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Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 22:24

I started a different thread about this yesterday but am starting a new one here because I've got a new question and I know many readers never read OP updates on a thread!
DS year 9 had been put onto a GCSE pathway for additional support.
He has no SEN diagnosed.
He has never had any intervention classes at school.
School have never made me aware at any point since year 7 that they feel DS needs additional support.
I have not received any communication whatsoever about him being put on to an additional support GCSE pathway. It has been like a bolt out of the blue and I only found out on Monday.
Parents evening last week made no mention of it.
So I spoke to a member of staff about it today.
It is not a mistake, as suggested by posters on my other thread.
The member of staff has told me the following:
That DS has been put on a pathway for year 10 & 11 where he will study
Maths
English
Science
1 humanity OR 1 language (his choice but only 1 of these)
2 practical based subjects of his choice such as DT, art, music, cookery, dance, photography, etc.
3 extra Maths intervention sessions a fortnight
3 extra English intervention sessions a fortnight
He cannot choose 2 humanities.
He cannot choose 1 humanity & 1 language.
He cannot choose 2 humanities & 1 language.
it is 1 humanity only.
He is only 1 of 16 students who has been put on this pathway out of the whole of year 9.
The 'standard' Ebacc pathway is
English, maths, science, 1 humanity, 1 language, then 2 further options which can include a second humanity, even a third one, but DS had not been given this pathway as an option.
I was confused when I posted on my other thread yesterday, and I remain confused.
I still don't understand how DS has been put on this additional support pathway with no communication whatsoever about any learning delay or concerns whatsoever from school in the 2.5 years he's been there.
I asked this question directly today, and it wasn't answered. It was glossed over.
DS is really upset.
A. He doesn't want to do only 1 humanity and no language. He feels he's had all his choices removed from him.
B. He says nobody at school has talked to him about this.
C. He feels excluded from the standard pathway that all his friends are doing.
D. He is asking me do his school think he's stupid and incapable
E. He fears stigma about this amongst his peers, and feels he is going to get comments and 'jokes' about not being able to do what everyone else is doing.
He has never had a conversation with, or any input from, the SenCo.
I have never had a conversation with the SenCo about DS.
The SenCo has never contacted me about DS to discuss him.
Again, he has no SEN.
So.
My questions to people here who have knowledge and experience:

  1. What the hell is going on here?
  2. Can they enforce this? Does DS have any choice or any say in the matter??
  3. What right do school have to remove his choice to do 2 humanities, or 1 humanity + 1 language? Without any prior conversation with him or with me?
  4. AIBU to feel they are 'dumbing down' his options?
  5. Why does DS have to choose 2 options from a list of practical subjects? This isn't the pathway he wants to follow - cookery, or DT, or dance, or drama, etc. But he's now got to pick 2 of these subjects.

The list of the 2 extra choices on the standard Ebacc pathway contains additional academic choices.
Whereas the list of 2 extra choices on the additional support pathway DS has been placed on contains no academic choice whatsoever.
If he only does Maths, English, Science + 1 humanity, plus 2 practical non academic subjects, is this going to exclude him from doing A levels and a degree??
DS most definitely wants a career that will require A levels and degree. Will this additional needs pathway block him from going on to do A levels & degree because he won't have enough GCSE subjects?
DS is an intelligent boy. I can't believe the school are restricting his GCSE choices like this and putting him on this pathway, having never once put him into any additional intervention measures since starting in year 7.
His year 9 assessment scores were all below the year group average. Not way below. But they were below. His results do not reflect his intelligence or capability. He said he knew all the answers but didn't get to complete the assessments as ran out of time. So the unanswered questions that he hadn't got to pulled his total score down, even though all the questions he did answer were correct.
Basically I feel like I've got an intelligent boy who hasn't performed well in the year 9 assessments and as a result has been placed on an intervention GCSE pathway that enforces a reduced number of GCSEs and being forced to take 2 practical subjects instead, yet with no consent from or discussion with DS or myself about this.
I have tried really hard to speak to the SenCo since Monday when I found this out, but I am not receiving any replies to the emails I have sent her requesting for her to contact me to discuss this. I've been told this has all been based on her recommendation, yet she's never even had a conversation with me or with DS.
I am really worried aboug the impact this will have on DS's options, choices, future success and I'm worried about this affecting his self esteem.
Only 16 kids out of an entire huge year 9 cohort have been assessed as unable to do the Ebacc route and my intelligent DS is one of them? He's in the bottom 10% of kids who isn't allowed to do the standard Ebacc pathway that the other 90% of kids are following and yet he has no SEN and has never been given additional interventions at school and who is really bright?
From what I know of his blunt and highly insensitive and never-endingly mocking peers, he is not wrong when he says he is going to get put downs and negative comments from peers about this.
He has such hopes for his future career and these restricted and limited GCSEs are going to block that, because his career hopes require A levels & degree.
Help😞

OP posts:
Needlenardlenoo · 16/02/2026 08:26

I don't like the way the school staff are closing ranks. Hopefully after half term you will be able to get the meeting, but it would be unusual in my experience for a SENCO to be making the decision regarding which courses a student takes. Especially one who isn't on the SEN register! So the decision maker needs to be there.

Ask the educational psychologist if he or she will do standardised tests.

These were helpful to me when I was told (by the LA educational psychologist during DD's ECHNA in year 5) that she was "two years behind". The standardised tests carried out by an ed psych I booked privately showed that she is average, which is borne out by her now being average academically at a comprehensive in year 8.

Returning to the school, I wonder if you may ultimately need to do a Subject Access Request to find out what has been said over the years about DS.

Needlenardlenoo · 16/02/2026 08:04

deedeemeloy · 15/02/2026 22:09

I mean this in the kindest way, but do you think ds will manage A levels of he is low high school sets and isn’t doing ‘ brilliantly’ now? DD started her Alevels this time and her over all grades were 6s with 7s in the subject she chose at A level at the leap from GSCE to A level was huge! She has now decided not to continue and is starting on a level 3 workbased apprenticeship instead.

No need to panic just yet. There will be more than one sixth form available and hopefully college options, and alternatives to A-level such as BTEC. The main thing is to come out of year 11 with a reasonable clutch of GCSEs including Maths and English. As pp said, 6 that you do well in is better than more that you don't! At my school some students mix A-level and BTEC so you could do one academic A-level in something you're passionate about like History or Geography (I think the OP's mentioned her son likes those) and then BTECs in various subjects which because they have a large aspect of continous assessment, really reduces stress for some types of student.

BTECs give you UCAS points.

Arizona29 · 16/02/2026 07:51

Also, I asked him what he meant by "nuanced" but his reply to this was that I should ask the SenCo.
I said that a decision such as this needs to surely be based on something more concrete than 'nuanced'.
By the way, at this point I'm not all guns blazing, fighting school to change DS to the standard pathway. It might be that this is the right thing for him. What I'm fighting for at this point is a conversation with the school about their decision, for an explanation from them so that I can listen to their reasoning for this decision, for them to answer my question about how long have they thought DS is struggling for and why haven't they communicated with me about this, and if they think he's struggling enough at school to put him on to a reduced gcse pathway then why haven't they put any screening or interventions in place for him and why are they letting him go through the rest of year 9 without any interventions at all, and for an acknowledgement from them that they should have reached out and communicated about this decision with me long before now, and that I should never have found all this out upon opening a blanket email sent to all parents on Monday only to open up DS's options submission form to find it was the reduced special measures form. It's insane that that's the first I knew of it, with no concern ever reported to me in 2.5 years of him being there.

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FunnyOrca · 16/02/2026 07:21

Arizona29 · 16/02/2026 04:56

Oh yes, forgot to mention re school. I spent all week emailing the SenCo and the HoY requesting them to contact me back before half term. I also phoned through to school reception multiple times and left messages requesting a call back from HoY or SenCo before half term, making it clear what it was regarding.
Have received no email reply or call back from HoY, just never heard back from him after a week of emailing and calling. Even called reception to ask if he was off sick but they told me he was in.
Escalated to DepHead and had a phone conversation with him. He told me he knew nothing about the decision making process involved with DS because it had been solely advised by the SenCo. I directly asked him why not one member of staff had contacted me at any point to discuss this, and why I had not been made aware of concerns about DS's learning and progress. He answered by giving me a completely different answer to the question I had asked. I repeated my question and he answered with a different point again. Eventually he said "I'm reading through what the SenCo has written but it's a bit nuanced. You basically need to talk to the SenCo and I've forwarded your emails to her." The SenCo has never even spoken to or had a conversation with my DS. DS confirmed he's had no assessments or screening with her, he said he only knows what she looks like from seeing her around school, but doesn't have any input from her.
On Friday late afternoon, I finally received an email from the SenCo to tell me she will call me after half term. I requested a face to face meeting though, because I want to discuss this in person. I replied to her email to push for this and to ask to book a time, but received no reply back, and now it's half term.

This is appalling! I am so sorry.

ApplesAreAmazing · 16/02/2026 07:01

Well done! I found it really hard to question school, they were really good at deflecting.
The assessment you have booked is likely to be a really positive experience for your son, even if they do find something. My son has dyslexia and assessor explained to him yes he had dyslexia but he was also really well in pattern matching and a number of other things and explained how that would impact his life. During the assessment she found out what he loved doing and then explained why the things he was great at would make him really good at those things. She described his ideal job and he followed that path, it's been life changing for him. His dyslexia presents itself mainly as problems copying, spelling and processing spoken information, he's actually ok at reading. He's doing really well now, and at university.
Best of luck with the assessment and your hopefully face to face meeting with school.

Arizona29 · 16/02/2026 04:59

Violinist64 · 15/02/2026 23:18

Well done. You have had a really difficult time in the last few days but have taken all the advice on board, talked things through with the person who matters most In all of this - your son and taken positive action by getting an appointment with an educational psychologist. I think all of us here will take our hats off to you. Please let us know how you both get on in the future, if you feel able to.

Thank you.xx

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Arizona29 · 16/02/2026 04:57

FunnyOrca · 15/02/2026 22:29

Good luck OP! Have you had communication from the school or any opportunity to do the original pathway?

FWIW, as a teacher, the end of Feb deadline may seem like a hard deadline but in reality things will be moving up to the end of the summer holidays! At the very least they will have kids move away, others arrive etc.

For the majority of children things won’t change after that date, but there are always exceptions and your son’s case is unique.

Please see my post above re school.

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Arizona29 · 16/02/2026 04:56

Happytaytos · 15/02/2026 22:19

That's a good reply to read.

Have you had any more from school?

Oh yes, forgot to mention re school. I spent all week emailing the SenCo and the HoY requesting them to contact me back before half term. I also phoned through to school reception multiple times and left messages requesting a call back from HoY or SenCo before half term, making it clear what it was regarding.
Have received no email reply or call back from HoY, just never heard back from him after a week of emailing and calling. Even called reception to ask if he was off sick but they told me he was in.
Escalated to DepHead and had a phone conversation with him. He told me he knew nothing about the decision making process involved with DS because it had been solely advised by the SenCo. I directly asked him why not one member of staff had contacted me at any point to discuss this, and why I had not been made aware of concerns about DS's learning and progress. He answered by giving me a completely different answer to the question I had asked. I repeated my question and he answered with a different point again. Eventually he said "I'm reading through what the SenCo has written but it's a bit nuanced. You basically need to talk to the SenCo and I've forwarded your emails to her." The SenCo has never even spoken to or had a conversation with my DS. DS confirmed he's had no assessments or screening with her, he said he only knows what she looks like from seeing her around school, but doesn't have any input from her.
On Friday late afternoon, I finally received an email from the SenCo to tell me she will call me after half term. I requested a face to face meeting though, because I want to discuss this in person. I replied to her email to push for this and to ask to book a time, but received no reply back, and now it's half term.

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ThisCyanPoet · 16/02/2026 02:38

Arizona29 · 13/02/2026 07:07

But when you look at private assessment, you have to pick a specific condition that you want to be assessed for. So how do you know what assessment to book, if you don't know what's wrong?

You can call them and discuss what your concerns are before booking the assessment, so you’ll know you’re getting the right one.

I would go for a Dyslexia/Dyspraxia Assessment. They will check for processing speed etc within that. I would also book with an Educational Psychologist rather than an Assessor.

I had my DC assessed and went straight back to school with a very detailed report. They didn’t like it, but had to make the adjustments.

One thing schools don’t tell you is that they are not qualified to diagnose it. They just dismiss, dismiss, dismiss, especially if DC is well behaved/quiet.

Being able to work on a laptop with spell check & immersive reader, extra time and a reader/scribe for exams are just the main adjustments which have made a huge difference. No copying from the board, printed texts given in a larger dyslexia friendly font on tinted paper or an overlay also help.

Dyslexics can have slower processing which may explain why your DC is never able to finish tests. They also sometimes have visual stress, which is not checked in a standard eye test.

Funkylights · 15/02/2026 23:54

Book at mtg at school. At ours the kids who take the most vocational pathways know well in advance. They know if they are bottom sets. The discussions start before Xmas with the kids

Violinist64 · 15/02/2026 23:18

Arizona29 · 15/02/2026 21:45

Sorry I disappeared for a bit.
I'm so glad I posted here because I've received some absolutely brilliant advice. Thank you to everyone who replied helpfully and without judgement.
I've read all 344 replies.
After reading through all the posts, going off and researching things that have been suggested and going for two very long walks with DS to really talk to him about what's going on for him, and hours of researching different assessors, I've booked an EP for DS.
Just spent hours completing the forms required.

Well done. You have had a really difficult time in the last few days but have taken all the advice on board, talked things through with the person who matters most In all of this - your son and taken positive action by getting an appointment with an educational psychologist. I think all of us here will take our hats off to you. Please let us know how you both get on in the future, if you feel able to.

ProudCat · 15/02/2026 22:46

Teacher here. It doesn't have to be sorted in the next 2 weeks, there's always a degree of flexibility when required. Also, this is terrible communication from the school.

Letter to Head of Year, explain shocked and upset. Ask for a meeting. Don't fill in the options form until you've had a meeting.

I would say 6 GCSEs that someone can pass is better than 8 GCSEs that they're going to fail.

I became a teacher after my eldest was through the education system. They never did bother to support. She left with practically nothing. She didn't do A Levels or go to university. But she does now earn considerably more than me in a very well respected field - enough to buy her own place in a posh town and drive a massive car. She's bright and confident and with a fantastic career. You're right to fight for your son to be happy. Don't lose sight of that goal.

FunnyOrca · 15/02/2026 22:29

Good luck OP! Have you had communication from the school or any opportunity to do the original pathway?

FWIW, as a teacher, the end of Feb deadline may seem like a hard deadline but in reality things will be moving up to the end of the summer holidays! At the very least they will have kids move away, others arrive etc.

For the majority of children things won’t change after that date, but there are always exceptions and your son’s case is unique.

Happytaytos · 15/02/2026 22:19

Arizona29 · 15/02/2026 21:45

Sorry I disappeared for a bit.
I'm so glad I posted here because I've received some absolutely brilliant advice. Thank you to everyone who replied helpfully and without judgement.
I've read all 344 replies.
After reading through all the posts, going off and researching things that have been suggested and going for two very long walks with DS to really talk to him about what's going on for him, and hours of researching different assessors, I've booked an EP for DS.
Just spent hours completing the forms required.

That's a good reply to read.

Have you had any more from school?

deedeemeloy · 15/02/2026 22:09

I mean this in the kindest way, but do you think ds will manage A levels of he is low high school sets and isn’t doing ‘ brilliantly’ now? DD started her Alevels this time and her over all grades were 6s with 7s in the subject she chose at A level at the leap from GSCE to A level was huge! She has now decided not to continue and is starting on a level 3 workbased apprenticeship instead.

Arizona29 · 15/02/2026 21:45

Sorry I disappeared for a bit.
I'm so glad I posted here because I've received some absolutely brilliant advice. Thank you to everyone who replied helpfully and without judgement.
I've read all 344 replies.
After reading through all the posts, going off and researching things that have been suggested and going for two very long walks with DS to really talk to him about what's going on for him, and hours of researching different assessors, I've booked an EP for DS.
Just spent hours completing the forms required.

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Violinist64 · 14/02/2026 15:40

I, too, think your school appears to be not as good as it should be, especially as your son obviously has a few specific issues and they have not been communicating with you or, seemingly, doing anything to help. I agree with those asking if there is any possibility of moving schools. I also think that seeing a private education psychologist, if you can afford it, would be a good idea. You needed to ask for testing for a whole raft of possibilities. One others thought. I have known a cousin of people who have changed schools and repeated year nine. This has given them the confidence to review work they might have missed before GCSE courses are started and for the teachers to get to know them.

lovescats3 · 14/02/2026 10:14

Sorry I forgot to say document everything you and they say in writing and keep all emails

Talkingfrog · 13/02/2026 22:58

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 08:57

I have heard from various teachers / Sencos / dyslexia association sessions over the years that standard teaching training actually only spends something like 2 hours on learning about dyslexia / SPLD… so, to be honest, schools / teachers often do not know best, unfortunately…

In DCs school they have had a few teachers that are dyslexic. They understand the issues. In all fairness other teachers seem to be good too, but don't know how much training they have had. We have found teachers in high school much more supportive than some of the primary school teachers and far more understanding than the senco.

No assessment was made to see if exam access arrangements needed to be put in place until I pushed.

Due to family history we were looking out for dyslexia. We were also able to fund diagnosis and a weekly session with tutor that specialises in supporting those with dyslexia ( which has made a massive difference).
I hate to think how many children slip though the net and are undiagnosed, despite having some form of additional need.

disappearingfish · 13/02/2026 21:20

I’m sorry OP, your son’s school sounds absolutely shit.

I just wouldn’t accept it. Broken record “no, I want him to have the same GCSE choices as everyone else”. Over and over again.

Also, all these deadlines the school is giving you are made up by them. Fuck em.

Apologies if you have covered this before but is moving school a possibility?

Happytaytos · 13/02/2026 21:06

@Arizona29 any updates?

Mere1 · 13/02/2026 15:01

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 08:57

I have heard from various teachers / Sencos / dyslexia association sessions over the years that standard teaching training actually only spends something like 2 hours on learning about dyslexia / SPLD… so, to be honest, schools / teachers often do not know best, unfortunately…

Depends on the secondary school. Ours, a true comprehensive but top of local league tables for years, trains staff well, repeatedly.

Delatron · 13/02/2026 11:41

Thanks @SundayMondayMyDay I didn’t look at the tests. They mentioned processing speed and said that it had improved. It was annoying but I maybe wrongly assumed that if he qualified for extra time it would be in everyone’s interest that he got it including the schools!

GCSEs have now gone. He has one very good teacher for A-level who is convinced he needs extra time and is gathering evidence for this. I need to revisit. Thanks for the info. I feel sad we have fight for this!

SundayMondayMyDay · 13/02/2026 11:26

@Delatron Have you looked in detail at what tests the school did? Speaking to friends about it, tests that were done at school didn’t seem to be as in-depth as the private assessments i have seen. I think there might be a threshold in terms of extra time for processing speed (I think it might be 13th centile or lower??) - but you would need to check. It is worth looking at JCQ exam arrangements policies, and seeing what they say, as ultimately it is those that will determine whether extra time is given in external exams.

interestingly, my eldest dc has a dyslexia diagnosis, and had to undergo a quick assessment in school for the purposes of them filling in the JCQ (or is it JQC??) form to apply for extra time, but dc2 (dyslexia and autism) was just granted extra time due to the neurodisability (autism), without an assessment of his processing speed (i think it is a different category on the form).

Delatron · 13/02/2026 11:16

jamimmi · 13/02/2026 11:00

@Delatron I belive exam acess arrangments are normally either rest brakes or extra time not both but I maybe wrong. Dd was offered either or.
@Arizona29 I do hope you get this sorted , it is a struggle. We had to really fight for Dd as she was bright enough to cope untill year 9 when the wheels fell off so to speak. We pointed out to school they had missed her brothers issues picked up in the 1st two weeks of another 6th form. The senco did appologise to us when the results came back. With the right help she got straight 7,8,9 in her GCSE's btw including 3 sciences, history& geograhy instead of French, she could speak but not write it! Bright kids cope untill they cant, schools are really not designed to pick up issues especially if the kids are on target.

Yes I’m sure you’re right. I actually think it’s really hard to qualify for extra time. I feel bad for DS as he often runs out of time and the rest breaks don’t help him so he doesn’t take them. But I have to trust the school
on this and their testing means he didn’t qualify or wouldn’t benefit.