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Arizona29 · 11/02/2026 22:24

I started a different thread about this yesterday but am starting a new one here because I've got a new question and I know many readers never read OP updates on a thread!
DS year 9 had been put onto a GCSE pathway for additional support.
He has no SEN diagnosed.
He has never had any intervention classes at school.
School have never made me aware at any point since year 7 that they feel DS needs additional support.
I have not received any communication whatsoever about him being put on to an additional support GCSE pathway. It has been like a bolt out of the blue and I only found out on Monday.
Parents evening last week made no mention of it.
So I spoke to a member of staff about it today.
It is not a mistake, as suggested by posters on my other thread.
The member of staff has told me the following:
That DS has been put on a pathway for year 10 & 11 where he will study
Maths
English
Science
1 humanity OR 1 language (his choice but only 1 of these)
2 practical based subjects of his choice such as DT, art, music, cookery, dance, photography, etc.
3 extra Maths intervention sessions a fortnight
3 extra English intervention sessions a fortnight
He cannot choose 2 humanities.
He cannot choose 1 humanity & 1 language.
He cannot choose 2 humanities & 1 language.
it is 1 humanity only.
He is only 1 of 16 students who has been put on this pathway out of the whole of year 9.
The 'standard' Ebacc pathway is
English, maths, science, 1 humanity, 1 language, then 2 further options which can include a second humanity, even a third one, but DS had not been given this pathway as an option.
I was confused when I posted on my other thread yesterday, and I remain confused.
I still don't understand how DS has been put on this additional support pathway with no communication whatsoever about any learning delay or concerns whatsoever from school in the 2.5 years he's been there.
I asked this question directly today, and it wasn't answered. It was glossed over.
DS is really upset.
A. He doesn't want to do only 1 humanity and no language. He feels he's had all his choices removed from him.
B. He says nobody at school has talked to him about this.
C. He feels excluded from the standard pathway that all his friends are doing.
D. He is asking me do his school think he's stupid and incapable
E. He fears stigma about this amongst his peers, and feels he is going to get comments and 'jokes' about not being able to do what everyone else is doing.
He has never had a conversation with, or any input from, the SenCo.
I have never had a conversation with the SenCo about DS.
The SenCo has never contacted me about DS to discuss him.
Again, he has no SEN.
So.
My questions to people here who have knowledge and experience:

  1. What the hell is going on here?
  2. Can they enforce this? Does DS have any choice or any say in the matter??
  3. What right do school have to remove his choice to do 2 humanities, or 1 humanity + 1 language? Without any prior conversation with him or with me?
  4. AIBU to feel they are 'dumbing down' his options?
  5. Why does DS have to choose 2 options from a list of practical subjects? This isn't the pathway he wants to follow - cookery, or DT, or dance, or drama, etc. But he's now got to pick 2 of these subjects.

The list of the 2 extra choices on the standard Ebacc pathway contains additional academic choices.
Whereas the list of 2 extra choices on the additional support pathway DS has been placed on contains no academic choice whatsoever.
If he only does Maths, English, Science + 1 humanity, plus 2 practical non academic subjects, is this going to exclude him from doing A levels and a degree??
DS most definitely wants a career that will require A levels and degree. Will this additional needs pathway block him from going on to do A levels & degree because he won't have enough GCSE subjects?
DS is an intelligent boy. I can't believe the school are restricting his GCSE choices like this and putting him on this pathway, having never once put him into any additional intervention measures since starting in year 7.
His year 9 assessment scores were all below the year group average. Not way below. But they were below. His results do not reflect his intelligence or capability. He said he knew all the answers but didn't get to complete the assessments as ran out of time. So the unanswered questions that he hadn't got to pulled his total score down, even though all the questions he did answer were correct.
Basically I feel like I've got an intelligent boy who hasn't performed well in the year 9 assessments and as a result has been placed on an intervention GCSE pathway that enforces a reduced number of GCSEs and being forced to take 2 practical subjects instead, yet with no consent from or discussion with DS or myself about this.
I have tried really hard to speak to the SenCo since Monday when I found this out, but I am not receiving any replies to the emails I have sent her requesting for her to contact me to discuss this. I've been told this has all been based on her recommendation, yet she's never even had a conversation with me or with DS.
I am really worried aboug the impact this will have on DS's options, choices, future success and I'm worried about this affecting his self esteem.
Only 16 kids out of an entire huge year 9 cohort have been assessed as unable to do the Ebacc route and my intelligent DS is one of them? He's in the bottom 10% of kids who isn't allowed to do the standard Ebacc pathway that the other 90% of kids are following and yet he has no SEN and has never been given additional interventions at school and who is really bright?
From what I know of his blunt and highly insensitive and never-endingly mocking peers, he is not wrong when he says he is going to get put downs and negative comments from peers about this.
He has such hopes for his future career and these restricted and limited GCSEs are going to block that, because his career hopes require A levels & degree.
Help😞

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TheWillToSurvive · 13/04/2026 20:23

MayasJamas · 21/02/2026 21:28

No advice to add to the excellent advice already given, but just wanted to say you sound like a fab mum, OP. Your DS is lucky to have you.

Absolutely agree with this. You sound wonderful.

BoyMumNurse · 13/04/2026 20:08

This is really frustrating and I completely understand why you're upset about the lack of communication. On the maths side specifically, being moved to bottom set doesn't mean he can't improve significantly, it just means he needs a different approach. Our DS is 15 and went through a rough patch with maths where his confidence hit the floor and everything felt impossible. The thing that turned it around was finding something with a gamification element, making practice feel like a game rather than more of the school experience that was already making him miserable. Points, progress tracking, beating his own score, that sort of thing. It completely changed his willingness to engage with maths outside of school. Whatever pathway the school puts him on, building that confidence back up is the most important thing right now because a kid who believes they can improve will put the work in. The subject reduction conversation is a separate battle but don't let it distract from just getting his maths confidence back.

TurraeaFloribunda · 23/02/2026 12:30

One of my DC has a very spiky profile, OP. They were hyperlexic (self taught to read at 2) but later diagnosed as dyslexic as a teenager. That may seem contradictory but I believe some studies suggest people who are hyperlexic or dyslexic may use a different part of their brain to read.

jamimmi · 22/02/2026 17:41

@Arizona29 I hope.it helped, she cpuld.use a reader but refuses tonin exams, takes.alot.of highlighters and has 25% extra time. As its shorter questions she finds that best. We have discussed this alot! She is doing well with a foundation year which is what she needed at a top 10 uni. Half her course have SPLD and just needed a little longer to adjust. Its been very good for her.

Arizona29 · 22/02/2026 16:56

MayasJamas · 21/02/2026 21:28

No advice to add to the excellent advice already given, but just wanted to say you sound like a fab mum, OP. Your DS is lucky to have you.

That's a lovely thing to say, thank you!

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Arizona29 · 22/02/2026 16:55

jamimmi · 22/02/2026 11:24

This was my dd, diagnosed late, she could read the words and initally was fine, as things got more complex yr 9 and above it took her longer to understand whst was written and she would need to read many times. So if she had question "explain where eggs have a role in the lifcycle of a flea", she would really need to read that several times to undersstand what it said. She may also see it as explain the life cyle if a flea and miss the egg bit. Her dyslexia is predominalty visual processing, but she also had dreadfull spelling. She now uses a text reader for accademic papaers at uni, its a game changer thanks to DSA. Wont use in exams though! We suspected as she started tinsay she could finish paper, and the word just didnt make sence under pressure

That's really interesting to read about. Thank you for sharing. I hope your DD is getting on well.
Why won't she be able to use a text reader in her exams?

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jamimmi · 22/02/2026 11:24

Arizona29 · 21/02/2026 20:00

With your DS that was not late to read, did he learn to read fine, and does he continue to read fine? If so, please can you tell me what symptoms he had/has? What made you suspect Dyslexia if he learnt to read fine? Asking to gain better understanding about it. Thanks!

This was my dd, diagnosed late, she could read the words and initally was fine, as things got more complex yr 9 and above it took her longer to understand whst was written and she would need to read many times. So if she had question "explain where eggs have a role in the lifcycle of a flea", she would really need to read that several times to undersstand what it said. She may also see it as explain the life cyle if a flea and miss the egg bit. Her dyslexia is predominalty visual processing, but she also had dreadfull spelling. She now uses a text reader for accademic papaers at uni, its a game changer thanks to DSA. Wont use in exams though! We suspected as she started tinsay she could finish paper, and the word just didnt make sence under pressure

MayasJamas · 21/02/2026 21:28

No advice to add to the excellent advice already given, but just wanted to say you sound like a fab mum, OP. Your DS is lucky to have you.

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 20:53

@Needlenardlenoo I agree about A levels. We did see them as academic back in the day. We don’t seem to be able to make alternative qualifications stick as well as we should and use them as a passport to a degree! We are besotted with degrees. Many are not really needed and we should have HE routes that aren’t degrees.

Arizona29 · 21/02/2026 20:00

timetochangethering · 21/02/2026 16:11

I have two dyslexic DS's and one was late to read, the other not but both are diagnosed and have extra time in exams awarded.

With your DS that was not late to read, did he learn to read fine, and does he continue to read fine? If so, please can you tell me what symptoms he had/has? What made you suspect Dyslexia if he learnt to read fine? Asking to gain better understanding about it. Thanks!

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timetochangethering · 21/02/2026 16:11

Arizona29 · 12/02/2026 14:33

Is your Ds essentially running out of time to complete exams and struggling to finish, while at the same time seeming to be a very verbally bright and intelligent child? - If so you need to urgently get him a dyslexia test.
The answer to your question is yes yes yes yes and yes again!!!!!!!
I could shout yes to this from the rooftops!!!!!
You have described my DS exactly!
But he can read fine and learning to read was not delayed.

I have two dyslexic DS's and one was late to read, the other not but both are diagnosed and have extra time in exams awarded.

Needlenardlenoo · 21/02/2026 09:18

I think we are fully in agreement @OhDear111.

Successive governments have certainly behaved like 50% was reasonable! But A-levels were never designed as a mass qualification. I find a surprising number of students don't know what the A stands for.

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 09:01

@Needlenardlenoo You do know that it’s “only” around 37% of school leavers who go to university don’t you? It’s never got near 50.% so that’s a total red herring. We are nearer to having 50.% with a HE qualification in the workforce but we also need to understand that HE doesn’t have to be a degree. Schools need to be far more clued up about what route is best for dc and not pursue A levels when the likely result is a low grade. Success in a more suitable exam is a better way to get into work. Yes, they need to do something, but there are vocational qualifications.

DC need much more guidance on how to build a cv too. We need to recognise volunteering far more and persuade dc to do it. They need more than study. I’m sure many pupils are not sure of what they went to do, and Saturday jobs have dried up. Msny only gets job because of who they know these days. Schools need to look at how dc get a better cv and advise accordingly,

Needlenardlenoo · 21/02/2026 08:45

Yes, it makes sense academically, but it's a fact that a significant proportion of English DC don't reach those levels at 16 (disproportionately ones from certain socioeconomic and ethnic groups) and they've got to do SOMETHING from 16 to 18.

I suppose on the plus side, although we're international outliers with our public exams at 16, at least we have rigorous data on it.

Araminta1003 · 21/02/2026 08:33

In most countries, to access higher education, kids have to continue with study of maths and main language until end of secondary education. Skills in maths/main language are prerequisites to access of higher education. Strong pass in those at GCSE level is already a compromise.

Needlenardlenoo · 21/02/2026 08:16

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 01:24

@NeedlenardlenooSome dc don’t have great enthusiasm for any subject. Yes, they might find a new one but if they requires essays and English is a 4/5 it’s not going to be easy. A grade below C starts to give problems. Yes, some dc do get a U!

Yes I know this, I have taught thousands of sixth formers. Increasingly over the years there are fewer with the right skills for A-level and fewer with enthusiasm for that kind of academic study full stop! But government policies to send half of each cohort to university and downgrade and defund alternatives are not their fault.

To get back to the OP, her son does sound like he has some academic interest at least, but has run into issues with the national obssession the educational establishment has with the English & Maths "strong pass". Hopefully the OP can get some clarity next week.

OhDear111 · 21/02/2026 01:24

@NeedlenardlenooSome dc don’t have great enthusiasm for any subject. Yes, they might find a new one but if they requires essays and English is a 4/5 it’s not going to be easy. A grade below C starts to give problems. Yes, some dc do get a U!

Needlenardlenoo · 19/02/2026 22:33

Depends what you mean by "fail" I guess - you don't mean "get a U", presumably.

Of course there's a relationship, on an average, between GCSE scores and A-level outcomes, but data isn't destiny and students mature (and some high fliers peak too soon and/or overload themselves).

Interest in a subject is really important, especially if you hope to continue with it at university. I'd always advise students to do subjects that truly interest them. It's about learning something, as well as a narrow focus on top grades at all costs.

Most of my students haven't even taken the subject at GCSE!

I actually got 3 As myself back in the pre grade inflation days, but I learnt the most from the A-level I got a C in.

OhDear111 · 19/02/2026 20:30

@Needlenardlenoo it’s pretty well known that a 5 or even 6 at GCSE can be a real stretch to A levels and what do dc do if they fail? It’s better, probably, to do a BTec with maybe one A level. It’s not in anyone’s interest to “fail” A levels. Inclusivity has nothing to do with it. It’s about realistic, sensible, advice.

thinkofsomethingdifferent · 19/02/2026 17:10

@Kepler22Bit is, but I thought it was worth flagging the options for OP. It’s a difficult one as perhaps if my daughter had dropped her options in favour of maths and English, she might have passed. But given she failed again in November after 2 months of extra tuition, I’m not so sure. So I’m pleased she got the others under her belt as something to show for her time at school.

Kepler22B · 19/02/2026 08:48

thinkofsomethingdifferent · 16/02/2026 20:58

@OhDear1116 GCSEs is pretty decent for our area. I was pleased she got 6 really good grades and it was clear she put the effort into the subjects she loved. Technically science is a double subject so you could say she got 7. I don’t know the OPs son. I’m not sure if he’s capable at A-levels or not, my advice was to listen to the school and if he is wanting to do traditional a-levels then his focus may need to shift to maths and English.
And to add my daughter’s school has failed its last two OFSTED inspections. I still have another daughter there in year 9 who is (by all accounts) thriving. She’s always been more academic than her sibling. But given what happened to her sister, I’ll be keeping a closer eye on things.

7 GCSE (or rails ent - BTECs are just as good) and then 🤞🏻 getting maths and English this summer bring her up to the full set of 9. Well done her, this is a good set of level 2 results.

Needlenardlenoo · 17/02/2026 08:16

That's a strong view. Some schools are inclusive and have high achievers and less high achievers on the same courses. It means the grade spread will be wider. It doesn't mean the A*/A percentage can't be decent.

Students are still developing academically at 16 (15 when they pick the subjects). Some really excel once they can drop all the GCSEs they didn't have so much interest in.

There are exceptions of course and entry requirements for e.g. Maths and the sciences are there for a reason.

OhDear111 · 17/02/2026 00:59

@Needlenardlenoo Bums on seats schools will take dc with 5/6 grades to get the money. It’s utterly wrong and their A level grades won’t be great. It’s poor advice to say a grade 5 dc is an A level candidate.

MatronPomfrey · 16/02/2026 23:32

The real issue is the lack of communication from the school. You need a face to face meeting with senco and head of his year group (might be called something else on his school). They need to explain his difficulties and why they had never told you.

I’ve know my DS struggled with aspects of school work and was raising issues since year 1. He had a dyslexia screener in year 8 which showed he likely was but schools don’t diagnose. I paid for a private assessment, only way to get one, and he does have dyslexia. He’s a brilliant reader but doesn’t process all the information. When reading a paragraph of instructions, he’ll only do part of the task and think he’s finished. He has very poor handwriting, despite years of extra practice, so mostly uses a laptop. Poor working memory but excellent long-term memory. He should get longer for tests but I’m not sure if that is happening. He’s now year 9 and finally seeing an educational psychologist at school.

Unfortunately you do have to be a pushy parent. My son could scrape by but with right support and adjustments he could do so much better. Not all his teachers get that. Even getting lined paper for maths instead of blank paper has been a drama. You would think he was the 1st child with dyslexia.

MyOtherProfile · 16/02/2026 23:08

Arizona29 · 16/02/2026 10:09

Thank you for this link!
I'll wait for my talk after half term and see what information I get from that, and then may need to use this request depending on how things go.
I'm sorry your DC didn't get the SenCo support they obviously needed at school. I hope they are doing well now.xx

SENDIASS are really helpful. I would contact them already tomorrow and not wait.

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