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To be confused by 'high earners' complaining about taxes?

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tutuland · 10/02/2026 18:25

So high earners pay lots of tax. The top 20% pay for 70% or whatever the numbers are.

But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money there high income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.

So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 400K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

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seasid · 11/02/2026 20:50

cassgate · 10/02/2026 18:34

Well when you pay 75k in tax a year and can’t get a gp appointment and are forced to go private and your mum waits 22 hours for an ambulance while laying on the floor with a fractured pelvis, then yes I think that is something you complain about.

But just because you pay higher tax doesn’t mean you’re more entitled to an appointment than others? You can afford to go private, think of the people who are not financially able.

Mishmosher · 11/02/2026 20:47

tutuland · 11/02/2026 20:38

Yeah you'd think the 'squeezed middle' would turn on them not people on benefits

Why? What do you propose? Take all of their assets away? Is that not theft?

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 20:47

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 19:49

It would probably help both sides of the argument if people realised just how much tax you pay starting after £100k in the UK and how access to state benefits are restricted.

Take someone just into higher tax rate on £126k compared to a full time minimum wage earner.
It’s roughly 5 times the gross, but they pay £42k in tax compared to £2.5k tax for minimum wage so they pay almost 17 times more tax. Then you begin to factor in lost free child care and a supposedly high earner can end up with less than double the take home of having a minimum wage job. Does it really sound like something worth sacrificing and striving for?

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Why not also compare the comparative take home salaries? The minimum wage worker takes home around £1600 a month after tax and national insurance. The £126k worker brings home £6500 a month after tax and national insurance.

I understand the hardship of losing access to free childcare but that’s relatively short lived and realistically can be absorbed by someone earning over £6k a month. Long term they will also be building their pension pot and looking forward to a comfortable retirement.

The effective tax rate is much higher for the £126k earner because they can afford it without being driven into poverty. The minimum wage worker would be on £1100 a month if they were on the same effective tax rate.

I wonder if the resentful higher earners (and their wives) on this thread, ever take a moment to pause and consider how life would be for them on a £1600 a month salary when they’re moaning about only taking home £10k a month on a £200k salary.

£1600 a month working full time. That’s about 2 million people in the U.K. working in shops, restaurants, cafes, hotels, supermarkets. All of these services that we all depend on to keep society going, or to provide luxuries and leisure activities to the better earners. They are cleaners, care workers, kitchen assistants, customer service workers, admin assistants, keeping everything ticking along at very low pay. And there’s millions more earning just a bit, but not much more, over that. What are they striving for, for such low pay? Why should they bother?

The entitlement, grandiosity and snobbery that’s been on display in this thread is shocking.

tutuland · 11/02/2026 20:42

Vivienne1000 · 11/02/2026 20:32

A successful business can charge a company for their services, you are not directly paying yourself. What’s your background? Did you slog at school to get great grades, take out excessive loans to get a degree, work night and day as a graduate to pass further exams and then slowly work your way up the ladder? Because these people sacrifice a lot to get where they are and deserve to be paid well. Or if you have 2 lower paid jobs, working 80 hours a week, you deserve to be paid more. Thank goodness for high earners and thank goodness for those people who do important jobs of any kind, whether it’s a carer or shelf stacker. Stop goading stop being bitter. Me thinks you should have worked harder at school!

Yes I did all of those things. Me hopes that helps!

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LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:40

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 20:30

When I was at school they taught BODMAS. Have they introduced freeloader mathematics since then? Some of the mathematics on here is mind blowing.

Just in time for children to be allowed to vote at the next election.

tutuland · 11/02/2026 20:38

IcyPlumShaker · 11/02/2026 19:25

I read somewhere that 60 people have the same amount of wealth in the uk as the bottom 50% of the population.

Just. Take. It.

Yeah you'd think the 'squeezed middle' would turn on them not people on benefits

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LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:38

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 20:32

I thought it was c. £50k if you aren't using schools etc.

Possibly, I guess that’s £8k a cost per child if in state school. So you’d need to pay £16k in taxes to cover 2 school age children.

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 20:32

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:24

Low earners just pay a token tax, they receive much more back. It’s around £70k before you are a net tax payer.

I thought it was c. £50k if you aren't using schools etc.

Vivienne1000 · 11/02/2026 20:32

A successful business can charge a company for their services, you are not directly paying yourself. What’s your background? Did you slog at school to get great grades, take out excessive loans to get a degree, work night and day as a graduate to pass further exams and then slowly work your way up the ladder? Because these people sacrifice a lot to get where they are and deserve to be paid well. Or if you have 2 lower paid jobs, working 80 hours a week, you deserve to be paid more. Thank goodness for high earners and thank goodness for those people who do important jobs of any kind, whether it’s a carer or shelf stacker. Stop goading stop being bitter. Me thinks you should have worked harder at school!

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 20:30

When I was at school they taught BODMAS. Have they introduced freeloader mathematics since then? Some of the mathematics on here is mind blowing.

nomas · 11/02/2026 20:29

I think the issue is that middle classes are squeezed on two fronts:

  1. the corrupt government ministers (mainly Tory but also Labour) who use their privilege to secure lucrative work for their rich cronies and for themselves when they leave government and who are too helpless to come up with a way to tax huge corporations properly
  2. the benefit claimants who think the rest of the country owes them a living and who think the only solution is to tax everyone else more, many of whom can work but who have no intention to do so
LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:24

Tiddlywinky · 11/02/2026 20:19

Well, low earners pay some tax. The bottom 80% pay for 30% or whatever the numbers are.
But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money the low income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.
So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 20K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

Low earners just pay a token tax, they receive much more back. It’s around £70k before you are a net tax payer.

ThisDandyWriter · 11/02/2026 20:24

tutuland · 10/02/2026 21:19

So high earners (beyond those actually mining bitcoin) are getting paid from the pockets of many, many members of society.

You are also getting paid from the pockets of society.

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 20:22

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 17:06

That’s actually very unlikely to be the case. Lower earners tend to spend most, if not all, of what they earn (on rent, bills, food, consumer goods) and tax is paid on all of that (VAT). In contrast, higher earners are more likely to save, taking advantage of ISAs, tax free pension funds, and earning interest on their savings. Proportionally they spend less on consumer goods, therefore paying less VAT and overall less tax (proportionally).

You missed a bit… quite a bit actually.

VAT is only part of the puzzle. The majority of tax is collected through income tax, not VAT. Those on lower salaries are likely to pay VAT on most of what they earn. However, our tax system is designed to take more the more you earn - not just in £, but also as a percentage of your income.

A lower earner gets a tax-free allowance of c. £12k and pays 20% tax plus NI. Whilst some may not qualify for additional benefits, many others receive child benefit, childcare support, and may also qualify for additional payments and support with housing, childcare, prescription charges, etc. So whilst they tend to spend most, if not all, of what they earn (on rent, bills, food, consumer goods), they may also draw quite a lot out of the system - a system that other workers cannot access.

Someone earning over c. £50k pays 20% up to that amount and 40% on everything over that, plus NI. At a certain point they will lose child benefit, but may still get support with childcare costs.

Someone earning £100k and above pays 20%, then 40% up to £100k, and they also start to lose their personal allowance - £1 for every £2 earned above this until the personal allowance is wiped out - an effective tax rate of 60% in that band. They have already lost child benefit and now they also lose childcare support, and they still pay NI.

Someone earning c. £125k+ is really winning… they get hit with 20%, 40%, then the effective 60% band at the point the personal allowance is fully removed, and then 45% on anything earned above that. They still pay NI but have no personal tax allowance, no child benefit, and no childcare support.

ISAs: the money paid into ISAs is money that has already been taxed.

Pensions: they are not tax free either. The government effectively delays the tax you pay on your pension as an incentive for people to save into one to reduce their dependence on the state in retirement. You can draw up to 25% tax-free, but everything else will be taxed at whatever your tax rate is at the time.

Savings: High earners with a lot of savings generally pay some level of tax. That tax is typically on money that has already been taxed before it is put into a savings account.

In addition to income tax and VAT, higher earners will likely pay higher stamp duty, and may also face additional property related charges on top of council tax (for example where a high-value property surcharge applies, if introduced).

TLDR: Saying high earners pay less tax because they save more is a best being selective with the truth, if we are being generous... VAT is regressive, but it isn’t the whole picture. Income tax is progressive and far more important when it comes to understanding who actually pays the most tax in the UK.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:20

glitterpaperchain · 11/02/2026 20:16

While I agree the current system isn't working I think it's disingenuous to say that the top 2-3% of earners aren't much better off than those on minimum wage

126k puts you in the top 2-3% of PAYE earners and I demonstrated how after tax and loss of free child care that take home could be £50k vs £24.5. That’s before any additional top up benefits or deducting any graduate loan repayments. This is why people are moaning, it’s a huge issue.

Tiddlywinky · 11/02/2026 20:19

Well, low earners pay some tax. The bottom 80% pay for 30% or whatever the numbers are.
But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money the low income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.
So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 20K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

glitterpaperchain · 11/02/2026 20:19

5128gap · 11/02/2026 20:16

If every high earner had undergone that level of sacrifice and did something so necessary, worthwhile and socially valuable, I'd agree with you entirely.
However, your husband is not typical. The most highly paid roles are more likely to involve moving money around to make wealthy people richer than saving peoples lives.
There's success and success isn't there? For some it's in the money, but I think its in the worth. Your husband is a success in the way that matters and I can't imagine anyone hating him for it.

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I think this is really well put. There will always be individual anecdotes that are exceptions but that doesn't change what should be happening on a wider, societal level

ThistleTits · 11/02/2026 20:19

It's all relevant though. People in the lowest tax bracket also have these issues. Do you believe there should be different queues at the GP and A&E for you and your mum? Pro rata they are paying an equal amount to you. All the non paye tax is equal.
Perhaps the people who manage to dodge paying any tax, should be who we should all look at.

5128gap · 11/02/2026 20:16

WittyFawn · 11/02/2026 20:02

My husband has worked extremely hard to become a Dr starting his training aged 40. Used to work in a factory which was declining. We had children and had to take on over £80k of additional mortgage and student loans to see us through his years at medical school whilst not working. I had 2 jobs and he was away for 4 years apart from weekends. It was hard and expensive and that was only the beginning. Once he passed his exams he then had to do another 12 years of additional training to reach consulatant level that he is now at. Yes he earns well but he is 65 and can’t retire until at least 68 as on top of his tax he pays 28% into his pension as he was late starting it and needs to add to it so he can retire comfortably. He has worked so so hard and earns every penny of his salary every day helping people and yes saving lives. Why should he pay nearly 50% of his earnings in tax because he has worked really hard to succeed? For those people who say it’s easy money he has the same response and yes, he is told this : if it’s that easy why don’t YOU do it?? This country hates success and hard work but where would we be without doctors and many other hard working professionals and unlike business owners he can’t write lots of expenses off to bring his tax bill down

If every high earner had undergone that level of sacrifice and did something so necessary, worthwhile and socially valuable, I'd agree with you entirely.
However, your husband is not typical. The most highly paid roles are more likely to involve moving money around to make wealthy people richer than saving peoples lives.
There's success and success isn't there? For some it's in the money, but I think its in the worth. Your husband is a success in the way that matters and I can't imagine anyone hating him for it.

glitterpaperchain · 11/02/2026 20:16

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:06

It’s the stealth taxes of not adjusting the banding that’s really doing the damage. If the top 2-3% of U.K. earners once everything is factored in are not much better off than minimum wage wage earners then we’re obviously heading for some big problems.

While I agree the current system isn't working I think it's disingenuous to say that the top 2-3% of earners aren't much better off than those on minimum wage

WittyFawn · 11/02/2026 20:06

onetrickrockingpony · 10/02/2026 19:07

OP have you ever spent your nights worrying about how you’ll pay payroll, or about making the wrong decision and you need to let people go and face personal, professional and financial humiliation? Have you ever loaned money to your work place to keep it running through a tough patch? Have you ever built a company from scratch, hired people, trained them, brought them on your journey and inspired them with your vision? Have you cancelled holidays, worked through your annual leave, turned down invitations, sacrificed friendships to being at your desk?

No? Ok then.

Absolutely, those people that don’t work hard to earn more are always wanting those that do to pay more

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 20:06

glitterpaperchain · 11/02/2026 19:54

I agree the threshold can be severe and unfair, the system needs changing really

It’s the stealth taxes of not adjusting the banding that’s really doing the damage. If the top 2-3% of U.K. earners once everything is factored in are not much better off than minimum wage wage earners then we’re obviously heading for some big problems.

WittyFawn · 11/02/2026 20:04

MajesticWhine · 10/02/2026 18:43

I think the problem with high levels of tax is when people don’t bother working any more, and slow down their efforts because why bother? They wont get to keep much of it. This damages the economy because it harms growth and aspiration, which means less money for everyone. It also directly affects healthcare when, for example, surgeons don’t bother working full time because it’s not worth their time. I am near the 100k tax cliff edge (through various different sources of income) and I make very little effort to grow my own tiny sole trader business because for each extra £100 profit I earn I will essentially only keep £40.

So so true!!

IThoughtIdHeardItAll · 11/02/2026 20:02

I’m speechless. That’s saying something. Just how can anybody actually, really, think like this?

WittyFawn · 11/02/2026 20:02

My husband has worked extremely hard to become a Dr starting his training aged 40. Used to work in a factory which was declining. We had children and had to take on over £80k of additional mortgage and student loans to see us through his years at medical school whilst not working. I had 2 jobs and he was away for 4 years apart from weekends. It was hard and expensive and that was only the beginning. Once he passed his exams he then had to do another 12 years of additional training to reach consulatant level that he is now at. Yes he earns well but he is 65 and can’t retire until at least 68 as on top of his tax he pays 28% into his pension as he was late starting it and needs to add to it so he can retire comfortably. He has worked so so hard and earns every penny of his salary every day helping people and yes saving lives. Why should he pay nearly 50% of his earnings in tax because he has worked really hard to succeed? For those people who say it’s easy money he has the same response and yes, he is told this : if it’s that easy why don’t YOU do it?? This country hates success and hard work but where would we be without doctors and many other hard working professionals and unlike business owners he can’t write lots of expenses off to bring his tax bill down