Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

GCSE reduced subjects advice needed

410 replies

Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 22:24

I started a different thread about this yesterday but am starting a new one here because I've got a new question and I know many readers never read OP updates on a thread!
DS year 9 had been put onto a GCSE pathway for additional support.
He has no SEN diagnosed.
He has never had any intervention classes at school.
School have never made me aware at any point since year 7 that they feel DS needs additional support.
I have not received any communication whatsoever about him being put on to an additional support GCSE pathway. It has been like a bolt out of the blue and I only found out on Monday.
Parents evening last week made no mention of it.
So I spoke to a member of staff about it today.
It is not a mistake, as suggested by posters on my other thread.
The member of staff has told me the following:
That DS has been put on a pathway for year 10 & 11 where he will study
Maths
English
Science
1 humanity OR 1 language (his choice but only 1 of these)
2 practical based subjects of his choice such as DT, art, music, cookery, dance, photography, etc.
3 extra Maths intervention sessions a fortnight
3 extra English intervention sessions a fortnight
He cannot choose 2 humanities.
He cannot choose 1 humanity & 1 language.
He cannot choose 2 humanities & 1 language.
it is 1 humanity only.
He is only 1 of 16 students who has been put on this pathway out of the whole of year 9.
The 'standard' Ebacc pathway is
English, maths, science, 1 humanity, 1 language, then 2 further options which can include a second humanity, even a third one, but DS had not been given this pathway as an option.
I was confused when I posted on my other thread yesterday, and I remain confused.
I still don't understand how DS has been put on this additional support pathway with no communication whatsoever about any learning delay or concerns whatsoever from school in the 2.5 years he's been there.
I asked this question directly today, and it wasn't answered. It was glossed over.
DS is really upset.
A. He doesn't want to do only 1 humanity and no language. He feels he's had all his choices removed from him.
B. He says nobody at school has talked to him about this.
C. He feels excluded from the standard pathway that all his friends are doing.
D. He is asking me do his school think he's stupid and incapable
E. He fears stigma about this amongst his peers, and feels he is going to get comments and 'jokes' about not being able to do what everyone else is doing.
He has never had a conversation with, or any input from, the SenCo.
I have never had a conversation with the SenCo about DS.
The SenCo has never contacted me about DS to discuss him.
Again, he has no SEN.
So.
My questions to people here who have knowledge and experience:

  1. What the hell is going on here?
  2. Can they enforce this? Does DS have any choice or any say in the matter??
  3. What right do school have to remove his choice to do 2 humanities, or 1 humanity + 1 language? Without any prior conversation with him or with me?
  4. AIBU to feel they are 'dumbing down' his options?
  5. Why does DS have to choose 2 options from a list of practical subjects? This isn't the pathway he wants to follow - cookery, or DT, or dance, or drama, etc. But he's now got to pick 2 of these subjects.

The list of the 2 extra choices on the standard Ebacc pathway contains additional academic choices.
Whereas the list of 2 extra choices on the additional support pathway DS has been placed on contains no academic choice whatsoever.
If he only does Maths, English, Science + 1 humanity, plus 2 practical non academic subjects, is this going to exclude him from doing A levels and a degree??
DS most definitely wants a career that will require A levels and degree. Will this additional needs pathway block him from going on to do A levels & degree because he won't have enough GCSE subjects?
DS is an intelligent boy. I can't believe the school are restricting his GCSE choices like this and putting him on this pathway, having never once put him into any additional intervention measures since starting in year 7.
His year 9 assessment scores were all below the year group average. Not way below. But they were below. His results do not reflect his intelligence or capability. He said he knew all the answers but didn't get to complete the assessments as ran out of time. So the unanswered questions that he hadn't got to pulled his total score down, even though all the questions he did answer were correct.
Basically I feel like I've got an intelligent boy who hasn't performed well in the year 9 assessments and as a result has been placed on an intervention GCSE pathway that enforces a reduced number of GCSEs and being forced to take 2 practical subjects instead, yet with no consent from or discussion with DS or myself about this.
I have tried really hard to speak to the SenCo since Monday when I found this out, but I am not receiving any replies to the emails I have sent her requesting for her to contact me to discuss this. I've been told this has all been based on her recommendation, yet she's never even had a conversation with me or with DS.
I am really worried aboug the impact this will have on DS's options, choices, future success and I'm worried about this affecting his self esteem.
Only 16 kids out of an entire huge year 9 cohort have been assessed as unable to do the Ebacc route and my intelligent DS is one of them? He's in the bottom 10% of kids who isn't allowed to do the standard Ebacc pathway that the other 90% of kids are following and yet he has no SEN and has never been given additional interventions at school and who is really bright?
From what I know of his blunt and highly insensitive and never-endingly mocking peers, he is not wrong when he says he is going to get put downs and negative comments from peers about this.
He has such hopes for his future career and these restricted and limited GCSEs are going to block that, because his career hopes require A levels & degree.
Help😞

OP posts:
noworklifebalance · 11/02/2026 23:02

His year 9 assessment scores were all below the year group average. Not way below. But they were below. His results do not reflect his intelligence or capability. He said he knew all the answers but didn't get to complete the assessments as ran out of time

This jumped out at me.
Why didn’t he complete the papers in time? And was this across all subjects?
How far below average is he?
He may not have a SEN diagnosis but does he need an assessment?

It’s not necessarily a bad thing to focus on a more narrow range of subjects and do them very well.

HumbleStumble · 11/02/2026 23:02

He doesn't sound like the brightest button but it's unfair to have have had no warning or communication up until this point. At the parents evening did you ever ask how he was doing compared to his peers or ask how he could improve his grades (it sounds like he was slipping down sets). Will the school arrange a face to face meeting to discuss this ?

user4534 · 11/02/2026 23:01

I would also request a meeting with the head.

Does he have any idea what he hopes to do next? Will extra intervention in maths or English help him to achieve his grade 4, which he may need to get onto his next course?
Have the school targeted those kids who will be sitting at a grade 3/4 in maths & English and they are hoping that reducing his options and focussing on these subjects they will achieve 4+ therefore improving the schools grade statistics? (Not saying I agree with this approach!)

Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 22:59

Snorlaxo · 11/02/2026 22:43

Is he is bottom sets for English and maths?

English is not streamed. At parents evening last week his English teacher said he's doing well just needs to gain confidence to answer a bit more in class. Teacher did not express any concerns to me about his ability.
Maths is streamed. He has just been moved to bottom set last month, after previously having been in middle set through years 7 and 8, and first 2 terms of year 9.

OP posts:
EmeraldShamrock000 · 11/02/2026 22:58

Can you say no, he’ll take his chance doing his exams with his peers? That’s awful this was dumped on you and DS without any prior intervention.

Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 22:55

NoSoupForU · 11/02/2026 22:50

How have you been unaware of how he's performing? This won't be a blip, it'll be a decision based on long term capability and performance.

To have supposedly got the answers right but not been able to finish the tests he must have missed an awful lot of questions to then score below average in all subjects as a result, no?

You aren't being unreasonable to feel upset. But yes the school can do what they're doing, and its often the right thing to do in cases where a child is going to struggle to pass in core subjects.

Because school have not once made me aware! As I have explained.

OP posts:
NoSoupForU · 11/02/2026 22:50

How have you been unaware of how he's performing? This won't be a blip, it'll be a decision based on long term capability and performance.

To have supposedly got the answers right but not been able to finish the tests he must have missed an awful lot of questions to then score below average in all subjects as a result, no?

You aren't being unreasonable to feel upset. But yes the school can do what they're doing, and its often the right thing to do in cases where a child is going to struggle to pass in core subjects.

Princessdebthe1st · 11/02/2026 22:50

I would go direct and ask for an in person meeting with the head. If your DS does have some previously undiscussed additional needs that require a different approach this should have been discussed with you and him to agree the best approach. It should never have come out of the blue, that is appalling.

In the meeting you need to ensure they give a detailed account (backed up with evidence) of why this is in your son’s best interest (not the school’s).

I f you have difficulty getting a meeting with the head make sure the school knows you will have a very low threshold for making a formal complaint. If you do make a formal complaint then send it to the head first, then if you don’t get a suitable response you can escalate to the governors.

I would also be inclined to begin look at other schools in the area that might be a suitable alternative. (Edited for spelling)

Snorlaxo · 11/02/2026 22:43

Is he is bottom sets for English and maths?

Happytaytos · 11/02/2026 22:36

Forget trying to get hold of the senco now. Have you spoken to anyone else?

I'd go straight to the head tbh. This sounds so off and needs sorting.