Will dr’s give me DD medical records

But but but…. For all of those things going to the GP is the right thing to do. Why would you be worried about that?! The GP will be able to help much better than the overreacting mother.

No, they won't tell you anything providing they've assessed Gillick competency and made the decision that she is old enough to consent to medical treatment in the absence of a parent. Which they must have done to see her without you in the first place. I work with children and young people in a partially related field and we don't have to tell parents their child is accessing our services or gain parental consent, providing they're aged 12+ and are assessed as Gillick competent.

No they won’t tell you anything. Just be thankful that she’s accessing proper medical advice for whatever her problem is and maybe take a look in the mirror to work out why she won’t confide in you.

But how would her mum knowing she’s requested contraception be any different to her accessing it alone? Accidents can still happen either way with contraception and her mum knowing she was having sex wouldn’t prevent any different outcome. The GP or nurse would explain how to use any contraception more effectively than her mum would anyway.

On that basis - no, you can’t. At her age she is considered to be Gillick competent and thus also entitled to privacy. It’s really hard to be in this position as a parent, but you have to hold fire and simply say that want her to know that she can talk to you about anything at any time and genuinely wish she would open up so that you can support her properly. But beyond that you have to step back.

We've answered your question though. The answer is no.

I can understand how worried you must be, I'd be exactly the same. If my 15yo went to the doctor I'd want to know what was wrong (because I care, and I worry).

However there's nothing you can do other than talk to her.

Same. The GP won't tell you but I would definately be looking at her diary and phone.

Why is it a fact that 15 year olds do not need privacy when medical decisions are concerned?

Do 16 year olds?
17 year olds?
18 year olds?
19 or 20 year olds?

Why should anyone be able to make a medical decision in private; why not just advertise them to everyone?

The answer is no. Nothing will be shared unless she is at risk of harm.
You are focusing on the wrong thing here.

Why? Don't you think children deserve some privacy and space for themselves? And what happens when you find something you don't like? You'll have destroyed any trust you might have had and potentially ruined the relationship for life.

The GP surgery wouldn't even give me the NHS number for my 13 year old, I had to take her to the surgery in person and she had to request it. We needed it for a dental referral. They are definitely not going to tell you why she went to see a GP.

Are you for real? Something about the way the two posts are expressed make me wonder

I’d maybe ask yourself why she is not telling you as opposed to finding ways to get round her right to privacy!

It's blindingly obvious why your daughter does not tell you things.

period pain? Mental health? Stress caused by an overbearing parent?

Access the records and she finds out will lead to a breakdown in any relationship you have with her.

if she wants to tell you she will but in her own time.

if you read her diary will you then challenge her on anything you disprove of. All of her trust will be destroyed.

tread very carefully and don’t be overbearing

She'ed be Gillick competence at 15 - so able to consent to treatement and entitled to privacy so I don't think you get anywhere or hope you wouldn't. To even pick up perscriptions for teens or make appointments that age at our GP they had to sign a form to let me have limited access to some of the medcial knowledge.

Honestly from around that age I was trying to make sure kids knew how to access GP or pharmacist themsleves and think about seeing dentist and orthodeotsist by themselves. Seems to have paid off as the often wanted me around - at least outside and seem happy for me to know stuff - and then left for uni able to access medcial care as needed.

She is Gillick competent. The GP will not share anything with you.

So would asking why she went to see her GP! And no if they have deemed her Fraser competent they will not share her medical history with you. The fact they gave her an appointment means the deem her to be! I do t think it would take much to figure out why she went without telling you, she’s probably asked for contraception!

15 years olds do not need privacy where medical decisions are concerned

The law, the NHS, the NSPCC, most of the posters on here, and every 15 year old who's ever lived all disagree with you.

Destroy her life? By going to a GP? That's some leap you've taken

There's a reason she feels she can't talk to you. It's obvious why!

It’s likely to destroy a 15 year old’s life more if they don’t have privacy for medical decisions they’re competent to make, so don’t get contraception and end up pregnant…

But it will be the parents left to pick up the pieces if it all goes wrong. I expect she's gone for contraception. Or maybe she's pregnant. My bet would be on one or the other. But I would worry about an std. Yes I can absolutely see why you are concerned.