My 6 yr old is autistic. He was diagnosed very young after some concerning behaviour and unable to do activities at nursery. We have worked hard on behaviour and we have had support.
He has been doing really well in mainstream. But he's been getting rage at home. He's kind and gentle and then when he feels rejected - he gets rage and screams or shouts. Im always there to control it
He's normally fine at school but today he went for another kid. Totally out of control. The teachers didnt get to them in time. The kid has marks all over his face. They said it was bad enough to suspend him but aren't going to because of his diagnosis and because its the 1st time.
I've messaged the mum apologising and saying there are no excuses and I will do everything and anything to prevent it happening again. No reply.
Should I try to talk to her at school gate? Should I just leave it? I know no expectation for her to be understanding. I would be furious.
Any advice on what to do.