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To be confused by 'high earners' complaining about taxes?

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tutuland · 10/02/2026 18:25

So high earners pay lots of tax. The top 20% pay for 70% or whatever the numbers are.

But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money there high income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.

So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 400K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

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Soberinthecity · 12/02/2026 09:24

NorthXNorthWest · 12/02/2026 09:19

The "why should I pay when I can get it on the NHS" is an attitude that stinks.

😂😂😂

The NHS exists for EVERYONE who is entitled to use it. That includes the people who pay the most tax into the system.

HTH

That’s what it’s become, yes. And no one would be turned away. It wasn’t why it was initially set up.

Also If you look at countries who pay at the point of service their healthcare is vastly better and more efficient. I’m gobsmacked by ppl who moan about waiting times etc when they could very easily bypass all of it. I’d not dream of sitting in an endless queue if I had the means not to have to.

glitterpaperchain · 12/02/2026 09:19

tutuland · 10/02/2026 18:25

So high earners pay lots of tax. The top 20% pay for 70% or whatever the numbers are.

But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money there high income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.

So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 400K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

Honestly OP some of the replies here are embarrassing. The amount of people defending the rich and who are against taxing them, the knots they tie themselves into ti defend that position. Who would seriously choose to be such a bootlicker?

The way society and particularly British society has always worked is there are the elite and the rest from which they extract wealth, through consumption or through labour. Things are messier now with the rise of the middle class, there are far more ways to spread propaganda now and make certain higher earners things they're above the rest of the plebs, but they're just tools so the real elite can hold onto their power and wealth.

That's the way it always has been and the way it still is now and anyone who doesn't see it is either ignorant or has been duped.

NorthXNorthWest · 12/02/2026 09:19

Soberinthecity · 12/02/2026 08:56

If you're paying that much tax you must be a very high earner. If more people paid for their care (when they can) it would vastly reduce the waiting times on the NHS. It wasn't until I went private that I fully understood the cost of a one night stay and simple procedure. Anaesthesia, consultant, surgeon, bed, food, meds, nurses, auxilliary, aftercare etc etc etc. The entitlement some people have is partly why we're in the mess we're in. The "why should I pay when I can get it on the NHS" is an attitude that stinks. I've seen it with friends' parents who are very comfortably retired with a large healthy pension, yet insist on getting any freebie they can.

The "why should I pay when I can get it on the NHS" is an attitude that stinks.

😂😂😂

The NHS exists for EVERYONE who is entitled to use it. That includes the people who pay the most tax into the system.

HTH

Soberinthecity · 12/02/2026 08:56

cassgate · 10/02/2026 18:34

Well when you pay 75k in tax a year and can’t get a gp appointment and are forced to go private and your mum waits 22 hours for an ambulance while laying on the floor with a fractured pelvis, then yes I think that is something you complain about.

If you're paying that much tax you must be a very high earner. If more people paid for their care (when they can) it would vastly reduce the waiting times on the NHS. It wasn't until I went private that I fully understood the cost of a one night stay and simple procedure. Anaesthesia, consultant, surgeon, bed, food, meds, nurses, auxilliary, aftercare etc etc etc. The entitlement some people have is partly why we're in the mess we're in. The "why should I pay when I can get it on the NHS" is an attitude that stinks. I've seen it with friends' parents who are very comfortably retired with a large healthy pension, yet insist on getting any freebie they can.

NorthXNorthWest · 12/02/2026 08:47

tutuland · 12/02/2026 00:13

What has being a saint got to do with anything? Rich people are saints?

You are the one holding them up as paragons of virtue. Those are normal jobs done by normal people who are no better or worse than the rest of the population.

Everyone who contributes to the best of their ability should be celebrated.

NorthXNorthWest · 12/02/2026 08:38

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/02/2026 07:11

That’s exactly what I’m doing. Looking at the bigger picture to explain that a much larger proportion of a low earners income is taxed compared to the income of a high earner.

VAT is one part of the system. Income tax and National Insurance raise significantly more revenue. Ignoring them while claiming to discuss the ‘big picture’ is disingenuous.

The top 10% of income tax payers contribute around 60% of all income tax. The proportion of indirect tax a low earners pays is higher relative to their salary but they do not pay not pay more tax overall.

LastMohecian · 12/02/2026 08:26

PurpleVine · 12/02/2026 08:03

if op runs a fintech startup, then presumably op can control wages and is paying everyone the same from herself to the office cleaner. lead by example and all that.

Fintech start up in this instance is a model for crypt0, it’s basically something every 20 something year old who watches tick tock a lot describes themselves as.

LastMohecian · 12/02/2026 08:22

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/02/2026 08:02

That huge dip in earnings due to paying childcare costs is extremely time limited, and of course only relevant to people with young children. For most of their career they won’t have children in nursery so they will keep all of the extra £5.5k a month. They could afford to have a parent stay at home in that period on that salary.

Numbers of minimum wage earners claiming UC is a minority. The estimate is between 15 and 40%. Even with a £500 top up there is still a £5k difference in monthly earnings.

It’s wildly disingenuous to claim that the tax system is flattening take home incomes to the extent that there is little difference between a minimum wage worker and a worker on £126k.

Do you think people are in top 3% of earners for their whole careers? Or is that also only for a limited time period?

I’ve explained to you three times how the tax and benefit system leads to little difference. Your answer of one parent staying at home to look after the children (explain how that increases tax revenue) is as an acknowledgement of this. So I’d say it’s not me being disingenuous. Why are you against high earners being restricted from the public services they fund?

LastMohecian · 12/02/2026 08:11

PurpleVine · 12/02/2026 08:03

if op runs a fintech startup, then presumably op can control wages and is paying everyone the same from herself to the office cleaner. lead by example and all that.

A bitcoin trading model really doesn’t qualify as Fintech start up, it’s basically a quarter of 20 year olds.

PurpleVine · 12/02/2026 08:03

if op runs a fintech startup, then presumably op can control wages and is paying everyone the same from herself to the office cleaner. lead by example and all that.

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/02/2026 08:02

LastMohecian · 12/02/2026 07:16

Everything is time limited. UC is not the minority of situations.

That huge dip in earnings due to paying childcare costs is extremely time limited, and of course only relevant to people with young children. For most of their career they won’t have children in nursery so they will keep all of the extra £5.5k a month. They could afford to have a parent stay at home in that period on that salary.

Numbers of minimum wage earners claiming UC is a minority. The estimate is between 15 and 40%. Even with a £500 top up there is still a £5k difference in monthly earnings.

It’s wildly disingenuous to claim that the tax system is flattening take home incomes to the extent that there is little difference between a minimum wage worker and a worker on £126k.

SheThinksShesAllThat · 12/02/2026 07:39

You lost me at ‘ whatever the numbers are’…. Go and do some research before posting silly comments like this!

LastMohecian · 12/02/2026 07:16

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/02/2026 07:09

The difference isn’t small, it’s an extra £5.5k a month. The free childcare is time limited, that and your UC example is a minority of situations, especially over a lifetime.

Everything is time limited. UC is not the minority of situations.

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/02/2026 07:11

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 22:24

It is not universally accepted - selective framing yet again.

As I have said, if you want to understand how progressive or regressive our tax system is you need to look at the big picture. Who pays in and who gets paid out. Not just one side.

If person pays 3k in VAT (lest assume this is a significant proportion of their earnings) but receives 10k in benefits. VAT is still regressive but their financial position is significantly healthier.

And again, the bulk of its tax revenue generated is through income tax, NI and Corp Tax which are Progressive.

That’s exactly what I’m doing. Looking at the bigger picture to explain that a much larger proportion of a low earners income is taxed compared to the income of a high earner.

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/02/2026 07:09

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 21:50

No, I’m resentful at the amount of tax people are forced to pay and who also loose access to some of the services they pay for. I’m also highlighting that the take home difference between minimum wage and a top 3% salary is actually quite small and pointing out that this will lead to more and more people opting for an attitude of ‘ why not relax and set your sights a bit lower’, unfortunately particularly young people. It’s not really a great attitude for a nation (or anyone really) for all sorts of reasons and a good example of why high disproportional taxes lead to low growth and will eventually result in actually less tax revenue.

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The difference isn’t small, it’s an extra £5.5k a month. The free childcare is time limited, that and your UC example is a minority of situations, especially over a lifetime.

Truetoself · 12/02/2026 05:37

@Brunts12do you actually know any consultant nurses earning over £100k?

@tutulandcompletely agree about how society values eoles that generates money. It’s mainly the service sector that kept the world going during Covid but they are also the more poorly paid in comparison - doctor’s included

patooties · 12/02/2026 01:15

I’m a higher rate tax payer. I am cards in - no dodges here. I think it’s the right thing to do, and judge people who avoid it - whether it’s a cash in hand window cleaner or some weird dividend payments. I judge you - it might be legal - but it’s pretty shitty.

Upupandaway10 · 12/02/2026 01:04

tutuland · 10/02/2026 21:33

How is that fair? Employers get their cash from the paying public generally. Sure this is the current model of civilisation we have to live within- but how on earth is that fair.

I'd respect you lot if you said "I've learned to play the capitalism game really well and I want to enjoy my money. I don't want to think about other people and their needs".

It's the pretending that unpalatable.

Do you live in a capitalist country currently? Have you experienced a non capitalist country? If so how was it?

Eddiestrangerthings · 12/02/2026 00:25

blueshoes · 11/02/2026 23:57

Totally agree. UK levies a tax on ambition. It seems culturally ingrained in the UK to tear down success rather than inspire success. The tax system incentivises low earnings and taxes are ideologically driven by the politics of envy.

So you get the likes of OP.

I think there's a lot of truth in what people are saying about the tax system feeling like it punishes you for trying to get ahead, especially if you're in that awkward £100k-ish bracket where everything gets clawed back. We've got friends who are doctors and they've literally turned down extra shifts because it just wasn't worth it after the tax hit it's mad when we're short of NHS staff anyway. And yeah, the freezes on thresholds mean more and more normal professionals are getting dragged into higher rates without actually feeling richer. But at the same time, I don't think it's all down to "envy" it's more about governments needing cash for everything and not wanting to cut services. Still, it does make you wonder if we're accidentally pushing ambitious people to leave or just coast a bit.

On the cultural side, I do notice that British thing of not liking people who bang on about their success like if someone posts about a big bonus or a fancy holiday, there's always comments pulling them down. It's not everyone, and London feels different, but growing up it was definitely "don't get ideas above your station". Compared to places like the Netherlands where I know people who moved for work, it seems more chilled about earning well as long as you're not flashy. But I don't think it's the main reason for tax gripes most complaints I see are about getting rubbish services for what we pay, not some deep-seated jealousy.

tutuland · 12/02/2026 00:15

blueshoes · 11/02/2026 23:57

Totally agree. UK levies a tax on ambition. It seems culturally ingrained in the UK to tear down success rather than inspire success. The tax system incentivises low earnings and taxes are ideologically driven by the politics of envy.

So you get the likes of OP.

"taxes are ideologically driven by the politics of envy"
What a scary sentence for a human being to say

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tutuland · 12/02/2026 00:13

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 23:59

It blows my mind they think they worked harder, and still 'sacrifice' more than nurses and police officers

What has being a saint got to do with anything? Rich people are saints?

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NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 23:59

tutuland · 11/02/2026 22:41

What?

It blows my mind they think they worked harder, and still 'sacrifice' more than nurses and police officers

Brunts12 · 11/02/2026 23:57

tutuland · 11/02/2026 09:37

So take a data coder on 200K and a nurse on 30K. What has the tech guy sacrificed?

The nurse endures night shifts, being on their feet all day, illness, death, bodily fluids, stressed families. That’s intense and high stakes. The high stakes of tech is just will you make more money if you pull this off.

A nursing degree is also demanding academically and emotionally heavy.

The pay difference isn’t about who worked harder or studied more. It’s about what the market values and what makes money.

We reward what generates profit. We undervalue what keeps society running.

OP, your comparison is out of proportion. Starting salary for a data coder can be as low as minimum wage! While a consultant nurse can earn well over 100k.

blueshoes · 11/02/2026 23:57

nearlylovemyusername · 11/02/2026 20:58

Great summary.
Just to add - many of the spend items which low income people pay for don't attract VAT at all or lower rate VAT, e.g. no VAT on food and water bills, 5% VAT on energy bills.

Britain’s tax system combines the worst of the US and Scandinavia

"The average UK worker is taxed much less than in most countries, and no other country has a steeper climb from taxes on middle to high earners."

OP, this article answers your question.

Totally agree. UK levies a tax on ambition. It seems culturally ingrained in the UK to tear down success rather than inspire success. The tax system incentivises low earnings and taxes are ideologically driven by the politics of envy.

So you get the likes of OP.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 23:56

tutuland · 11/02/2026 23:36

Yes, I'm confused why people have an issue paying fair taxes.

That would be confusing for anyone.