that outrageous!

The consequence of this is that you essentially have to become an expert about it yourself, as you have to advocate effectively for your child.

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 08:57

Mere1 · 13/02/2026 08:29

Be guided by the school. They are professionals who have the child’s interest at heart. That said, my son in law-now a solicitor, was only diagnosed as dyslexic at university. His mum was a primary school head and he went to a fee paying secondary school.

I have heard from various teachers / Sencos / dyslexia association sessions over the years that standard teaching training actually only spends something like 2 hours on learning about dyslexia / SPLD… so, to be honest, schools / teachers often do not know best, unfortunately…

ClawsandEffect · 13/02/2026 08:54

stichguru · 13/02/2026 08:44

I have a masters degree
I needed extra time with my exams
I have extra time for tasks in work

Processing speed is not a mark of your overall ability to understand ideas.

Me too! I was lucky for my MA that it was entirely coursework based (thesis) so I could take as long as I wanted in my writing.

But I definitely have slow processing. I'm useless in verbal interaction on challenging topics. I just can't think quickly enough to provide responses. I need to cogitate.

stichguru · 13/02/2026 08:44

justdontrelateanymore · 13/02/2026 07:32

So why did he perform below average? A bright intelligent child would perform above average.

I have a masters degree
I needed extra time with my exams
I have extra time for tasks in work

Processing speed is not a mark of your overall ability to understand ideas.

Mere1 · 13/02/2026 08:29

Arizona29 · 13/02/2026 07:07

But when you look at private assessment, you have to pick a specific condition that you want to be assessed for. So how do you know what assessment to book, if you don't know what's wrong?

Be guided by the school. They are professionals who have the child’s interest at heart. That said, my son in law-now a solicitor, was only diagnosed as dyslexic at university. His mum was a primary school head and he went to a fee paying secondary school.

sabababa · 13/02/2026 08:11

Arizona29 · 13/02/2026 07:07

But when you look at private assessment, you have to pick a specific condition that you want to be assessed for. So how do you know what assessment to book, if you don't know what's wrong?

A lot of these conditions don't have specific diagnostic crtieria. It doesn't actually even matter because what you suspect it seems is that your son has low processing speed and low working memory but performs well in other compoinents of intelligence. It may not even be anything beyond that. But the main thing is to make sure that whatever path your son takes is the one that allows him to fully meet his potential. At least if you have an assessment and the Ed Psych says that the reduced pathway is the right one, you will have a much better understanding. Or they could say that you son can access the full pathway but needs x,y,z support to do so.

You could request something like the WISC-IV test whcih would look at working memory and processing speed among other things.. But if you consult with an educational psychologist about your son's profile they could advise the best assessment for him.

PinkFrogss · 13/02/2026 08:08

One thing to note OP is that while you are seeking an assessment from an Ed Psych you should also get the ball rolling with the SENCO and/or head of year for access arrangements, if you think they’re appropriate.

For example, if DS is diagnosed with dyslexia he won’t automatically be entitled to extra time, there’s quite a few steps the school must follow for this.

Something like rest breaks I think is a more straightforward arrangement to get though.

You also need to be open to the idea that your DS may just be struggling academically and does not have SEN, or that he does have SEN and this pathway may still be the most appropriate for him.

Getting a diagnosis of e.g dyslexia will unfortunately be unlikely to change much at school, unless your school is particularly good with SEN.

If he remains on this pathway and you can afford a tutor it would be worth getting one that specialises in exam and revision technique.

Alasandalack · 13/02/2026 07:57

I second all the other points about using an educational psychologist. It sounds to me (from what you’ve said) he may have a processing issue - very bright, articulate boy who just takes a bit more time to work through exams. Couple that with (maybe) dyslexia or some sort of auditory processing issue and wham - he’s perfectly capable of the work, but just takes more time. Also, Eng Lit/Lang, Maths, Science (2) is 5 GCSEs even without any others.

Tarkadaaaahling · 13/02/2026 07:57

Arizona29 · 12/02/2026 14:33

Is your Ds essentially running out of time to complete exams and struggling to finish, while at the same time seeming to be a very verbally bright and intelligent child? - If so you need to urgently get him a dyslexia test.
The answer to your question is yes yes yes yes and yes again!!!!!!!
I could shout yes to this from the rooftops!!!!!
You have described my DS exactly!
But he can read fine and learning to read was not delayed.

OP I think the question you haven't answered yet that a few people have asked is how did your DS do on the year 6 sats? As these would be a useful indicator of how he's managing in a timed assessment which is more pressured?

Also may I ask, did you take GCSE's yourself? It's been the norm in the UK for many decades now to take 2 English GCSE's (English Literature and English Language) and to take double award science which covers the 3 main scientific disciplines of Chemistry, Physics and Biology and gives 2 science GCSE's. But most parents just know this as they remember it from taking their own GCSE's, since right back as far as the mid-90's this has been the norm?

TeenToTwenties · 13/02/2026 07:45

justdontrelateanymore · 13/02/2026 07:40

So therefore it sounds like he needs additional support with his exams, which the school have identified!

Actually no they haven't.

They have put him onto the reduced academics pathway with no warning to the OP. This is different.
The reduced academics pathway is suitable for some DC (e.g. mine would have benefitted but that's another story).
But potentially all this DC needs is a screening assessment, possibly leading to extra time, and/or some strategies to resolve why he is running out of time.

The issue is school have done this with no prior warning to the OP so she doesn't understand the basis on which they have made their decision. Hence the panic.

LottieMary · 13/02/2026 07:40

Youve got some really good advice here - dyslexia presents in lots of ways one of which is slower processing or finding it hard to read long chunks of text or structuring answers and getting them on paper. Spelling actually is only a tiny part of it.

if you can get his books home and ask him to talk you through some. Frame it supportively - wanting to understand this decision. Is he finding it hard to finish work in class too? To get organised? Are there unexplainable gaps or gaps where his work is incomplete?

the comms sound appalling tbh - we e been talking options since September and how they work.

Does the school have a sixth form? I’d look at entry requirements for local places and see what he needs to target and if this offer will get him there. Ring several times today if need be and say you need an urgent conversation with head of year to help you meet their options deadline.

if your parents eve chats were all ‘he’s doing g well’ did they not mention grades at all? Because they could have meant he’s doing well to meet our g5 expectations but clearly that’s not his understanding. I’d be surprised he’s not had any feedback before now but it might not have been grade based

8 high grades would be fine - average state is between 8-10, but if it is 6 I would be concerned as it may make it hard to meet entry requirement for a levels. Creative options also aren’t ‘easier’ imo just different especially if they’re still GCSEs. Happy to dm if it’d be helpful

justdontrelateanymore · 13/02/2026 07:40

TeenToTwenties · 13/02/2026 07:36

Not if he was running out of time due to slower processing, or getting distracted due to ADHD, or misreading complex questions due to undiagnosed dyslexia an having no strategies to compensate.

So therefore it sounds like he needs additional support with his exams, which the school have identified!

TeenToTwenties · 13/02/2026 07:36

justdontrelateanymore · 13/02/2026 07:32

So why did he perform below average? A bright intelligent child would perform above average.

Not if he was running out of time due to slower processing, or getting distracted due to ADHD, or misreading complex questions due to undiagnosed dyslexia an having no strategies to compensate.

justdontrelateanymore · 13/02/2026 07:32

Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 23:13

He doesn't sound like the brightest button
God that's so rude of you.
DS is incredibly bright and intelligent.

So why did he perform below average? A bright intelligent child would perform above average.

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 07:27

Arizona29 · 13/02/2026 07:07

But when you look at private assessment, you have to pick a specific condition that you want to be assessed for. So how do you know what assessment to book, if you don't know what's wrong?

Yes, it’s a pain. Your starter by point should be an Educational Psychologist assessment for dyslexia. They do a whole suite of different types of tests as part of the assessment, some of which explicitly measure working memory and processing speed. If there is a deficit in processing speed then there is a strong case for additional time in exams, which sounds like what they need.

Then you should do some research on the other aspects - dyscalculia / dysgraphia / adhd / autism, just to see if you recognise any traits in your dc. And think if any relevant family history.

Especially re: adhd, if there is a problem with focus, which is causing then not to finish tests.

And / autism - where anxiety (or an inflexible way of doing things) may be causing a bit of shutdown.

But it would be a bit unusual (but not impossible, especially if you have traits yourself!) if you had no inkling that they may have autism by now - although if it is fairly borderline then symptoms can get much worse at times of stress / anxiety (and this is a very stressful time for year 9s).

So, start with dyslexia (Ed Psych assessment) and do some research. And ask the ed psych for further signposting as well. If they are worth their salt, they should provide a decent report with recommendations to the school for what accommodations there needs to be to allow your dc to thrive.

Octavia64 · 13/02/2026 07:25

Arizona29 · 13/02/2026 07:07

But when you look at private assessment, you have to pick a specific condition that you want to be assessed for. So how do you know what assessment to book, if you don't know what's wrong?

You book in to see an EP.

they do a whole range of assessments - they for my son took about three hours - and they give you recommendations and suggestions.

TheWillToSurvive · 13/02/2026 07:21

No advice @Arizona29 but just wanted to wish you all the best. Your anxiety is coming through, totally understandably. You want the very best for your DS and I hope you get things sorted.

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