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Secondary school teacher advice needed

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Arizona29 · 10/02/2026 21:37

AIBU to be confused by this, not sure.
DS year 9.
Choosing options for GCSEs in 2 weeks.
Went to the open evening last week. Met with his core subject teachers. Chatted to other teachers. They all said he's doing well but needs to work on staying focussed in class.
Told to spend the weekend thinking about which options to choose.
Told we'd receive the form today to choose options and submit in 2 weeks.
I've received DS's form today, to see he's been given the options form for the SEN students who are having their language GCSE removed from them, and replaced with extra Maths and English support.
Confused by this, I emailed the teacher who sent the form, and he had replied today and advised me that the SenCo recommended DS be removed from languages and put on the SEN pathway of options for additional support in English based on his low reading ability and his additional support needs in English. In his email to me he referred to DS by his name, so he has got the correct student.
I have never, in 2 and a half years of him being at this school, had a conversation with the SenCo about DS. School have never conveyed to me any concerns about his reading ability. He has never attended any extra intervention support lessons for his reading/literacy. I have never been made aware of any suspected SEN. He has never been screened or assessed at school for reading ability. Primary school never flagged any problems. He was reading chapter books in year 4 and was a bookworm at that age. He is currently 3/4 way through Orange Boy and is loving it, he's flying through it and is telling me all about the plot.
I am so confused.
AIBU, or do secondary schools ordinarily make assessments and decisions such as this without any communication with the parents?

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AlwaysSometimesNever · 10/02/2026 21:54

Contact the SENCO directly in the morning. If he’s not had any interventions etc and is not on the SEND register this seems an unusual decision. For a low reading age to be cited as a reason for placement in that stream seems odd given no concerns have been raised throughout KS3.

SevenYellowHammers · 10/02/2026 21:53

Have the school recently ran Lucid screening on all students? Or have they all done an exam? I think just email the SENDCO though .

Clementine12 · 10/02/2026 21:53

What have his reports indicated for English since year 7? On track or below expected? School reports should have some system for indicating this. If nothing there, I would suggest they have got him confused with another child. Unfortunately, some students can blur together. I say this as both a teacher and a parent of a yr 9 whose computer science teacher at our options evening didn’t seem to know who he was!!

Everydayimhuffling · 10/02/2026 21:52

Ask for a meeting or phone call with the SENCO urgently. They shouldn't have made that decision without clear communication. It really sounds like a mistake has been made.

RhaenysRocks · 10/02/2026 21:47

Sorry, I've just had a three hour parents evening. I'm a bit wrung out. I just meant this is so school specific there's not much any of us can offer other than speculation.

Walkthelakes · 10/02/2026 21:47

And if it is a mistake then best to get it cleared up quickly. We have sometimes had mix ups when two students have had the exact same name for example. Not ideal at all, but you can see how it might happen.

Muffsies · 10/02/2026 21:46

RhaenysRocks · 10/02/2026 21:44

Secondary teacher here..for goodness sake, none of us can answer your question. Just call in the morning. Its entirely possible for a mix up to have occurred. There's nothing else anyone here can say. It will get sorted.

For goodness sake? Nice and reassuring.

Walkthelakes · 10/02/2026 21:45

I'm an English teacher at Secondary School. It would be unusual to get all the way through primary and secondary school without anything being flagged already. When they say low reading ability do you know exactly what they mean? For this to happen at my school it would probably be because the student was not meeting the age-related outcomes for Year 9 and therefore unlikely to achieve a pass at GCSE without substantial intervention (hence giving the extra hours instead of a language.) I would have expected to see this on the previous Year 7 and Year 8 reports. We send graded reports home once a term and this would have shown that they were not meeting the expected levels. We also do a termly reading test which may show a low reading age. The average reading age of a GCSE English Paper is 15 years so if they are substantially behind it may also mean they will struggle to pass.

I would contact the school and ask them to explain why exactly they have selected your child for this pathway. Once you have heard their reasoning I would then consider if you think that it would be better to have the extra time for English/Maths intervention than a language. I think it isn't great that you have no idea that he is not on track to pass--however try and focus on what is the best choice now.

SilenceInside · 10/02/2026 21:44

I would still think that a mistake has been made. If it’s never been mentioned in any report or at any parents evening or similar, no communication from the SENCO at all, it must be wrong. I would urgently ask for a meeting with the options teacher and the SENCO to clarify what’s going on.

What have his report grades been like for English to date? Or any interim test results?

RhaenysRocks · 10/02/2026 21:44

Secondary teacher here..for goodness sake, none of us can answer your question. Just call in the morning. Its entirely possible for a mix up to have occurred. There's nothing else anyone here can say. It will get sorted.

Ozmumofboys3 · 10/02/2026 21:43

I’d ask for a meeting with regards to this and mention all the points you just mentioned here.

Seems very strange.

Arizona29 · 10/02/2026 21:41

SilenceInside · 10/02/2026 21:39

I would say that’s a mistake and some kind of error has been made. Could he have been mistaken for another boy with the same or similar name?

Hmm, but the teacher referred to his full name in his email reply to me, after I queried it.

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SilenceInside · 10/02/2026 21:39

I would say that’s a mistake and some kind of error has been made. Could he have been mistaken for another boy with the same or similar name?

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